Rolling 'this is sexist' thread

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How gentlemanly.

emil.y, Friday, 22 February 2013 21:35 (eleven years ago) link

it's only gentlemanly.

xpost!

:C (crüt), Friday, 22 February 2013 21:35 (eleven years ago) link

Zach Nold probably thinks the taxes his parents pay entitles him to a vote, right?

Kiarostami bag (milo z), Friday, 22 February 2013 21:36 (eleven years ago) link

Gliding with no precise movements (5),
boil flashed monarchs howl profanities like a purring kitten (8).

wins rules at negative self-demolition (wins), Friday, 22 February 2013 21:37 (eleven years ago) link

http://i47.tinypic.com/2ylmxxc.png

christmas candy bar (al leong), Friday, 22 February 2013 21:38 (eleven years ago) link

boil flashed monarchs howl profanities like a purring kitten

Kitties don't even talk like that.

Austerity Ponies, Friday, 22 February 2013 21:40 (eleven years ago) link

man that guy's other editorials are just...they're exactly what i expected, actually

well if it isn't old 11 cameras simon (gbx), Friday, 22 February 2013 21:51 (eleven years ago) link

one weird trick to reading a nold article: click and drag the picture so that his face bounces on top of words you're reading, singalong style

chilli, Friday, 22 February 2013 21:55 (eleven years ago) link

this is one of the stupidest things i have ever read in my entire life

http://www.dailynebraskan.com/opinion/article_372f6bca-2249-11e2-ab30-0019bb30f31a.html

well if it isn't old 11 cameras simon (gbx), Friday, 22 February 2013 21:55 (eleven years ago) link

dude's an english major; what exactly does he think he's contributing to society

железобетонное очко (mookieproof), Friday, 22 February 2013 21:58 (eleven years ago) link

Feminism has met its goals and women are now equal with men as they should be. We are truly beginning to see feminism change our economy, college campuses and relationships. However, an overreaching has begun to happen through feminism whether or not they realize it.

Feminism has achieved what it was set out to do, and now that women are considered equal, ‘feminists’ want more. The movement is ruining modern relationships, and it’s bringing about the downfall of men. This can easily be seen by the numbers on a college campus and in the modern economy.

железобетонное очко (mookieproof), Friday, 22 February 2013 22:02 (eleven years ago) link

okay the leggings thing was o_O enough, but that one sheesh

HAPPY BDAY TOOTS (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Friday, 22 February 2013 22:03 (eleven years ago) link

congrats ladies

железобетонное очко (mookieproof), Friday, 22 February 2013 22:03 (eleven years ago) link

Putin howled profanities "like a kitten"

this is called money bags (Phil D.), Friday, 22 February 2013 22:03 (eleven years ago) link

should introduce him and marc loi

caek, Friday, 22 February 2013 22:14 (eleven years ago) link

otm

:C (crüt), Friday, 22 February 2013 22:15 (eleven years ago) link

that we like to call the lovely lady lump

as equal with men as they should be

☠ ☃ ☠ (mh), Saturday, 23 February 2013 01:19 (eleven years ago) link

If we see less; we tend to want more.

his editor not only fails at preventing his garbage from being published, but also fails at preventing catastrophic semicolon fiascos.

this guy makes me sad to be a zach. step up your game, nebraska zach.

( ( ( ( ( ( ( (Z S), Saturday, 23 February 2013 01:27 (eleven years ago) link

So, they continue to push against the ‘evil man’ until they can push no further.

Come over by this cliff, I have to show you something. It's really cool.

lets just remember to blame the patriarchy for (in orbit), Saturday, 23 February 2013 01:27 (eleven years ago) link

CIS-kill cliff

lance armstrong will have been delighted (darraghmac), Saturday, 23 February 2013 01:44 (eleven years ago) link

In this day and age, it’s usually the parent’s choices (exception: rape) that created the kid in the first place.

k3vin k., Saturday, 23 February 2013 03:44 (eleven years ago) link

i am picturing him pausing and raising a finger, "exception: rape," magnanimous, graciously allowing the possibility that ~sometimes~ children aren't choices, and now i am picturing clenching all the blood out of my fists

well if it isn't old 11 cameras simon (gbx), Saturday, 23 February 2013 03:53 (eleven years ago) link

yeah that was awfully big of him to make that exception

k3vin k., Saturday, 23 February 2013 04:20 (eleven years ago) link

the lesson here of course is that college newspapers are a repository for the absolute worst people on the planet

k3vin k., Saturday, 23 February 2013 04:21 (eleven years ago) link

obv

tho dollars:donuts ilx is home to a great deal of former collegiate journos

well if it isn't old 11 cameras simon (gbx), Saturday, 23 February 2013 04:35 (eleven years ago) link

ha yeah no shame in that, i wrote for my school paper briefly too. HATED IT

k3vin k., Saturday, 23 February 2013 04:38 (eleven years ago) link

Sir, voting is a right of every citizen. It does not matter if you are a 'contributing' citizen, because the moment you put qualifications on voting then you've opened to door wide open to tyranny, bcz who the fuck decides who 'contributes'? Some fuckwad like you? Not in my country, you don't.

Aimless, Saturday, 23 February 2013 04:55 (eleven years ago) link

yeah that bit jumped out at me as well. what a fucker.

a kissed out red popemobile (Trayce), Saturday, 23 February 2013 05:23 (eleven years ago) link

olive posted at 5:09 pm on Sat, Feb 23, 2013.
olive Posts: 1

Zach,

I sat next to you two years ago at Selleck Dining Hall. Not only did you refuse to be a decent human being by introducing yourself as Zach Nold, you decided to declare women as "fire-breathing dragons." I didn't care so much for what you had to say then nor do I care for anything you have to say now. Your former brothers from Kappa Sigma even looked at you with a little confusion after you made this statement. It's pretty apparent that you've had a complex for women far longer than anyone could guess.

SOYLENT GREEN IS SHEEPLE (stevie), Saturday, 23 February 2013 23:36 (eleven years ago) link

also why is it whenever you see a picture of one of these weird misogynist 'i've been around the block a coupla times let me tell you about these females' they always always ALWAYS without fail look like wallflower virgins who aren't even ready to shave yet?

SOYLENT GREEN IS SHEEPLE (stevie), Saturday, 23 February 2013 23:37 (eleven years ago) link

in my day fire-breathing dragons were considered cool, I guess I am out of touch :(

an average girl realizing that leggings aren't helping the cause (DJ Mencap), Sunday, 24 February 2013 01:03 (eleven years ago) link

'The fact is women have become so independent and focused on their work many have forgotten how to have a relationship based on mutual understanding and cooperation. Instead, it has become a competition, and feminism has turned relationships into a competition of equality as well.'

Finding this very difficult to parse. He's basically ignoring that 'a relationship based on mutual understanding and cooperation' is a lot easier to have if both people work rather than one person working and the other not, because then their 'understanding' of work can be 'mutual'.

Alternatively it's not really worth analysing and he's just using mutual understanding to sugar coat the assertion that women shouldn't be out working. Also the assumption that 'a relationship' is more important than work: is that true for everyone? Is there any reason why it should be? People are allowed to want to devote their life to work, right

cardamon, Sunday, 24 February 2013 02:49 (eleven years ago) link

You are giving way too much credit to Misogynist College Op-Ed Man's capacity for critical thinking. If he were capable of it he wouldn't be a Misogynist College Op-Ed Man.

my god i only have 2 useless beyblade (silby), Sunday, 24 February 2013 03:12 (eleven years ago) link

anything more than "fuck this guy" is thinking too much about him imo

forks is lucky he didn't get stabbed over a marilyn monroe cd (forksclovetofu), Sunday, 24 February 2013 05:36 (eleven years ago) link

otm

my god i only have 2 useless beyblade (silby), Sunday, 24 February 2013 06:22 (eleven years ago) link

What even is a "competition of equality"? Is that when you, Important Man of Household, hold forth on a topic like your day at work or your exciting thoughts for half an hour, and your gf annoyingly feels the need to drop in a few words about her own workday/thoughts/interests to remind you that she has some too?

I mean how dare she, gotta cut that shit off immediately with "why are you always complaining about this stuff, I don't even know what you do or who any of these people are" just to show how wrong she is that anything she is or does could possibly even approach equality to you, right?

susuwatari teenage riot (a passing spacecadet), Sunday, 24 February 2013 10:39 (eleven years ago) link

Probably not going to change my username to 'exception : rape', but sure was tempted for a couple minutes there.

I turned away to leave these few in thought and contemplation (Bananaman Begins), Sunday, 24 February 2013 13:23 (eleven years ago) link

three weeks pass...

Not really sure what to think about this:

https://twitter.com/adriarichards/status/313417655879102464

Basically, as far as I can tell, guy makes inappropriate lewd jokes at tech conference (I guess in an under-the-breath but audible way to his friend while sitting in the audience), this twitterer outed him with a pic, he got fired. Of course she didn't ask for him to be fired, so that's not on her, but was it right for her to publicly "out" him for this? And how bad was it for him to make this sort of joke at a conference? I'm not trying to be po faced about this, I'd really like people to weigh in on how uncomfortable this kind of joke in this kind of scenario makes them -- it's not the sort of thing I do anyway, but it's the sort of thing I would more actively make sure not to do if it really makes people uncomfortable.

space phwoar (Hurting 2), Wednesday, 20 March 2013 13:54 (eleven years ago) link

He deserves death

mister borges (darraghmac), Wednesday, 20 March 2013 14:07 (eleven years ago) link

T/F: this wouldn't have happened if they hadn't been sporting smug beards

Heyman (crüt), Wednesday, 20 March 2013 14:16 (eleven years ago) link

reading the responses this woman is getting on some of the links associated with this, half the tech industry needs to be fired over this

Darth Icky (DJP), Wednesday, 20 March 2013 14:17 (eleven years ago) link

I don't get what forking repos means, but making a joke about big dongles doesn't seem sexist in itself to me, it could well just be harmlessly silly. But she's not very specific about what was actually said and to whom - there are definitely ways in which it could be inappropriate enough to call out. If it was during a female speaker, and it was consistently undermining the speech, with comments like "I'd show her my big dongle if you know what I mean", then yes, call it out, it's sexist. Still not sure posting a photo to twitter is the best way to go even in that case, but it would be more understandable.

xp - yeah, now looking at some male responses, and THEY are grossly sexist.

emil.y, Wednesday, 20 March 2013 14:18 (eleven years ago) link

Perfectly acceptable to publicly out jerks.

Jeff, Wednesday, 20 March 2013 14:20 (eleven years ago) link

apparently the joke made was "I'd like to fork his repo!" which the joke-maker then went on to claim had no sexual connotation on one of those links despite sexual connotation being the sole reason why that format of joke came into being in the first place

Darth Icky (DJP), Wednesday, 20 March 2013 14:23 (eleven years ago) link

I don't think going "lol, big dongles" is the sign of being a jerk, though. But then I have an incredibly puerile sense of humour.

emil.y, Wednesday, 20 March 2013 14:23 (eleven years ago) link

Their employer might have overreacted, but if they were there on company business, they were sitting behind what appears to be one of the only women in the room and making sexually-charged "jokes" probably violates their employer's code of conduct. She is totally within her rights to do what she did, because I really don't think confronting them would do anything constructive other than get the kind of nasty responses she's received on twitter and in comments.

Were it me, I'd probably turn around and give them a dirty look or tell them to knock it off, but they'd more likely see me as a peer, not because I'm a developer and around their age, but because I'm male.

☠ ☃ ☠ (mh), Wednesday, 20 March 2013 14:24 (eleven years ago) link

Writes about it on her blog.
http://butyoureagirl.com/14015/forking-and-dongle-jokes-dont-belong-at-tech-conferences/

Get the impression that it wouldn't have been an issue had the jokes actually been funny.

tsrobodo, Wednesday, 20 March 2013 14:26 (eleven years ago) link


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