I Could Never Love Someone Who...?

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I think I could love a self-consciously wicked Tory researcher.

― Nick, Tuesday, 11 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

....lured me to an underground city in a post-apocalyptic setting with the intention of farming me for my sperm and by process of artificial insemination use that sperm to impregnate all the young females of the city after which I would be killed.

― One boy and his dog, Tuesday, 11 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

SHould have listened to your dog.

― Pete, Tuesday, 11 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

Right now I feel as though I could never love someone, full stop. The absence of companionship preys upon me all the time, but I know that I'm not in any state at present even to contemplate "another relationship" and probably won't be for a long time to come.

I guess with L and myself it was just the mythical X factor that propels any relationship - the joy of just being able to understand each other without having to explain or justify anything. We just got on, made each other laugh, looked after each other, and so on. And she was a Daily Mail reader (although mainly for the cute animal pictures and because her mum read it). Very traditional and small-c conservative in many ways, but as I've hinted before, we seemed to balance each other perfectly.

As you will have borne recent witness, without her steadying influence, I tend to go to pieces.

― Marcello Carlin, Tuesday, 11 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

Duane, sometimes conflict can make life exciting, something that Timaru is clearly not doing for you

― Menelaus Darcy, Tuesday, 11 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

I was going to say:
was male
smoked
was smelly
was ugly
but it's all lies, love surpasses all that stuff and beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

I think I could love many people but I think I could only be in love with someone highly unsuitable.

― toraneko, Wednesday, 12 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

...used sex as a bargaining tool ...compared me to their exes ...was always "dieting" ...patronised me about music

― electric sound of jim, Wednesday, 12 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

yeah kate i did actually mean inept. yeesh i need a holiday.

― di, Wednesday, 12 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

As an ugly man - hideously vile, in fact - man myself, I must say ALLY C = MANOWAR.

― Kodanshi, Wednesday, 12 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

What if they WAS. UGLY. but are not any more?

― Madchen, Wednesday, 12 December 2001 01:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

six months pass...

listens to country music

― nancyspungen02, Saturday, 15 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

i listen to country musik

― anthony, Saturday, 15 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

me too! yo wanna hook up?

― unknown or illegal user, Saturday, 15 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

nancy?

― unknown or illegal user, Saturday, 15 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

i do not listen to country music i could never love someone who listens to country music

― nancyspungen02, Saturday, 15 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

oh i thought you said [something]

― unknown or illegal user, Saturday, 15 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

OK anthony?

― unknown or illegal user, Saturday, 15 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

lets get together & listen to hayley mills!

― unknown or illegal user, Saturday, 15 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

hey don't hassle nelly furtado fans, mene didn't you know liz has her CDsingle!

― queenoftheharpies, Saturday, 15 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

LOADS of people cite country music on dating sites as a big hate/turn- off, and I love it.

For me politics is top. I'd have said tory, but it's more specific. My last girlfriend was a capitalist, and that seemed less important than her being entirely anti-racist/sexist/homophobic. Those are my bottom line. An opposition to these prejudices is non-negotiable.

Also essential is at least understanding a passion for music, books and that stuff. Ideally, the passion is shared, but it has to be at the very least understood.

― Martin Skidmore, Saturday, 15 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

...is a Republican (possible exception for someone who's in the closet on politics in order to preserve family harmony).

...is opposed to oral sex (an ex of mine wouldn't give or receive; therefore he is an ex).

― j.lu, Sunday, 16 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

second the 'dieting' thing.

..who hated themselves

..who smoked

..who constantly put me down and belittled me.

although, of course, i'm lying. i fall horribly in love with these people and that's why i get hurt.

― Wyndham Earl, Sunday, 16 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

I would LOVE to date another smoker.. don't know why I find it such a turnon when it's a horrible dirty habit etc etc

― electric sound of jim, Sunday, 16 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

mmm smoker breath.

― queenoftheharpies, Sunday, 16 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

...spat gobs in the middle of the street. not sure about gutter slag, but it's pretty unacceptable too, unless it's an emergency.

― minna, Sunday, 16 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

I'm sure I've been out with a gutter slag before

― electric sound of jim, Sunday, 16 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

...can't accept gay people.

...has no intellectual passion / is stupid.

...would be angry at me for going to an ILM meet-up (yes, she's now an ex).

― Dave M., Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

I'm trying to whittle the list down (yes, must love rock'n'roll is still there), but I know I'll always remain extremely selective.

― Sean, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

If you're on about the ILM meet up I am thinking of, you probably told her all the bullshit that happened and then she decided you attended a decadent orgy full of WHORE GIRLS and got angry.

Anyhow, I would say "was married" but my mind is playing nasty tricks on me right now.

― Ally, Monday, 17 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

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