i have been wearing these cropped denim pants bc they are the closest thing to shorts that I am willing to wear
except they are leopard print denim & I am p sure they are ugly to everyone but me. but they make me laugh & they are suuuuper comfy and fit nicely
― set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 20 August 2013 05:12 (ten years ago) link
dawwwww cute! they make fairly discreet leopard print these days fwiw. I went through a phase where I would wear these zebra-print stretch pants if I was getting to hate-y on myself, because it's impossible to wear something like that without smiling
― emilys., Tuesday, 20 August 2013 06:14 (ten years ago) link
it is 3am and I have descended into an Amazon recommendation loop of plus-sized gothwear
― clueless mom complaining about miley Cyrus (sarahell), Friday, 18 October 2013 09:55 (ten years ago) link
i am fuckng LIVID about the iNCREDIBLE 80'S VINTAGE CLOTHES I came across today at the thrift store that were all like 2 sizes too small
ARGHHHHHH
― homosexual II, Monday, 4 November 2013 20:36 (ten years ago) link
This isn't really the right place for this comment but I just applied for a lowly coordinating job with a verrrry high-end jewelry company that's kinda in the fashion world and I am so not fabulous enough to bust their chops if I ever get an interview! I need to channel u, homoII.
― Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Tuesday, 5 November 2013 17:54 (ten years ago) link
let me help plan interview outfit!!!!!
― homosexual II, Tuesday, 5 November 2013 20:50 (ten years ago) link
Don't worry, I probably won't even get an interview...but it's an interesting thought!
― Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Tuesday, 5 November 2013 21:37 (ten years ago) link
i think it's an A+ idea - start drawing up the charts, homo
― set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Wednesday, 6 November 2013 03:03 (ten years ago) link
ASOS curve got some money from me lately. Going to Vegas and need to look like an erotic thriller femme fatale.
http://images.asos-media.com/inv/media/4/1/4/2/3192414/black/image1xl.jpghttp://images.asos-media.com/inv/media/3/5/9/9/2869953/blue/image1xl.jpghttp://images.asos-media.com/inv/media/4/2/5/2/3022524/wine/image1xl.jpg
― homosexual II, Thursday, 7 November 2013 17:32 (ten years ago) link
zowee homo those are poppin
― set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 8 November 2013 02:33 (ten years ago) link
the burgundy skirt was too big, the blue dress too small :(
just ordered this!!!
http://s502fbdf2cf428.img.gostorego.com/809E82/cdn/media/s5/02/fb/df/2c/f4/28/catalog/product/cache/1/small_image/220x/9df78eab33525d08d6e5fb8d27136e95/3/e/3e1f5154.jpg
― homosexual II, Tuesday, 3 December 2013 17:19 (ten years ago) link
Yeeeeeah!
Do we have a regular style icons thread? This blogger is not technically plus-sized (I don't think?), it's more that she has a real body that's familiar to me: short, thigh-y, not long-legged, and yet still wears ALL THE PANTS and all the amazing blazers too! (Goddamn I know exactly how it feels when legs and sleeves are always too long, I tried on so many jackets last week and they all made me look like I was wearing my grandma's dressup.) Amazing style, beautiful human, new personal inspo.
http://styleenthusiast.tumblr.com/tagged/me
― Horreur! What are this disassociated lumps of (in orbit), Thursday, 2 January 2014 19:58 (ten years ago) link
http://25.media.tumblr.com/a80be57cc3951f1a9a0e11f368be4733/tumblr_mpwks3kEhp1qen0u2o1_1280.jpg
http://31.media.tumblr.com/833ba3329a69178e8ff25741211adb68/tumblr_mlsaw1OQor1qen0u2o1_500.jpg
― Horreur! What are this disassociated lumps of (in orbit), Thursday, 2 January 2014 20:02 (ten years ago) link
Goddamn I know exactly how it feels when legs and sleeves are always too long
yeah, I definitely have gone through that! Grandma's dress-up is a better feeling than thinking you suffer from some mild form of dwarfism
― sarahell, Thursday, 2 January 2014 20:55 (ten years ago) link
I like her look a lot! I bought my winter coat last year at a tall girls' shop and I now know the pain of looking like you're playing dress up :( It felt okay last year, a smudge too long but it's winter, I don't want a millimetre of skin uncovered - but this winter I've also lost weight so it's huge on me overall and I hate it. I bought I last year at my richest and chubbiest - it cost a good $200+ too! I roll my eyes at it a little every time I put it on. Sorry for the rant! Pray for warmer temps soon so I can wear the medium temp winter coat that looks cute on me.
― she started dancing to that (Finefinemusic), Thursday, 2 January 2014 21:07 (ten years ago) link
i bought a bomber jacket for cheeeeeap ... it fits really well and I think I like it? it leaves my bum and hips out for the world to see, I think I'm finally okay with that. i never used to even look at them because I always had my mum's voice in my head telling me my jackets should cover my big bum
― set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 2 January 2014 21:26 (ten years ago) link
anyway I like this styleenthusiast gal, her style is great!
― set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 2 January 2014 21:27 (ten years ago) link
Sheeeeeit, I was trying on PETITES and they were too tall/long in the body, it's ridic, the hip pockets were around my thighs.
― Horreur! What are this disassociated lumps of (in orbit), Thursday, 2 January 2014 21:50 (ten years ago) link
Anyway, veg, kudos on the bomber, I'm sure it's great!
― Horreur! What are this disassociated lumps of (in orbit), Thursday, 2 January 2014 21:53 (ten years ago) link
I do wonder exactly what kind of body type they use as a template sometimes...I try things on and I'm like, "who's arms are even LIKE this"
― set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 2 January 2014 21:55 (ten years ago) link
as far as pants are concerned, i wish there would be some manufacturer that makes women-shaped pants, but with the waist/length/inseam concept that mens' pants have
― sarahell, Thursday, 2 January 2014 22:16 (ten years ago) link
otm
― set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 2 January 2014 22:31 (ten years ago) link
i never used to even look at them because I always had my mum's voice in my head telling me my jackets should cover my big bum
did she actually say this to you? did she emphasize the word "big"? if so, that is sad.
― sarahell, Thursday, 2 January 2014 22:35 (ten years ago) link
oh yeah. she justified by saying she had one too, and that I had inherited hers. :D
― set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 2 January 2014 22:37 (ten years ago) link
i definitely inherited my mom's "ample posterior" -- but she never made me feel ashamed of being large in that area. If she was concerned about anything, it was boob exposure, because that could give boys "the wrong idea about what kind of girl you are," though if there was "a special boy, emphasizing that area is something you could do to make him like you more."
― sarahell, Thursday, 2 January 2014 22:41 (ten years ago) link
aw your mum had the right idea at least
― set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 2 January 2014 22:48 (ten years ago) link
That is so something a mom would say to a developing girl, a chorus of awwws.
― Horreur! What are this disassociated lumps of (in orbit), Thursday, 2 January 2014 22:55 (ten years ago) link
anyone checked out http://closet.gwynniebee.com/?
seems like a fantastic idea, but i had a hard time finding anything i really liked the look of, just not really my style. seems like the perfect thing for someone looking for an always-fresh business-casual wardrobe, for a decent price.
― just1n3, Friday, 3 January 2014 02:58 (ten years ago) link
(sizes 10-32)
― just1n3, Friday, 3 January 2014 03:00 (ten years ago) link
OH HEL LO. Some of it is a little too Chicos, but I would wear the hell out of a lot of the dresses if they came in P sizing.
― Horreur! What are this disassociated lumps of (in orbit), Friday, 3 January 2014 03:05 (ten years ago) link
why is it soooo hard to find trousers and pants that arent a total disaster for plus sizes? If anyone sees any, please post them here! I have these amazing flared aubergine bell bottoms from ASOS curve that I wish I could clone in several colors, but sadly that is not an option.
― homosexual II, Thursday, 30 January 2014 17:38 (ten years ago) link
I've embraced the stretch and the jean styling--at Christmas I bought a pair of black tapered pants made of a nicer material but that are cut like high-waisted jeans. The fit of women's suit pants is utterly impossible for me.
― Orson Wellies (in orbit), Thursday, 30 January 2014 17:42 (ten years ago) link
why do all the skinny jeans ride so ridiculously low on the butt? Am I just trying on the wrong ones?
― ^ enlightening post (sarahell), Thursday, 30 January 2014 20:57 (ten years ago) link
Xp link?
― just1n3, Thursday, 30 January 2014 22:35 (ten years ago) link
xpost levi 512 has a plus size skinny style that come up nice and high over yr butt, I highly recommend them.
― set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 31 January 2014 03:07 (ten years ago) link
i need a nice HIGH RISE pant
I have like 300 dresses, and TWO pairs of pants.
― homosexual II, Friday, 31 January 2014 21:56 (ten years ago) link
Oh hey I didn't know about this Fatshion February thing
http://fatshionfebruary.tumblr.com/ and elsewhere
― not a player-hater i just hate a lot (a passing spacecadet), Saturday, 8 February 2014 21:56 (ten years ago) link
the dog dress is amazing
― sarahell, Saturday, 8 February 2014 22:00 (ten years ago) link
I NEED THIS 80'S DREAM
http://dd8k9yeu3dwuz.cloudfront.net/cdn/817419/media/catalog/product/cache/1/image/450x604/0dc2d03fe217f8c83829496872af24a0/k/r/kristin-red.jpg
― homosexual II, Friday, 11 July 2014 16:55 (nine years ago) link
WOW
Awesome color!
― mom tossed in kimchee (quincie), Friday, 11 July 2014 17:08 (nine years ago) link
hello laaaadies
i've never bought anything from Asos Curve before: dresswise, is their sizing fairly generous or would it be safer to order a size bigger?
― SEEMS TO ME (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 30 August 2014 01:17 (nine years ago) link
fuckit
i just bought my first ever jumpsuitpray for zero cameltoe
http://images.asos-media.com/inv/media/7/6/7/9/4309767/black/image1xxl.jpg
― SEEMS TO ME (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 30 August 2014 02:37 (nine years ago) link
The dress I bought from them was generously sized and wonderful - fit and flare. I want to try some of their jeans.
― Jaq, Saturday, 30 August 2014 04:26 (nine years ago) link
good to hear!
― SEEMS TO ME (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 30 August 2014 04:26 (nine years ago) link
From the looks of how that is constructed, it looks like you can easily avoid the camel toe unless you are quite high-waisted/super long in the torso.
Since I started doing a little (VERY little) sewing, I'm totally into seeing how garments are put together.
I have not considered a jumpsuit for myself because of the difficulty-in-peeing thing.
― mom tossed in kimchee (quincie), Saturday, 30 August 2014 20:52 (nine years ago) link
that had not crossed my mind til now.... hmm
well I guess we'll see when it arrives
― SEEMS TO ME (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 30 August 2014 23:50 (nine years ago) link
and re the cameltoe fear, there was a 'catwalk video' for it and it did appear to have quite a long crotch area, looked almost like a dropped crotch on that model so I'm hoping that will accomodate some of my supergut :)
― SEEMS TO ME (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 30 August 2014 23:51 (nine years ago) link
jumpsuit arrived - omg so comfortable. i love it!!
― difficult-difficult lemon-difficult (VegemiteGrrl), Wednesday, 10 September 2014 01:19 (nine years ago) link
Have you developed your peeing strategy?
― mom tossed in kimchee (quincie), Wednesday, 10 September 2014 12:27 (nine years ago) link
xp Yaaaaaaaaay! <3 <3 <3 You can accessorize with ALL THE ACCESSORIES.
― Orson Wellies (in orbit), Wednesday, 10 September 2014 12:41 (nine years ago) link
Yes!!! That is what is so exciting about it to me. :)
― Benson and the Jets (ENBB), Tuesday, 31 March 2015 13:48 (nine years ago) link
I am semi-addicted to thredUP?
One of the problems is that they will categorize as "plus size" anything that is labeled "XL" ... and it seems like, more and more, that designers are moving from numbered sizes to S/M/L, etc. so XL is becoming the equivalent to a size 10 or 12? So there's this weird mix of more "old style" designers where a 3XL is very large, like 50+" waist, and others where a 3XL is a size 16. This isn't just a thredUP problem, it's a problem for all sites with a size filter option that carry clothing by multiple designers.
― sansa riff (sarahell), Tuesday, 5 September 2017 01:42 (six years ago) link
thoughts on garments that tie at the waist or have large bows in the waist area?
― sarahell, Monday, 22 October 2018 17:15 (five years ago) link
personally I avoid bcz I hate adorning or signposting or otherwise drawing attention to my nonexistent waist. and I’m not a huge bow fan.
― Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Monday, 22 October 2018 17:28 (five years ago) link
same! my biggest "concern" is that someone would see me in said outfit, and think, "oh how sweet, she has a bow around her waist because she's so proud of her babby to be and wants everyone to notice that she is pregnant"
― sarahell, Monday, 22 October 2018 17:29 (five years ago) link
exactly
― Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Monday, 22 October 2018 17:54 (five years ago) link
90% of my wardrobe ties at the waist.It suits me b/c I am hourglassy, also solves many fit problems that come with being over 5’10”
― mom tossed in kimchee (quincie), Monday, 22 October 2018 21:55 (five years ago) link
But my bows are more tie than bow, or I swap for a wide cinch belt. A big boofy bow is not something I would necessarily go for. Though I did get married in a wrap dress with a bow.
― mom tossed in kimchee (quincie), Monday, 22 October 2018 21:58 (five years ago) link
yeah -- the waist tie thing is good for hourglassy, or at least pear shaped figures. Like, now I look at various designs of plus size clothing, and see that many of them would be flattering to other figure types, but not mine.
Like I'm seeing a lot of dresses with color-blocking that have dark colors on the sides, and white or brighter colors in the middle, and I think, I would want the exact opposite, but I don't have that much in the way of hips
― sarahell, Tuesday, 23 October 2018 15:41 (five years ago) link
New jeans who dis :D Got two pairs of Torrid “bombshell skinny” jeans (these names i swear) and they fit SO goodThick material, high waist with wide elastic band and noooooo gaping in back I snapped and threw away my shitty Target ‘Ava & Viv’ skinny jeans last night. They were awful, i dont know why i tried to wear them for as long as I did. high in front/low in back lightweight denim, fall down constantly. a nightmare. they never stayed up on my “undulating waterslide” shaped body lol
― Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 9 March 2019 21:50 (five years ago) link
torrid bombshell skinny jeans are the best!!!!
― sarahell, Sunday, 10 March 2019 01:03 (five years ago) link
I like the Pixie cut from Old Navy, and they had them in a lobster print. I love them so much.
I saw a bunch of friend this week when I was wearing them and they said nothing, so I hate them all now.
― tokyo rosemary, Sunday, 10 March 2019 01:43 (five years ago) link
lol otm
― Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Sunday, 10 March 2019 01:48 (five years ago) link
torrid gave me a $25 off jeans coupon for future use & i am pretty sure i’m going back for another pair
― Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Sunday, 10 March 2019 01:50 (five years ago) link
they often have great sales online -- like the nearest store to me is in the suburbs -- i think it's the Sun valley Mall in Concord?
― sarahell, Sunday, 10 March 2019 03:01 (five years ago) link
good to know!
― Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Sunday, 10 March 2019 03:42 (five years ago) link