GIRLS talk (the Lena Dunham thread)

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guy rapes girlfriend (ooh!)

purp (roxymuzak), Friday, 15 March 2013 16:19 (eleven years ago) link

wanna cozy up by the fire this weekend. catch up with Girls and listen to the new Vampire Weekend album. starting to worry about young white people and their -- my -- future.

Cunga, Saturday, 16 March 2013 08:11 (eleven years ago) link

Lena Dunham could drop so many bombs right now from her elevated position, but she's still making a formulaic TV show.

Curious about this particular claim - what do you mean there?

She Got the Shakes, Saturday, 16 March 2013 12:20 (eleven years ago) link

actual bombs. she has been stockpiling missiles

set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 16 March 2013 17:32 (eleven years ago) link

and shes standing on top of a tall thing

lag∞n, Saturday, 16 March 2013 17:33 (eleven years ago) link

at any moment, the entire New York City...

~gone~

set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 16 March 2013 17:37 (eleven years ago) link

So this finale.
What a horrible fucking cop out. Each of the Girls defined by their relationship to men in their lives, each of them saved by a man or by losing a man so they can find the right man.
I enjoyed the colin quinn cameo. the other shit was terrible and, excepting a few choice one-liners (the black soul bit comes to mind), smelled strongly of apatow-mind.

i petted a bodega cat today. (forksclovetofu), Monday, 18 March 2013 02:37 (eleven years ago) link

i've never had an advance and then been bothered by a publisher for pages or been at a publisher and chased an author for pages, but i can't imagine that's how it works?

s.clover, Monday, 18 March 2013 02:38 (eleven years ago) link

re. forksclovetofu: it's true that none of the women in the show ended on a strong note, but that seems to be in line with the darker tone the show has taken toward the end of this season. the creepy regressiveness of hannah allowing herself to be cast in the damsel-in-distress role to adam's hero fantasy seemed apparent when seen alongside what happened at the end of last week's episode. to be "saved" by adam -- whose discomfort with strong, direct women can shade, as we saw, easily into rage -- could be a new low-point for hannah. we will see what happens next season.

Winter Wooskie (Pat Finn), Monday, 18 March 2013 02:46 (eleven years ago) link

what i mean to say is that i don't think this is an episode where things were "resolved" for anyone, and in that sense it doesn't strike me as particularly apatowian.

Winter Wooskie (Pat Finn), Monday, 18 March 2013 02:47 (eleven years ago) link

one of the worst episodes of the season for sure

dmr, Monday, 18 March 2013 03:05 (eleven years ago) link

pat: i'd buy that more if the end montage + adam running shirtless through the streets and kicking down her door wasn't accompanied by shiny happy music and if the last scene wasn't him saying without irony "i've been here all along"
i can see how this ep can be rationalized but i can't see how you'd think the intent was to continue that "darker tone"; seems pretty much calculated to leave em wantin more in a s+thecity way than "uh oh, hannah's in the bad man's arms"

i petted a bodega cat today. (forksclovetofu), Monday, 18 March 2013 03:17 (eleven years ago) link

The shiny happy cinematic-sounding music ruined the episode. It's almost as if they filmed everything and at the last minute decided they needed to abruptly shift the tone of all these resolutions and used to the score to do so. The Charlie/Marnie and Hannah/Adam scenes, especially, could easily have been portrayed as the bad decisions they really are but then those sweeping strings or whatever come in and it's all smiles.

scarfs, Monday, 18 March 2013 03:49 (eleven years ago) link

i think the music at the end reflects how the characters feel at that moment. but ecstatic feelings of redemption, while intoxicating, don't (usually? ever?) last. i'm not sure to what extent we are supposed to look to the score for clues at how to *interpret* the scene. obviously, adam and hannah both need each other, or feel they do, in that moment, but it's obvious that a relationship between the two of them would eventually turn into a disaster. i don't know. neither hannah or marnie seem to be in a position, at this point in their character arcs, for a happy ending and i think the show *knows* that.

Winter Wooskie (Pat Finn), Monday, 18 March 2013 04:05 (eleven years ago) link

like, it seemed clear to me that the show ended on a false high that leaves the viewer feeling empty. that was so pronounced, to me, that it seems to be a deliberate effect... especially after last week's episode, which reminded me of nothing more than michael haneke's film "the piano teacher."

Winter Wooskie (Pat Finn), Monday, 18 March 2013 04:06 (eleven years ago) link

yeah it does make you suspect that this is a setup to open the next season in the aftermath of all this working out terribly.

s.clover, Monday, 18 March 2013 04:07 (eleven years ago) link

eh, the ending was pretty cliched, but maybe Adam and Hannah are more equipped to deal with/compliment each other's imperfections/complexes than most people... at least for the time being?

I actually appreciate how this show accepts everybody's imperfections, rather than glorifying or demonizing one or the other to be more overtly politically didactic/gratifying. which would neither necessarily be better art, nor more realistic anyways

Chris S, Monday, 18 March 2013 04:22 (eleven years ago) link

be all that as it may, it's the season end. this IS their happy ending and it's unearned, false and disingenuous to the viewer imo.
this season's highs weren't negated by the lows but it's disappointing to me that when the show engages in continuity moving it tends to do so to the detriment of its more interesting and experimental aims

i petted a bodega cat today. (forksclovetofu), Monday, 18 March 2013 04:24 (eleven years ago) link

but i think a hollow happy ending, that may feel genuine to the characters themselves, and ultimately reflects their eagerness to allow their lives to fall into a more recognizable shape (a love narrative) to ward off the rootlessness and confusion they actually feel, is totally in line with the show's more experimental aims. i also think that one can still accept the characters' imperfections, including adam's, while also recognizing that the answer for hannah and adam is not as easy as them merely allowing themselves to come back together.

severely depressed robots are "twee" (Pat Finn), Monday, 18 March 2013 04:32 (eleven years ago) link

normal tongue

Dan I., Monday, 18 March 2013 04:33 (eleven years ago) link

i guess i didn't even see the ending as genuine as far as the character's own arcs or perspectives? that's more a matter of one's personal take on the show i suppose.

i petted a bodega cat today. (forksclovetofu), Monday, 18 March 2013 05:06 (eleven years ago) link

hm, i guess so. for myself, i think it is at my lowest moments that i am most open to the sort of magical thinking that would allow me to believe that all my problems could be solved with one simple decision; say, to enter into a romantic relationship. hannah, at the end of the episode, craved some sort of savior and adam was similarly desperate to feel like he could be both himself and a good person, which is a feeling that hannah had once provided him with. both characters want to fall into roles that feel natural to them, and are relieved at the opportunity to do so, but i don't think dunham, the writers, etc. are as hopeful about the long-term prospects of this venture as the characters are. i don't think it was a great episode or anything but i think this is the effect it is going for, with its ending note of falseness. Although, maybe falseness is the wrong word, because even though I don't think the Hannah-Adam thing can last with both characters in their current state of identity crisis, that doesn't necessarily mean that this specific moment of closure is false. They feel okay, I think, at the end of the episode.... and everything falls apart eventually anyway.

I don't know I am rambling. Basically I think that this episode ended on a sort of hollow, ambivalent note, which seems consistent with the show's overall tone, which presents its stories in a much more prosaic, even bleak, manner than any other similar show.

severely depressed robots are "twee" (Pat Finn), Monday, 18 March 2013 05:32 (eleven years ago) link

I actually appreciate how this show accepts everybody's imperfections, rather than glorifying or demonizing one or the other to be more overtly politically didactic/gratifying.

This is so OTM. The tendency for works of fiction to slot people into neat Good and Bad categories, where the worst thing a Good person can do is have a slightly annoying quirk, is really tiresome (and really frightening in that this is apparently how a lot of people think about the real people in their lives!?).

Dan I., Monday, 18 March 2013 05:38 (eleven years ago) link

xp you make a convincing argument. i just have a hard time believing that's all intentional on behalf of the director/producer/writer given the heavy gloss that got liberally buffed over. like i feel more like they weren't sure what else to do but reboot and put it back to the same as it was in ep 1/season 1.
it always frustrates me when this show backs off into falseness; i relate to adam quite a bit so when i get a sour note in the character it really buzzes and bothers. like if you're gonna give me 80% of real, why not give me the full payoff?

i petted a bodega cat today. (forksclovetofu), Monday, 18 March 2013 05:41 (eleven years ago) link

xp to Dan: i agree with that as well. that is part of the reason i am so adamant about defending Girls (and some other films, shows) against charges that the characters are "unlikable," as if the only stories worth telling are those that center around an unambiguous or only mildly flawed "hero".

severely depressed robots are "twee" (Pat Finn), Monday, 18 March 2013 05:42 (eleven years ago) link

xp forks: that makes sense, and i think that is a frustrating thing with this show - it's lapses into conventionality, which are not infrequent. certain characters, like jessa and shoshana, i can't really stand because they seem to exist in a different, more "television" universe than hannah, adam, marnie et al. it's possible that i am seeing what i want to see in this episode, as i was really excited for it following last week's episode, which was different than anything i've ever seen before on television.

severely depressed robots are "twee" (Pat Finn), Monday, 18 March 2013 05:46 (eleven years ago) link

i certainly get that; i'm there with you. but dunham's vision is a little undisciplined and some of this stuff is just being played for fan service.
Adam's deus ex homo schtick would've been more acceptable in an episode of 90210 than here.
I'm not crazy about how Shosh has been devolved into "the ditz" away from the ingenue/naif. it's not a very good look.
I kinda DO like the way Marnie has become this awful awful person who really isn't talented or clever in any way but is fucking gorgeous and is cashing in relentlessly on that one quality with a guileless, merciless precision no less detestable for it being subconscious. it's a cutting look at pretty girl life and it feels like dunham has someone VERY SPECIFIC in mind.

i petted a bodega cat today. (forksclovetofu), Monday, 18 March 2013 05:52 (eleven years ago) link

my facebook feed has several "oh i cried so much at girls; so happy to see everybody back together" type comments which is nuts to me; who watches this show with an emotional investment in seeing these guys all pair off and get married? but it's a key part of the demographic, maybe even the largest part so i imagine they gotta feed the piranhas with this nonsense.
my wakeup call on that point was the girls facebook page (it's totally social!) and the little capsule things they do after the episodes which i've mostly missed thanks to tivo. the lack of interest in nuance is kinda plain in the marketing.

i petted a bodega cat today. (forksclovetofu), Monday, 18 March 2013 05:59 (eleven years ago) link

it's still the show that takes more chances and genderfucks more than anything else on tv with the exception of louie but yeah when it flies so occasionally high it disappoints when it partakes of the mundane

i petted a bodega cat today. (forksclovetofu), Monday, 18 March 2013 06:01 (eleven years ago) link

i think the marketing of this show, and the discourse surrounding it (the facebook convo you mentioned), is often at odds with what the show actually *is* though. nothing in the advertising would indicate the depth of its realism, especially in terms of the cold glance it casts on issues relating to sex. in a way, i kind of like that this show is the hit it is, and has the audience it does, because it seems like some sort of insane fluke or mistake... a thing that somehow through the gatekeepers of mainstream culture. the fact that people consume it as if it were the O.C. makes it seem like it is a show from an alternate universe where shows like the O.C. are like Girls -- an alternate universe where American culture is far more honest. one minor thing though:

do you really think marnie has been that successful in "cashing in" thusfar? i guess if she reconciles with charlie that will count as a success, and it is a bit repulsive that she would never have been interested in him if he didn't achieve success with his app. in general though, i think i feel more...not sympathy but pity for her than i do for say, jessa, who seems immune somehow from the real-world fears and concerns that do, if only abstractly, weigh on marnie and make her miserable.

severely depressed robots are "twee" (Pat Finn), Monday, 18 March 2013 06:10 (eleven years ago) link

and i guess relating to my first paragraph, i would think that the lapses into conventionality, while i agree with you that they are annoying, might be necessary for the show to remain recognizably within the young-people-living-in-the-city comedy genre which has such a long history in American television. really, Girls is only interesting when seen as a break with the conventions of this genre and this history. also, i think i might just be in a mode where i just want to justify everything about this show because i like it a lot, and i hope this isn't annoying.

severely depressed robots are "twee" (Pat Finn), Monday, 18 March 2013 06:14 (eleven years ago) link

i agree with you about the mainstream success of this show; it's clearly struck some sort of chord but it's odd that it's been so neatly and quickly monetized and then left weirdly unexamined. it's a grenade in the shape of a grenade that people are treating like a cupcake.

i dunno about successful exactly i do think marnie has gotten what she "wanted": relationship with arty guy that didn't pan out (remember, she walked out on her job because he invited her home) because he wasn't serious about looking after her and then the confrontation with charlie and the too pat "you know it's not about your money" semi-confession. i share the pity/sympathy you feel and i think we're meant to because dunham is really indicting the system that funnels marnie down this path more than the individual. regardless, it can be shocking how rough she can be with the character; her grabbing the candelabra was a particularly shitty touch of the "Well if i'm here" variety that suggests dunham's utter disdain for the character's deeper inner life.

i don't think your desire to justify the more formulaic elements of the show are annoying, i just think they're as unnecessary as the formula itself is. She's on HBO! She has a hit show! She's proven she can get away with anything! Why adhere to played out structures? Probably because she's still working on producing her voice in full and without restraint and is being led along by apatow and a production crew that knows how to make the trains run on time. Little by little. She's only improving.

i petted a bodega cat today. (forksclovetofu), Monday, 18 March 2013 06:29 (eleven years ago) link

and are you new here Pat? don't think i've seen you about.

i petted a bodega cat today. (forksclovetofu), Monday, 18 March 2013 06:31 (eleven years ago) link

(weirdly unexamined by the HBO marketing team i mean; i'm well aware the crit storm is part of what makes this show a media darling)

i petted a bodega cat today. (forksclovetofu), Monday, 18 March 2013 06:38 (eleven years ago) link

forks you have some good insights here but man I thought the music cue at the end was hilarious, how can you complain about that

my god i only have 2 useless beyblade (silby), Monday, 18 March 2013 06:49 (eleven years ago) link

yeah I thought the music was meant to be pointing out how fucking idiotic and narcissistic Adam and Hannah were being

( ͡° ͜ʖ͡°) (sic), Monday, 18 March 2013 10:22 (eleven years ago) link

I think this is the least unexamined programme in the history of television !!

the pinefox, Monday, 18 March 2013 11:15 (eleven years ago) link

lol I was gonna say.

One bad call from barely losing to (Alex in SF), Monday, 18 March 2013 12:39 (eleven years ago) link

(weirdly unexamined by the HBO marketing team i mean; i'm well aware the crit storm is part of what makes this show a media darling)
― i petted a bodega cat today. (forksclovetofu), Monday, March 18, 2013 6:38 AM

i petted a bodega cat today. (forksclovetofu), Monday, 18 March 2013 14:43 (eleven years ago) link

forks you have some good insights here but man I thought the music cue at the end was hilarious, how can you complain about that

― my god i only have 2 useless beyblade (silby), Monday, March 18, 2013 2:49 AM (10 hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

yeah I thought the music was meant to be pointing out how fucking idiotic and narcissistic Adam and Hannah were being

― ( ͡° ͜ʖ͡°) (sic), Monday, March 18, 2013 6:22 AM (6 hours ago) Bookmark

I guess we can go around and around about whether the Nicholas Sparks style music and reunion was meant to be ironic but I thought it was soooo lame. forks otm in most of his posts.

dmr, Monday, 18 March 2013 17:27 (eleven years ago) link

Shoshanna's big speech was ok ... "I can't be the only thing that you like!!"

the rest of the episode was pretty wack

dmr, Monday, 18 March 2013 17:28 (eleven years ago) link

Charlie/Marni scene was shot at Roberta's, right? lol.

dmr, Monday, 18 March 2013 17:29 (eleven years ago) link

given the fact that many of these characters seem motivated and constrained by certain notions of a "script" (domesticity, being an artist, success) i almost think that last scene was really on point and hilarious (and it's allowed to be touching at the same time). I dunno, I'm not that cynical about it. something can be moving and bullshit at the same time.

ryan, Monday, 18 March 2013 17:34 (eleven years ago) link

I can't even begin to unpack the gender issues forks brought up, the music was so out-of-tune with the rest of the series, and mixed so hot, that I just assumed there was probably some eleventh-hour editing room fuckery going on and I was left feeling confused. Ray was 'not bad' in this episode. I liked Hannah's voicemail that she left for Jessa.

♫ don't you have your own computer? ♫ (flamboyant goon tie included), Monday, 18 March 2013 17:35 (eleven years ago) link

The abrupt tonal shift from Marnie + Charlie fighting to "we'll stay together forever" was so dissonant I was like ugh somebody let an executive in the editing suite I think

♫ don't you have your own computer? ♫ (flamboyant goon tie included), Monday, 18 March 2013 17:37 (eleven years ago) link

i also liked the voice message

i petted a bodega cat today. (forksclovetofu), Monday, 18 March 2013 17:39 (eleven years ago) link

i felt that tonal shift was kinda cool and part of the point.

ryan, Monday, 18 March 2013 17:39 (eleven years ago) link

i feel like there are specific ways you can watch this show and it's interesting how we fall into camps in our expectations and appreciations and issues and how they divide fairly neatly depending on which camp you fall into. not sure this is applicable to other shows? louie, breaking bad, justified not so much.

i petted a bodega cat today. (forksclovetofu), Monday, 18 March 2013 17:41 (eleven years ago) link

i think LD was going for a frission and didn't really pull it off.

s.clover, Monday, 18 March 2013 17:49 (eleven years ago) link

that's possibly true. i dont think these kind of "grand unironic gestures" are really out of the norm for her---i thought last season ended on a similar note of reaching (and it forms a neat symmetry with the end of this season).

ryan, Monday, 18 March 2013 17:51 (eleven years ago) link


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