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This obsession with finding a formula for happiness seems to be ever more pervasive in pop culture and on the net (e.g. lifehack.org and others). But what about the fundamental and generally accepted-as-true idea that a sure fire way to make yourself miserable is striving to be happy?

The key to all this stuff - see also the wisdom of facebook image macros - is that it's all about your own happiness as the ultimate goal. Following god's rules/improving society/living according to your true nature/being thoroughly and fiercely 'alive'/and etc are all deleted, leaving only this idea of 'being happy'.

The reason why no-one's found out a way to be happy despite all this fevered activity is that 'happiness' in itself doesn't exist, or rather, all notions of happiness that have heretofore existed defined your personal happiness as something you got as a by-product of following some specific system which had some specific aim – other than happiness – as its end goal.

So no-one has ever been 'happy' purely; people have only been happy because they were a Christian and thought things were going well from a Christian point of view; or a Liberal and thought things were going well from a Liberal point of view; or otherwise subscribed to X system and thought, by the terms of that system, that the world and they themselves were more good than bad.

The quest for pure happiness is a bit like the quest for 'morality', etc; without definition you cannot get it.

cardamon, Tuesday, 30 July 2013 23:47 (ten years ago) link

the quest for happiness is like the war on terror

Mordy , Tuesday, 30 July 2013 23:51 (ten years ago) link

necessary and almost finished!!!

socki (s1ocki), Wednesday, 31 July 2013 05:05 (ten years ago) link

three weeks pass...

The Workshop will be conducted by Success Resources Lead Trainer

http://www.7forces.co.uk/london1

Neil S, Wednesday, 21 August 2013 15:38 (ten years ago) link

ABOUT ANTHONY ROBBINS

Anthony Robbins has served as a consultant to some of the most accomplished organisations and business leaders in the world. He has coached and counselled Fortune 500 CEOs, MPs and a former United States President. His clients have paid him more than one million dollars a year for his personal and professional coaching services.

http://blog.mainstreethost.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/Dr.-Evil-One-Million-Dollars.png

Neil S, Wednesday, 21 August 2013 15:39 (ten years ago) link

lol what a childlike way to say that

socki (s1ocki), Wednesday, 21 August 2013 15:52 (ten years ago) link

"he got PAID a lot of MONEY"

socki (s1ocki), Wednesday, 21 August 2013 15:52 (ten years ago) link

one unifying feature of these life coach types' websites is that all their copy seems to have been written by children or robots, or perhaps robotic children.

Neil S, Wednesday, 21 August 2013 15:55 (ten years ago) link

I believe in vision boards ever since a month ago, because me and my sister wanted a really EPIC NIGHT at the goth club - like we wanted these specific club characters to be there, and for them to play certain songs, and we jokingly made a goth vision board and IT ALL CAME TRUE and I made out with a guy with an eyebrow ring. Bonus.

homosexual II, Wednesday, 21 August 2013 17:01 (ten years ago) link

+1

ᶓ͠סּᴥ͠סּᶔ ᶓͼ᷆ₓͼ᷇ᶔ (gr8080), Wednesday, 21 August 2013 19:09 (ten years ago) link

amazing

⚓ (elmo argonaut), Wednesday, 21 August 2013 19:10 (ten years ago) link

it always helps to set an intention

Milton Parker, Wednesday, 21 August 2013 19:13 (ten years ago) link

that looks like hell on earth

R'LIAH (goole), Friday, 23 August 2013 19:13 (ten years ago) link

black walnut trees? gross

R'LIAH (goole), Friday, 23 August 2013 19:14 (ten years ago) link

yeah i mean i love camping but that campsite looks horrible

ᶓ͠סּᴥ͠סּᶔ ᶓͼ᷆ₓͼ᷇ᶔ (gr8080), Friday, 23 August 2013 19:38 (ten years ago) link

seems like 90% of what they do is start fires

i too went to college (silby), Sunday, 25 August 2013 06:03 (ten years ago) link

lots of blowing ineffectually on lit tinder during broad daylight, yes.

R'LIAH (goole), Monday, 26 August 2013 04:23 (ten years ago) link

Devil's box.

emilys., Monday, 26 August 2013 08:03 (ten years ago) link

man these ppl must be everywhere.

just got an fb invite to (what i take to be) some low-rent podcast, with these ppl as hosts (nb i know one of them from my hometown)

http://www.synergywellnessic.com/
http://kimravida.com/
http://diyforyoursoul.com/

none of these sites is interesting, which is sort of interesting in itself. they're like weeds!

funny enuf here's the site running the 'radio show' -- advertised today

http://lifecoachradionetwork.com

R'LIAH (goole), Tuesday, 3 September 2013 20:07 (ten years ago) link

part of me is kind of thrilled at the idea of people making a living doing nothing but telling other people what to do with themselves, with next to no measurable expertise or accreditation.

apart from the all-encompassing self-regarding delusion of it all. but other than that, why not?

R'LIAH (goole), Tuesday, 3 September 2013 20:09 (ten years ago) link

lol someone needs an internet coach

ᶓ͠סּᴥ͠סּᶔ ᶓͼ᷆ₓͼ᷇ᶔ (gr8080), Tuesday, 3 September 2013 21:08 (ten years ago) link

http://tharyn.me/37-things-that-might-happen-at-mindvalley-in-pictures/

tpp, Wednesday, 4 September 2013 05:43 (ten years ago) link

aw, it just seems like a lame, probably super-expensive theater camp

emilys., Wednesday, 4 September 2013 07:42 (ten years ago) link

dying:

http://tharyn.me/my-veggie-wrap-spiritual-experience/

tpp, Wednesday, 4 September 2013 07:42 (ten years ago) link

do mindvalley have a camp at burning man? they should

tpp, Wednesday, 4 September 2013 07:46 (ten years ago) link

"you might brainstorm with famous copywriters"

ENERGY FOOD (en i see kay), Wednesday, 4 September 2013 16:34 (ten years ago) link

aw, thanks for posting those tpp

ᶓ͠סּᴥ͠סּᶔ ᶓͼ᷆ₓͼ᷇ᶔ (gr8080), Wednesday, 4 September 2013 16:47 (ten years ago) link

decided to check back in on Zynnia

http://howtodocrowdfunding.com/

ᶓ͠סּᴥ͠סּᶔ ᶓͼ᷆ₓͼ᷇ᶔ (gr8080), Friday, 13 September 2013 18:54 (ten years ago) link

When I'm not meditating, reading epic books, jamming to mashups, or painting, then I'm probably on my laptop in some tropical coffee shop making money.

socki (s1ocki), Saturday, 14 September 2013 13:18 (ten years ago) link

http://i.imgur.com/RNYEY.png

brb, just going to change facebook cover photo.

'Understand, your daughter's addiction is not your problem' (Bananaman Begins), Saturday, 14 September 2013 13:25 (ten years ago) link

slightly off topic but

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GFotnBAOku0

ᶓ͠סּᴥ͠סּᶔ ᶓͼ᷆ₓͼ᷇ᶔ (gr8080), Monday, 16 September 2013 14:35 (ten years ago) link

You can see me logging in for real!

i too went to college (silby), Wednesday, 18 September 2013 06:55 (ten years ago) link

four weeks pass...

is this the right thread for being perturbed by SF's OneTaste?

http://gawker.com/my-life-with-the-thrill-clit-cult-1445204953

"Is this what Trudy and Sting feel like all the time?"

nickn, Thursday, 17 October 2013 02:48 (ten years ago) link

holy shit

ᶓ͠סּᴥ͠סּᶔ ᶓͼ᷆ₓͼ᷇ᶔ (gr8080), Thursday, 17 October 2013 17:37 (ten years ago) link

he seems pretty cool with that bird trying to eat him

Spectrum, Monday, 28 October 2013 14:10 (ten years ago) link

bird seems pretty cool being shackled to him.

Related: droppings would hit nose or outstretched finger

the rofflestomper (dandydonweiner), Monday, 28 October 2013 16:32 (ten years ago) link

http://www.amazon.com/DNA-Repair-528-Brian-Baxter/dp/B001MS7IQI/ref=pd_sim_m_5

the comments

Milton Parker, Thursday, 31 October 2013 18:16 (ten years ago) link

so the brilliant philosopher-turned-insane guru guy i posted about in here before has a new website - alphaleonisastrology.com/

i can't bring myself to read it, just too unsettling, but i'm sure others with more distance from it will be able to appreciate it.

Merdeyeux, Thursday, 7 November 2013 17:40 (ten years ago) link

two weeks pass...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BaRDlBWfANI

Milton Parker, Tuesday, 26 November 2013 18:20 (ten years ago) link

1:08 - 1:14

|$̲̅(̲̅ιοο̲̅)̲̅$̲̅| (gr8080), Tuesday, 26 November 2013 18:54 (ten years ago) link

That rules

polyphonic, Tuesday, 26 November 2013 19:03 (ten years ago) link

Esther Hicks was born 1948 in Coalville, Utah. In 1980 she married Jerry Hicks, then a successful Amway distributor.

Dan I., Thursday, 28 November 2013 06:55 (ten years ago) link

and then she went in the vortex.

Very Gelb; thanks for asking. (fake penthouse letters mcgee), Thursday, 28 November 2013 12:45 (ten years ago) link

Bashar is a multi-dimensional extra-terrestrial being who speaks through channel Darryl Anka from what we perceive as the future. Bashar explores a wide-range of subjects with great insight, humor and a profound understanding of how reality creation occurs!

http://bashar.org/

|$̲̅(̲̅ιοο̲̅)̲̅$̲̅| (gr8080), Friday, 6 December 2013 21:07 (ten years ago) link

does bashar tell darryl to wear hawaiian shirts all the time?

call all destroyer, Friday, 6 December 2013 21:10 (ten years ago) link


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