"Baby It's Cold Outside" -- Holiday Song? Rapey?

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ach mordy u brought me back here for this ffs im drinking

i kid because i glove (darraghmac), Tuesday, 31 December 2013 23:43 (ten years ago) link

but do you know what's in your drink?

Moka, Tuesday, 31 December 2013 23:50 (ten years ago) link

U ask me this some hours too late tbph

i kid because i glove (darraghmac), Wednesday, 1 January 2014 05:42 (ten years ago) link

Happy 2014, darraghmac

Quarterpayne McRapp (Drugs A. Money), Wednesday, 1 January 2014 06:14 (ten years ago) link

how is babby warmed

Whiney G. Weingarten, Wednesday, 1 January 2014 06:21 (ten years ago) link

lol

Mmm yes hello (crüt), Wednesday, 1 January 2014 08:53 (ten years ago) link

hahahaharapeha

signed, J.P. Morgan CEO (Hurting 2), Thursday, 2 January 2014 20:24 (ten years ago) link

rapeish

Mordy , Thursday, 2 January 2014 20:25 (ten years ago) link

One youtube vid is worth a thousand posts.

nickn, Friday, 3 January 2014 03:57 (ten years ago) link

key and peele did it p well tbf

VENIET IMBER (imago), Friday, 3 January 2014 03:59 (ten years ago) link

Hilarious!

*tera, Friday, 3 January 2014 18:16 (ten years ago) link

one year passes...

Its over. Holiday song. Non rapey. stfu for 11 months the usuals. You'll have a shot again next year.

― lorde othering (darraghmac), Tuesday, 31 December 2013 08:08 (1 year ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Due again, the usuals

Forever banished from my xmas playlists in any case.

thread of getting sw0le and lena jokes (Eric H.), Sunday, 6 December 2015 08:19 (eight years ago) link

Thought this revive was going to be about the Bill Murray/Jenny Lewis duet.

how's life, Sunday, 6 December 2015 13:27 (eight years ago) link

yes, please let this word die with 2013

― signed, J.P. Morgan CEO (Hurting 2), Tuesday, December 24, 2013 11:21 AM (1 year ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

https://www.google.com/trends/explore?q=rapey#q=rapey&cmpt=q&tz=Etc%2FGMT%2B5

sigh.

how's life, Sunday, 6 December 2015 13:33 (eight years ago) link

noël means noël

BAN ALCOHOL (wins), Sunday, 6 December 2015 13:35 (eight years ago) link

good song

welltris (crüt), Sunday, 6 December 2015 14:38 (eight years ago) link

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on entre O.K. on sort K.O. (man alive), Sunday, 6 December 2015 16:35 (eight years ago) link

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scarlett bohansson (unregistered), Sunday, 6 December 2015 16:42 (eight years ago) link

eleven months pass...

The updated version (now non-rapey!)

http://www.cnn.com/2016/12/02/us/baby-its-cold-outside-cover-trnd/index.html

nickn, Saturday, 3 December 2016 08:11 (seven years ago) link


" I really can't stay/Baby I'm fine with that" opens the song,

though she denies it to the press, (Joan Crawford Loves Chachi), Saturday, 3 December 2016 12:11 (seven years ago) link

a) Is it still "rapey" if Rufus Wainwright sings the male lead?

b) Bubl'e doesn't have the definitive version of ANY song.

c) Women who smoke are generally accepted as "loose" so feel free to liquor them up and ply you wares;)

d) Listen to the interplay on the version from Jimmy Smith & Wes Montgomery and call it day, or, shitcan the whole deal and listen to Billie Holiday have a go at it on "I´ve Got My Love To Keep Me Warm".

bodacious ignoramus, Saturday, 3 December 2016 14:55 (seven years ago) link

i really love this song !! but i always feel bad for listening to it for all the lore

surm, Saturday, 3 December 2016 16:25 (seven years ago) link

the Jimmy Smith & Wes Montgomery version is the only one I've got, it doesn't sound very seasonal but it absolutely smokes.

calzino, Saturday, 3 December 2016 16:36 (seven years ago) link

... i especially love how coming out of the vamp and back into the chorus, Montgomery misses a string and Jimmy comes right back a does the same thing in response on his Hammond.

bodacious ignoramus, Saturday, 3 December 2016 18:58 (seven years ago) link

there's an everydayfeminism thinkpiece just begging to be written about how this song is surprisingly sex-positive by jazz age standards and how it's patronizing to assume that the woman is acting under coercion when she makes the empowering choice to define her sexuality on her own terms by accepting the man's advances in spite of conventional morality and received wisdom advising her to the contrary.

memories of a cruller (unregistered), Sunday, 4 December 2016 02:52 (seven years ago) link

"4 Reasons Why 'Baby It's Cold Outside' Isn't As Rapey As You Think"

memories of a cruller (unregistered), Sunday, 4 December 2016 02:53 (seven years ago) link

I think the fact that the girl at the end cheerfully says "baby it's cold outside," (i.e. "ok, I'll stay,") makes it pretty obvious that the song is not "rapey," not to mention that most of her protests are like "what will the neighbors think" kind of stuff. Even having to read it this closely to make the point makes me die inside a little.

― signed, J.P. Morgan CEO (Hurting 2), Tuesday, December 24, 2013 12:31 PM (two years ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

ahead of his time

Treeship, Sunday, 4 December 2016 03:05 (seven years ago) link

can we drop the use of the word "rapey"? It's annoying as hell.

The burrito of ennui (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 4 December 2016 03:09 (seven years ago) link

resolution to ban the word rapey and michael buble

all in favor

Flamenco Drop (VegemiteGrrl), Sunday, 4 December 2016 03:28 (seven years ago) link

https://www.sysoon.com/deceased/theodore-rapey-37

velko, Sunday, 4 December 2016 03:41 (seven years ago) link

We haven't had that spirit here since 1984.

nickn, Sunday, 4 December 2016 08:03 (seven years ago) link

"rapish" more grammatically correct

xiphoid beetlebum (rushomancy), Sunday, 4 December 2016 15:38 (seven years ago) link


there's an everydayfeminism thinkpiece just begging to be written about how this song is surprisingly sex-positive by jazz age standards and how it's patronizing to assume that the woman is acting under coercion when she makes the empowering choice to define her sexuality on her own terms by accepting the man's advances in spite of conventional morality and received wisdom advising her to the contrary.

I think it was linked earlier on the thread: http://persephonemagazine.com/2010/12/listening-while-feminist-in-defense-of-baby-its-cold-outside/

Spiritual Hat Minimalism (Sund4r), Sunday, 4 December 2016 15:59 (seven years ago) link

two weeks pass...

oh, Christ

Supercreditor (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 20 December 2016 22:30 (seven years ago) link

NPR took notice

Supercreditor (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 20 December 2016 22:30 (seven years ago) link

gonna do this every year huh

k3vin k., Tuesday, 20 December 2016 22:47 (seven years ago) link

two weeks pass...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WiCstfC9FfM

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Friday, 6 January 2017 05:56 (seven years ago) link

eleven months pass...

Still not a Christmas song, tho.

Fred Klinkenberg (Eric H.), Tuesday, 19 December 2017 21:10 (six years ago) link

I like that explanation, but what are some other examples of this stock joke? I asked this upthread and nothing specific came up.

I can think of one possible example in The Rules of the Game (Christine: "I drank way too much; I don't know what I'm doing," right before going off with St. Aubin).

jmm, Wednesday, 20 December 2017 17:19 (six years ago) link

In The Rules of the Game is every exception. It is life itself.

Fred Klinkenberg (Eric H.), Wednesday, 20 December 2017 17:23 (six years ago) link

trans-era humorlessness is a helluva drug

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 20 December 2017 17:23 (six years ago) link

(i mean "across eras" there, to be clear)

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 20 December 2017 17:29 (six years ago) link

Post flagged.

Fred Klinkenberg (Eric H.), Wednesday, 20 December 2017 18:08 (six years ago) link

what're those New Puritan membership dues?

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 20 December 2017 18:16 (six years ago) link

Now I want a Neil Young Trans-era Baby It's Cold Outside.

https://images.eil.com/large_image/NEIL_YOUNG_TRANS%2B-%2BQUIEX%2BII-77882.jpg

how's life, Wednesday, 20 December 2017 19:10 (six years ago) link

eleven months pass...

This is happening: https://www.cbc.ca/news/entertainment/canadian-radio-stations-baby-it-s-cold-outside-1.4931867

I'm cool with this being a poll/discussion on a message board; less so with this kind of action. I just don't see how anyone who argues strongly on one side or the other of this issue is going to come out looking good.

Timothée Charalambides (cryptosicko), Tuesday, 4 December 2018 21:08 (five years ago) link

I don't think I have ever heard this song

Οὖτις, Tuesday, 4 December 2018 21:25 (five years ago) link


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