The best of Marc Loi : Facebook Feminist

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⚓ (elmo argonaut), Friday, 9 August 2013 21:39 (six years ago) link

'remember "off brand"' is hilarious

1 P.3. Eternal (roxymuzak), Tuesday, 13 August 2013 03:12 (six years ago) link

he's back

Matt Armstrong, Tuesday, 13 August 2013 03:45 (six years ago) link

Very medicated but breaking silence (deal) because I'm sick of the attacks on my editors and colleagues today. Why blame them for me?
It's ridonkulous that editors should have been able to guess at my nature and intent. I'm borderline sociopathic with talent for duplicity.
Good editors got played. That has nothing to do with whiteness.
The people who published me believed in my work. They weren't motivated by bigotry. They were simply doing good journalism.
You have a block button fuckin' use it. I'm just sick of how this has turned into a bizarre teachable moment on race.
I'm sure I'll regret this in the morning. The drugs haven't hit yet. I pumped in an extra 10 mg of Klonopin so I should be done soon.
Stop punishing websites for trusting manipulative jerks.
Sarah honey you have to change the email account too otherwise I can reset the password.
This whole #solidarityisforwhitewomen thing is an abusive cudgel to be used against a lot of people who are really working at inclusivity.
I'm not at home in Carmel or LA and I'm not suicidal so chillax and don't bother the police again.
I know many of my former friends feel deeply betrayed. I am sorry. The dishonesty/manipulativeness is in my nature, embedded.
Another 300 mg Seroquel and I'll be safely asleep soon, promise. But I need to make my point first.
The point is that I'm sui generis. I'm not symptomatic of a problem in feminism, I'm a reminder of what manipulative mentally ill can do.
If you don't think a black man can also get away with amazeball shite, google Jsyson Blair.
Fuck I mean Jayson Blair.

christmas candy bar (al leong), Tuesday, 13 August 2013 03:53 (six years ago) link

Okay, I'm about to be done. I am a very sick person. I'm high as a fucking lite and getting sleepier. But again, don't blame editors.

christmas candy bar (al leong), Tuesday, 13 August 2013 03:54 (six years ago) link

for believing in me. A mistake in judgment is not a call for a summit on race relations.

christmas candy bar (al leong), Tuesday, 13 August 2013 03:55 (six years ago) link

I'm not the victim. I'm a perpetrator who happens, not incidentally, to be mentally ill. Out.

christmas candy bar (al leong), Tuesday, 13 August 2013 03:57 (six years ago) link

dude just destroyed any sympathy i had for his diagnosis

⚓ (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 13 August 2013 15:07 (six years ago) link

yep. he's just doing more of the same shit.

1 P.3. Eternal (roxymuzak), Tuesday, 13 August 2013 16:55 (six years ago) link


kinder, Tuesday, 13 August 2013 17:03 (six years ago) link

This whole #solidarityisforwhitewomen thing is an abusive cudgel to be used against a lot of people who are really working at inclusivity.

i'm sorta amazed that this tag blew up, i follow the woman that started it and watched the first few come up and thought 'huh'--didn't think it would hit critical mass the way it did.

BIG HOOS aka the denigrated boogeyman (BIG HOOS aka the steendriver), Tuesday, 13 August 2013 17:06 (six years ago) link

lotta incisive shit in there

BIG HOOS aka the denigrated boogeyman (BIG HOOS aka the steendriver), Tuesday, 13 August 2013 17:06 (six years ago) link

three months pass...

乒乓, Saturday, 23 November 2013 02:01 (six years ago) link

wtg kev dogg

mh, Saturday, 23 November 2013 06:17 (six years ago) link

me irl

twist boat veterans for stability (k3vin k.), Saturday, 23 November 2013 06:43 (six years ago) link

six months pass...

Mordy, Sunday, 1 June 2014 17:11 (five years ago) link


one month passes...

The best example of this was the reactionary #notallmen, a reaction to the globally trended #yesallwomen. The hashtag defended the last shreds of male honor, rather than forcing men to hold themselves accountable for the ways they reinforce a flawed system.

Wasn't #notallmen pretty much the exact opposite of that?

jmm, Friday, 25 July 2014 00:26 (five years ago) link

I'm not super au fait with the world of sappy acoustic youtube dudes (as referenced in that piece) but it seems like a largely distinct category from 'male feminism' per se?

for sale: Bebe's boots, never worn (DJ Mencap), Friday, 25 July 2014 07:35 (five years ago) link

one year passes...

balls, Monday, 17 August 2015 22:21 (four years ago) link

two years pass...

can i just

Sure I will catch shit for this. I am all for calling men out on their patriarchy, oppressive behavior, discounting, ignorance,misogyny, and sexism. However, the term mansplaining is degrading, dehumanizing, and discounts the voice of another based on gender.

— Rich Furman (@WriteNThrive) November 19, 2017

faked potato (Noodle Vague), Monday, 20 November 2017 17:24 (two years ago) link

twitter is full of marc lois

-_- (jim in vancouver), Monday, 20 November 2017 17:26 (two years ago) link

the best bit is about three tweets after that but i had no idea how to post the whole exchange.

faked potato (Noodle Vague), Monday, 20 November 2017 17:27 (two years ago) link

nine months pass...

massive respect my man

— andy s (@CIAGoFundMe) August 26, 2018

still wackford after all these squeers (DJ Mencap), Tuesday, 28 August 2018 15:38 (one year ago) link

one year passes...

Non stop chantar (crüt), Saturday, 7 September 2019 04:58 (five months ago) link

irl giggle

now let's play big lunch take little lunch (sic), Saturday, 7 September 2019 05:15 (five months ago) link

i found marc loi's linkedin (i will not link in), possibly, though it has different years for his college times. I am currently a speechwriter for a 3-star U.S. Navy Command in Washington, D.C. he's all grown up now.

forensic plumber (harbl), Saturday, 7 September 2019 17:37 (five months ago) link

was reminded of this dude last week when I was looking at questions I'd answered on a dating site some years ago
"are you a feminist?"
(yes is checked)

I'd made a note about not going around mentioning it all the time because of how insufferable guys who do are

must have encountered some loi content around the time I wrote it


untuned mass damper (mh), Monday, 9 September 2019 21:05 (five months ago) link

yeah i never really felt comfortable outright calling myself a feminist on a dating profile. but given how important it seems to be for women to mention it in their profiles, maybe they do want to see it? i have no idea. i settled on just putting "ally" in a list of other "things i am"

i had a good laff one with a woman i met on a site who showed me an unsolicited dick pic from a d00d who mentioned bell hooks no less than 3 times on his profile

diamonddave85​​ (diamonddave85), Monday, 9 September 2019 21:58 (five months ago) link

did his bell hook?

Fuck the NRA (ulysses), Monday, 9 September 2019 22:24 (five months ago) link

To the left

FUCK YOUR POTATO (Neanderthal), Monday, 9 September 2019 22:34 (five months ago) link

as a matter of fact..

diamonddave85​​ (diamonddave85), Monday, 9 September 2019 22:39 (five months ago) link

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