privilege as a meme

sorry, the late great. that's not what i meant.

people should feel good about who they are, proud of their backgrounds, etc. i was talking about people who feel like their race is better than another person's race.

no problem, i know that's not what you meant. i need to think before i post.

dang yall

tomorrow i'm in this one

i got in a huge fight with my best friend a while back (we have since made up). we were talking about race and politics, and my friend, who is white, started arguing that people of color are complicit in their oppression because they persist in seeing themselves as "people of color". he continued to argue that if people of color were to adopt a post-racial mindset (which i suppose means a white mindset) many of their problems would disappear. i told him that i thought nothing was so emblematic of white privilege as the conceit that people need to get over race, and from there, well, shit went downhill really fast.

treetop, i think i had a PTSD rage flashback to that argument and confused what you were saying with what he was saying. i know that's not what you're saying.

whoops autocorrect lol

that sw article is a crummy intellectual genealogy in that you get no idea why people were arguing over or passionately attached to different ideas and what drove them and why they embraced some thoughts and shunned others.

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who is happier: someone who is sexist and fearful of women (like an MRA) or someone who isn't burdened by prejudice?
― Treeship, Tuesday, May 5, 2015 10:46 PM (Yesterday) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

You keep referencing this idea that people who engage in oppression must be unhappy, certainly more so than those who have embraced some egalitarian mindset. This feels like an opportunity cost kind of argument? To which I'd argue that they don't know what they're missing and can hardly be considered as suffering for their actions an beliefs

^^^this goes too far the other direction. Men for example do suffer bc of patriarchy ... In both ways that can be obvious to them (even if they don't see the entire structure of it) and ways which are not

They just benefit from it too

yeah that's a good way of phrasing it deej. it's not either/or, it's a trade off. by casting off sexism, men might have more to lose than just their chains, but they will also lose their chains...

This is a bell hooks line iirc

Lol no way

"As interest in feminist thinking and practice has waned, there has been even less focus on the plight of men than in the heyday of feminist movement. This lack of interest does not change the fact that only a feminist vision that embraces feminist masculinity, that loves boys and men and demands on their behalf every right that we desire for girls and women, can renew men in our society. Feminist thinking teaches us all, males especially, how to love justice and freedom in ways that foster and affirm life. Clearly we need new strategies, new theories, guides that will show us how to create a world where feminist masculinity thrives."--bell hooks, The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity and Love

"What potentialities does this have? How can it most productively strive against its own reactionary marketing & outmoded* orthodoxies?

*They're outmoded. Deal."--imago, maleness

Patriarchy is perhaps the most ancient and base-level form of oppression. I think feminism has a lot to offer, particularly by painting a future that we are inevitably heading towards.

the only future we are inevitably heading towards is the heat death of the universe

Which is a future of post-material/post-identity egalitarianism, all particles/waveforms collapsing in on either other.

treetop

aw man, i thought i was going to find some substantive hoos post when i clicked this thread today

thx for bell hooks ref deej - very interesting piece, "Rather than bringing us great wisdom about the nature of men and love, reformist feminist focus on male power reinforced the notion that somehow males were powerful and had it all. Feminist writing did not tell us about the deep inner misery of men. It did not tell us the terrible terror that gnaws at the soul when one cannot love." < have not heard this expressed so much which surprises me bc bell hooks seems like such a huge influence on the contemporary sj movement

http://everydayfeminism.com/2015/05/hurtful-things-said-to-people-with-chronic-pain/

innocent assumptions can do a lot of unintentional damage

lmfao

http://electricliterature.com/should-white-men-stop-writing-the-blunt-instrument-on-publishing-and-privilege/

I am a white, male poet—a white, male poet who is aware of his privilege and sensitive to inequalities facing women, POC, and LGBTQ individuals in and out of the writing community—but despite this awareness and sensitivity, I am still white and still male. Sometimes I feel like the time to write from my experience has passed, that the need for poems from a white, male perspective just isn’t there anymore, and that the torch has passed to writers of other communities whose voices have too long been silenced or suppressed. I feel terrible about feeling terrible about this, since I also know that for so long, white men made other people feel terrible about who they were. Sometimes I write from other perspectives via persona poems in order to understand and empathize with the so-called “other”; but I fear that this could be construed as yet another example of my privilege—that I am appropriating another person’s experience, violating that person by telling his or her story. It feels like a Catch-22. Write what you know and risk denying voices whose stories are more urgent; write to learn what you don’t know and risk colonizing someone else’s story. I genuinely am troubled by this. I want to listen but I also want to write—yet at times these impulses feel at odds with one another. How can I reconcile the two?

Go down to riverbank, plug iBook into hollow reed, work away.

I want to listen but I also want to write—yet at times these impulses feel at odds with one another. How can I reconcile the two?

Don't publish your writing, just write for yourself personally.

Submit all yr writings to ilx.com

That guy seems really condescending. He's not going to stop writing so why agonize about it publicly like this? Although, if he really feels like his work doesn't have inherent value, and is just another example of a "white male perspective," perhaps he should stop writing.

That guy needs to fuck off

This is like a man, in conversation with a woman, announcing he is going to hold back on his opinions to avoid overpowering hers and mansplaining. He's reinforcing the aura of male privilege, not working toward a world where everyone is treated equally.

Don't even know why j is giving this posturing worthless moron the time of day, although for a laugh someone pls repost some of his poetry

that paragraph is like a miniature of everything nietzsche was writing against in the genealogy.

more people should feel the urge to stop writing things generally

i support that notion.

everyone should realize that their writing is a worthless waste of time that will improve nothing on earth and will earn them almost no money. if despite that realization the compulsion to write is still overwhelming, they can continue. it needs to be a calling that cannot be suppressed. i find potential writers who suppress their writing to be extremely virtuous. the kotzker rebbe once said: "Not all that is thought need be said, not all that is said need be written, not all that is written need be published, and not all that is published need be read."

tldr

i think theres a moral good in not publishing/recording/broadcasting things currently. félix fénéon saying 'i aspire to silence' is really moving to me

first mistake this chump made was thinking he was a poet

Samuel Beckett — 'Every word is like an unnecessary stain on silence and nothingness.'

Everyone so otm right now.

i think theres a moral good in not publishing/recording/broadcasting things currently

i've tried to argue this in academic settings, to little success against those who thing professors should be writing daily blogs, etc.

i am agreeing with you all telepathically

ah dammit

...

I'm amazed at the response this "posturing" anonymous (!) letter writer is getting for earnestly seeking advice on a set of difficult questions that, if you haven't sought counsel on yourself, you might not have thought about hard enough. I've considered these questions a lot, I think it's commendable he earnestly sought advice, and even though I have no idea what the answers ought to be, it doesn't seem to me like the answer he's given here is sufficient.

What do the rest of you do, assume these questions sort themselves out in the wind?

HOOS otm

This is like a man, in conversation with a woman, announcing he is going to hold back on his opinions to avoid overpowering hers and mansplaining. He's reinforcing the aura of male privilege, not working toward a world where everyone is treated equally.

― Treeship, Tuesday, June 2, 2015 3:25 PM (1 hour ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

It's not like this at all. This is like a man writing an anonymous letter to an advice columnist asking whether or not he should hold back on his opinions to avoid overpowering women & mansplaining. There is no public flagellation aspect of this when you're wearing a mask with your hairshirt. It changes the meaning entirely.

speaking very sincerely if you don't think the world needs your perspective then don't offer it. that he's asking for advice anyway implies that he's looking for some kind of absolution or permission to continue writing as a white male. it's bizarre + absurd.

also i think it's sad that he has so dehumanized himself that he thinks his perspective in his writing is a 'white male perspective,' and not the perspective of an individual human w/ unique experiences + thoughts. that he does feel that way suggests that the answer to his question is obvious. he should not write anymore.

i feel like 'dont publish your poetry' is more than sufficient advice for this person and anyone struggling with these questions

he should just go with what feels good, I bet the eagles felt like this but beat it and just went with what felt good, and thank god for that say i