also try to use the times stylebook for phrasing
― kristof-profiting-from-a-childs-illiteracy.html (schlump), Thursday, 20 December 2012 23:27 (eleven years ago) link
chicks dig the times
chicks dig the whoppers jr.
― 乒乓, Thursday, 20 December 2012 23:28 (eleven years ago) link
People approaching OKC in that spirit probably goes a long way toward explaining why so many profiles come off so blandly.
― Poop Song 89 (Old Lunch), Thursday, 20 December 2012 23:29 (eleven years ago) link
pasting this to ilx out of context w/zero regard for your privacyxp
― kristof-profiting-from-a-childs-illiteracy.html (schlump), Thursday, 20 December 2012 23:30 (eleven years ago) link
xp No, I think those people are just boring.
― grossly incorrect register (in orbit), Thursday, 20 December 2012 23:31 (eleven years ago) link
"first they came for the..." arguments are soooooooo tiresome in 2012 btw
― 乒乓, Thursday, 20 December 2012 23:32 (eleven years ago) link
first they came for the nice guys who wear fedoras on OKC :|
It's about time someone did something about those. I was thinking of putting out traps.
― grossly incorrect register (in orbit), Thursday, 20 December 2012 23:33 (eleven years ago) link
"Try not to be laughable on the internet" is like some kind of 21st C. paranoid Zen koan.
― Poop Song 89 (Old Lunch), Thursday, 20 December 2012 23:39 (eleven years ago) link
Sorry I just have a sore spot about people reposting internet stuff (esp private convos etc) for laughs because it has been done to me before.
― Una Stubbs' Tears (Trayce), Thursday, 20 December 2012 23:40 (eleven years ago) link
I do agree w/ u guys that the blog probably could have sufficed with just screen captures of the written parts themselves, including pixx is maybe a bit much
― 乒乓, Thursday, 20 December 2012 23:41 (eleven years ago) link
but the pix do reveal that all these 'nice guys' seem to be 'of a type' ; \
― 乒乓, Thursday, 20 December 2012 23:42 (eleven years ago) link
xxxp It's not like living in fear is the only option we have here, dude. You could also just not be an asshole, that option is always open.
― grossly incorrect register (in orbit), Thursday, 20 December 2012 23:42 (eleven years ago) link
You have nothing to be sorry about, Trayce. I'm sure it sucks hard.
― Poop Song 89 (Old Lunch), Thursday, 20 December 2012 23:42 (eleven years ago) link
i have some qualms about this a la Old Lunch but i think in orbit is otm that this is not really akin to a mythical "ugly chicks of okc." what makes these people stick out is not (just) nerdiness or a strong whiff of the pathetic but barely-masked vicious anger
― before and after broscience (goole), Thursday, 20 December 2012 23:43 (eleven years ago) link
Yeah dont get me wrong. calling peopl eout for shit like "youre all bitches oh but BTW shave yr damn legs WHY WONT ANYONE DATE ME" is incredibly laughable, but yeah. the pics? I dunno.
― Una Stubbs' Tears (Trayce), Thursday, 20 December 2012 23:44 (eleven years ago) link
xxxpost
Just sayin'...is there anyone who wouldn't likely come off as laughable and worthy of public mockery to some dickhole on the internet?
― Poop Song 89 (Old Lunch), Thursday, 20 December 2012 23:44 (eleven years ago) link
Cruelty is fine as long as the person is wearing a fedora, I guess.
― pun lovin criminal (polyphonic), Thursday, 20 December 2012 23:45 (eleven years ago) link
therefore we should just burn down the internet
― 乒乓, Thursday, 20 December 2012 23:46 (eleven years ago) link
first they came for the fedora lovers, but I said nothing because my hair looks weird in hats.
― pun lovin criminal (polyphonic), Thursday, 20 December 2012 23:47 (eleven years ago) link
xxxp I don't think that is as big a problem/tragedy as you seem to think it is.
― grossly incorrect register (in orbit), Thursday, 20 December 2012 23:47 (eleven years ago) link
imagine escaping the friendzone only to wind up in the douchezone instead.
― estela, Thursday, 20 December 2012 23:50 (eleven years ago) link
great lede
― pun lovin criminal (polyphonic), Thursday, 20 December 2012 23:53 (eleven years ago) link
deric/trayce you realize all anyone needs to see your super-secret OKC profile is an email address, right?
― ❏❐❑❒ (gr8080), Thursday, 20 December 2012 23:55 (eleven years ago) link
its not even close to the same thing as a facebook page or 77
xpost
Yeah, I'm aware that privacy anywhere on the internet is super illusory. It's just that you come to trust so much in the general tendency of most civilized strangers to not randomly stab you in the neck that it's easy to forget that the internet is the wild west.
― Poop Song 89 (Old Lunch), Friday, 21 December 2012 00:00 (eleven years ago) link
you come to trust so much in the general tendency of most civilized strangers to not randomly stab you in the neck
well here's your first mistake
― electricsound, Friday, 21 December 2012 00:04 (eleven years ago) link
TBF, it's only happened to me four or five times in my life.
― Poop Song 89 (Old Lunch), Friday, 21 December 2012 00:05 (eleven years ago) link
most don't.
― ❏❐❑❒ (gr8080), Friday, 21 December 2012 00:09 (eleven years ago) link
we need to doxx m@x read in response
― bnw, Friday, 21 December 2012 00:15 (eleven years ago) link
http://www.okcupid.com/flat/media/img/emails/endoftheworld.jpg
go out with a bang!
we're screwed. you should be too!
― mookieproof, Friday, 21 December 2012 00:29 (eleven years ago) link
I'll fuckin... I'll fuckin... sew your asshole closed and keep feedin you and keep feedin you
― ❏❐❑❒ (gr8080), Friday, 21 December 2012 00:30 (eleven years ago) link
Oh I'm under no misapprehension the page is actually *private*. I dunno I just think its rude. Its my thing.
― Una Stubbs' Tears (Trayce), Friday, 21 December 2012 00:32 (eleven years ago) link
pretty much pro public shaming in any context
― back in judy's tenuta (strongo hulkington's ghost dad), Friday, 21 December 2012 00:36 (eleven years ago) link
like bring back being pelted with rotten fruit while in the stocks in my opinion
― back in judy's tenuta (strongo hulkington's ghost dad), Friday, 21 December 2012 00:37 (eleven years ago) link
Feel like the slippery slope is a concept that is rapidly fading from collective human consciousness these days. Good thing the world is over tomorrow.
― Poop Song 89 (Old Lunch), Friday, 21 December 2012 00:57 (eleven years ago) link
nooo they be takin my slippery slopes
― ❏❐❑❒ (gr8080), Friday, 21 December 2012 01:00 (eleven years ago) link
if you've ever done anything on the internet you probably deserve to be shamed
― back in judy's tenuta (strongo hulkington's ghost dad), Friday, 21 December 2012 01:01 (eleven years ago) link
http://i.imgur.com/KU2YH.jpg
― ❏❐❑❒ (gr8080), Friday, 21 December 2012 01:05 (eleven years ago) link
proving my point
― back in judy's tenuta (strongo hulkington's ghost dad), Friday, 21 December 2012 01:09 (eleven years ago) link
i'm gonna die and that .jpg is still gonna be on the internet
― back in judy's tenuta (strongo hulkington's ghost dad), Friday, 21 December 2012 01:10 (eleven years ago) link
pretty sure i've posted about this before, but true story:
in 2006 my work computer crashed and it had to get sent from hawaii to chicago for our corporate IT people to fix/re-image. when the new computer got shipped back, i was really sad to see that the 5 or 10 gigs of MP3s i'd had on it were not there, and yet all of my internet explorer bookmarks were preserved, including that image (which i had no memory of ever seeing, let alone bookmarking).
― ❏❐❑❒ (gr8080), Friday, 21 December 2012 01:13 (eleven years ago) link
there is a series of m3g4cyc1es posts originally from someone called d3r3k or d3nn1s or something which display this sort of commingled sadsack ingratiaion / visceral hatred much more acutely and hilariously, but then within his admittedly minor field of voyeur-tumblr curatorship bh is the emperor of all he surveys
― things that are jokes pretty much (Nilmar Honorato da Silva), Friday, 21 December 2012 01:23 (eleven years ago) link
Far more insidious than these dudes who kinda nakedly wear their misogyny on their sleeves are the dudes who display textbook PUA tendencies and which I'm given to understand are plentiful on OKC. I feel like there needs to be an anti-PUA pamphlet to pass out to all single women who aren't hip to their tactics.
― Poop Song 89 (Old Lunch), Friday, 21 December 2012 01:33 (eleven years ago) link
I am completely open to people being very well-educated about PUA signifiers, but I feel that this would do little beyond educating a small naive audience that is also likely to have other illusions about human relationships. I think the behaviors encapsulated therein are encouraged, if not nurtured, by people who need or are interested in obvious signifiers and customs in their dating. I probably have my own detestable things I look for and cultivate in myself, but they're just not seen as bad in my crowd.
― mh, Friday, 21 December 2012 02:30 (eleven years ago) link
There are probably people who look at their pictures and comments that have been posted to that site, or women who read them, and wonder what the big deal is. For all we know, some women have sought out the fedora-wearers after seeing them on there. Or men are making such profiles knowing the site exists -- it's still publicity.
― mh, Friday, 21 December 2012 02:32 (eleven years ago) link
never done this type of thing but can i just ask if it's standard ton put up a fried egg preference or what?
― banlieue jagger (darraghmac), Friday, 21 December 2012 02:39 (eleven years ago) link
Yeah, I understand "cooked by you and brought to me on a platter" is a popular choice with some dudes.
― Poop Song 89 (Old Lunch), Friday, 21 December 2012 02:43 (eleven years ago) link
hardly gets to the heart of the matter tho
― banlieue jagger (darraghmac), Friday, 21 December 2012 02:45 (eleven years ago) link