I Confess : What sucks most about your musical tastes and attitudes ?

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I'd be interested to hear who likes the 'mainstream hip-hop with the negative attitudes' which Nitsuh described. And why you like it. (Dr. C)

I don't seek it out...but then I don't seek out anything. But when I hear it I find the lyrics amusing (in the same way as the writings of Stewart Home).

David, Sunday, 24 June 2001 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

I'd be interested to hear who likes the 'mainstream hip-hop with the negative attitudes' which Nitsuh described. And why you like it. (Dr. C)

I like to desensitize myself. I'm curious to see if they will go beyond the pale.

tarden, Sunday, 24 June 2001 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

And do they?

Dr. C, Sunday, 24 June 2001 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

Well, very often I think "they" do, but I can just about live with it.

Robin Carmody, Sunday, 24 June 2001 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

I wish I could do that. At least sometimes I wish it. I'm probably the most sensitized person I know, and at times I can take a perverse pride in it, but mostly it's a living hell. I can't turn it off. I can't tune it out. I'm literally jealous of those who can, because that must make life so much easier. It makes it impossible to relate to a rapidly hardening environment - It's so rare to completely like or enjoy anything (because it's all or nothing after all) and resultingly, the more you know, the deeper you sink, and you end up trying to float without moving because that's least painful, and, and, and that *is* what sucks the most about my musical tastes and attitudes.

After all that, I don't even sympathise with Cobain, before you go thinking.

Kim, Sunday, 24 June 2001 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

I'm not very knowledgeable about current hip-hop, mainstream or otherwise, but I am interested in how listeners perceive the lyrics. One thing I think has been ignored here is that songs with these attitudes are selling in a massive way. So people, lots and lots of people, either get some thrill from Eminem and Snoop or identify with what they're rapping. This can't be denied. So what of these folks? A bunch of dumb kids?

This is interesting to me because most characteristics of pop music that shift units are easily identified, analyzed and critiqued by those who frequent this board (there are a lot of smart people hanging out here!) There is no loss of words in explaining Britney, or even Creed.

The violence in hip-hop is easy to explain, at least in terms of the U.S. Violence is everywhere, so why not in music? People get some kind of visceral thrill from hearing the description of carnage; same way Pulp Fiction got the blood pumping, or Doom or Quake or whatever.

The misogyny is tougher. I'd be interested in knowing what percentage of those who bought Dre's 2001 are men. If it were all men listening to this stuff, then I'd have to say most guys hearing those lyrics are getting some kind of assurance from them. Having their fear of women relieved by song after song putting the "hos" in their place, reducing half the population to nothing more than "something to poke on."

Eminem sold like ten million records, which just can't be done if everybody is thinking either "Hmmm, this is an interesting portrait of a disturbed individual…what an artful statement" or just ignoring the words altogether, which are in your face and high in the mix for the whole album. In addition to chuckling at his clevery wordplay, lots of people are FEELING what Eminem is saying, on some level. They have to be. Maybe they're all just impressionable kids, maybe not. But critics discussing Eminem have not scratched the surface of his appeal, I don't think.

Mark, Sunday, 24 June 2001 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

I was reading something that addressed this recently - can't at this moment recall where though - but I agreed with the sentiment expressed which was essentially that the phenomena we are experiencing right now is some kind of backlash against the riot grrl/Lilith Fair/Girl Power trends of not so long ago. That in the purely reactionary sense, "real" men have now been given licence to reassert themselves and as such are reverting to the "golden age" of manhood, rebuilding the cave and such. It's all pretty yucky. I try not to think about it for (now) obvious reasons, but if I remember where that article was I'll be back.

Kim, Sunday, 24 June 2001 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

I don't know, though, Lilith Fair and gangsta rap are two totally different worlds, in terms of music makers and fans. Hard to see how there could be a feedback loop there.

Mark, Monday, 25 June 2001 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

Kim: don't know if this is what you read (probably not) but this is where I came across the idea.

Tom, Monday, 25 June 2001 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

Erm... wow, to go back into the mists of time and answer some...

Lauryn Hill - of the little I've heard (just the single I've heard on the MTV, unfortunately) some of it I thought was texturally intriguing, but unfortunately I got really turned off by the gargling, cut-up, jumpy, jerky production style. I know it's ground-breaking and so influential that even Whitney Houston wanted some of it, but the production style really got in the way of the music for me.

Wu-Tang Clan - all the other silliness, the image, the stunts, the idiocy got in the way of my even being able to take them seriously enough to actually listen to what was going on in the music.

Public Enemy - yes, liked them enough to own one of the albums, though it's back in storage so I couldn't tell you which one. In fact, I've seen them live, too. On tour with the Sisters of Mercy of all people (I can just imagine both bands saying to their booking agents "Get me the BLACKEST band that you can find for support" and ending up with each other.) What appealed to me was the beautifully textured sample collage of their music, more than the lyrical content. Sonically interesting music, that's what I'm talking about. Yes.

masonic boom, Monday, 25 June 2001 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

And Kim, yes, a thousand times yes. The article on Maura.com is a summary of things which have been kicking around in the "riot grrl" circles (I cringe at that term, funnily enough, but what else to call pro-female musician circles?) for a couple of years now. However high you manage to claw yourself, the backlash will come and sweep you off.

I don't know. The only thing I can really think is... this *is* just a backlash. Progress, when viewed from above, is not a straight line, but a series of zig-zags that only look like a straight line when viewed from a distance. Backlashes cannot last forever, and if we just keep going, then when it is all over, we'll be a little bit closer to an equilibrium.

masonic boom, Monday, 25 June 2001 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

But some of the "real men" thing is ENVY, isn't it? So even as a backlash it co-opts some of what it seems to resist or repel? One of the weird things about laddism is how queer-flirty some bits of it actually are... Spose I'm wondering if this isn't the mark of a shadowed victory — sorta — rather than a straight defeat...: men emoting and acting out REALLY IS better than power operating at level of unspoken assumption. Isn't it?

mark s, Monday, 25 June 2001 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

To be clearer: if riot grrrl is genuinely "empowering", then it risks empowering more than just grrrls: eg RIOT MEN...

Wild MEN with Steak-Knives = Eminem?

mark s, Monday, 25 June 2001 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

A-AND (sorry) Eminem's 10 million listeners include [x] thousand angry women who he speaks TO (rather than just against): which makes him a spark-point for the next (better) cycle...?

mark s, Monday, 25 June 2001 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

Well, I like mainstream hiphop with 'negative' attitudes a lot. In fact, it sustains my interest in pop music, because there's danger and at least some suggestion of passion in the songs. Plus new ways of doing things and imagining the world pop up from the t.v. screen and into my head - a rare and clebratory occasion. Recent mainstream hiphop has provided not just 'choice' - a non-word, let's face it - but also diversity and complexity. You can really sink your teeth into this music.

During the last few months I've been listening to a lot of Cash Money Records' records, where violence, materialism and misogyny are all present and (in)correct. Needless to say, these records sold extremely well, not just because they did a better job of presenting themselves as more 'real' or 'gangsta' than everyone else (you scared of Lil' Wayne?), but because aggression was not just limited to the lyrics and visuals: Compare Mannie Fresh's Cash Money work or Swizz Beats' production for Jay-Z and DMX with those of Indie rap producers - most of them (except El Producto and a couple of others) just don't cut the mustard. Fresh's beats aren't just 'good': they are the bones of memorable songs, such as the magnificent 'Back That Azz Up'. With a Mannie Fresh produced album, rhythm becomes not king (a recent and hopefully short-lived pop obsession) but adaptable component, all mean and ready for battle.

The 'gangsta' raps themselves are often genuinely witty and clever. They have to be: the ideas that the Hot Boys and the Big Tymers are offering were first spat out by the likes of NWA and (gulp) the 2 Live Crew over a decade ago. Nevertheless, the 'commercial' hiphop (and I mean Juvenile and Jay-Z and not the 'keeping it real' rap-and- scratch of Mobb Deep, C-N-N et al) of the last couple of years has consistently out-imagined and out-thrilled its indie rivals, and attitude's got very little to do with it.

None of this is 'negative', by the way. Unless you're worried for your kids, in which case you had better switch off now.

L, Tuesday, 26 June 2001 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

wow - Kate if you hear the Miseducation of Lauryn Hill as jumpy and jerky then I really can see why you don't like hiphop - cause that album sounds positively... mellifluous next to its peers. Is it the density of the tracking maybe that's offputting? (tho in that case how could you like Public Enemy?) The reason I brought it up is that seems to follows your priority list to a tee, it's got no guns or hos on it... she talks specifically about race and gender backlash.... check it out maybe.

2. WHAT is wrong w/silliness, stunts and idiocy?? You've just named like, the 3 pillars of any great rock group!! Rolling Stones, The Who -- where would they be without their stunts, idiocy, and silliness?? In fact the only time Wu-Tang gets bad in my mind is when they drop the tomfoolery, smoke WAY too much weed and basically pass out in front of the mic (Wu-Tang Forever, 2nd Raekwon album, Killarmy...)

Tracer Hand, Tuesday, 26 June 2001 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

I promise I will come up w/something good (?) abt why I love many cash/guns/hos songs but it is a HARD question. "That's What I'm Lookin For" by Da Brat, for instance, is Exhibit A for Faludi-style backlash against feminist progress - it's a WOMAN saying

Where my Rolley wearing thugs who
Claim they don't love you
But any time you want something done, they do it
(That's what I'm looking for)
The ball all night type
Frontin', screaming, thug life
That's the type of nigga I like


For now I'll say that I think both Maxim and Da Brat are concerned with authenticity, and the meathead impulses of the unreconstructed "baller" appeal to that.

Tracer Hand, Tuesday, 26 June 2001 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

ten months pass...
There's nothing I don't like about my musical tastes - unlike other, less open-minded 13-year-olds I don't think anything published before 1990 is automatically crap. In fact, Pink Floyd, King Crimson and Talking Heads are my favourite bands - so unlike anyone who likes Destiny's Child or Eminem, I don't have to worry :-D

Anna Rose, Wednesday, 8 May 2002 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

Anna, check back on this statement in five years. 13 to 18 changed my outlook on a lot of things. ;-)

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 8 May 2002 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

Well, I don't like any classical or opera. I'm not sure whether that's a fault. I might have to be less unreasonably dismissive and sneering about it (that's my bad attitude there) when I have my first date next week (probably) with a classical pianist!

Martin Skidmore, Wednesday, 8 May 2002 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

My dirty secret: I own about thirty jazz records (not much, I know, but certainly enough to get a taste), mostly the standards (Davis, Mingus, Coltrane, Coleman) and I'm still not entirely sure that I could differentiate most of these recordings from one another.

At what point do I admit defeat?

Mark, Wednesday, 8 May 2002 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

They are dismissive and sneering about opera = they are monkeys. (I was monkey up until I turned 19.)

Dan Perry, Wednesday, 8 May 2002 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

ned, you shouldnt be winking at 13 yr old girls.

jess, Wednesday, 8 May 2002 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

Forget Melissa Etheridge; has anyone ever seen Ned Raggett and R. Kelly in the same room?

Dan Perry, Wednesday, 8 May 2002 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

The prospect of me having to write and sing "I Believe I Can Fly" is so disturbing to my tender sensibilities that I must now kill myself.

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 8 May 2002 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

Anna: I'm exactly twenty years older than you. When I was growing up, lots of 13-year-olds had Pink Floyd as a favorite band, also.

Christine "Green Leafy Dragon" Indigo, Wednesday, 8 May 2002 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

I know that 20 years ago Pink Floyd were really popular but today nobody of this generation likes them (which is completely unfair): just ask my friends.

Anna Rose, Thursday, 9 May 2002 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

My big flaws (both of these are also kind-of virtues I think):

- a fear of/fascination with my own adolescence and unresolved issues therein which leads me to my current (3 yrs and counting) backlash against 'indie'

- deadly low attention span

Tom, Thursday, 9 May 2002 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

I have major issues with so called IDM. I'm sure I'd like some of it because as someone pointed out I'd listened to noodlyish indie and therefore couldn't complain alot.

Still it just strikes me that the intentions behind IDM records are so suspect. I mean what are these guys trying to do? Do they have any aim? Maybe that's the point I'm missing. I really don't know and frankly I don't want to know.

Also I am fiercely cranky about people's prejudices against dancefloor dance music which I feel will never really be critically recognised, yadda yadda yadda. Also I'm developing a complex over Orbital, Chemical Bros, Underworld/any other popular dance act and it's fans not being 4 real enough to like the club derivatives of these acts.

What else? Jesus now I start I could go on all day......

Ronan, Thursday, 9 May 2002 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

The club derivative of Orbital?????

Dan Perry, Thursday, 9 May 2002 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

Um eh.......ok you've got me sort of. Next time I see Hartnoll DJ I'll let you know.

I'm more talking about the fact that the actual club scene at which Orbital might DJ is mainly centred on singles. And the vast majority of people never hear these singles. They generally have their own appeal independent of the albumdance bands I named. I think it's odd because alot of the singles surface months later, and the ones which don't are still quite catchy. That is to say I'm not talking about some underground thing here, I just think there's genuine potential for more people to hear this music.

I suppose it's a singles versus albums thing.

Ronan, Thursday, 9 May 2002 00:00 (twenty-two years ago) link

two weeks pass...
What sucks most is that it's so perfect. Every single day when I wake up I am astounded to discover it's still pristine.

cuba libre (nathalie), Saturday, 25 May 2002 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

four years pass...
this is an interesting thread I thought I could revive.

Me? I guess I'm just not ready to accept poptimism outright. I realise this is frowned upon in IL-circles, but for whatever it's worth I can't understand the appeal behind so-called manufactured pop bands. And yes, I've heard all the reasons why I shouldn't NOT like them ("All bands are commercial", "You enjoy it on its sonic merits" etc) but really I feel most pop (as in Britney or whoever's the top of the charts these days) is aimed at an entirely different demographic from mine. Then again I've come round to the fact ABBA were an incredible band, a band who spawned the girl and boy groups of today and yet no-one has hit quite those emotions since AFAIK.

I'm also quite rubbish when it comes to Garage and Grime - it's not fast or slow enough for this white ass to do anything other than wiggle a bit and then sit back down confused.

wogan lenin (dog latin), Thursday, 7 September 2006 00:22 (seventeen years ago) link

instrumental music pretty much invariably bores me to absolute tears

electric sound of jim [and why not] (electricsound), Thursday, 7 September 2006 01:18 (seventeen years ago) link

I can't bring myself to care about music when I don't care about the person/people making it.

bernard snow (sixteen sergeants), Thursday, 7 September 2006 01:29 (seventeen years ago) link

I'm of the Glen Matlock School- I like the Beatles.

My Little Ruud Book (Ken L), Thursday, 7 September 2006 01:46 (seventeen years ago) link

where did those posts from 2000 come from!?

ryan (ryan), Thursday, 7 September 2006 01:59 (seventeen years ago) link

my attitude and taste, period.

mts (theoreticalgirl), Thursday, 7 September 2006 02:04 (seventeen years ago) link

My total boredom regarding opera and the great majority of pre-20th century classical music.

polyphonic (polyphonic), Thursday, 7 September 2006 02:06 (seventeen years ago) link

those dates!

a name means a lot just by itself (lfam), Thursday, 7 September 2006 02:29 (seventeen years ago) link

I'm fairly in love with just about everything. Seriously. I love everything. I've even grown to like country, which five years ago would have made me writhe in disgust. My tastes have grown leaps and bounds over the years, to the point where music in general makes me way more excited than it does bored or angry or disappointed. There's a relatively short list of bands that I simply can't stand; Nickelback springs to mind. The Eagles. Dave Matthews Band, after "Under the Table and Dreaming". Jewel and her ilk. Mall punk, like Simple Plan or Taking Back Sunday or whatever. There's stuff that doesn't interest me, but that has more to do with the actual sounds the band is making, as opposed to the sounds plus the awful social context they sit within and the generalized stupidity they probably represent. I'm not going to listen to Merzbow. I appreciate him for what he does, but I'm just not going to give it more than a cursory listen just so I know what I'm not listening to.

I will say, though, that I have a tendency to love things for what I think are purely ironic reasons. Like, I love Meatloaf. I'm not sure if it's because I love "Paradise by the Dashboard Lights" because it's a fucking incredible song, or because it's so cheesy and bombastic that I love it for how bad it is. I honestly don't know - I guess it's probably both. I don't know if that makes me less of a genuine music fan, to like something for how "bad" it is. "My Humps" gives me lots of joy, and I'm pretty sure I only like it because it's so fucking retarded. I'm gonna go with dancing like an idiot in the club over not having fun because I'm not actually "enjoying" the song, though.

Emily B (Emily B), Thursday, 7 September 2006 02:33 (seventeen years ago) link

Oh, and I have absolutely no patience for anyone that only owns 12 CDs, which almost always includes Dave Matthews Band and whatever cute acoustic guitar playing dude of the moment (John Mayer, Jack Johnson, etc). But that's because music is so incredbly important to me that I can't fathom not really caring about it. Much in the same way I don't understand how you could not like, say, ice cream, unless it made you violently ill.

Emily B (Emily B), Thursday, 7 September 2006 02:36 (seventeen years ago) link

Count me in as one of the "I seem to like jazz and classical better in theory than in practice" people, though I'm always trying to get into them more.

Marmot (marmotwolof), Thursday, 7 September 2006 02:36 (seventeen years ago) link

I have so much to confess...please forgive me.

in theory I'm a reasonable man. I believe there's no fundamental, objective difference in quality between, say, paris hilton and stravinsky - it all depends on the criteria you use to assess a piece of work.

but beneath the surface I'm a complete snob and I hate pop music. I find grown men obsessing over teeny music such as kelly clarkson or timberlake highly disturbing. I have an instinctively averse reaction to jauntiness. I am disgusted by synchronised dancing. I don't see catchiness as a virtue; quite the opposite. deep down, I suspect that the current vogue among adults for children's music designed by marketing departmetns is a passing hipster fad. please forgive me.

but at the same time I'm a hypocrite. I like a fair amount of adolescent metal. like I said, please forgive me.

I'm bored by repetitive beats and value complexity. therefore dance music and hip hop are closed worlds to me. I have tried, but I have found nothing of worth there. I fear this is an omission, but it's not one I care about. this makes me feel guilty.

I love jazz, noise, heavy prog, hardcore punk, japanese oddities, various 'world' musics and far-out experimental weirdness. I consider pushing the envelope to be a virtue in and of itself. forgive, etc.

I hate so many canonical 'icons' that I wonder whether I hate them simply because they're icons and I'm a contrary git...bowie, dylan, neil young, the stones, the pistols, the clash, madonna, pink floyd, etc, etc. then I wonder if I'm a boring old fart because I like the beatles, the doors and tim buckley. hypocrite. confused hypocrite.

I care far too much about music and nowhere near enough about anything else.

guanoman (mister the guanoman), Thursday, 7 September 2006 07:44 (seventeen years ago) link

Deep down I realize that I'm being silly by making a sweeping generalization in saying that it's all shit and all sounds the same, but I really loathe classical music. I know it's dumb when I say:"All those instruments, why can't they simplify it?" Also, it lacks words so why bother? I'm coming up with all these random reasons - like that I wasn't brought up with it or whatever.

Nathalie (stevie nixed), Thursday, 7 September 2006 09:23 (seventeen years ago) link

I simply can't understand what's good in mainstream hiphop and R&B nowadays. I still think R&B is for tiny girls or gays.
Also I don't get metal, so maybe I'm gay too.

zeus (zeus), Thursday, 7 September 2006 09:58 (seventeen years ago) link

but beneath the surface I'm a complete snob and I hate pop music. I find grown men obsessing over teeny music such as kelly clarkson or timberlake highly disturbing. I have an instinctively averse reaction to jauntiness. I am disgusted by synchronised dancing. I don't see catchiness as a virtue; quite the opposite. deep down, I suspect that the current vogue among adults for children's music designed by marketing departmetns is a passing hipster fad. please forgive me.

but at the same time I'm a hypocrite. I like a fair amount of adolescent metal. like I said, please forgive me.

YEh, that sums me up pretty much.

wogan lenin (dog latin), Thursday, 7 September 2006 10:01 (seventeen years ago) link

Nothing "sucks" about my musical tastes and attitudes. They have been arrived at by means of experience, knowledge and instinct and are robust.

Marcello Carlin (nostudium), Thursday, 7 September 2006 10:07 (seventeen years ago) link

I lsiten to "old stuff" almost exclusively

20th century boy (lovebug starski), Thursday, 7 September 2006 10:22 (seventeen years ago) link

Do you read the Guardian?

Marcello Carlin (nostudium), Thursday, 7 September 2006 10:25 (seventeen years ago) link

would read a Sickest Beat of the month thread

idgi fridays (blueski), Tuesday, 8 February 2011 17:16 (thirteen years ago) link

i like that wiz khalifa fella.

The Round Mound of Sound (chrisv2010), Tuesday, 8 February 2011 17:17 (thirteen years ago) link

just changed my username, thanks.

Old Man Yells At Shout Rap (chrisv2010), Tuesday, 8 February 2011 17:18 (thirteen years ago) link

I like that Wiz Khalifa fella, too.

banjee trillness (The Reverend), Tuesday, 8 February 2011 17:23 (thirteen years ago) link

so i guess its not all new hip hop that i dislike.

OLD MAN YELLS AT SHOUT RAP (chrisv2010), Tuesday, 8 February 2011 17:26 (thirteen years ago) link

YOU GUESSED RIGHT!

scott seward, Tuesday, 8 February 2011 17:26 (thirteen years ago) link

scott you never struck me as a hip hop fan.

OLD MAN YELLS AT SHOUT RAP (chrisv2010), Tuesday, 8 February 2011 17:29 (thirteen years ago) link

Scott is an everything fan.

i could listen to more old music, more new music, more music made by people very different to me culturally, more music with a different order of priorities to what i recognise as my preference...but i tend to feel like i do or have done these things to a reasonable extent already tho obv there is always something else to hear/learn/consider theoretically. i do want to do all of those things more but i don't really want to do them based on people's recommendations. instead i want to discover them more 'accidentally' or indirectly and form opinions without reading anything for/against beforehand. something about that is good but something about it also sucks (just as being selfish is often bad but sometimes necessary).

Oddly (or not?) enough, this is pretty much where I'm at at present, at least in general terms. But I also tend to see this in both terms of age as Scott identifies it earlier in this thread combined with a generally much more relaxed philosophy about music (and to a larger extent art and culture, however you want to define it) that I've happily settled into over the past few years. I suspect it was the logical reaction to the overdose of my twenties on such stuff; my thirties was more of a conscious turning away and I'm reaching forty feeling a certain equanimity about it all.

If I tried to keep up with everything I'm 'supposed' to, I would have no time. I really would much rather have relaxed evenings idly reading a book, sometimes listening to music and sometimes not at all. I suppose an earlier self would think that sucks but my current one -- which always liked to do that anyway -- is resolutely unconcerned.

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 8 February 2011 17:30 (thirteen years ago) link

oh yeah there was another thread a bit like this where i said one problem is that i'm letting things like spotify and last.fm have too much control over what i hear and how. i might exclude stuff because it's not immediately available how i want it, i'm listening to some stuff just so it appears higher in my last.fm stats. probably too contrived an approach altho it has been useful as i do get overwhelmed by the choice and need these exercises or motivations to listen sometimes.

idgi fridays (blueski), Tuesday, 8 February 2011 17:37 (thirteen years ago) link


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