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found my new favorite styling product for mah curly hair

Paul Mitchell Twirl Around. Just a little bit emulsified between yr palms, smoothed through the hairs and scrunched a bit, air dry and BOOM big old fat curls that are super soft and not at all crunchy or stiff or gross feeling. I tend not to do much hair-drying unless I'm going out-out, so the airdry is a huge plus. Never really explored Paul Mitchell products before but this one is a good un

it's like a softer, everyday version of the TiGi Curls Rock ie huge fat curls but Curls Rock was like drag queen mousse, you could wear that shit in a hurricane and yr hair wouldn't move.

difficult-difficult lemon-difficult (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 19 March 2015 01:16 (nine years ago) link

I have never needed my hair cut so badly

kinder, Thursday, 19 March 2015 06:37 (nine years ago) link

I am entering the really, really annoying phase of growing out bangs. Next several weeks are gonna be aaaaargh.

mom tossed in kimchee (quincie), Thursday, 19 March 2015 11:36 (nine years ago) link

two weeks pass...

just sprayed a mouse out of its hiding place with some batiste

not sure whether to continue the hunt or rest easy and cohabit knowing its fur is clean n fresh

r|t|c, Friday, 3 April 2015 02:00 (nine years ago) link

I am kinda incredulous. . .it would not have occurred to me to use dry shampoo for this purpose, but KUDOS (I think).

mom tossed in kimchee (quincie), Friday, 3 April 2015 02:20 (nine years ago) link

ok can we talk abt dry shampoo styling etc

i am a new convert, and i like it!
what is yr technique - spray all over crown / lift & spray roots only / spray part /etc

i have curly hair so cannot brush it out unless i want to look like a straw broom, so i just sorta rub/pat it in

difficult-difficult lemon-difficult (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 7 April 2015 18:03 (nine years ago) link

in addition to spraying mice lol :)

difficult-difficult lemon-difficult (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 7 April 2015 18:04 (nine years ago) link

i try to spray on roots in as many general locations as i can, then tousle with fingers, then do whatever
the thought of tousling my hair just made me lol -- it sounds so much more alluring than it is irl

groundless round (La Lechera), Tuesday, 7 April 2015 18:05 (nine years ago) link

When my hair was longer, I would do the same as LL. It made my hair HUGE, which was great. I wonder how ridiculous it would look with short hair...

from batman to balloon dog (carl agatha), Tuesday, 7 April 2015 19:07 (nine years ago) link

yeah i just shake my fingers through it, never brush it.

also: i know i've repped for this before but blowpro dry shampoo is THE BEST. it is cornstarch-based i think, has an ingenious design that dispenses a really fine mist of powder when you squeeze the bottle, and best of all NO SCENT. it gives a bit of volume, not as much as aerosol ones, but the great thing is that it's buildable - you can use it several days in a row without buildup.

i totally splurged on oribe texturizing/beach spray pretty much only bc it smells really nice.

just1n3, Tuesday, 7 April 2015 19:33 (nine years ago) link

my hair is v fine & goes flat if you look at it sideways so if i inadvertently end up with an afro then I will say hollaaaa

difficult-difficult lemon-difficult (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 7 April 2015 19:41 (nine years ago) link

I use Frederic Fekkai Au Naturel Dry Shampoo which is non-aerosol and unscented. I may try blowpro dry shampoo--sounds similar and hopefully less $$$

mom tossed in kimchee (quincie), Tuesday, 7 April 2015 21:36 (nine years ago) link

ehh it's still kind of pricey - about $20 - but a bottle lasts me a really long time, and i use it probably 3-4 x p/w minimum

just1n3, Wednesday, 8 April 2015 00:11 (nine years ago) link

three weeks pass...

i put an egg yolk/olive oil mask on my hair last night bc it was looking gross & bumming me out

boing!!! it's so happy today :D

difficult-difficult lemon-difficult (VegemiteGrrl), Wednesday, 29 April 2015 15:58 (eight years ago) link

omg the point has come where I can no longer stand having long hair.

obliquity of the ecliptic (rrrobyn), Saturday, 2 May 2015 13:04 (eight years ago) link

Yessssss come to the short side with meeeee

Orson Wellies (in orbit), Saturday, 2 May 2015 16:18 (eight years ago) link

one month passes...

I dyed my blonde lock dark brown a couple of months back and of course the color went totally black but now its washed out some i haveaccidently ombre hair...dark brown on top and blondie from the chin down. kinda loving it.

smoochy-woochy touchy-wouchy, (sunny successor), Friday, 19 June 2015 18:20 (eight years ago) link

four months pass...

if i didn't want to read about it and i don't want to comparison shop, can someone recommend one of those no-poo shampoos? i don't want to make it myself and i don't want to reek of vinegar. i just want to try it out because i think it might help my ailing hair.

La Lechera, Thursday, 22 October 2015 22:06 (eight years ago) link

I have spent too much time at naturallycurly dot com, and the no-poo strategy of choice appears to be co-washing, which is just using a conditioner as though it were a shampoo (massaging it on your scalp as though you were sudsing, then rinsing out).

I prefer a no-sulfate (aka low-poo) myself--I like the Giovanni tea tree and 50/50 for that, also a sheamoisture low-poo that I'm currently using with a fruity kind of name.

mom tossed in kimchee (quincie), Thursday, 22 October 2015 23:07 (eight years ago) link

I'm going to go w your recommendation bc I have no stomach for comparison shopping -. Thanks!!

I also need a haircut but that's another issue.

La Lechera, Friday, 23 October 2015 00:31 (eight years ago) link

Giovanni is at Whole Foods for sure, maybe drug stores as well? Sheamoisture is at drug stores, target, ulta (the variety I have, fruitfusion, is only at ulta I think, but there are lots of other varieties).

I'd say try the Giovanni. Not too pricey, not overly perfumey, probably a better bet for finer hair (the sheamoisture is pretty heavy-duty).

mom tossed in kimchee (quincie), Friday, 23 October 2015 00:46 (eight years ago) link

Co-washing will make your hair super silky, but maybe use a volumizing conditioner which is lighter and probably won't weigh your hair down.

just1n3, Friday, 23 October 2015 17:49 (eight years ago) link

Biotin is supposed to be good for hair too

just1n3, Friday, 23 October 2015 17:49 (eight years ago) link

one month passes...

i need to talk about the crazy hair magic my hairdresser pulled on me back in august, and then pulled on me again a couple weeks ago:

i have a decent amount of hair but it's super fine and super flat. i like big hair, wavy hair, textured hair, frizzy hair.

i've been seeing this dude for 2 yrs only bc he's less than a mile from my house and he's decent. but when i decided to go shorter in august and explained what i wanted (the same thing i've tried explaining before), he suddenly got me and 1 hr later i had the exact hair cut i'd been envisioning for a couple years and it looked awesome. then i found it was pretty easy to style with a little product and a diffuser. then i found it was even easier if i did the headband-curl thing at night (no dryer). then i found out how fucking MAGICAL it was when i put wet hair in a tiny ponytail and then put a tight hat on it all day.

i can let it air dry and it looks great.

it's the kind of hair cut that you see me, you won't be all 'omg i LOVE that haircut' - it suits me, but it's the manageability, given my experience with my hair, that makes it incredible. i've never ever been able to not blow dry my hair in order for it to look decent, unless employing something like the headband-curling thing, and definitely not on shorter hair (it's jaw length when it's freshly cut).

i don't think i've been to the same hairdresser more than 3 x before, and definitely no more than twice a year, but this dude has my life-long allegiance.

just1n3, Monday, 30 November 2015 05:18 (eight years ago) link

good haircuts are such a game-changer, and having someone who can replicate good haircuts over and over and over is goddamn gift from heaven!

mom tossed in kimchee (quincie), Monday, 30 November 2015 14:31 (eight years ago) link

Yes! I was convinced that he wouldn't be able to pull it off a second time but he did!

just1n3, Monday, 30 November 2015 17:22 (eight years ago) link

one year passes...

i'm planning a major haircut this weekend and have been up and down. The position I have settled into is that this is my liberation from hair. So sick of feeling beholden to caring about the state of my hair. i just want it to be so short that i am free of thinking about it.

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Friday, 17 February 2017 18:53 (seven years ago) link

<3 <3 <3 <3 my goal as well

the world's little sunbeam (in orbit), Friday, 17 February 2017 18:58 (seven years ago) link

i haven't actually looked forward to a haircut this much in a while. last year i went to a random salon in san francisco when i was on vacation in june and then gave myself a supplemental haircut in the fall. it's time!

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Friday, 17 February 2017 19:05 (seven years ago) link

Will it be...transformative?

the world's little sunbeam (in orbit), Friday, 17 February 2017 19:22 (seven years ago) link

idk, it's the same old me so probably not!

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Friday, 17 February 2017 19:23 (seven years ago) link

short hair needs upkeep tho, I dream of growing my hair long so I don't have to bother with it... I guess if you like what you get and are happy to go get it cut like that every so often at least you don't have to actually think too much about it.

kinder, Friday, 17 February 2017 21:01 (seven years ago) link

i would gladly grow my hair long if i could, but i can't. short is the only option for low maintenance and stress.

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Friday, 17 February 2017 21:10 (seven years ago) link

Done! Definitely the right decision.

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Monday, 20 February 2017 04:22 (seven years ago) link

I have spent too much time at naturallycurly dot com,


yes, i have done this too now

sarahell, Monday, 20 February 2017 08:51 (seven years ago) link

while at times going way way way over the top (keeping a daily spreadsheet tracking dew points, products used based on dew points, and results? No thanks), naturallycurly dot com has definitely been helpful in coming to terms with my 2b/c waves (yah I know my hair type, who am I kidding).

mom tossed in kimchee (quincie), Monday, 20 February 2017 23:26 (seven years ago) link

LL I'm glad you are pleased with the chop! So refreshing to get a good cut.

mom tossed in kimchee (quincie), Monday, 20 February 2017 23:26 (seven years ago) link

I feel like I've got a new head. Also it took me like 15 min to get ready including shower.

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Monday, 20 February 2017 23:37 (seven years ago) link

welcome to the short hair don't care club :D

Flamenco Drop (VegemiteGrrl), Monday, 20 February 2017 23:37 (seven years ago) link

so much shampoo/conditioner saved imo

Flamenco Drop (VegemiteGrrl), Monday, 20 February 2017 23:38 (seven years ago) link

So much TIME not drying hair I don't like and just put up into a ponytail anyway!!

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Tuesday, 21 February 2017 00:17 (seven years ago) link

naturallycurly dot com has definitely been helpful in coming to terms with my 2b/c waves (yah I know my hair type, who am I kidding).

still not sure whether I'm a 2c or a 3a

sarahell, Tuesday, 21 February 2017 02:10 (seven years ago) link

but through that site I found another that had easy tutorials for retro hairstyles for curly hair, and then I realized that there were combs and bobby pins that are not tiny, so that I can actually do things with my hair.

sarahell, Tuesday, 21 February 2017 02:16 (seven years ago) link

i haven't cut my hair since my last post, and boyyyy is it looking raggeddy as fuck

1. i don't wanna spend $100 on my hair (and going anywhere other then the guy i've been seeing would get me a haircut i couldn't up-keep, or could've cut myself)
2. i bleached my hair last may in order to dye it lavender, but my usual 'this is too hard, fuck it' attitude kicked in as i was applying the bleach so i did a pretty horrendous job of it and will let myself be too easily shamed by my stylist if i go see him
3. i've been in an extended phase of trying to look invisible, which means i put no effort into how i look and tying my hair in a topknot is all i can bothered to do. if i go back to the great cut i got last time, i'll have to put some effort into it everyday.

i do, however, really like what the bleach did to my hair - gave it lots more body and texture, along with damage and split ends.

i finally got one of those tangle-teezer rip-offs and it is a miracle worker.

just1n3, Wednesday, 22 February 2017 00:49 (seven years ago) link

two years pass...

I think the secret to good hair is just in the water you wash it with, not so much the products you use. Italian water gave me amazing hair that never got greasy. Faroe Islands water also great.

Now I want to get one of those fancy water filters for my shower head.

just1n3, Friday, 27 September 2019 22:51 (four years ago) link

Yes!!! Italian water was noticeably different for me too. Our water is super hard.

kinder, Saturday, 28 September 2019 17:43 (four years ago) link

keep putting off getting highlights done because it always looks stripey the first time (old ones have long grown out)

kinder, Saturday, 28 September 2019 17:44 (four years ago) link

The water where I am currently is super hard too and I think it's causing more of my hair to fall out/break. I just discussed this with an Italian (from Campania) who was also talking about her hair falling out here and I was like IT HAS TO BE THE WATER.

My most recent shampoo love this year is klorane in mango butter. I've tried other flavors but I love love love this one.

Yerac, Saturday, 28 September 2019 17:52 (four years ago) link


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