9/11: Forbidden Thoughts

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we should never ever ever "get over it."

I'm not sure what it would look or feel like to obey this dictum, but it strikes me as unnecessarily absolute, especially since the ceaseless wars, the Patriot Act, the xenophobia, and all the other 'responses' to the attacks have affected my life much more directly and much more negatively than the original attacks ever did.

Thinking of 9/11 makes me rather wish that our leaders had showed a lot more wisdom and far less naked political opportunism afterward. Maybe if we finally "got over it", we could disengage our emotions long enough to walk back a few of the stupider, uglier and more harmful consequences of that day.

Aimless, Monday, 14 September 2015 00:03 (eight years ago) link

oh christ, the "Freedom fries" debacle.

it really was a drag to be alive in the US in 2003-2004.

― Hammer Smashed Bagels, Sunday, September 13, 2015 3:20 AM (Yesterday)

yeah the lead-up to the iraq invasion is the single most horrible time in recent history for me, just an endless stream of idiots defending the indefensible basically everywhere you looked, ppl you'd normally think of as sensible and decent buying into the bush horrorshow. and all these years later i still run into ppl who are like "well, they attacked us first!"

(The Other) J.D. (J.D.), Monday, 14 September 2015 18:56 (eight years ago) link

it was a dark fucking time

Οὖτις, Monday, 14 September 2015 19:12 (eight years ago) link

remember that time george w bush won an election because he was the ceo president who just needed to delegate effectively because we were approaching the end of history and permanent prosperity? that was awesome.

panettone for the painfully alone (mayor jingleberries), Monday, 14 September 2015 19:14 (eight years ago) link

it's disconcerting for me personally cuz on a personal level things were p great for me between 2000-2008 (marriage, first child born, busy w cool stuff etc.) but then on the macro level everything was such a colossal fucking bummer

Οὖτις, Monday, 14 September 2015 19:17 (eight years ago) link

I participated in 2 anti-war protests on campus in 2003. The level of vitriol spewed at those participating was nothing liked I'd ever seen. Strangers came up and screamed at us. Everywhere I went, some friend or acquaintance was talking nasty rhetoric about "anti war protesters" without realizing I was one. I was depressed knowing that the war was going to fuck both our country and Iraq up in terms of lost lives and destroyed economies, and nothing anybody was going to say was going to change it.

The delusions of pro-war supporters amazed me. I was at work at a retail store the day Saddam was caught and everybody kept coming up to me, excited, that we caught him. A radio deejay talked about how she was finally convinced the war would end (when by that point he was a figurehead and little more).

the freedom fries thing was insult to injury. You got your war, now you're bringing xenophobia and nauseating nationalism into it over fabricated wounds.

If there was ever an option to have lived in a cave with a fully furnished fridge, air conditioning, and no phone or television, 2003-2004 was it.

Hammer Smashed Bagels, Monday, 14 September 2015 19:19 (eight years ago) link

i had some horrible piece of shit middle aged woman go off at me on a flight from SF to London around this time because she (correctly) sensed i was anti- the war and went on this crazy bizarre mental voyage that meant i was anti-war because it was cool and the cool kids hated her in high school and they were all anti-vietnam and they were on drugs and so on and so on. she was sat next to me, and we only interacted because i showed this dumb piece of shit how to make movies come on the screen and she saw the book i was reading or something and started just being really vile and personal and nasty and i lost it and told her she was an awful piece of shit and that i could not talk to her any longer and just put my earphones on and ignored her for the next ten or so hours. like i was about to scream at her. it escalated so quickly, and i don't think i was to blame.

from SF!!

fund metal health (stevie), Monday, 14 September 2015 20:39 (eight years ago) link

Islam is a cult that does not co-exist with other muslims. Can't argue with that logic!

I might like you better if we Yelped together (Phil D.), Monday, 14 September 2015 21:56 (eight years ago) link

never trust a Geer

Hammer Smashed Bagels, Monday, 14 September 2015 21:58 (eight years ago) link

yeah im really upset we didnt kill all 1.5 billion muslims 'while we were there'

panettone for the painfully alone (mayor jingleberries), Monday, 14 September 2015 22:13 (eight years ago) link

odds are p good that this is the type of guy who when challenged even weakly, starts backpedaling and shouting things like "AIN"T I ENTITLED TO MY OPINION"

Hammer Smashed Bagels, Monday, 14 September 2015 22:20 (eight years ago) link

someone set us up the 9/11

balls, Monday, 14 September 2015 23:09 (eight years ago) link

hand me the 9/11

on entre O.K. on sort K.O. (man alive), Tuesday, 15 September 2015 01:17 (eight years ago) link

No one remembers the Lusitania.

Elvis Telecom, Tuesday, 15 September 2015 15:24 (eight years ago) link

let alone the maine

mookieproof, Tuesday, 15 September 2015 15:29 (eight years ago) link

respek knuckles for the supremely bad taste of that

on entre O.K. on sort K.O. (man alive), Tuesday, 15 September 2015 15:32 (eight years ago) link

eleven months pass...

I get sick each year of everybody recounting where they were on 9/11. it feels like morbid pageantry

Neanderthal, Sunday, 11 September 2016 14:52 (seven years ago) link

facebook friend was all "so can we be real about 9/11 not being a terorist attack now" and unironically talked abt jet fuel cant melt steel beams

for a minute i felt like a grossed-out david attenborough

Flamenco Drop (VegemiteGrrl), Sunday, 11 September 2016 14:58 (seven years ago) link

"defriend"

Neanderthal, Sunday, 11 September 2016 14:59 (seven years ago) link

I am so glad FB didn't exist on 9/11

Neanderthal, Sunday, 11 September 2016 14:59 (seven years ago) link

the other 'forbidden thought' (which I"m sure I probably posted in years past) is everybody remembering the "solidarity" we felt in the aftermath. it was a mirage - everybody was back to fighting and being dicks within a week, they just maybe thought an extra .03 seconds before flipping you the bird.

in a way it kind of helped accelerate the polarization of the parties.

Neanderthal, Sunday, 11 September 2016 15:06 (seven years ago) link

Wasn't like that in New York - goodwill extended well into 2002, maybe up until the invasion of Iraq.

flappy bird, Sunday, 11 September 2016 16:14 (seven years ago) link

I posted a joke on Facebook this morning based on the fact that 9/11/01 was also the release date of Nickelback's Silver Side Up album, but took it down after about 10 minutes.

Don Van Gorp, midwest regional VP, marketing (誤訳侮辱), Sunday, 11 September 2016 17:17 (seven years ago) link

People still talking about 9/11 I guess

slathered in cream and covered with stickers (silby), Sunday, 11 September 2016 18:54 (seven years ago) link

when 9/11 happened, Bush had approval ratings in the 90s. despite not being popularly elected, and the turmoil that surrounded his election, the country more or less backed him up. they trusted his judgment. they wanted him to succeed. even the most trenchant Democrats were not willing to tear him down.

now contrast that with what you know in your heart would have happened had Obama been President on 9/11. half this country would have blamed him for it, either by suggesting incompetence or even collusion.

serge thoroughgoods (will), Sunday, 11 September 2016 19:09 (seven years ago) link

most likely collusion. fuck you social media.

shame on me i guess i didn't really give much of a fuck about W bush one way or another until AFTER he invaded Iraq

serge thoroughgoods (will), Sunday, 11 September 2016 19:12 (seven years ago) link

the other

serge thoroughgoods (will), Sunday, 11 September 2016 19:13 (seven years ago) link

People still talking about 9/11 I guess

― slathered in cream and covered with stickers (silly), Sunday, September 11, 2016 2:54 PM (three hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

because it still feels like yesterday in many ways. the 9/11 era hasn't ended. we're still mired in the middle east, it's more unstable than ever, ISIS has outpaced Al Qaeda, people feel more vulnerable to terrorism. the payback/relief/release that we've been waiting for for fifteen years hasn't come yet. everything is worse than it was on 9/11. the psyche of the country is so fractured and schizophrenic - trump is assisted suicide.

flappy bird, Sunday, 11 September 2016 22:56 (seven years ago) link

update on idiot fb "friend"... I couldnt stand just unfriending or hiding so posted a comment like "You have got to be fucking kidding me with this bullshit" and the meme of matrix morpheus saying jet fuel cant melt steel beams

he deleted his whole post, comments and all

:D

Flamenco Drop (VegemiteGrrl), Sunday, 11 September 2016 23:22 (seven years ago) link

good. jet fuel can't melt steel beams drives me fucking nuts. stuff like that and the walmart coke case memorial feel like a kick in the head. i know this happens in time (thinking of a photo i saw of a inflated waterslide designed as the capsizing Titanic), but so soon...

flappy bird, Monday, 12 September 2016 06:41 (seven years ago) link

I get sick each year of everybody recounting where they were on 9/11. it feels like morbid pageantry

― Neanderthal, Sunday, September 11, 2016 2:52 PM (yesterday)

i don't mind hearing these stories from ppl who were actually in new york or d.c. when it happened, but i get a little sick of the "i was 17...i was working at radio shack, we just watched the news all day...never forget!!" posts from ppl who weren't anywhere near the attacks and didn't know anyone involved, and who seem weirdly eager to think of themselves as part of "the story" of 9/11, as if they could somehow elevate themselves into it just cuz they were alive when it happened and watched it on tv just like everybody else

also find myself wanting to respond to some of the "never forget!" posts i see on fb by asking if we couldn't take a moment also to honor all the ppl who died (and are still dying, every week) as a result of our miserable response to 9/11, but fb disputes are one of the worst ways to spend your online time

(The Other) J.D. (J.D.), Monday, 12 September 2016 07:09 (seven years ago) link

huh, so salon was cancerous shit back in 2002 as well

punksishippies, Monday, 12 September 2016 07:16 (seven years ago) link

"i don't mind hearing these stories from ppl who were actually in new york or d.c."

Before It Was Cool

punksishippies, Monday, 12 September 2016 07:18 (seven years ago) link

great point about "morbid pageantry," although I was relieved that this year there didn't seem to be much discussion on social media, or people posting pictures of the towers exploding. probably because it was sunday. for people who lived in nyc and dc at the time, it really does still feel like unfinished business. it just burns me every year, i get really fucking sad/angry if i pay attention. luckily yesterday i just checked out and didn't pay attention to the internet.

flappy bird, Monday, 12 September 2016 17:24 (seven years ago) link

Someone I was hanging out with yesterday was complaining about businesses that hadn't half-masted their flags. I had to be like "it's FUCKING SUNDAY."

how's life, Monday, 12 September 2016 17:34 (seven years ago) link

as a non-american the idea of businesses flying flags at all is just as weird and upsetting as not half-masting them tbh

a very in-your-face, hard-edged machine bottom (bizarro gazzara), Monday, 12 September 2016 18:16 (seven years ago) link

Stay Puft

poor fiddy-less albion (darraghmac), Monday, 12 September 2016 18:17 (seven years ago) link

"i don't mind hearing these stories from ppl who were actually in new york or d.c."

Oh, man, I got in an argument on FB last year about something to do with profiling Muslims or somesuch with a right-wing aunt of mine, and one of her comments was, "Well, you'll feel differently when the bodies are on your doorstep." I rpelied, "On Sept. 11 my office was one Metro stop from the Pentagon. A co-worker of mine watched Flight 77 crash into it from the freeway. You live in Painesville fucking Ohio. I've been closer to the bodies than you will ever be."

The sanctimony about 9/11 from the jingoists is a never-ending source of disgust to me.

Cumstaun (Phil D.), Monday, 12 September 2016 18:40 (seven years ago) link

An Aunt making shitty comments on Facebook you don't say!

For real what is with Aunts, those cartoon minions and social media? Move over, daytime television.

Evan, Monday, 12 September 2016 18:49 (seven years ago) link

http://i.imgur.com/HOJgY1P.jpg

how's life, Monday, 12 September 2016 18:56 (seven years ago) link

jesus fucking got to be kidding me christ.

Mad Piratical (The Cursed Return of the Dastardly Thermo Thinwall), Monday, 12 September 2016 19:21 (seven years ago) link

Despicable Me was released in 2010 -- how old was Bob when it was filmed?

the last famous person you were surprised to discover was actually (man alive), Monday, 12 September 2016 19:29 (seven years ago) link

Phil D -- call me curious but what exactly did said right-wing aunt say in response to that, anyway.

Ned Raggett, Monday, 12 September 2016 20:30 (seven years ago) link

Never Forget The Six Minions

the last famous person you were surprised to discover was actually (man alive), Monday, 12 September 2016 20:34 (seven years ago) link

Ned, she said absolutely bupkis. Even my right-wing relatives know when they've been checkmated. Not that it changed her politics any, but she at least knows not to treat me like some naif.

Cumstaun (Phil D.), Monday, 12 September 2016 21:53 (seven years ago) link

deepart to honor the departed

nomar, Tuesday, 13 September 2016 01:02 (seven years ago) link


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