Just when you thought it was safe - OK CUPID PART 3: The Return of the WOO!

i'm gonna print out a troll mask and wear it to the meet up

i came accross the girl who's photo is used in the primary screen shot for the iPhone app in the app store.

Oh wow. My biggest claim to fame is talking to the girl who designed the Main Attrakionz album cover (the first one, sadly not Bossalinis...)

I found my fave OkCupid person so far and then I saw her at a gig the next night! No contact by either means, which left me feeling a bit creepy even though I DID NOTHING WRONG. :'(. It's been four months since I registered and I still haven't filled out my profile, I'll do it soon when I'm less busy, I really will.

I've had mine for like a year and STILL haven't filled out the essays, though I've answered many questions. But I will, really I will, too. I've been not interested in going on any dates the last couple months, so it's working out.

ugh 99% match with hottie i have dozens of irl mutual friends with that i have never actually met

why is that an ugh

sounds like a solid lead?

how do you know who your mutual friends are?

hmmm, is being a homeopath a good enough reason to click "not interested"?

depends how much investment, i suppose

i clicked anyway, don't want to go there

I support that decision. Also taking the horoscope seriously.

(no homeo)

haha

It's just an ugh cause I'd feel like a creep reaching out through OKC when there's a notionally high chance we'd come across each other irl by happenstance--only, of course, we haven't yet.

yeah, this is a crazy minefield imo - i've approached and been approached by a couple girls i knew in real life who came up as high okc matches, and it's been wicked awkward every time (even if the context of the approaching is "ha how crazy")

how you gonna let a computer make you feel weird about a girl

hoos can you be victorian for a second and ask your friends about her

how you gonna let a computer make you feel weird about a girl

― j., Tuesday, June 11, 2013 7:16 PM (6 minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

this is a key post ty

i'm also being double stupid cause we already follow e/o on twitter & instagram tbh

i think i should move to DC

otm

yes hoos, u r dbl stupid :)

my dude just proposed to a girl he met via instagram

they were both following each other (because of mutual friends) and she just took it to him in the comments one day and asked him out on a double date

aw i thought that you meant he had proposed marriage via instagram

i'm sure it's happened

sierra probably makes the ring sparkle the most

I believe that when two people join in a relationship that they can become one, and are both equal. I know that these are just words for now, but maybe someday I can prove them to you. I love playing racquetball, softball and I run.

Something Smoove-esque about this.

I gave up. I don't even like any of my matches anymore. Dating in any fashion is a lot of PITA.

you said it, sister

otm

how long has yr friendly Love Doctor said so?

predictably, i've overscheduled myself. :/

predictably, you've humblebragged

I had utterly given up on OKC but got messaged the other night by someone I have mutual friends with (but havent met) and he seems like a dece fellow. Gonna meet up with him on the weekend. I'm not sure I'm in the headspace to be dating right now, but hey I cant let that shut me off from experience.

on dis ting, where to even start

no hype lol

too late for that

Christ, a match came up in my emailed "quiver" thingies, the guy decided calling himself "CuudleStarv3d" would be a good idea. GOOD LUCK WITH THAT DUDE.

...pretend I spelt that properly.

curdle st4rved

CUDDLE STARV 3-D

Definitely the best in that series, CUDDLE STARV 2 was some bullshit.

2 STARVD 2 CUDDLE

Wish you could just exclude poly/open relationship people from your searches.

You can if theyre honest enough to put "available' rather than "single", then you can search on "single only" but alas a lot of them put "single" :/

There's this guy I am Fetlife friends with who is one of my highest matches on OkCupid. We also follow each other on tumblr. I think I wrote him off once because he was boring at texting. Finally going to meet him, I think, as I've come to terms with the fact that not everyone is a WORDSMITH when it comes to text messages.

"You can if theyre honest enough to put "available' rather than "single", then you can search on "single only" but alas a lot of them put "single" :/"

fwiw I'm in a poly-type-ish relationship and we both have "single" b/c "available" seems to be the domain of married people looking to cheat on their partners, or so it seems, and all the other poly-type-ish people have "single"

well you're never going to stand out with that attitude

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i don't understand why a person wouldn't put a lot more thought into a magic message that appears privately in someone's pocket