Why is casual racism/sexism more accepted in video games than other forms of media (these days)?

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you know if we started by throwing everyone with an anime avatar on Twitter in jail that might be a good start

where is the czar to make this happen

sleeve, Saturday, 18 October 2014 00:28 (nine years ago) link

Thomas Friedman says that China could get it done.

I can't make my waterface turn into a *fart* (Sufjan Grafton), Saturday, 18 October 2014 00:30 (nine years ago) link

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/B0AVVK4CQAAoq0C.png

mookieproof, Saturday, 18 October 2014 00:39 (nine years ago) link

lol

I can't make my waterface turn into a *fart* (Sufjan Grafton), Saturday, 18 October 2014 02:01 (nine years ago) link

i made a joke @ sam about him being bullied into apologizing and it got RT'd by like 30 GG people ... i dont think they got it

deej loaf (D-40), Saturday, 18 October 2014 04:45 (nine years ago) link

Max had a thing on Twitter about how these dudes don't seem to get written irony

Clay, Saturday, 18 October 2014 05:57 (nine years ago) link

about half of them seem to have no clue how to read context or tone into stuff, whether it's because they're too young or sheltered to have the background or because of some other reason, and the other half seems to be deeply disingenuous

max, Saturday, 18 October 2014 11:51 (nine years ago) link

i mean i knew this was insane but i didnt know HOW insane. i keep waiting for an adult to step in

max, Saturday, 18 October 2014 11:51 (nine years ago) link

prob there is a better term for it nowadays and i apologize for using it particularly in this context but there is a freaky element of mass hysteria about the way these folks are operating that is genuinely terrifying to see in action

Roberto Spiralli, Saturday, 18 October 2014 12:27 (nine years ago) link

one day these ppl are going to come to their senses and piggy's corpse will be lying there and they won't have any idea how it got to that point

Roberto Spiralli, Saturday, 18 October 2014 12:30 (nine years ago) link

I guess I'm more used to the stupid persecution complex and irrational anger of the culture so it's not super shocking

Someone tweeted me once that my whole family should get cancer because I gave the HD remake of Jet Grind Radio (a game w anime roller bladers) a 7.5 out of 10

u2 removal machine (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Saturday, 18 October 2014 13:48 (nine years ago) link

xp yeah, the ginning up of existential threat from... basically nothing? is one of the most unsettling things about this.

Andrew Farrell, Saturday, 18 October 2014 13:49 (nine years ago) link

Jet Grind/Set Radio the original is a 10, though.

Andrew Farrell, Saturday, 18 October 2014 13:50 (nine years ago) link

the HD remake was Hitler's fav video game iirc

i'd rather be arrested by you folks than by anybody i know (art), Saturday, 18 October 2014 13:51 (nine years ago) link

Getting rid of review scores and having text only reviews would help a lot

u2 removal machine (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Saturday, 18 October 2014 14:11 (nine years ago) link

Jet Grind/Set Radio the original is a 10, though.

― Andrew Farrell, Saturday, October 18, 2014 8:50 AM (20 minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Yeah I guess my whole family does deserve cancer good point.

u2 removal machine (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Saturday, 18 October 2014 14:12 (nine years ago) link

That's Andrew actually great thank you Andrew that's in a weird way just what I need right now.

u2 removal machine (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Saturday, 18 October 2014 14:14 (nine years ago) link

because of some other reason

yeeeeeah

⌘-B (mh), Saturday, 18 October 2014 15:25 (nine years ago) link

the stupid persecution complex and irrational anger of the culture

otm! I was cleaning out some stuff from my parents' house yesterday and I was surprised by the anger and alienation of the dumb shit I'd scrawled among the doodles of my high school era rough notes. I mean I'm bitter now of course but I'd really forgotten the intensity, and it did remind me of the younger/less manipulative end of #GG

so y'know I just roll my eyes at these guys going "women can't appreciate games properly because none of them were this angry and dorky as teenagers, therefore they aren't allowed into the clubhouse or to imply they don't always get everything they want just for being women"

signed, the most angry, dorky and dateless teenager, who wasn't even allowed to play D&D and Warhammer with the male angry dorks because 1. girl 2. ugly girl 3. if even talked to, instantly given a gatekeeping quiz and deemed a FAKE for not memorising the right pointless arcane facts, or if test passed then "uh that stuff's dumb and who'd want to know any of that stuff anyway" (OK, stage 3 might be how all geeks treat each other)

club mate martyr (a passing spacecadet), Saturday, 18 October 2014 15:38 (nine years ago) link

Every women I've known in games has talked and ppl asking if they "really" played games etc, quizzes like you mention

u2 removal machine (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Saturday, 18 October 2014 15:45 (nine years ago) link

I think for every man thinking women can't really be gamers, there's another congratulating himself because he knows women can be gamers, too.

⌘-B (mh), Saturday, 18 October 2014 15:50 (nine years ago) link

i mean i knew this was insane but i didnt know HOW insane. i keep waiting for an adult to step in

Hell, they've adopted "Mom" as their shield/adult, I think

Stephen King's Threaderstarter (kingfish), Saturday, 18 October 2014 17:09 (nine years ago) link

http://www.wearyourbeer.com/images/Pink_Floyd_Mother_White_Shirt.jpg

EZ Snappin, Saturday, 18 October 2014 18:06 (nine years ago) link

Sorry matt, that was a stupid thing to say.

Andrew Farrell, Saturday, 18 October 2014 18:27 (nine years ago) link

(for me to say)

Andrew Farrell, Saturday, 18 October 2014 18:27 (nine years ago) link

signed, the most angry, dorky and dateless teenager, who wasn't even allowed to play D&D and Warhammer with the male angry dorks because 1. girl 2. ugly girl 3. if even talked to, instantly given a gatekeeping quiz and deemed a FAKE for not memorising the right pointless arcane facts, or if test passed then "uh that stuff's dumb and who'd want to know any of that stuff anyway" (OK, stage 3 might be how all geeks treat each other)

― club mate martyr (a passing spacecadet), Saturday, October 18, 2014 10:38 AM (3 hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

teenage dorks were the worst at stuff like this, like bc they feel unable to ascertain the social cues that have helped their peers 'get ahead' socially they create this very strict hierarchical alternate structure, it's like the competition of the real world but more narrow and punishingly competitive

deej loaf (D-40), Saturday, 18 October 2014 19:29 (nine years ago) link

very often the social cue they fail to ascertain is "be physically attractive."

you walk on the street, grab the rock (President Keyes), Saturday, 18 October 2014 21:05 (nine years ago) link

teenagers in general are aggrieved and judgemental its totally typical and understandable and just kinda part of life, the thing w nerd culture is it becomes some sort of talisman that they carry with themselves way longer than is healthy, its a central animating myth along with that theyre smarter than everyone and deserve actually to be at the top of the totem pole because of it, so at a time when they shld be growing up theyre cocooning themselves in this scene that encourages them to feed their resentment when they shd be developing a more magnanimous view on life

lag∞n, Saturday, 18 October 2014 21:33 (nine years ago) link

tho tbqh im not sure the % of aggrieved manbabies is really any higher than society at large, and the gamer gate people are prob mostly still young

lag∞n, Saturday, 18 October 2014 21:34 (nine years ago) link

Yeah, I mean, I passed through this stuff on my way to the well-rounded and healthy (!?!??!) state that I currently occupy. I get a LITTLE bit iffy about hating too consistently on "nerds" as the problem here, because being hated on is what drives a lot of people to armor themselves with these nerd tropes! I knew a lot of dudes, in my teenage anime/gamer/etc. days, that were considerably more intense and angry than I was. Some of them stayed that way, and we grew apart as I got a little further along and just basically mellowed out a little. I wonder if any of 'em are now GamerGaters; it wouldn't surprise me.

But some of them turned out just fine! The intensity got worked out somehow and they are now happy enthusiastic nerds of the kinds you want to meet. The degree of nerd-dom doesn't really track directly onto the degree of hateful intensity. Some of the nerdiest are some of the nicest. But there are these tropes and tendencies and myths within nerd subcultures that could, yeah, become self-sustaining in a certain sort of person, to where you're still using at 30 the tools for sorting out insecurity that are really meant to be kind of temporary tools of firming yourself up at 13. I guess this is a longwinded way of throwing around the "manchild" straw-man(child).

Doctor Casino, Saturday, 18 October 2014 22:08 (nine years ago) link

Like, we shouldn't lose sight of the fact that nice nerds are some of the nicest people you'll ever meet - empathetic eccentric enthusiasts. ILX has more than a few great ones. There are legitimate paths out of being a little ball of rage and internet cockiness, besides becoming one of the Cool Kids or w/e.

Doctor Casino, Saturday, 18 October 2014 22:10 (nine years ago) link

feel like a lot of the nerd bashing ive seen is just messing w them for adopting that aggrieved mythology, which is ironic in a way no one committed to that ideology is capable of understanding, which is the joke anyway

lag∞n, Saturday, 18 October 2014 22:21 (nine years ago) link

everyday i thank god there was no internet around when i was in my teens/twenties

Steve 'n' Seagulls and Flock of Van Dammes (forksclovetofu), Saturday, 18 October 2014 22:21 (nine years ago) link

i said dorks not nerds *clears throat*

deej loaf (D-40), Saturday, 18 October 2014 22:36 (nine years ago) link

very often the social cue they fail to ascertain is "be physically attractive."

― you walk on the street, grab the rock (President Keyes), Saturday, October 18, 2014 4:05 PM (1 hour ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

ehh i mean sure but also learn personal hygiene

you know who wrote a great essay long these lines is ellen willis, i think this piece is pretty otm:
http://nymag.com/thecut/2014/04/memoirs-of-a-non-prom-queen.html

deej loaf (D-40), Saturday, 18 October 2014 22:37 (nine years ago) link

but to be fair, this experience in h.s. she describes was also mine: The students’ social life was fragmented along ethnic and class lines; there was no universally recognized, schoolwide social hierarchy.

deej loaf (D-40), Saturday, 18 October 2014 22:39 (nine years ago) link

The most popular kids were not necessarily the best looking or the best dressed or the most snobbish or the least studious. In retrospect, it seems to me that they were popular for much more honorable reasons. They were attuned to other people, aware of subtle social nuances. They projected an inviting sexual warmth. Far from being slavish followers of fashion, they were self-confident enough to set fashions. They suggested, initiated, led. Above all—this was their main appeal for me—they knew how to have a good time.

deej loaf (D-40), Saturday, 18 October 2014 22:39 (nine years ago) link

feel like my jr high had popular kids but by hs it was just a bunch of diff cliques

lag∞n, Saturday, 18 October 2014 22:43 (nine years ago) link

and wow there was some shameless nerding

lag∞n, Saturday, 18 October 2014 22:44 (nine years ago) link

I like this NYer bit, especially when it points out that games are artifice:

http://www.newyorker.com/tech/elements/gamergate-scandal-erupts-video-game-community

Stephen King's Threaderstarter (kingfish), Saturday, 18 October 2014 22:48 (nine years ago) link

How much of the 70s-80s jock v. nerd mindset persists culturally because the main cohort of pop-culture producers were formed during that time and consumed pop-culture formed during that time, so it sticks as a primal template, even tho culture changed and blew the fuck up once the Internet permeated everything?

I mean, I'm reminded of Patton Oswalt's thing from from a coupla years ago bemoaning the change to outside (sub)cultural transmission avenues; genre entertainment used to be something you had to hunt for, like having an older brother hook you up with Watchmen or Replacements albums or Joy Division or Public Enemy.

This is badly articulated, but does anybody get what I mean? 21 Jump Street explicitly commented on this change

Stephen King's Threaderstarter (kingfish), Saturday, 18 October 2014 22:55 (nine years ago) link

yeah idk i was in hs pre internet as mass culture and things already did not resemble the popular jocks and suffering nerds archetype

lag∞n, Saturday, 18 October 2014 23:04 (nine years ago) link

town im from is on the liberal end of the spectrum tho so im sure that had something to do w it

lag∞n, Saturday, 18 October 2014 23:06 (nine years ago) link

I feel like 'jocks rule the school' was more prevalent in certain circles places than others, it was def prevalent in more mainstream suburbs, where i went to h.s. it was like 40% white and 1/3rd on free lunch so obv more serious underlying divisions of race/class are going to undermine a traditional heirarchy

but nerd cliques still created their own heirarchies that replicated themselves around certain kinds of knowledge or whatever ... definitely around possessions. i mean in 5th grade it was around magic cards, lol, i was very proud of myself when i beat the rich kid who had like a million magic cards in one game bc he always won

deej loaf (D-40), Saturday, 18 October 2014 23:17 (nine years ago) link

i always google to see if my friend from jr high who was the epitome of the nice smart handsome sucessful jock class president is in congress yet but hes still just a finance bro so disappointed in him

lag∞n, Saturday, 18 October 2014 23:23 (nine years ago) link

one thing i guess i notice about people who were popular early is that they tend to have paired off pretty early on, like they are married by their mid 20s, this is a big generalization though

deej loaf (D-40), Saturday, 18 October 2014 23:25 (nine years ago) link

100% world of young ppl anecdotal obv

deej loaf (D-40), Saturday, 18 October 2014 23:48 (nine years ago) link

one day these ppl are going to come to their senses and piggy's corpse will be lying there and they won't have any idea how it got to that point

― Roberto Spiralli, Saturday, October 18, 2014 8:30 AM (11 hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

i'm so late on everything today but

idk, i think "driving multiple women out of their houses and threatening mass shootings" is enough to warrant the "piggy is dead" comp, and if someone were to actually end up physically attacked or dead from all this we've already seen what their response would be: "pity these horrible fringe extremists would do this and hurt our movement, hey stop generalizing us, we're not all like that, you're being racist against gamers #gamergate #notyourshield"

linda cardellini (zachlyon), Sunday, 19 October 2014 00:06 (nine years ago) link


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