Earplugs: S/D

i started wearing my plugs again recently after not wearing them for awhile. it's hard, last night they made it sound like my backbeat didn't have any meat to it so i was overplaying.

then i took out only the right one for the second set (the stupid loud-ass monitor was on my left) and that helped a lot. then i took out the other one for the third set, and that was dumb.

I need EARPLUG ADVICE
Prepare to be horrified:
I went to the doctor for a routine physical and discovered that there is a small piece of one of my old earplugs lodged inside my head/ear canal. I have to go see an ENT to pry it out. Not painful (yet) but also -- not cool!

I am desperately ISO advice for earplugs that are
* one piece (none of it falls off inside my ear)
* durable (long lifespan)
* effective (these will be used while I am playing drums)

Suggestions!? Recommendations?

I really like my Ear Peace set - https://www.earpeace.com - I am enjoying loud metal shows much more now! Great for drumming, too, LL!