all the moms commenting w/"right on!!" really depresses me
― crüt zingmaster (crüt), Thursday, 5 September 2013 21:23 (ten years ago) link
Elizabeth Stover Langfahl says: September 3, 2013 at 11:39 am I appreciate the thoughts in this post (and do agree!) but I find it a bit funny & thought-provoking that you decided to illustrate this post with pictures of your boys (?) in their swim suits. They are good-looking young guys and of course that is perfectly normal and acceptable for them to be in their swim trunks, but couldn’t a young teenage girl looking at that with friends be led to talk about them looking “hot” or whatever if they were popping up in their instagram account? (My oldest is an almost 10 year old girl who has no interest in boys, so not too sure yet how teen girls think!) I really want to know if this could be an issue for some girls (or guys) or not really.
I appreciate the thoughts in this post (and do agree!) but I find it a bit funny & thought-provoking that you decided to illustrate this post with pictures of your boys (?) in their swim suits. They are good-looking young guys and of course that is perfectly normal and acceptable for them to be in their swim trunks, but couldn’t a young teenage girl looking at that with friends be led to talk about them looking “hot” or whatever if they were popping up in their instagram account? (My oldest is an almost 10 year old girl who has no interest in boys, so not too sure yet how teen girls think!) I really want to know if this could be an issue for some girls (or guys) or not really.
― Treeship, Thursday, 5 September 2013 21:34 (ten years ago) link
If you are friends with a Hall boy on Facebook or Instagram or Twitter, then you are friends with the whole Hall family.
And now – big bummer – we have to block your posts. Because, the reason we have these (sometimes awkward) family conversations around the table is that we care about our sons, just as we know your parents care about you.
The slut shaming and sexual politics were off the charts, but these were the sentences that stood out as creepiest.I know things have changed since I was in high school but if my parents had insisted on this level of intrusion into my private life I would have gone insane.
― Kiarostami bag (milo z), Thursday, 5 September 2013 21:45 (ten years ago) link
it funny cause compared to the porn yr sons are watching online these facebook pics dont really sound like bannable offenses
― lag∞n, Thursday, 5 September 2013 21:59 (ten years ago) link
lol i guess that there are vast swaths of people - basically all the commenters in that article - who don't see this post as egregiously sexist
― Treeship, Thursday, 5 September 2013 22:07 (ten years ago) link
they're called "Christians"
― crüt zingmaster (crüt), Thursday, 5 September 2013 22:07 (ten years ago) link
and/or 'morons'
― set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 5 September 2013 22:19 (ten years ago) link
Devil's advocate, if I had teenage kids, would I not end up worrying about 'those types of girls/boys' or 'that type of behaviour', even though, as we all know, that type of behaviour is normal + we've all done it or a version of it?
What I mean is, the pressure and stress of running a family and keeping it together might lead one to several dodgy conclusions and if you then happened to be the one dodgy-conclusion-haver who blogged these conclusions you might look more mad than you actually are.
― cardamon, Thursday, 5 September 2013 22:28 (ten years ago) link
For normal read 'harmless'. People putting slightly sexy facebook pictures up is no big deal, is it?
i don't think i would pathologize teenage flirtiness like this woman does, no
― Treeship, Thursday, 5 September 2013 22:35 (ten years ago) link
also, the main premise of her post is something like "if boys see you as sexy they won't see you as a human being as well because these things are incompatible. worry about what boys think of you." that has to do with sexism not with over-protectiveness, i think
― Treeship, Thursday, 5 September 2013 22:39 (ten years ago) link
http://givenbreath.files.wordpress.com/2013/09/img_0272.jpgur not ready 4 this jelly
― lag∞n, Thursday, 5 September 2013 22:42 (ten years ago) link
I'm sorry ma'am, but I am a teenage girl and my parents do not care about me. Your son has been a positive influence in my life and I am starting to learn self-confidence through conversations with him, but no you've cut me off. You seem like you could have been a role model, but now I will never meet you.
Signed,Teenage girl who had the nerve to wear a bikini
― space is deep (mh), Thursday, 5 September 2013 22:43 (ten years ago) link
on the whole i think a searchable list of people who need to be exterminated on the way to a better world is a useful thing
― iMacaroon dragoons (Noodle Vague), Thursday, 5 September 2013 23:49 (ten years ago) link
yikes
― Treeship, Thursday, 5 September 2013 23:50 (ten years ago) link
seriously dude i'm opening my mental killfile from now but i'm baffled as to why somebody who appears to have absorbed ILX history so much doesn't understand what a fucking awful poster they are
― iMacaroon dragoons (Noodle Vague), Friday, 6 September 2013 00:01 (ten years ago) link
education vs intelligence
― Roberto Spiralli, Friday, 6 September 2013 00:03 (ten years ago) link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HqPiMmaKsW0
― oedipaul mccartney (bends), Friday, 6 September 2013 00:06 (ten years ago) link
great stuff. bye.
― Treeship, Friday, 6 September 2013 00:11 (ten years ago) link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1yUmhsy3KuY
― balls, Friday, 6 September 2013 00:13 (ten years ago) link
hello Treeship, i don't think you're an awful poster, in fact i enjoy your contributions to ilx very much. i hope the video i posted didn't seem insensitive.
― oedipaul mccartney (bends), Friday, 6 September 2013 00:15 (ten years ago) link
i appreciate that, bends.
― Treeship, Friday, 6 September 2013 00:17 (ten years ago) link
Dunno why people are calling treeship an awful poster, don't think they shd be
― cardamon, Friday, 6 September 2013 00:21 (ten years ago) link
So tempting to post 'SIKE! You Suck!' here, but i mean it, you're one of the best.xp
― oedipaul mccartney (bends), Friday, 6 September 2013 00:23 (ten years ago) link
I was going to contribute to your Melancholia vs. Another Earth thread but i've never seen Another Earth and i can't remember what it was i was going to say about Melancholia. I might post something tomorrow if it comes back to me.
― oedipaul mccartney (bends), Friday, 6 September 2013 00:27 (ten years ago) link
thanks. yeah, i'd love to hear your thoughts on melancholia, but if you liked that film i recommend you try to see another earth asap. both of these films deal with apocalyptic anticipation in a much more human way than anything else i've seen; i think it's natural to discuss them alongside one another.
― Treeship, Friday, 6 September 2013 00:30 (ten years ago) link
pretty cool pro-bacon anti-islam crossover here:
https://sphotos-a-dfw.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-frc3/q71/1187181_10201957248882309_371445679_n.jpg
― congratulations (n/a), Friday, 6 September 2013 00:44 (ten years ago) link
SORT YOURSELVES OUT, SYRIA
― iMacaroon dragoons (Noodle Vague), Friday, 6 September 2013 00:48 (ten years ago) link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XF2ayWcJfxo
― scott seward, Friday, 6 September 2013 01:01 (ten years ago) link
meanwhile i'd forgotten how funky that song is. and the incredible bongo break.
― scott seward, Friday, 6 September 2013 01:04 (ten years ago) link
have you noticed the ratio of ppl saying the word bacon vs ppl shutting the fuck up & just eating it more or less equals their level of stupidity
― set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 6 September 2013 01:26 (ten years ago) link
things that make you go mmmmmm.....
― scott seward, Friday, 6 September 2013 01:32 (ten years ago) link
Was NV actually talking about Treeship, I am confused
― space is deep (mh), Friday, 6 September 2013 04:49 (ten years ago) link
every thread is about Treeship
― i too went to college (silby), Friday, 6 September 2013 05:26 (ten years ago) link
people overreacting to treeship are making treeship happen
― his LIPS !!! (darraghmac), Friday, 6 September 2013 09:04 (ten years ago) link
any chance we could go back to laughing at Facebook macros rather than talking about a certain poster?
― Neil S, Friday, 6 September 2013 09:23 (ten years ago) link
who, treeship?
― his LIPS !!! (darraghmac), Friday, 6 September 2013 09:25 (ten years ago) link
https://sphotos-a-atl.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-frc3/1229808_10151874516555482_1233828180_n.jpg
― scott seward, Friday, 6 September 2013 11:56 (ten years ago) link
https://sphotos-a-atl.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-prn2/1237880_364884520280852_1691668986_n.jpg
― scott seward, Friday, 6 September 2013 11:57 (ten years ago) link
AwakenTheMind
― 'Understand, your daughter's addiction is not your problem' (Bananaman Begins), Friday, 6 September 2013 11:58 (ten years ago) link
kids today, rejecting traditional modes of human interaction like the image macro.
― Waluigi Nono (Merdeyeux), Friday, 6 September 2013 12:04 (ten years ago) link
Einstein was on his own when he said that.
― Mark G, Friday, 6 September 2013 12:15 (ten years ago) link
lonely guy thinking baout relativity
― Neil S, Friday, 6 September 2013 12:19 (ten years ago) link
HANGING OUT IN THE 80s: "Hey Michelle this friend of Tony's says he knows where to score some really good blow!"
2013 HANGING OUT: "OMG u no where I cn cop the yay? :>-|"
― #fomo that's the motto (Hurting 2), Friday, 6 September 2013 13:42 (ten years ago) link
I envy Einstein, living as he did before any kind of communications technology existed, the first half of the twentieth century was a gentler and more decent time :-(
― Doctor Casino, Friday, 6 September 2013 15:06 (ten years ago) link
When the war wasn't on.
(I know, I know)
― Mark G, Friday, 6 September 2013 15:52 (ten years ago) link
God these are so brilliant! Who would've thought to put Einstein in there? May as well have a quote from Plato relating to why the new Batman is worse than the old.
― Emperor Cos Dashit (Adam Bruneau), Friday, 6 September 2013 16:17 (ten years ago) link
we disappointed einstein, everyone. i think this requires a moment of reflection.
― Spectrum, Friday, 6 September 2013 16:19 (ten years ago) link
at this point it has come back round and become funny again imo
http://i39.tinypic.com/8vofis.jpg
― sleepingbag, Friday, 6 September 2013 16:26 (ten years ago) link
Looks like they ran out of letters, too.
― Emperor Cos Dashit (Adam Bruneau), Friday, 6 September 2013 16:46 (ten years ago) link