privilege as a meme

i feel ya man, and like i said upthread we don't really talk about class in america, so maybe privilege is one way of getting at that. but let me point out again that even 'underprivileged straight white dudes' accrue benefits just by being a straight white dude - they don't have to think too hard about going home alone from a late-night party, for example, they can assume that the vast majority of media and advertising is aimed at them, they can shop at their local convenience store without being followed by store personnel, etc. these seem like small things, but when youre on the other side and not privy just by virtue of who you are, they can seem very big. and they dont go away even for poor straight white dudes. now, if you'll excuse me, i'm gonna be lighting a candle for underprivileged straight white dudes

― 乒乓, Thursday, 11 April 2013 11:48 (Yesterday) Permalink

i liked where u were going with this post. the friend of mine who is the most resistant to being called out on privilege is also the friend who comes from the poorest family, and i can understand that from his pov. like, why is he privileged when he had to go straight to working an awful job full time after high school because his parents couldn't afford to pay his tuition while we (including many non-male, non-straight, non-white among us) all went to college? a lot of ppl incl myself have tried to explain to him the types of ways including those you listed, & as i said he's pretty resistant. obv they're all good points and he is being obdurate, but i see where his frustrations are coming from. idk maybe because it's not something you can immediately read off of someone (well, neither is straight) but it does seem like poverty/class is a big dimension of privilege that gets left out when focus is primarily in straight-white-male space.

also i don't get why so many ppl showing up in this thread were like "awful thread." these threads are some of ilx at its best

yeah, i agree that this is a good thread. i think the issue is intersectionality: like, he is privileged over a hypothetical college graduate woman in terms of gender, but she may be privileged over him economically and educationally which are, i mean, real privileges too. so you can be both privileged and underprivileged at the same time.

so in certain instances, like walking the streets without fear, he is privileged by being male. in other instances, like having financial autonomy, he is less privileged than many, many women out there. and both things can be true at the same time. sorry if all of this is too obvious.

lock thread.

not until we determine who has privilege ito shouting down other posters in ilx threads about privilege (ie the real issue here)

we need a conch

we need to kill piggy

its because he's white, isn't it?

I think it's a great thread but I also think it's beaten the odds.

Nobody stands up for the odds.

THE KNIFE HAVE MAKE AN ALBUM

WHAT ARE IT NAME

1. I can, if I wish, arrange to be in the company of people of my race most of the time.

I wonder why this is the number example of unacknowledged privilege. Given the segregation of communities, many non-white people could arrange this as well, if they wished.

i imagine the point is that to be a member of a significant majority is necessarily to enjoy some measure of privilege. i disagree, though it is often the case. there are examples of minorities being the more privileged group, e.g. south africa.

honestly, that list has a lot of problems, but it's a decent starting point.

9. I can go into a music shop and count on finding the music of my race represented, into a supermarket and find the staple foods that fit with my cultural traditions, into a hairdresser's shop and find someone who can deal with my hair.

ppft i wish re point no 3

well, it's all framed by race, even when that's unstated. i.e., "my neighbors in the nice gated community will not behave unpleasantly towards me simply because of my race."

my only gripe w/ the list is that its version of "privileged group" is restricted to 1st world whites, relative to nonwhite minorities. the former are massively privileged, don't get me wrong, but itt we've also been discussing other types of privilege: male privilege, ethnic privilege, straight privilege, etc.

It's amazing that they've never thought to update it in light of this thread.

1. I can, if I wish, arrange to be in the company of people of my race most of the time.

I wonder why this is the number example of unacknowledged privilege. Given the segregation of communities, many non-white people could arrange this as well, if they wished.

― mimicking regular benevloent (sic) users' names (President Keyes), Sunday, April 28, 2013 8:58 AM (54 minutes ago) Bookmark

still not true in most work environments

i know! i've tried advocating change in my own place here but apparently that's a no-no

It's amazing that they've never thought to update it in light of this thread.

― Andrew Farrell, Sunday, April 28, 2013 6:52 AM (32 minutes ago)

yeah, amazing

still not true in most work environments

― 乒乓, Sunday, April 28, 2013 9:54 AM (3 hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

school, too. i went to suburban farmville maryland middle school and there were maybe 10 kids in my year that weren't white.

(out of 200-250)

there's plenty of v segregated work around if you want it

http://opinionator.blogs.nytimes.com/2013/04/27/no-rich-child-left-behind/

I think we should start shortening this word to "priv" as in "Hey, check the priv"

seconded

motion is passed

check your rules of order priv

check the record
check the priv's post record

bare joeks priv

http://24.media.tumblr.com/8ab97189f478c80ce1986044b9afe206/tumblr_mm3hnqJESi1rby04wo1_500.gif

oh my god

http://www.whiteprivilegeconference.com/images/wpc_home_header2.gif

tbrr if that was reasonably accessible to me I would go to that in a heartbeat Hoos Mexican notwithstanding

Mex yr priv

every time I see this thread title, I get Bjork stuck in my head

Imagine how she feels

she seems pretty cool with it afaict

lol dan

I am now going to read it to that tune every so single time. Damn you, Dan!!

wait, wait, but that check your privilege gif, omg

her tumblr is suspect
it's privilege as a meme

The Weekly Standard went to the White Privilege Conference.

Sue et al. (2007) have expanded on the term microaggression by introducing four distinct forms of microaggression in the context of racial microaggression.:[5]

Microassault: An explicit racial derogation characterized primarily by verbal or nonverbal attack meant to hurt the intended victim through name calling, avoidant behavior, or purposeful discriminatory actions.
Microinsult: Characterized by communications that convey rudeness and insensitivity and demean a person’s racial heritage or identity.
Microinvalidation: Characterized by communications that exclude, negate, or nullify the psychological thoughts, feelings, or experiential reality of a person.
Microrape: Characterized by predatory non-physical prurient communications with the intent to penetrate the victim's emotional security on the basis of heteronormative impositions.

those are all things, they didn't need to be defined and given names though. all can be filed under 'cuntery'

Microrape

yeah the names are downright unhelpful as they, uh, macroinvalidate the legitimate points being made owing to their comical nature

microrape sounds like a fake company name from office space