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This thread has made me feel immensely better about borrowing $18,500 for school next year.

Mandee, Wednesday, 30 April 2003 21:50 (twenty years ago) link

yeah, my loans just came off deferment and i have no idea how i'm going to pay even the $75 first payment.

jess (dubplatestyle), Wednesday, 30 April 2003 21:53 (twenty years ago) link

My student loan has gone AWOL, does anyone know how these things work? Don't they send them directly to the school? I'm so confused. Mandee how did you borrow so much money?

Ally (mlescaut), Wednesday, 30 April 2003 22:07 (twenty years ago) link

ally i have learned that in these instances it is best not to ask.

jess (dubplatestyle), Wednesday, 30 April 2003 22:08 (twenty years ago) link

But I can't afford otherwise :(

Ally (mlescaut), Wednesday, 30 April 2003 22:09 (twenty years ago) link

oh wait you're still IN school! okay, never mind scratch that.

jess (dubplatestyle), Wednesday, 30 April 2003 22:09 (twenty years ago) link

Yeah, that's the problem. If my student loan from the first time I went to school that I've got a deferrment on suddenly went AWOL, I wouldn't exactly be crying myself to sleep tonight.

Ally (mlescaut), Wednesday, 30 April 2003 22:12 (twenty years ago) link

my other loans (i have many apparently) have gone awol and i'm occasionally afflicted with a twinge of worry that they're going to come in the middle of the night and take me away for non-payment but then i wake up.

jess (dubplatestyle), Wednesday, 30 April 2003 22:17 (twenty years ago) link

I'm going to graduate school, Ally--if you're going to a graduate program you can borrow up to $18,500 a year.

Mandee, Thursday, 1 May 2003 18:29 (twenty years ago) link

Ohh. :(

Ally (mlescaut), Thursday, 1 May 2003 18:43 (twenty years ago) link

I will be borrowing almost as much as Mandee over the next couple years, thus pretty much doubling my total debt. I'm starting to kick myself for deciding on the one school in my field whose biggest "you should be so honored" fellowship only covers half of tuition -- half of their competitors will give you that much just as a stipend.

nabisco (nabisco), Thursday, 1 May 2003 18:51 (twenty years ago) link

me = scholarships + 4 yrs undergrad = no debt
b/f = fewer scholarships + 6 yrs undergrad + 2 yrs grad + 3 yrs law school = HOLY SHIT DO I WANT TO MARRY THIS MUCH DEBT?

Well, yes, but it's still got me a bit worried, esp. since I know he's just not good with the figures. Thank goodness he'll have a good job waiting for him.

teeny (teeny), Thursday, 1 May 2003 18:53 (twenty years ago) link

Total student loan debt as an undergrad: $1500 (only $300 at Hampshire because my father is a tax rebel, and I was not old enough to be considered independently).

Total student loan debt as a grad student, thus far: $45K.

That'll keep going up even if I get the funding I'm hoping for at the school I want; few assistantships pay a living wage.

This is all justified by my hopes of a bestseller :)

Tep (ktepi), Thursday, 1 May 2003 18:56 (twenty years ago) link

I have $67K student loan debt.
I just bought a house, and have a $124K mortgage.
I have $18K credit card debt.

Debt sux.

J (Jay), Thursday, 1 May 2003 19:25 (twenty years ago) link

This seems like an appropriate thread to ask this question.

Current school = $22,000 tuition and board - $15,000 scholarships - $2,000 out of pocket paid by parents = $5,000 in debt per school year.
I've been in that school for two years, have $10k of debt under my belt.

School I want to transfer to = $30,000 tuition and board, don't know how much financial aid I'm going to receive from them.

So I have $20k if I stay at the one school, and the possibility of $70k in debt if I transfer. But I very much prefer the other school to the one I'm at right now. Am I stupid to entertain the possibility of taking on this much student debt, or does it not particularly matter compared to the prospect of staying on at a school I don't like? Input is much appreciated.

justin s., Thursday, 1 May 2003 19:50 (twenty years ago) link

That's why you have to go to grad school in the sciences. That way they'll pay you to go to school and get your masters, ph.d.

Justin S. I don't think it matters very much at all where you go to school undergrad, unless you are going for a very specific reason. But if it's just general liberal arts, I would say suck it up and finish it out with less debt. I just have this fear of ever being in debt and do everything possible to keep from ever owing anyone money and so far its worked.

Carey (Carey), Thursday, 1 May 2003 19:52 (twenty years ago) link

Am I the only one here that thinks paying $30,000 a year for tuition and board seems ABSURD?!

Mandee, Thursday, 1 May 2003 20:25 (twenty years ago) link

Four years of absurdity down, two to go...

nabisco (nabisco), Thursday, 1 May 2003 20:53 (twenty years ago) link

yeah-a bit absurd. too bad i didnt think of this when i was 17.

kephm, Thursday, 1 May 2003 20:54 (twenty years ago) link

Yeah, it's pretty fucking ridiculous, Mandee... however, the school in question is located smack dab in Greenwich Village (Eugene Lang College, if anyone wants to know) and housing can go anywhere from $7,000 and $9,000 depending on where your apartment is, because it's Manhattan. So comparatively it's not a bad deal. NYU is somewhere in the $40k range, if I'm not mistaken, and Columbia might even be in the $50k range.

justin s., Friday, 2 May 2003 04:27 (twenty years ago) link

Carey, sound advice, thank you. To be honest it's a tough decision. Lang is much stronger in the social sciences and writing than the current school I'm going to, and the overall atmosphere is better. But seventy thousand dollars is a lot of money. Ugh. It's even scarier when I type it out like that.

My ambition in life right now is to be a professor in the liberal arts, so I had better get used to financial strife :/

justin s., Friday, 2 May 2003 04:29 (twenty years ago) link

My ambition in life right now is to be a professor in the liberal arts, so I had better get used to financial strife :/

Yeah, but look at it that way: it's not like most profs came from rich families. The professors I've talked to have, most of them, taken out tons in loans, and it's not like they're making much -- but they get it paid.

Tep (ktepi), Friday, 2 May 2003 04:31 (twenty years ago) link

haha this thread should be called "show us your debt!"

Dan I., Friday, 2 May 2003 04:38 (twenty years ago) link

some of the student loans/debt the americans have here are absolutely shocking, i didnt know it cost quite so much over there. i am literally reeling. is this usual, and how the hell does it ever end? are salaries higher over there than in the UK?

gareth (gareth), Friday, 2 May 2003 09:10 (twenty years ago) link

i wd not have been able to be a professional writer if student debt had been the system when i wz medium-sized

mark s (mark s), Friday, 2 May 2003 09:57 (twenty years ago) link

My wifes loans from her Masters program total around $70000. A masters in social work, she's going to be paying these things for 85 years.

Chris V. (Chris V), Friday, 2 May 2003 10:50 (twenty years ago) link

To my knowledge, average salaries are a little bit higher over here, Gareth. Moreover, I believe the cost of living over here is generally cheaper, unless you're living in San Francisco, L.A., or NYC. I do have a law school friend who managed, via a combination of (very) high salary and frugal living, to wipe out $60,000.00 of student loan debt in four years.

Barring that type of spartan existence, the easiest way of making the debt end is to die, since student loans are dischargable on death. Generally, student loans are not dischargable in bankruptcy, although I am aware of one case where they were discharged because the debtor was mentally ill. A few years ago, there was a big problem with people defaulting on their loans -- specifically, doctors and lawyers. I believe this trend has subsided, but I'm not sure about that.

Because student loan debt has become so outrageous in recent years, it's very easy to get loan forebearances now, at least from the William D. Ford program. Plus, as has already been stated, the interest is tax-deductible - my payment is about $380/month, $300 of which is interest. That's primarly due to the graduated repayment plan I'm on, but it's not entirely unusual either.

I'm just planning on paying the off debt forever, and I consider it a cost of doing business. It's not so bad. And someday, I may get lucky and be able to wipe a bunch of it out.

J (Jay), Friday, 2 May 2003 12:07 (twenty years ago) link

Columbia is within the $50k range for full-time students, yes. That's undergraduate. I have no idea what graduate costs, though I imagine it's more since you can get SO FUCKING MUCH MORE LOAN if you are in graduate.

Ally (mlescaut), Friday, 2 May 2003 12:41 (twenty years ago) link

Tuition is generally the same for graduate and undergraduate students (or within a few percentage points); you get higher loans as a graduate student because it's traditionally expected that one's parents pay for undergraduate education, and undergraduate education only.

Tep (ktepi), Friday, 2 May 2003 15:14 (twenty years ago) link

Columbia grad is actually around $30,000 (for just tuition), at least for the School of the Arts. And, as mentioned, they are comparatively STINGY-ASS BASTARDS about it -- their grants and fellowships are about a third the size of those at comparable schools. Jerks.

Nobody should feel bad for law school students and their massive loans; they make plenty of money from the get-go, and the top tier of firms will pay off the loans entirely after a few years. (If they're public defenders or something, then yes, please feel sorry for them.)

My personal consolation is that the typical first-novel advance is, at present, way way bigger than my total debt could possibly end up. These advances are ridiculous and sinking the publishing industry, but I hope they keep handing them out for at least three or four more years.

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 2 May 2003 15:42 (twenty years ago) link

These advances are ridiculous and sinking the publishing industry, but I hope they keep handing them out for at least three or four more years.

If you can get away with it, lie about your age (no matter what it is). Young Authors are all the rage now :)

Tep (ktepi), Friday, 2 May 2003 15:46 (twenty years ago) link

Gareth, it really depends on what schools you attend. I assuming that the ilxers here who have loads of debt from undergrad attended out-of-state or private schools. I went to a very cheap in-state school; my undergraduate degree cost about $5,000 which meant I didn't need to get any loans. But then again, it was at a mickey mouse university. U of Mickey.

Mandee, Friday, 2 May 2003 16:13 (twenty years ago) link

you get higher loans as a graduate student because it's traditionally expected that one's parents pay for undergraduate education

...which, in this day and age, is a completely bullshit statement. Obviously my ire is not directed at you, because you're right, that IS their excuse. You can get any fucking aid at all if you are under 25, unless you are in graduate school, because they think your parents should pay for you. My parents have no money whatsoever and I ran away from home--yeah, they're really gonna pony up the $15-20k, especially with ALL THREE OF MY SISTERS being in school too.

There's just no way around it. I had a long chat with the girl at the financial aid office, and basically she told me, yeah, you should be independent even under their own rules (extraordinary situations include run aways, regardless of whether or not I speak to my parents now), but I'd have to involve psychologists and social workers and the police reports from my past to get this done! I'm like, this just isn't worth it, I got a year and then I'll be declared age-independent...

It's just bullshit. As I've said many times previously: surely I am not the only person under 25 in the entirety of the United States who does not live off mommy and daddy. I know quite a lot of people in my age range who entirely support themselves! It's a system that seems hellbent on keeping the less-wealthy classes (ie those whose parents can't afford to pony up educational costs) down and the borgeouise up, and it seems totally counterintuitive to our much vaunted "American Dream" crap.

< /end annoyance>

Ally (mlescaut), Friday, 2 May 2003 16:32 (twenty years ago) link

I am waiting for someone to run the numbers and find out if going straight to work/apprentencing in a trade at 18 instead of borrowing massive amounts of money and going to go to college will result in more money in the long run. I would suspect it might, especially w/ some of the more useless degrees. The earlier you start compounding your interest, the better.

fletrejet, Friday, 2 May 2003 16:35 (twenty years ago) link

I mean, basically, because I refuse to humiliate myself in front of like 30 people at some kind of tribunal, I am going to go into worse debt that I'm already in. Meanwhile, the frat boy I was dating changes in and out of classes and schools like they are underwear, but his parents pony up money and he has no job so he is MORE eligible for financial aid than I am.

fletrejet, I did the straight into work thing and am smashing my head badly against a glass ceiling. This could just be my company but I don't think it is. In this economy, they look for excuses not to hire people or to let them go...*sigh*

Ally (mlescaut), Friday, 2 May 2003 16:36 (twenty years ago) link

...which, in this day and age, is a completely bullshit statement. Obviously my ire is not directed at you, because you're right, that IS their excuse. You can get any fucking aid at all if you are under 25, unless you are in graduate school, because they think your parents should pay for you.

Preaching to the choir, believe me. As an undergrad, they took my father's income into account; he's a millionaire who, per the divorce agreement, has no financial responsibility for me, who set up a (small, gone the first year of Hampshire) trust fund in lieu of such, and who stopped filing taxes in the 80s, and from whom I haven't seen a dime since he stopped paying my allowance when I was 13. My mother is a civil servant who was making under $20K at the time -- two-thirds of Hampshire's tuition. I got no aid except a $300 loan.

Tep (ktepi), Friday, 2 May 2003 16:38 (twenty years ago) link

I am waiting for someone to run the numbers and find out if going straight to work/apprentencing in a trade at 18 instead of borrowing massive amounts of money and going to go to college will result in more money in the long run.

Over a lifetime, it results in $1 million less in income -- Time quotes that every year when they do their "go to these schools" article. Very few people don't end up making up for their loans, and then some.

Tep (ktepi), Friday, 2 May 2003 16:40 (twenty years ago) link

That's unfuckingbelievable. If the father has no financial responsibility for you PER THE LEGAL DOCUMENTS, couldn't you have contested it? I thought if it was legally agreed that one parent had no responsibility for you, you only include the parent that has responsibility.

It's still bullshit anyway, this responsibility/non-responsibility. Say some deadbeat dad is legally required to pay, but doesn't. WHAT is the kid supposed to do to get the money out of the guy? It should just be the parent who lives with you. WHICH IS ALL IRRELEVANT BECAUSE 18 YEAR OLDS SHOULD NOT BE LIVING OFF THEIR PARENTS ANYWAY. I mean you can go to war, vote for president, and buy cigs, per the government, but you are still considered a child to the same government if you need help from them.

Ugh, it's disgusting.

Ally (mlescaut), Friday, 2 May 2003 16:43 (twenty years ago) link

If the father has no financial responsibility for you PER THE LEGAL DOCUMENTS, couldn't you have contested it? I thought if it was legally agreed that one parent had no responsibility for you, you only include the parent that has responsibility.

Yeah, for federal aid, it is. For Hampshire, not so much. That's how they hang on to their money: they exclude whoever they can, give tiny amounts to most, and then pile on full scholarships to a small number, so they can talk about those kids during the open houses. That's why I got the $300 loan -- it was federal. The following year, and until I turned 23 or whatever it is, I didn't even get federal because of my father's lack-of-filing-taxes (they required that even though they didn't take his income into account; somehow they just didn't notice, the first year, that they didn't have his info.)

The main reason I kick myself about Hampshire is, shit, I blew my trust fund in a year. Granted, it wasn't very big, it's not like I'd be rich, but it would have been nice to have.

Tep (ktepi), Friday, 2 May 2003 16:48 (twenty years ago) link

But they give scholarships to people like my friends who sat around smoking weed and watching Spice World. Nice.

Ally (mlescaut), Friday, 2 May 2003 16:55 (twenty years ago) link

My across-the-hall hallmate was one of those full-scholarship students. She "majored" in yoga, which meant she took one yoga class and, well, nothing else. She and her friends filled the hall lounge with cookie sheets of Jello shots which stayed there for months, and then they sold the lounge furniture for drug money and one of them broke a wall we were all going to be charged for until I threatened to kick his ass.

So yeah, it was a ... great school :)

Tep (ktepi), Friday, 2 May 2003 16:58 (twenty years ago) link

Every full scholarship student I knew at Hampshire was someone whose parents could well afford to pay, and would instead use the college money to just give to the kid, who'd use it on acid, x and pot. And not attend classes, ever.

Ah yes, the special breeding of the spoilt fuckwad.

Ally (mlescaut), Friday, 2 May 2003 17:10 (twenty years ago) link

Wait, Ally, I don't understand: if your parents didn't have money anyway, why would considering their income in your financial aid applications mean you wound up with less money? (Or do you mean they were drawing healthy incomes, but just didn't have money to direct your way even if they'd wanted to?)

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 2 May 2003 17:10 (twenty years ago) link

Ah yes, the special breeding of the spoilt fuckwad.

To over-recycle an over-recycled phrase, Hampshire is spoiled on Hampshire students. But it's really so very very true.

(Ally and I cannot talk very long without bringing up either Hampshire or urinals, I think.)

Tep (ktepi), Friday, 2 May 2003 17:12 (twenty years ago) link

I mean, I'm generally on-board with the independence issue, as I've known plenty of people who were screwed over by their parents not being willing or able to pay their "expected parental contribution." That said, I do see the point of the regulation: it's what stops parents with plenty of money from saying "oh hahaha actually I'm mean and won't pay, why don't you give my kid grants instead (psst, son, here's a trust fund)."

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 2 May 2003 17:16 (twenty years ago) link

>Over a lifetime, it results in $1 million less in income -- Time quotes that every year when they do their "go to these schools" article. Very few people
>don't end up making up for their loans, and then some.

Time assumes you will make more money from your degree - not a guarantee with many degrees. And school costs you money at the very begining (time value of money), when you should be saving and investing it. Of course this assumes that a 18 year old will actually be doing this, which is actually a silly thing to assume.

But the real problem is that the educational system is fundamentally fucked up. What is now "college"-level education should start in high school (and therefore be paid for by the gov). I got my bachelors in three years by taking advanced placement classes in high school for college credit.

fletrejet, Friday, 2 May 2003 17:16 (twenty years ago) link

(Also, surely plenty of scholarship money for a school like Hampshire is merit-based and not need-based, no?)

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 2 May 2003 17:18 (twenty years ago) link

Time assumes you will make more money from your degree - not a guarantee with many degrees. And school costs you money at the very begining (time value of money), when you should be saving and investing it. Of course this assumes that a 18 year old will actually be doing this, which is actually a silly thing to assume.

I don't think it assumes that, per se, it's just based on statistics: people with college degrees, on average, make more money. On average, if all you have is an undergraduate degree (and so automatically doctors and lawyers are out of this), you make the same amount of money regardless of what that degree is in (of course, that should practically go without saying; if you're really going to pursue high-paying work in the field of your degree, you're probably going to go to graduate school.)

And nabisco -- Hampshire's scholarship money is, if not entirely need-based, need-based enough that I'm not aware of anyone who received merit-based scholarships from them, beyond the few little things like "this money is earmarked for students of American-Asian descent pursuing a career in sociology," and the usual very-specific funds like that which are set up by alumni.

Tep (ktepi), Friday, 2 May 2003 17:24 (twenty years ago) link

I had more to say about the Time thing -- I do think their quote is misleading for various reasons but that the general point of "if you use your degree to your advantage, you can get your loans paid off and then some" holds -- but I've gotta go out and fix this school crap.

Tep (ktepi), Friday, 2 May 2003 17:30 (twenty years ago) link

(And the heavens will shake at my wrath, &c.)

Tep (ktepi), Friday, 2 May 2003 17:31 (twenty years ago) link

student loan relief decision from SCOTUS due this month:

https://www.forbes.com/sites/adamminsky/2023/05/17/huge-student-loan-forgiveness-decision-is-only-weeks-away---key-details

budo jeru, Wednesday, 7 June 2023 14:27 (ten months ago) link

really got to stop referring to it as 'forgiveness'

nashwan, Wednesday, 7 June 2023 14:41 (ten months ago) link

three weeks pass...

fuck my life

Mr. Snrub, Friday, 30 June 2023 15:25 (nine months ago) link

ja

budo jeru, Friday, 30 June 2023 16:02 (nine months ago) link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MmMnISN3e3E

budo jeru, Friday, 30 June 2023 21:41 (nine months ago) link

from the us politics thread:

https://prospect.org/education/2023-07-05-biden-administration-begins-student-debt-relief-plan-b/

budo jeru, Wednesday, 5 July 2023 21:04 (nine months ago) link


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