privilege as a meme

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haha

balls, Monday, 5 May 2014 03:21 (ten years ago) link

awesome

Doritos Loco Parentis (Hurting 2), Monday, 5 May 2014 03:27 (ten years ago) link

the generational piggybacking is pretty weak also -- grandson of survivors/son of cuny-system grad is really not the equivalent of a disadvantage in the contemporary world.

Doritos Loco Parentis (Hurting 2), Monday, 5 May 2014 03:29 (ten years ago) link

i have heard 'check your privilege' once in a year of teaching ivy league seminars and the idea that there is too much introspection on this in the student body is lol

caek, Monday, 5 May 2014 03:33 (ten years ago) link

what i don't get is if he's sincere why doesn't he have access to a smart princeton friend who could have pointed out he doesn't even understand the concept of privilege that is being used against him, did he just fire that puppy off to 'the tory' w/o double-checking or what

j., Monday, 5 May 2014 03:35 (ten years ago) link

i have heard 'check your privilege' once in a year of teaching ivy league seminars and the idea that there is too much introspection on this in the student body is lol

― caek, Sunday, May 4, 2014 11:33 PM Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

yeah dude is basically a prince to the pea of privilege

Doritos Loco Parentis (Hurting 2), Monday, 5 May 2014 03:36 (ten years ago) link

http://thoughtcatalog.com/anonymous/2014/04/im-not-allowed-to-have-feelings-or-opinions-because-im-white/

Tagged Censorship, Culture & Art, race, Racism, Reverse Racism, SJW, The Internet, Tumblr, White Privilege

the internet is a joy some days

j., Monday, 5 May 2014 03:49 (ten years ago) link

Is this a thread about rich kids????

Dreamland, Monday, 5 May 2014 03:50 (ten years ago) link

at least the author of the thought catalog piece was savvy enough to publish it anonymously. tal took his half-baked skepticisim about structural inequality to the national stage.

très hip (Treeship), Monday, 5 May 2014 03:58 (ten years ago) link

What if instead of a bunch of white people writing articles about white privilege they just published more diverse writers?

▴▲ ▴TH3CR()$BY$H()W▴▲ ▴ (Adam Bruneau), Monday, 5 May 2014 04:15 (ten years ago) link

lol who, the tory or thought catalog?

Doritos Loco Parentis (Hurting 2), Monday, 5 May 2014 04:17 (ten years ago) link

what i don't get is if he's sincere why doesn't he have access to a smart princeton friend who could have pointed out he doesn't even understand the concept of privilege that is being used against him, did he just fire that puppy off to 'the tory' w/o double-checking or what

mistaking "hey this discussion might be more productive if you just took a quick quiet second to think about history" for "APOLOGIZE TO ME ABOUT THE NATIVE AMERICANS RIGHT NOW MOTHERFUCKER" is pretty textbook whiteboy tho; i'm sure he has a whole support network that thinks similarly.

difficult listening hour, Monday, 5 May 2014 04:36 (ten years ago) link

sorry i guess that's his failure to understand the concept of checking. there are other problems too.

difficult listening hour, Monday, 5 May 2014 04:38 (ten years ago) link

He checked back as far as his grandfather. So he's ignored the entire history of the world before 1900.

Also, yeah, at the end he says he has check his privilege, but not once did he explain how he got into Princeton, how he is paying for his education, and how he got his writing published by Time magazine.

Oh wait it's his inherited "legacy". He was destined to just have all this stuff given to him.

▴▲ ▴TH3CR()$BY$H()W▴▲ ▴ (Adam Bruneau), Monday, 5 May 2014 05:12 (ten years ago) link

He checked back as far as his grandfather. So he's ignored the entire history of the world before 1900.

not to defend his essay but pretty sure the jews have had it rough since before 1900

k3vin k., Monday, 5 May 2014 05:16 (ten years ago) link

So has insisting/suggesting that someone check their privilege been successful since people started doing it? Are there testimonies where privileged people talk about how they looked into it, realised there was stuff they weren't thinking about when they gave opinions on an issue?

cardamon, Monday, 5 May 2014 20:49 (ten years ago) link

Annoyingly, I can't remember who said it, but I'm fairly sure there's a body of wisdom literature with many aphorisms along the lines of 'If you would be wise, first establish what you don't know', etc. Is telling someone to check their privilege a class-conscious version of this idea?

cardamon, Monday, 5 May 2014 20:52 (ten years ago) link

I ask this because I was recently told to check my privilege

cardamon, Monday, 5 May 2014 20:52 (ten years ago) link

Are there any articles on this written by POC? All I've seen so far is white ppl talking white privilege.

▴▲ ▴TH3CR()$BY$H()W▴▲ ▴ (Adam Bruneau), Monday, 5 May 2014 20:54 (ten years ago) link

(and while I've often nodded along when reading articles saying that ppl should check their privilege but ... wow, actually being told to do so does not produce the desired effect, at least for me, this time)

cardamon, Monday, 5 May 2014 20:55 (ten years ago) link

Who told you this and what is the context?

▴▲ ▴TH3CR()$BY$H()W▴▲ ▴ (Adam Bruneau), Monday, 5 May 2014 20:57 (ten years ago) link

In what context were you told to check yr priv? If you feel comfortable opening up about that.

how's life, Monday, 5 May 2014 20:57 (ten years ago) link

Only irl conversation I've had about this has been w 2 other white people, one of whom was just drunkenly boasting his awareness of his privilege.

▴▲ ▴TH3CR()$BY$H()W▴▲ ▴ (Adam Bruneau), Monday, 5 May 2014 20:58 (ten years ago) link

i think it's reputed only to work in 'safe spaces'

j., Monday, 5 May 2014 20:58 (ten years ago) link

like twitter

Mordy, Monday, 5 May 2014 20:59 (ten years ago) link

lol at that image xp

Doritos Loco Parentis (Hurting 2), Monday, 5 May 2014 20:59 (ten years ago) link

godspeed yall

purposely lend impetus to my HOOS (BIG HOOS aka the steendriver), Monday, 5 May 2014 21:20 (ten years ago) link

^

1staethyr, Monday, 5 May 2014 21:24 (ten years ago) link

In what context were you told to check yr priv? If you feel comfortable opening up about that.

This was an IRL conversation with a friend of a friend (not someone I knew very well).

The issue under discussion was a recent event where: feminists in a town petition strip club to close down, it eventually shuts down for lack of custom, crazy twitter trolls start sending to death threats to the homes of people who'd organised the petition.

I started to think out loud about wtf is going on in the mind of the death-threaters; I was told this was trivia and to stop saying what about the men (those exact words) and trying to talk about mental illness without having qualifications, and ultimately 'check your privilege' (those exact words). I didn't think I was doing this, but the other people did. Quite possibly I was.

cardamon, Monday, 5 May 2014 21:54 (ten years ago) link

I felt rather as if I'd been identified pre-emptively as an anonymous badster with a twisted agenda, like we meet online frequently, which felt very uncomfortable in a face to face, non professional, social conversation.

cardamon, Monday, 5 May 2014 21:57 (ten years ago) link

I was told this was trivia and to stop saying what about the men (those exact words)

just so i follow right: you were told to check your privilege in a context where you were bringing up the thought process and potential mental illnesses of threatening people online?

purposely lend impetus to my HOOS (BIG HOOS aka the steendriver), Monday, 5 May 2014 21:58 (ten years ago) link

hoos, stop focusing on the purported (white male) victim of privilege checking.

Doritos Loco Parentis (Hurting 2), Monday, 5 May 2014 21:59 (ten years ago) link

Hoos: yeah. And no, I have no qualifications to talk about mental health or thought processes of people who threaten others online, but neither did the other person in the conversation.

cardamon, Monday, 5 May 2014 22:02 (ten years ago) link

(NB it obviously doesn't matter very much if someone used a phrase to cardamon and it was awkward - that's hardly evidence that 'check your privilege' as a meme should be abandoned)

cardamon, Monday, 5 May 2014 22:03 (ten years ago) link

(Also this is in the UK, which complicates things seeing as the phrase is American in origin iirc)

cardamon, Monday, 5 May 2014 22:04 (ten years ago) link

regardless of anything else (i'm not rly getting it) just cause neither of you are qualified doesn't mean one of you can't bring up the point that neither of you are qualified

'questioning' mental health of people u don't know kinda a dick move anyway? fwiw i've said or at least thought things like "burn in hell" or "fuck off and die" or "we hope that you choooooke" etc and people like to call those sorts of things death threats so like

linda cardellini (zachlyon), Monday, 5 May 2014 22:08 (ten years ago) link

the flaw in this "meme" for me is that very often in practice (and outside those "safe spaces" where I imagine its use is more specific) it basically becomes yet another jargon of authenticity.

ryan, Monday, 5 May 2014 22:10 (ten years ago) link

I think the safe spaces thing is probably crucial

cardamon, Monday, 5 May 2014 22:14 (ten years ago) link

yeah its unclear to me whether the privilege you're being invited to check here is
- in relation to focusing on the Threatener as opposed to the Threatened
- over the mental health aspect of the story
- invisible because there's even a privilege-based blind spot in the retelilng( i say that meaning well!), or
- maybe this was an invocation of the term that didn't quite fit
- or something else

purposely lend impetus to my HOOS (BIG HOOS aka the steendriver), Monday, 5 May 2014 22:16 (ten years ago) link

Rechecking the privilege you were checking

james lipton and his francs (darraghmac), Monday, 5 May 2014 22:19 (ten years ago) link

can i renew this privilege for another three weeks, i'm not quite finished with it yet

j., Monday, 5 May 2014 22:20 (ten years ago) link

Hoos: A and B from that list.

It's sort of, it's not like any official decisions about mental health policy, or strip clubs, or online abuse, were going to be made as a result of anything I was saying in that conversation. It rather felt as though I'd accidentally printed my thoughts in the LRB and was getting letters sent in. (But again: one example from my social world, which I'm probably biased in remembering, hardly says anything for or against the validity of the phrase 'check your privilege'.)

cardamon, Monday, 5 May 2014 22:21 (ten years ago) link

hey is your privilege running

linda cardellini (zachlyon), Monday, 5 May 2014 22:25 (ten years ago) link

better go check it

linda cardellini (zachlyon), Monday, 5 May 2014 22:25 (ten years ago) link

I'm still unclear on how "check" operates in that phrase. Is it like "keep your privilege in check"? or more like "acknowledge your privilege"?

I got the glares, the mutterings, the snarls (President Keyes), Monday, 5 May 2014 23:02 (ten years ago) link

body check iirc

reddening, Monday, 5 May 2014 23:40 (ten years ago) link

slam that privilege into the boards

reddening, Monday, 5 May 2014 23:41 (ten years ago) link

It used to be common to say prior inviting folks to a meeting or dialogue "... and check your privilege at the door" like one might do with a hat or coat.

Peacock, Monday, 5 May 2014 23:51 (ten years ago) link

give your privilege to somebody who will hang it up for you until you have to go home


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