i've always been fascinated by how this dynamic replicates itself--i've only been in one relationship i'd genuinely call abusive, and that person had the most horrific childhood & adolescence of anyone i've ever met. i want to know more about why this happens the way it does.
― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Wednesday, January 21, 2015 9:54 AM (3 hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
it's pretty simple ime, people do what they know.
io otm.
the problem isn't that people are overrusing the word abuse but that it's more prevalent than people care to admit and why would anyone want to shake that status quo if it's benefitting them or stands to.
― languagelessness (mattresslessness), Wednesday, 21 January 2015 20:57 (nine years ago) link
i have nothing to say specifically about these fascinating people s.clover is talking about ftr
― languagelessness (mattresslessness), Wednesday, 21 January 2015 21:02 (nine years ago) link
http://girlempowered.files.wordpress.com/2012/09/screen-shot-2012-09-02-at-2-58-53-pm.png?w=300&h=294
― Orson Wellies (in orbit), Wednesday, 21 January 2015 21:23 (nine years ago) link
http://nymag.com/daily/intelligencer/2015/01/not-a-very-pc-thing-to-say.html
― ancient texts, things that can't be pre-dated (President Keyes), Tuesday, 27 January 2015 18:24 (nine years ago) link
Twitter has already handled that article this morning, I'm not even reading it.
― Orson Wellies (in orbit), Tuesday, 27 January 2015 18:27 (nine years ago) link
chait was so good at DC congressional budget politics type stuff i have to say it makes me a little sad to see him turn into another #actually blogger. idk if he had that kind of streak in him the whole time or what
― goole, Tuesday, 27 January 2015 18:30 (nine years ago) link
is it possible for someone to write about these kinds of situations without extrapolating nightmarish scenarios of life under "pc culture"
― da croupier, Tuesday, 27 January 2015 18:56 (nine years ago) link
yeah, add a footnote saying - 'obv this is only a problem for terrible university facility and their hysterical students - the rest of us can point + laugh'
― Mordy, Tuesday, 27 January 2015 18:57 (nine years ago) link
pc culture vs pc music
― how's life, Tuesday, 27 January 2015 18:58 (nine years ago) link
The historical record of American liberalism, which has extended social freedoms to blacks, Jews, gays, and women, is glorious.
oh ick
― celfie tucker 48 (s.clover), Tuesday, 27 January 2015 19:03 (nine years ago) link
thank u based liberalism
https://pbs.twimg.com/media/B8YQQNRCYAEDUrE.png
― goole, Tuesday, 27 January 2015 19:14 (nine years ago) link
Trigger Warning: Amanda Palmer
― Οὖτις Δαυ & τηε Κνιγητσ (Phil D.), Tuesday, 27 January 2015 19:16 (nine years ago) link
lol those quotes from the Binders fb group are great. very ilx'y.
― Mordy, Tuesday, 27 January 2015 19:16 (nine years ago) link
lol do you even go here
― j., Tuesday, 27 January 2015 19:24 (nine years ago) link
in the chait
Her response since then has been to avoid committing a provocation, especially on Twitter. “If you tweet something straightforwardly feminist, you immediately get a wave of love and favorites, but if you tweet something in a cranky feminist mode then the opposite happens,” she told me. “The price is too high; you feel like there might be banishment waiting for you.” Social media, where swarms of jeering critics can materialize in an instant, paradoxically creates this feeling of isolation. “You do immediately get the sense that it’s one against millions, even though it’s not.” Subjects of these massed attacks often describe an impulse to withdraw.
i've been reading a lot of ancient greek stuff lately and i was struck by how common exile was as a punishment. it was used later on of course, with some esp. famous cases (napoleon?). but i wonder if 'banishment' isn't more of a practice that's antithetical to liberalism.
― j., Tuesday, 27 January 2015 19:33 (nine years ago) link
Under p.c. culture, the same idea can be expressed identically by two people but received differently depending on the race and sex of the individuals doing the expressing.
LOL, can it really, Jonathan Chait, white male? You may want to ask a local woman to enlighten you more on this topic.
― Οὖτις Δαυ & τηε Κνιγητσ (Phil D.), Tuesday, 27 January 2015 21:12 (nine years ago) link
u tell him, phil D, white male
― Mordy, Tuesday, 27 January 2015 21:16 (nine years ago) link
Oh, shut up, you tedious fart.
― Οὖτις Δαυ & τηε Κνιγητσ (Phil D.), Tuesday, 27 January 2015 21:18 (nine years ago) link
*clink!*
― Mordy, Tuesday, 27 January 2015 21:19 (nine years ago) link
Didn't you killfile me? If not, can you?
― Οὖτις Δαυ & τηε Κνιγητσ (Phil D.), Tuesday, 27 January 2015 21:20 (nine years ago) link
https://twitter.com/HannaRosin/status/560183792854634496
come on
― goole, Tuesday, 27 January 2015 21:40 (nine years ago) link
http://i.imgur.com/SkmKyYu.jpg
― Wristy Hurlington (ShariVari), Tuesday, 27 January 2015 21:44 (nine years ago) link
wait what would retweeting…
― j., Tuesday, 27 January 2015 21:45 (nine years ago) link
liberals, we must not turn back the clock to the heinous days of 1991
― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Tuesday, 27 January 2015 21:45 (nine years ago) link
oh internet, you drain and sustain me all at once
― local eire man (darraghmac), Tuesday, 27 January 2015 21:47 (nine years ago) link
*farts*
― languagelessness (mattresslessness), Tuesday, 27 January 2015 21:48 (nine years ago) link
gotta love "the incident would not have shocked anybody familiar with the campus scene from two decades earlier."
That's hack writer speak for "I have to go back 23 years to find another relevant example."
― Vic Perry, Tuesday, 27 January 2015 21:49 (nine years ago) link
"the incident would not have shocked anybody familiar with the campus scene from two decades earlier."
Sounds like a sentence from an X-Files report
― ancient texts, things that can't be pre-dated (President Keyes), Tuesday, 27 January 2015 21:52 (nine years ago) link
― goole, Tuesday, January 27, 2015 9:40 PM (31 minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
lol tho
― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Tuesday, 27 January 2015 22:12 (nine years ago) link
megalol tbh
― "Go pet your dog" is the name of my dog (DJP), Tuesday, 27 January 2015 22:36 (nine years ago) link
http://gawker.com/punch-drunk-jonathan-chait-takes-on-the-entire-internet-1682078451
this felt good to read
― da croupier, Tuesday, 27 January 2015 22:41 (nine years ago) link
I don't really care about this but lol'd at:
His philosophical position is that it is undemocratic—dangerously undemocratic, in fact—to tell Jonathan Chait to "shut up and go away." It might be rude, and personally hurtful to Jonathan Chait, to tell him to shut up and go away (trigger warning: telling Jon Chait to shut up and go away),
― Οὖτις, Tuesday, 27 January 2015 22:44 (nine years ago) link
As we get to the end of Chait's essay, we can tally up the casualties of political correctness. One anti-abortion protester was shoved and had her sign vandalized. A few millionaires were disinvited from college campuses, and performances of two plays were canceled. Various people feel disinclined to engage in online debates. Participants in a Facebook group had to deal with a Bad Thread. And a college student was fired from his school newspaper. That's one person whose life was in any meaningful way made materially worse by the scourge of political correctness, in nearly 5,000 words of dire warnings about the philosophical threat posed by left-wing speech policing.
― da croupier, Tuesday, 27 January 2015 22:45 (nine years ago) link
chait is just a hysteric, and pareene is right that he's taking way out of proportion a phenomenon that mostly applies to tumblr, twitter and college dorm rooms. but i think he gets to the central ideological issue here:
The Marxist left has always dismissed liberalism’s commitment to protecting the rights of its political opponents — you know, the old line often misattributed to Voltaire, “I disapprove of what you have to say, but I’ll defend to the death your right to say it” — as hopelessly naïve. If you maintain equal political rights for the oppressive capitalists and their proletarian victims, this will simply keep in place society’s unequal power relations. Why respect the rights of the class whose power you’re trying to smash? And so, according to Marxist thinking, your political rights depend entirely on what class you belong to.The modern far left has borrowed the Marxist critique of liberalism and substituted race and gender identities for economic ones. “The liberal view,” wrote MacKinnon 30 years ago, “is that abstract categories — like speech or equality — define systems. Every time you strengthen free speech in one place, you strengthen it everywhere. Strengthening the free speech of the Klan strengthens the free speech of Blacks.” She deemed this nonsensical: “It equates substantive powerlessness with substantive power and calls treating these the same, ‘equality.’ ”
The modern far left has borrowed the Marxist critique of liberalism and substituted race and gender identities for economic ones. “The liberal view,” wrote MacKinnon 30 years ago, “is that abstract categories — like speech or equality — define systems. Every time you strengthen free speech in one place, you strengthen it everywhere. Strengthening the free speech of the Klan strengthens the free speech of Blacks.” She deemed this nonsensical: “It equates substantive powerlessness with substantive power and calls treating these the same, ‘equality.’ ”
― Mordy, Tuesday, 27 January 2015 23:09 (nine years ago) link
I never know who "the left" is supposed to BE in any of this, which is weird because I am definitely somewhere in it. But a very great deal of what "feminists," "liberals," or "the left" are said to be, or do, or think, or say, doesn't match my experience.
― Orson Wellies (in orbit), Tuesday, 27 January 2015 23:13 (nine years ago) link
obv your average phil d or whatever doesn't have a sophisticated enough political ideology to know where they come down on free speech as inherently virtuous or not - but there is a very real division between liberalism and a more radical left. and it's not easily dismissed - i don't think mackinnon's quote is wrong, and i say this as someone who believes neo-nazis should be allowed to march in skokie, or deny the holocaust, or whatever.
― Mordy, Tuesday, 27 January 2015 23:19 (nine years ago) link
i mean to say that like if you think that protecting ppl from hurtful speech is a more important virtue than letting ppl say whatever they want - i'm not 100% sure you'd be wrong. it isn't my ideological pov but it's not self-evidently insane.
― Mordy, Tuesday, 27 January 2015 23:20 (nine years ago) link
Hey, Mordy, why don't you go fuck yourself?
― Οὖτις Δαυ & τηε Κνιγητσ (Phil D.), Tuesday, 27 January 2015 23:21 (nine years ago) link
i say this as someone who believes neo-nazis should be allowed to march in skokie
I like how you always trot this out
― Οὖτις, Tuesday, 27 January 2015 23:22 (nine years ago) link
but let's keep it civil, kids
sheesh
well it's a particularly dramatic example (that the ACLU defended), but another example, when ahmadinejad spoke at columbia (iirc?) i don't like the guy but i wasn't against him speaking
― Mordy, Tuesday, 27 January 2015 23:23 (nine years ago) link
pc left is not "Marxist" - they frequently turn out to be class clueless.
Also not to be confused with trying to maintain basic civil rights (which for some reason is also "the left")
Basically an incoherent critique all around.
― Vic Perry, Tuesday, 27 January 2015 23:23 (nine years ago) link
Like, seriously, if you have a beef with me, address me directly, or killfile me, but do not pull that shit again.
― Οὖτις Δαυ & τηε Κνιγητσ (Phil D.), Tuesday, 27 January 2015 23:23 (nine years ago) link
hey phil, you're a child. :) have a nice day.
― Mordy, Tuesday, 27 January 2015 23:24 (nine years ago) link
i think this is true, but that doesn't mean they haven't used class critiques as a basis for identity critiques
― Mordy, Tuesday, 27 January 2015 23:25 (nine years ago) link
If you maintain equal political rights for the oppressive capitalists and their proletarian victims, this will simply keep in place society’s unequal power relations.
of course this is what happens, because oppressive capitalists are the ones that dictate political rights in our wonderful western oligarchy.
Why respect the rights of the class whose power you’re trying to smash? And so, according to Marxist thinking, your political rights depend entirely on what class you belong to.
the weird thing about taking this angle that liberals on the interwebz or in universities are silencing free speech is that freedom of speech is maintained and enforced by those in power - historically disenfranchised minorities don't actually have the political power to silence the speech of the capital class or anyone else. They have the right to call out the speech that reinforces the power of the capital class for what it often is - sexist, racist, classist, fascist, corporatist, whatever - but that is very very different from the state outlawing and silencing sexist, racist, etc. types of speech. In the quote above "respect" is totally different from actually HAVING political rights. You can have the right to your bullshit speech, but I'm not going to respect your speech, because it is bullshit.
xp
― Οὖτις, Tuesday, 27 January 2015 23:26 (nine years ago) link
Not their go-to example, under duress for sure. In a pinch they pick, like Oprah's travails buying a handbag over some working class Pennsylvanian white guy's black lungs.
― Vic Perry, Tuesday, 27 January 2015 23:27 (nine years ago) link
i think we've discussed before, probably on this very thread, that there are elements of free speech / censoring that don't just exist on the legislative level, but otherwise i agree w/ you that no person on twitter is actually silencing anyone except maybe very sensitive writers for the new republic, slate, atlantic or whatever xp
― Mordy, Tuesday, 27 January 2015 23:28 (nine years ago) link
there are elements of free speech / censoring that don't just exist on the legislative level
sure, and these happen where there are levers of power to be weilded - traditionally publishers, or editors, or corporate head honchos etc. again, not traditionally the bastions of historically disenfranchised minorities.
but yes I think this a rehash
(wasn't joking about the skokie thing incidentally, I remember this incident being my introduction to the ACLU via hebrew school)
― Οὖτις, Tuesday, 27 January 2015 23:31 (nine years ago) link