Rolling 'this is sexist' thread

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this shit will be on funny or die by next week, don't front

i petted a bodega cat today. (forksclovetofu), Friday, 22 March 2013 17:07 (eleven years ago) link

"Among other findings, an Ohio State University study found that graduate students rated research abstracts as having greater “scientific quality” when they thought the abstracts were written by men."

http://www.scilogs.com/communication_breakdown/gender-bias-study-2013/

Guayaquil (eephus!), Friday, 22 March 2013 17:08 (eleven years ago) link

http://www.complex.com/tech/2013/03/the-40-hottest-women-in-tech/

lol straight trollin

乒乓, Friday, 22 March 2013 18:44 (eleven years ago) link

douse complex.com in gasoline and set it on fire imho

open the blood gates (elmo argonaut), Friday, 22 March 2013 18:44 (eleven years ago) link

^^^

Darth Icky (DJP), Friday, 22 March 2013 18:46 (eleven years ago) link

I clicked through to the first entry because I was thinking "well maybe they are trolling by setting this up as a cheesecake list and then they're going to riff off of the nonsexual definition of "hottest" and then the first picture loaded and I was basically like "lol gtfo *clicks back, hopes no one was looking at my cube*"

Darth Icky (DJP), Friday, 22 March 2013 18:50 (eleven years ago) link

complex.com is basically justdudethings right?

Heyman (crüt), Friday, 22 March 2013 18:50 (eleven years ago) link

I have trouble expressing just how angry the pervasive, unexamined misogyny in my field makes me.

my god i only have 2 useless beyblade (silby), Friday, 22 March 2013 19:12 (eleven years ago) link

I have trouble expressing just how angry the pervasive, unexamined misogyny in my field makes me.

― my god i only have 2 useless beyblade (silby), Friday, March 22, 2013 12:12 PM (0 seconds ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

my god i only have 2 useless beyblade (silby), Friday, 22 March 2013 19:13 (eleven years ago) link

I was assigned to write the 50 Hottest Women in Tech by Complex and it really bummed me out, because the idea of perpetrating the same old gender divisions in an area like tech - which has predominantly been a boy's club throughout history - seemed like kind of a messed up thing to do. It represents the most banal form of internet content that exists. But it's hard to say no to a paycheck.

So what I tried to do was see if it was possible to make something called "The 50 Hottest Women in Tech" earnest and empowering and an actual good thing. I pretty much only included normal looking women, who were involved in something really crucial or exciting in the tech space. I made no allusions to their looks in the blurbs, and ended up with simply a long list of very exciting women.

Of course when the piece actually ran, I discovered that over half of the women I had included were replaced with people like Morgan Webb, complete with the usual lascivious dialogue. Sigh. It's hard to win when you're writing for Complex, but please know that I tried.

http://www.twitlonger.com/show/n_1rjce0c
https://twitter.com/luke_winkie

open the blood gates (elmo argonaut), Friday, 22 March 2013 19:13 (eleven years ago) link

how bout that dude who sparked up a bowl in the middle of pycon, eh?

You mean the dude who also shouted "you're the hottest" at a woman presenting a talk, while being so drunk he claims not to remember shouting or bowl-sparking, and whose official explanation-of-banning only mentions the bowl-sparking?

Bcz I happen to find "you're the hottest" approx six billion times more offensive than dongle innuendos. This may be because I have never been hot but I was 13 for a while.

(declines to click on complex.com link because I think I've been angry enough this week already)

susuwatari teenage riot (a passing spacecadet), Friday, 22 March 2013 19:13 (eleven years ago) link

dude's name is winkie, i just want to point that out (no dongle)

open the blood gates (elmo argonaut), Friday, 22 March 2013 19:16 (eleven years ago) link

lol

乒乓, Friday, 22 March 2013 19:17 (eleven years ago) link

just really lol to me since it's p obvious that the higher ups at complex were like, how can we get hits this week... *sees adria richards controversy* *assigns 50 hottest women in tech piece to underling*

乒乓, Friday, 22 March 2013 19:17 (eleven years ago) link

I remember going on some weekend school trip where my dad was chaperoning when I was in junior high; I started a "what girls do you think are hot?" conversation that he quickly shut down because it was a bunch of thirteen-year-olds being gross and pervy. I responded with "ok then, what cars do you think are hot?" and got yelled at in front of a bunch of my classmates and told to go to sleep.

Looking back, the takeaways were:

- We were incapable of making a distinction between talking about an entire gender and talking about inanimate masse objects and whenever my thoughts get too icky, I remember that confrontation and wonder how I would feel as the object of a Mandingo conversation.
- My dad really wanted to get some sleep that night.

Darth Icky (DJP), Friday, 22 March 2013 19:19 (eleven years ago) link

Also can someone point out to Mr. Winkie that specifically excluding attractive women is just as problematic as explicitly perving over them?

Darth Icky (DJP), Friday, 22 March 2013 19:22 (eleven years ago) link

^

Heyman (crüt), Friday, 22 March 2013 19:27 (eleven years ago) link

i don't know this dude but it reads like he just wanted to focus on people who weren't uncanny valley.

Philip Nunez, Friday, 22 March 2013 19:31 (eleven years ago) link

oh winkiepaws

Whiney G. Weingarten, Friday, 22 March 2013 19:33 (eleven years ago) link

you've been on fire since you got married, dude

Darth Icky (DJP), Friday, 22 March 2013 19:34 (eleven years ago) link

<333333 CHRIS

maura, Friday, 22 March 2013 19:37 (eleven years ago) link

i have no clue how this sort of blog industry works or what, but the "don't blame me, i tried, blame editorial" excuse feels kinda weak on its face. could he have "tried" harder? is it possible to say to his editor "no, i don't want to / would prefer not to write that because it's gross" or were his hands tied and how firmly?

open the blood gates (elmo argonaut), Friday, 22 March 2013 19:41 (eleven years ago) link

he probably had to pay rent

乒乓, Friday, 22 March 2013 19:43 (eleven years ago) link

Person who wrote the "i didnt want to do my job but they made me do my job" stuff gotta be next for the sack, right

mister borges (darraghmac), Friday, 22 March 2013 19:44 (eleven years ago) link

i have no clue how this sort of blog industry works or what, but the "don't blame me, i tried, blame editorial" excuse feels kinda weak on its face. could he have "tried" harder? is it possible to say to his editor "no, i don't want to / would prefer not to write that because it's gross" or were his hands tied and how firmly?

it sounds from his account like he wrote a straightforward "these women are doing exciting things" listicle without referring to anyone's looks and then editorial turned it into... that, so the only way he could have tried harder would have been to say "no, I'm not writing that"

Darth Icky (DJP), Friday, 22 March 2013 19:45 (eleven years ago) link

yeah, i'd like to give the dude the benefit of the doubt, but obviously he knew what they wanted & expected when they assigned him that piece

open the blood gates (elmo argonaut), Friday, 22 March 2013 19:48 (eleven years ago) link

https://twitter.com/kttykatie/status/315173787459014656

markers, Friday, 22 March 2013 19:53 (eleven years ago) link

ayyyy

Heyman (crüt), Friday, 22 March 2013 19:54 (eleven years ago) link

Happy Friday Winkie.

tsrobodo, Friday, 22 March 2013 19:55 (eleven years ago) link

faced

乒乓, Friday, 22 March 2013 19:55 (eleven years ago) link

ha

Darth Icky (DJP), Friday, 22 March 2013 19:56 (eleven years ago) link

lololol first u read: "Technology has been a boy's club for most of its existence. Just another unfortunate repercussion of the patriarchy. But that's been slowly changing, and over the last decade we've seen a number of wonderful, intelligent, and cunning women make inspiring strides in the field of technology. Through web development, social media, space exploration, and video game design, we see the world of tech becoming a more equal playing field. Here are 40 women we admire doing work in the field of innovation."

and then you click to the first person

Mordy, Friday, 22 March 2013 19:58 (eleven years ago) link

can we change the subject? amazing writing here

http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2013/03/22/a-girl-cant-have-a-dick/

goole, Friday, 22 March 2013 19:58 (eleven years ago) link

https://twitter.com/luke_winkie/status/315189945876742145

s.clover, Friday, 22 March 2013 20:06 (eleven years ago) link

When I was 13 years old, a bunch of people from my circle of friends, most whom were.13 year old girls, liked to play a game called The Penis Game. The Penis Game was you'd stand around in a circle saying the word penis. Each person had to say the word penis louder than the last person. The point was to get it loud enough to where a stranger would hear it. It didn't take a lot for this group to say penis loud enough to hear it on the next floor or whatever. I was profoundly embarrassed by the Penis Game and would usually go hide in like, Sam Goody when it started. I was pretty unfun for a 13-year-old, I guess.

how's life, Friday, 22 March 2013 20:41 (eleven years ago) link

xp was JUST gonna post that

i petted a bodega cat today. (forksclovetofu), Friday, 22 March 2013 20:43 (eleven years ago) link

i remember ppl even playing the penis game like freshman year of college.

s.clover, Friday, 22 March 2013 20:45 (eleven years ago) link

onion really should do one of these for women in tech:

http://www.theonion.com/articles/the-6-best-dresses-at-the-golden-globes,30897/

s.clover, Friday, 22 March 2013 20:50 (eleven years ago) link

sam goody as a safe haven from penis could have helped them weather record industry downturn.

Philip Nunez, Friday, 22 March 2013 20:53 (eleven years ago) link

LOL. But was I being sexually harassed? Were the other mall patrons being sexually harassed?

how's life, Friday, 22 March 2013 20:57 (eleven years ago) link

Has the statute of limitations passEd for penis game victims?

how's life, Friday, 22 March 2013 21:02 (eleven years ago) link

sometimes you just want to duck into a place out of penis earshot and where you can also buy fugazi CDs for $15.99

Philip Nunez, Friday, 22 March 2013 21:03 (eleven years ago) link

Can I play the penis game now? Or would it be all "Sir,you're going to have to come with us."

how's life, Friday, 22 March 2013 21:06 (eleven years ago) link

Might be fun to try on a date: "so, do you want to play the penis game?" You friday night single okcupid people can have that one. Let me know how you do!

how's life, Saturday, 23 March 2013 00:53 (eleven years ago) link

lololol first u read: "Technology has been a boy's club for most of its existence. Just another unfortunate repercussion of the patriarchy. But that's been slowly changing, and over the last decade we've seen a number of wonderful, intelligent, and cunning women make inspiring strides in the field of technology. Through web development, social media, space exploration, and video game design, we see the world of tech becoming a more equal playing field. Here are 40 women we admire doing work in the field of innovation."

and then you click to the first person

― Mordy

oh god please let a wave of sexy russian women make philology a thing again

j., Saturday, 23 March 2013 01:03 (eleven years ago) link

that is my prayer

j., Saturday, 23 March 2013 01:03 (eleven years ago) link

ok I guess nobody really wants to revisit the PyCon thing again but since the Amanda Blum article was posted upthread I thought I'd post this one too:

http://www.technologywoman.com/2013/03/24/digging-beneath-the-surface-that-amanda-blum-article-on-adria-richards-is-not-what-it-seems/

also uh this sounds totally lame but I only just now saw a picture of Adria Richards after reading the entire controversy with images turned off (why bcz at work) and realised that you were actually all telling me off for whitesplaining the other day when I thought I was being told off for mansplaining while not being a man, so apologies to everyone concerned

certainly there was some element of unwarranted splaining in my posts

susuwatari teenage riot (a passing spacecadet), Monday, 25 March 2013 22:57 (eleven years ago) link

i want to move to white plains, ny and write a letter to an advice column and sign it "whitesplaining in white plains"

veryupsetmom (harbl), Tuesday, 26 March 2013 00:02 (eleven years ago) link

plain whites whitesplain whitesplainin in white plains, new york

well if it isn't old 11 cameras simon (gbx), Tuesday, 26 March 2013 00:12 (eleven years ago) link


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