Just when you thought it was safe - OK CUPID PART 3: The Return of the WOO!

I want to have you doubting. Every meaning you've amassed. Like a fortune. Oh throw it away. For worship someone. Who actively despises you.

otm

lol

just confirmed via female friend i currently have no rating

Yet.

i'll change that

*unfriends laurel*

Just realized that I'm probably not on Lulu since I never chose a gender for my account

Does FB even let you do that anymore

that's a good idea

hm does disabling gender on fbook prevent you from getting Lulu's? #LuluHack

Lulu'd*

#LuluHack #Invisible #AntiLulu #FirstToLeaveTheParty

as someone on another msg board put it, the whole world is a rating system for women, soo....

Well Lulu is surely going to fix that once and for all.

i don't participate in that because it's a shitty thing to do

actually i take that back because i know someone's gonna call me out so hard

not at all - i can only see lulu perpetuating shitty discourses which especially affect women

I have seen Lulu reviews, and generally people are pretty nice.

hmm. am a sceptic for now, unless it can be shown that this is more helpful & less problematic than presenting oneself to would-be dates

man whatever happened to just sayin hey how you doin

guys freaking out abt a secret girls-only club is p lol

just sayin still posts here sometimes xp

as someone on another msg board put it, the whole world is a rating system for women, soo....

― homosexual II, Tuesday, November 26, 2013 1:02 AM (14 hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Ayuh.

i don't participate in that because it's a shitty thing to do

actually i take that back because i know someone's gonna call me out so hard

― Tip from Tae Kwon Do: (crüt), Tuesday, November 26, 2013 4:10 AM (11 hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalin

<3 u boo but the thing is you can't not participate, because we're all in it. We all should be examining our stuff though, and purposefully working against the easy assumptions that we're fed.

yeah that's otm. i regret my whining itt. i get stressed out but that's life.

People be stressin'

so out of curiosity i changed my fbook gender to female and then tried to join Lulu and I got a message saying "sorry you already have a profile as a different gender"

gender politics aside, but unless i'm misunderstanding how lulu works its a little fucked up that a 3rd party app can make a profile for you just because one of your friends joined it before you did

Yeah that's the skeezy part imo, I wouldn't have any problem w/ the app if it was opt-in but it seems like it's opt-out

does Grady's DN read Yoda then huh

What LJ, you can't read Chinese

:( appropriation is all I know

It's gonna be fun when the inevitable men's or unisex version of this comes along and dating becomes a matter of mutual assured destruction.

otm the internet will kill us all

an internet
that actively despises you

the whole world iirc

good, because dating needed to be more liking buying and selling on ebay

more like I mean

http://www.npr.org/blogs/codeswitch/2013/11/30/247530095/are-you-interested-dating-odds-favor-white-men-asian-women

Hello, I enjoyed your profile. I look forward to hearing from you soon.

white men
asian women
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OK folks, need a little advice...I got some bad advice to bump up my height on OKC from 5'8" to 5'9"...I don't think my first date on Friday will care (hopefully) but now I'm getting queries from 5'9" women and wondering if I should break the news in an offhanded way, or just quietly amend my profile and then see who bites. Any advice would be so appreciated!

is the advice bad if it worked

Buy some lifts

I say I'm 5'10" when really I'm 5'9"+3/4 and it TEARS ME UP INSIDE.

bit under 3/4 actually. probably 2/3.

somehow i'm not worried about the height thing with the woman i'm seeing on friday, but of course now i have several 5'9" women visiting me and that seems like it could spell trouble. Merdeyeux, are you saying don't worry about it?

almost every man I've met from okcupid who stated he was 5'9" was more like 5'7"

homosexual II that's awesome news! thanks

xxp i'm saying that i actually feel a bit guilty about being slightly dishonest but that's because i'm a giant idiot. my objective take is that it really doesn't matter, yeah.

you're a good guy, merdeyeux, that's why you feel bad. i do too but this is a war of the hearts

i used to say i was 5'9" but i changed it to 5' 7" since i'm like 5' 7.5" barefoot.