*SOBS*
― koogs, Saturday, 14 March 2015 21:59 (nine years ago) link
travelling is definitely awesome but being a dick about it is not
imo
― difficult-difficult lemon-difficult (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 14 March 2015 22:11 (nine years ago) link
ya - if people don't want to travel, it's their loss – but really doesn't affect anyone else. maybe they just really like their beds and their cooking. even worse than a non-traveler, is a shitty/grouchy traveler.
― AKA Thermo Thinwall (The Cursed Return of the Dastardly Thermo Thinwall), Saturday, 14 March 2015 22:23 (nine years ago) link
I'm basically a shut in except for work and i HATE when people say, ooh, taking a staycation? yes i am, co-worker, mind your own beeswax
― Iago Galdston, Saturday, 14 March 2015 22:48 (nine years ago) link
for me, travel for travel's sake is pointless and a waste of money, and anyone who has a problem with that can fuck themselves in every way possible
― don't ask me why i posted this (electricsound), Saturday, 14 March 2015 23:21 (nine years ago) link
Depends on what country you live in. And if you want to work in a creative field like publishing, but won't leave your city, it's a narrow-minded and provincial thing to do. It smacks of entitlement if you expect a job in academia or publishing, but won't travel.
Might not be so bad if you don't work in publishing or academia.
― NO CLOO (I M Losted), Sunday, 15 March 2015 11:37 (nine years ago) link
You think that's entitled? Wait until they start telling you how to spend your time and money!
― kinder, Sunday, 15 March 2015 13:13 (nine years ago) link
Lolol just1n3 that is so weird and petty!! Like "YOU just want YOUR favorite colors and MOM SAID IT WAS MY TURN WITH THE REMOTR AND STOP HOGGING ALL THE COOKIES! MOOMMMMMMMMM!!!!!!!!!l"
― gybe horses (Stevie D(eux)), Sunday, 15 March 2015 14:42 (nine years ago) link
I work in publishing and haven't left the state in over five years.
(Except for this past winter/summer when I went to Australia for three weeks.)
― pplains, Sunday, 15 March 2015 15:21 (nine years ago) link
ah our friends with wealthy parents are always telling us about how traveling makes one a better person. How does anyone know about anyone else's means for travel?
― Team Foxcatcherwatcher (Sufjan Grafton), Sunday, 15 March 2015 18:05 (nine years ago) link
And even if you're sure they have the disposable income they may have other unavoidable demands on their free time, anxiety issues, etc
(or in my case chronic disorganisation)
― undergraduate dance (a passing spacecadet), Sunday, 15 March 2015 18:26 (nine years ago) link
Like, I could probably afford to go away (though it is goddamned expensive to spend a week in hotels and eating in restaurants or w/e, I took my first holiday abroad in years last autumn and was p. shocked by the dent it left in my bank balance) but I'd need to hatch a plan and ask for time off and think about transport and research hotels and make bookings, all preferably months in advance, and it just never happens
― undergraduate dance (a passing spacecadet), Sunday, 15 March 2015 18:28 (nine years ago) link
better to take a vacation from I M Losted
― mookieproof, Sunday, 15 March 2015 18:38 (nine years ago) link
I go abroad at least once a year and its a fuckload of work to plan and budget for even without kids and with two incomes between us, and if it was my preference alone a few out of those times I'd havd preferred to sit at home in the house I pay for and dont get to enjoy and maybe at 2pm every day I'd go out for lunch in the town I pay to live in and never get to enjoy and as I say I travel abroad as much as Ryanair allows but srsly wtf at the attitude espoused above.
― post you had fecund thoughts about (darraghmac), Sunday, 15 March 2015 18:45 (nine years ago) link
otm. 4 days is my max for travelling, bored after that.
― Walking Close to Melton Mowbray (Tom D.), Sunday, 15 March 2015 18:51 (nine years ago) link
And if you want to work in a creative field like publishing, but won't leave your city, it's a narrow-minded and provincial thing to do. It smacks of entitlement if you expect a job in academia or publishing, but won't travel.
What is this assholish reasoning? Everyone I know in creative fields has exactly two tenths of fuck all money, for starters.
― I checked Snoops , and it is for real (Trayce), Sunday, 15 March 2015 22:52 (nine years ago) link
the bigger question is what r u running from with all this endless travel
hmmmmm?
― difficult-difficult lemon-difficult (VegemiteGrrl), Sunday, 15 March 2015 23:09 (nine years ago) link
pretty jealous of anyone who has all the PTO to do all this overseas travelling
― just1n3, Sunday, 15 March 2015 23:22 (nine years ago) link
guilty as charged there tbh yr eyes would pop I'm on about half if what sic gets in terms of leave.
― post you had fecund thoughts about (darraghmac), Sunday, 15 March 2015 23:35 (nine years ago) link
i have plenty of leave because i don't take it but how do people with jobs have the energy to travel? feels like a cruel joke. i'd choose stay home and get some sleep and be dull.
― computer champion (harbl), Sunday, 15 March 2015 23:41 (nine years ago) link
I heard u were afraid of international outrage
― post you had fecund thoughts about (darraghmac), Sunday, 15 March 2015 23:49 (nine years ago) link
Americans are on half what I get, I just saved it up for years
Going to have endless time off from mid-year though!
― oochie wally (clean version) (sic), Sunday, 15 March 2015 23:51 (nine years ago) link
Friend of mine obsessively travels but she's a bit of a lone wolf (no partner or fam) working out in the desert as an airforce cook, I think that kind of job leaves one with insane amts of spare money given they pay for your accoms and whatnot.
― I checked Snoops , and it is for real (Trayce), Monday, 16 March 2015 00:44 (nine years ago) link
I could go for a bit of that
― oochie wally (clean version) (sic), Monday, 16 March 2015 00:59 (nine years ago) link
certainly there's entire weeks I could go for the no partner bit
― post you had fecund thoughts about (darraghmac), Monday, 16 March 2015 01:16 (nine years ago) link
I meant especially bcz redundant sometime in May, homeless sometime between April and July, and you could get a lot of reading done
sure but I'd go for a drink with you once a week on these desert sojourns
― oochie wally (clean version) (sic), Monday, 16 March 2015 02:26 (nine years ago) link
I was gonna say - redundant!? Boh :(
― I checked Snoops , and it is for real (Trayce), Monday, 16 March 2015 02:27 (nine years ago) link
:(
― post you had fecund thoughts about (darraghmac), Monday, 16 March 2015 02:28 (nine years ago) link
:/
― difficult-difficult lemon-difficult (VegemiteGrrl), Monday, 16 March 2015 02:28 (nine years ago) link
:\
― don't ask me why i posted this (electricsound), Monday, 16 March 2015 02:38 (nine years ago) link
it's alright guys I'm gonna join the air force and live in the desert iirc
― oochie wally (clean version) (sic), Monday, 16 March 2015 04:15 (nine years ago) link
how does traveling 'make one a better person' anyway? i believe chonging on ecigs and listening to danny baker podcasts makes for a better person but im not shouting that from the rooftops
― NI, Monday, 16 March 2015 04:16 (nine years ago) link
actually scratch that, i really do
― NI, Monday, 16 March 2015 04:17 (nine years ago) link
Tryn 2 think if u know said airforce cook lady sic, as she is good m8s with me and miss Ol1via.
― I checked Snoops , and it is for real (Trayce), Monday, 16 March 2015 06:05 (nine years ago) link
The bitching here is directed at whoever allows this to happen, mostly, but there's a woman in my office who seems to have some quite bad mental problems, and has just been jettisoned entirely by any boss or team. We move from desk to desk (as does everyone) and she keeps annexing desks in different parts of the office, but she sits and talks to herself in a strained argumentative tone all day - and not like "oh I must email Steven" or whatever, it's like this bizarre rambling. She's sitting behind me now and I just heard "but he was holding a child!" - a lot of it is kind of mumbling. She looks at Google Maps with a map of Daventry, all day.
My boss has emailed to try and see what's happening or why she has no team whatsoever - makes me wonder how many people are working in civil service buildings just drifting along having been cut loose from any responsibility or structure, or contact.
― Junior Dictionary (LocalGarda), Tuesday, 17 March 2015 13:21 (nine years ago) link
What the hell. She needs to be on some sort of disability leave, surely?
As for your last question, as a former employee of a US state government, more than the taxpayers wish, that's for sure. Although IME most people who are ill in some form or another are out on extended disability leave and the people who still come to work and drift along without responsibility are politically connected patronage hires with no ambitions beyond hanging out in an office, looking at the internet, taking long lunches, and leaving early every day.
― from batman to balloon dog (carl agatha), Tuesday, 17 March 2015 14:23 (nine years ago) link
YES I am still very bitter, yes.
makes me wonder how many people are working in civil service buildings just drifting along having been cut loose from any responsibility or structure, or contact
At my civil service job in London we had a guy who loudly masturbated every day at lunch time in the men's toilets, two people who talked to themselves, someone who just took a shit right in the middle of the men's room, and someone who openly watched porn.
― Benson and the Jets (ENBB), Tuesday, 17 March 2015 14:26 (nine years ago) link
god, I miss that place
Man that all sounds very familiar...
― from batman to balloon dog (carl agatha), Tuesday, 17 March 2015 14:57 (nine years ago) link
I disavow all knowledge we're a new reformed institution over here
― post you had fecund thoughts about (darraghmac), Tuesday, 17 March 2015 16:08 (nine years ago) link
no ambitions beyond hanging out in an office, looking at the internet, taking long lunches, and leaving early every day.
if you can think of a worthwhile work aspiration beyond these I'm all ears poindexter
― A MOOC, what's a MOOC? (Bananaman Begins), Tuesday, 17 March 2015 16:09 (nine years ago) link
i actually love my job - most of what i do is trying to modernise how civil servants write and communicate - so we are this fly in the ointment with a really well backed mandate for changing people's behaviour. we get a barrage of abuse and insults but that's part of the fun - the work is interesting and challenging too, good money also as we are freelance.
on the plus side - it is the civil service so nobody in my team works in the office on mondays or fridays. our work is closely monitored, we have tough enough targets to reach etc, so it's all very open and honest - has made me realise the only bad thing about being hungover on a work day is having to be in work, i can do a good day's work at home regardless of what i did the night before.
― Junior Dictionary (LocalGarda), Tuesday, 17 March 2015 17:12 (nine years ago) link
hey lg we do the same thing! are you roving gds or with a department? (I'm at an moj agency, moving to gds on monday).
― woof, Tuesday, 17 March 2015 17:24 (nine years ago) link
lol okay good point.
― from batman to balloon dog (carl agatha), Tuesday, 17 March 2015 17:28 (nine years ago) link
"so we are this fly in the ointment with a really well backed mandate for changing people's behaviour. we get a barrage of abuse and insults but that's part of the fun"
I'm in vaguely aligned field is this an ILX thing, civil service reform
― post you had fecund thoughts about (darraghmac), Tuesday, 17 March 2015 17:31 (nine years ago) link
sounds totally convincing imo, 'challenging opinions: the ilx framework for civil service reform'
― woof, Tuesday, 17 March 2015 17:56 (nine years ago) link
someone who just took a shit right in the middle of the men's room
Someone at my wife's work took a huge shit by the photocopier, and my wife was told by her supervisor not to talk about it because "it might make the person who did it ashamed".
― as verbose and purple as a Peter Ustinov made of plums (James Morrison), Wednesday, 18 March 2015 02:10 (nine years ago) link
I don't think it would!
― pplains, Wednesday, 18 March 2015 02:20 (nine years ago) link
Wheres said photocopier? I'm just imagining someone sqattin' down beside it in a room in full view of everyone :/
Or are we talking "whoops I soiled my pants cos I have a bad grog bog hangover" situ?
― I checked Snoops , and it is for real (Trayce), Wednesday, 18 March 2015 02:25 (nine years ago) link