Contraception: The Poll

haha. its like gambling with the odds v slightly in your favor!

plus mandatory cs on something

^^otm

does anyone use the pills made to be taken continuously such as seasonique or lybrel? maybe i could start a thread about this. thinking baout things.

Hang on... I'm just trying to get my head around the logic behind this.

Contraception = trying to avoid pregnancy.

So you say that abstinence is simply not a contraceptive method. Despite vast amounts of money being poured into "sex education" in the US that claims abstinence is the *only* contraceptive method.

Are we quibbling about words here (that abstinence may be birth control, but isn't technically contraceptive because no sex was involved) or is the political/ideological nastiness of the latter of those two options above making you throw out the entire idea that it could be used as a form of birth control?

I mean, granted, I didn't choose to be celibate *solely* with the aim of avoiding pregnancy, but I'd be lying if I said it wasn't a big plus. (It's 100% effective, after all.)

I'm certainly NOT advocating or promoting it as an option for anyone else - but I think it's naive - and perhaps politically motivated - to say that it's *not* an option at all.

(I mean, perhaps my annoyance is based on those yearly checkups where the doctor always asks me "what contraception are you using" and I say "celibacy" and she says "nope, that's not an option on my list and I have to check something." That this is somehow inconceivable as an option for a healthy woman of child-bearing age.)

A: that abstinence may be birth control, but isn't technically contraceptive because no sex was involved

I dont think anyone says abstinence is the only contraceptive. Its more like abstinence is the only way to be 100% sure you wont get pregnant.

Its an option but i wouldnt call it a contraceptive method.

I was under the impression that US right wing bible bangers had been shoving it down kids throats along with Intelligent Design. I guess I gotta stop reading those liberal newspapers and stuff. Ha ha!

They have and they do, but it's more like Rock Hardy says. And they don't give out info on the other types.

That's just plain dumb and counterproductive. Argh.

I don't remember what I said, but I'm sure it was OTM.

My own answer is vasectomy. That shit hurt! (But not as bad as having a baby, I'm sure.)

tell me about this nuvaring thing! side effects? have just gone off the pill again because i kept forgetting to take it, plus i hate the is-this-making-me-mental-or-not feeling when i'm on it (i.e. is it just shit going on in my life or is this fake hormone making everything feel 10x worse than it should).

i looked at the website (this thing is not even available in NZ) and it sounds great, but i'm always dubious about anything containing hormones.

Side effects are next to nil (I had none when I used it) because the hormone dose is HELLA low. It doesn't have to have much, cause it doesn't need to travel dar in your body, basically.

I have had side effects (mainly just zombie or robot "feelings") while on every other hormonal method.

the problem with pill side effects for me is that they're not blatantly obvious and come on slowly, so i don't realise the change till i go off it (eg. i'm managing my anxiety/stress/etc about living in a new country much better since i went off it). i hadn't been on the pill for about 2 yrs and went back on right before i came to the US... pretty fucking stupid plan, really, but i procrastinated. so then i didn't know if it was this new pill fucking me up or the fuck that i was uprooting my whole life.

Tough to tell in most situations with that stuff, yeah. Just ride it out.

lol 'the fuckfact that i was uprooting my whole life'

haha i read it that way anyways

haha..me too

i know a couple girls who went on the nuvaring and couldnt stop crying for days and days so... ymmv

IUD and cervical cap are not the same thing. Isn't a cervical cap similar to a diaphragm?

xpost, I don't think that's an expected side effect of...anything.

AAAAGGHH, IUD and Cervical Cap were supposed to be on different lines!!!!

And yeah, a cervical cap is similar to a diaphragm, but thicker, rubber and fits directly, snugly over your cervix.

i havent been on the pill since 04 but even then it was only for 2 months. before that i think it was early 90s. i become a complete whiney bitch when im on the pill.

well im always kind of a whiney bitch so lets super whiney super bitch

plus i dont give a shit about shorter periods. who cares.

i've been pretty emotional on it, but there's been some mega shit going down so it's hard to tell wtf is up anyway

i doubt it's pill-related, though. it's low-dose (mircette). I was on a very high dose BC method (depo) long ago, and it just made me cold and emotionless.

xpost otm, mine's like 3 days tops anyways

one of life's biggest lols is that BCs often lower your sex drive

I'm all about no periods. this is one of the reasons I took the pill for so long. But so far I have had no periods with my IUD either.

i mean, we can land a fucking man on the moon

xpost

hey how long have you had an IUD and which kind do you have, susan?

i thought they banned iuds years ago because it was make ladies infertile. i guess theyve fixed them since then. don't all you non period chicks worry that its screwing up your fertility should you want babbies down the road?

Nah, it doesn't hurt you at all not to have a period, look at the observant Jews -- they stay pregnant or breastfeeding pretty much their entire adult lives, and it doesn't seem to stop them from having 11 children each.

I back the ring 100% but I just went off it because I miss the hormonal high of ovulation, when every masculine characteristic in the world looks magical. Keeps life interesting.

Have researched IUDs but it seems the new ones are also hormonal in nature, there's at least a little bit of hormonal affect in addn to the chemical (copper or whatev). I think if I were going through the pain/discomfort of having an IUD inserted, I'd want to be totally artificial hormone-free...?

they still use copper? i thought the copper was the problem?

The problem was, I think, only with one brand (the Dalkon Shield) and had to do with the string or stem that protrudes from the uterus, and the kind of string they were using could harbor bacteria and give it a way to travel erm, up. At least that's my understanding. Nothing to do with copper that I'm aware of.

I've got some contraception: twenty minutes of cybersex with my boyfriend (who is at home) while I am at work. No fear there, except my boss leaning over my shoulder... of course I now want to skip out early...

I use the pill, I love the pill though I suspect it's contributed to weight gain. I am also always tickled when I go to buy more and I use our shared account as per my boyfriend's insistence!

hey how long have you had an IUD and which kind do you have, susan?

Only six weeks. I have mirena, the plastic, hormone kind. I mostly didn't want to mess with having another pill to take everyday. It's also more reliable and cheaper (assuming you have insurance to cover it).

The insertion hurt like hell for about 20 seconds and then it was done.

I know I've talked about it endlessly on other threads but there's nothing wrong with skipping periods. The obgyns I've had for the past six or seven years have had no issue with it. Also, the period you have on the pill isn't real anyway.

I skipped periods on Depo for about 4 years, and it definitely didn't mess with my fertility. When I went off of it I promptly became pregnant.

I use the pill, I love the pill though I suspect it's contributed to weight gain

Man, about the halfway point of the pill pack I want to eat everything all day. I suspceted this was making me gain weight, but I weighed myself and had lost 4 pounds.

Pills be makin' women crazy and shit.

One pill makes you larger And one pill makes you small

now that's just plain mean (funny though).

Which is this small pill?

trimspa baby

dexamphetamine

ru 486

Yeah, that doesn't stop conception, if you can believe it! And it's not called that anymore unless you're French.

it was a response to this:

Which is this small pill?

― I'm right right and you're wrong left (Susan), Monday, September 22, 2008 3:46 PM (48 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

you goof

oh haha, i had it bookmarked so i forgot that shit even happened
carry on

Oh yeah. This is my second. The last one I got out I was like "Wait, it's out?". It's the reinsertion I'm not looking forward to.

Yeah, that is no fun.

ugh it's been about 2.5 months and still i'm dealing with all the bullshit of of a mirena. it's not a big deal but boy am i looking forward to not bleeding one day in the hopefully near future.

I have been putting off having a new mirena inserted because that shit is unpleasant as fuuuuuuck.

yeah it was pretty fuckin painful (the insertion but also the depth-checking thing). but, TMI ALERT, after using condoms for 6 yrs with my husband i'd forgotten how incredibly better/different condomless sex is. wish i'd had one put in years ago - totally worth the 15 secs of terrible agony.

So I was right, it was partially expelled. She couldn't actually feel it in my cervix but trusted me enough to suggest we take it out and insert a new one. As soon as she pulled even a little the stem (i dont know what else to call it) came out and she was like, "oh yeah, that sucker was lodged in your cervix and the t part was resting on the bottom not the top". She put another in and yeah it really sucked for about a minute but I'm not feeling too bad now.

While there I had blood drawn to check my AMH and FSH levels just to kind of get a general idea of what my egg reserve is looking like.

http://www.rmanj.com/2013/09/anti-mullerian-hormone-amh-testing-of-ovarian-reserve/
http://www.advancedfertility.com/day3fsh.htm

It'll be interesting to get the results. Not sure what I'll do either way but it'll be interesting nevertheless.

ugh it's been about 2.5 months and still i'm dealing with all the bullshit of of a mirena. it's not a big deal but boy am i looking forward to not bleeding one day in the hopefully near future.

:/ Getting one put in around early February, probably.

It's really not that bad, just annoying.

Yeah this newest one was annoying for a couple days but I haven't had any problems since.

I got the results of those two tests back and I'm still "optimally fertile" as measured by both. While they don't measure egg quality they do give an indication of quantity so basically it looks like I have plenty left which is good to know, I guess.

E, how did you know yours was coming out? Just string length? I'm super paranoid bc ican't tell if I'm imagining my strings are longer or not - the np never told me like "ok icut the strings two inches in"or anything, and they've been twisted up.

I checked for the strings absentmindedly (never really do regularly) and felt the hard plastic from the bottom part of the IUD right at the opening of my cervix. The doc said the strings were very long but I hadn't noticed that. The hard plastic was unmistakable though.

that reminds me of one of my favorite things ever said on ilx

Birth Control: Advice and Anecdotes

xp ok good to know - no plastic poking out yet!!

thank you, thank you very much, xpost

I never updated what happened with my IUD a year and a half ago because I didn't want to freak anyone/everyone out buuuuuttttt, it turns out that it hadn't turned around and poked through my cervix, but the t part of it had actually perforated my uterus and was poking out the top of it (way to read that CT scan, doc!). They said it probably happened when it was inserted 4.5 years earlier. I had no adverse side effects, no crazy cramping or bleeding, didn't get knocked up, and it came out super-easily, so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

(my original post referencing this is upthread of LL's link)

they original dr didn't do an ultrasound to check the placement once it was first inserted??

none of mine ever have

i think that perforations usual cause a lot of immediate bleeding and mine inserts over 300 a year and the ultrasound isn't standard practice for her.

Kaiser is mostly shit but the np did do an ultrasound to make sure she'd placed it correctly.

Yeah, u/s after insertion is not standard of care. Most of the time, it's gonna be in the right spot.

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Behind every successful woman is 14 even more successful women texting her "Stay strong you're gonna be so glad you got the IUD"