no boys allowed in the room!!!!

it really is true that when your 18-20 your dating options look grim. boys that age look like complete idiots to you, and then its really crushing when you reach out of that age group and are met with idiots also.

xp - once when i was sightly drunk i passed one of these dudes in the street, walking with a woman, and said loudly to the person i was with, "that guy dated me when i was 19 and treated me like shit" - i don't regret it

ok, *you're. no coffee yet.

boys that age wouldn't give me the time of day either

omg roxy you are my hero

this movie wasnt great but it is about That Guy

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mwnD-1A80Ts

the trailer makes it look quaint but it does make That Guy look pretty shady.

shopgirl also deals with this but i think it makes That Guy look....decent? i don't really remember. when i read it wanted to kill him tho.

god i love jean smart

i wanted to weep when i found out what shopgirl was about
approval rating for steve martin (which was quite high) plummeted in seconds

Wow, I totally forgot the time I had a 30 year old (in a band!!) interested in me when I was 19.

He was also my step-step-brother's second cousin.

omg that trailer for guinivere was so gross
but yes, jean smart rules

i also loled at the write up! !!! !! !

Screen favorite Stephen Rea (Michael Collins, The Crying Game) stars in this sexy, humorous story about a young woman's discovery of life and love in the arms of an older man! Born into an affluent family of overachievers, awkward young Harper Sloane (Sarah Polley, eXistenZ, Go!) was always the odd one out...until a brilliant phtographer, Connie Fitzpatrick (Rea), focuses his attention on her! Now, he's about to show her a world of possibilities she'd never imagined! But even as Connie begins to guide Harper out of her shell, it's ultimately up to Harper alone to show her disapproving mother...and the whole world...her true potential! Also featuring Gina Gershon (The Insider, Face Off) you'll be charmed by the acclaimed performances in this warm, award-winning motion picture.

her true potential!!

discovered!

by a man!

!

i also love sarah polley so i don't think i can ever see any more of this movie than the part i just saw

also http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pygmalion_(mythology)

spoiler: she figures out that the "brilliant photographer" is That Guy

that's good
i also will admit that i bonus hate these stories because no one ever tried to get me to "reveal my potential" unless b00bz = "potential"

lol LL

hahaha oh dear

maximising our potential itt imo

it's time to leverage our potential by opening the kimono

TA-DAAAAAAAAAAA

lol u guys

btw it's high time someone said something about homo 2's high handed Puritanism. so glad that was addressed.

I remember when I learned what a glory hole was. Thanking u Sister HomoII.

lol @ everything

that made me laugh! (the puritanical thing)

does anyone here experience terrible pain in all joints when period is nigh?

big dull aches for me

Not all joints but my hips and knees would sometimes get worse (I've got screwy knees already). I think it's estrogen related? If it's bad and you have access to medical care, it might be good to see a doc and rule out any inflammatory joint things.

Yes, sort of: my hands and wrists go all funny on Day One and then it clears after the second day.

My ankles, knees, hips, and wrists (sometimes back, too) have throbbing, terrible pains on the day before and day 1. A nurse friend told me that since its bilateral its likely rheumatoid arthritis, and the plummeting estrogen during my period means that my pain tolerance decreases, so that's the only time I feel it. :/

the plummeting estrogen during my period means that my pain tolerance decreases

oh hey, I think this may explain something I hadn't actually noticed was related. thank you roxy and nurse friend! uh sorry about your pain and possible arthritis though.

wait does that mean that estrogen makes us tolerant of pain/tuff?

iirc it's changes in oestrogen levels that make us less tolerant of pain, rather than presence or absence per se

yeah i think that's true

OH man yes I get major joint and back pain, and also sometimes cold and flu symptoms! :(

I figure its cause ive caned my liver so hard, my hormones are screwed up.

nah, I put my liver through hell, and I have so few symptoms of PMS that it's almost always a total surprise when i start bleeding

My estrogen droppage leads to abdominal/back pain and migraines; I now take low-dose estrogen during the droppage period to help with that. Still present are the need to eat everything that is not rapidly running away from me during the week before my period, and the diarrhea for 1 day (which my gyn says is a progesterone affect, and was apologetic that she couldn't offer anything to help with that).

Also for ladies who are not pregnant or wanting to become so, I have found it super-helpful to have a gyn who does not do OB; these docs are all over the birth control/period management/menopausal stuff, without any babby distractions--they get to focus entirely on non-preggos and their problemos.

no joint pain that I've noticed. I get major boob pain, like to the point where it hurts to walk around and I feel like I want to just collapse at the waist...and this year in particular my fking cramps and mood swings have been off the chain. Period itself is over and done in 3 days but fuuccck me the leadup is like, FUCK OFF.

Yeah my boobs hurt enough that I can't lie on my stomach to sleep :(

it's like living on the street where they hold the Rose Bowl Parade and hating football

I was needlessly cryptic upthread so yeah, I get back/shoulder pain days 1-2 and sometimes the day or two before and just generally feel stiff and achey all over, like it's hard work holding my body up straight.

I think. I haven't had a period since I came off the pill 2-3 months ago. Apparently this happens? But I do feel like my hormone levels are currently all over the place, and my previous post was me realising maybe that is why my foot problems have seemed to be getting worse lately.

i used to have no symptoms at all except about an hour of light cramping, then 2 days of bleeding. this gradually got worse until now, when i basically have one day a month that i can only lay flat on the couch with a heating pad on my abdomen and ice on my joints. still have a really short period, though. one of my older friends sad "it just gets worse and worse as you get older" - i'm sure that's not everyone's experience (obv) but i can't imagine the joint thing getting worse and i do not want to believe!

Get checked out for fibroids, maybe? That's definitely part of the problem with me - my doc says they exacerbate any discomfort, particularly as we age.

Hmm, sometimes I get joint/body aches, haven't noticed if it was PMS related. I am always hungry, farty, sweaty, and sore-boobed.

My period lasts 7/8 days but I feel like the cramps haven't gotten worse over the years.

My period has become increasingly terrible over the past year, to the point where I now go through 36 super plus tampons in less than 2 days, I have to miss work, I get horrible fatigue. Get this checked out, ladies, because I found out I have Hashimoto's Thyroiditis, which was contributing to the heavy periods. Also, bonus: fibroids and polyps. I also have low estrogen and low progesterone. Basically, I am a wreck. I am strictly gluten-free, dairy free, and I feel a lot better and my period was a lot lighter this last cycle.

36 in 2 days! that sucks

wow, suzy and h2, you've convinced me to go to the doc. i've wondered if fibroids might be a factor.

I have 6 fibroids! I am trying to decide on names for them.