Luna

"And she had the nerve to trash the person who gave her 50-75k?"

where did she trash this person? I missed it.

privately in chats. it is also alleged that he flew to visit her and she treated him like shit.

if that were the case then why $K

he was a generous, sweet and forgiving dude

Jesus now I'm confused. If it's the person I think it is (and I'm pretty sure it is) I heard years ago that he went to CA to meet her and that it wasn't so much that she treated him like shit as it was that she completely flaked and just never met up with him at all but made elaborate excuses so that it seemed like it wasn't her fault.

so someone actually met her in person?

wasn't that ... G D?

No, that's not who I am talking about. So I just had it confirmed that I am right on who gave her the $$. I had heard from a reliable old board person that that person once flew to CA to meet her but that once he arrived he made elaborate excuses and they never actually met so that he flew home without ever actually meeting her in person.

SHE made elborate excuses, not he - sorry

Within the past 2 yrs she told me the benefactor had met someone else online, he flew to US to meet her, she was cold to him upon meeting, and he returned home heartbroken. If same guy had already flown to meet Aimee years before, maybe it was a different person? Otherwise I assume there was no other woman.

With me, she never tried to lure me out to see her. I for real was visiting my sister in SF, and asked if she wanted to meet up. Which actually makes it even more twisted really, cause all she needed to say was that she couldn't make it.

So iirc the person I'm thinking of flew to California maybe to do other things but also planning on meeting her but then she bailed. idk - it's all very confusing. When you say:

Within the past 2 yrs she told me the benefactor had met someone else online, he flew to US to meet her, she was cold to him upon meeting, and he returned home heartbroken

You mean he met some other lady online (not amiee) and flew to meet her?

Oh wait - maybe it was you? :/

Here's the thing though - I'm SURE it was told to me that the benefactor was somehow involved with her and I could have sworn that they said he went to meet her. Hmmmm.

Wiat - I'm friends with the person who told me this still. I will just ask them and report back.

It must've been on a weekend that we were to meet up in SF. So, no answer on her cellphone for that whole weekend. I called her before catching a flight back that Monday at her work (she answered the main receptionist line, don't think there was caller ID on it). Could tell she was very flummoxed but she "didn't have time to talk".

You mean he met some other lady online (not amiee) and flew to meet her?

that was the (unsolicited) story she gave me

The person we're speaking of did fly to the US to meet someone who wasnt Aimee, yes. And it wasnt succesful. I'm not comfy with discussing any more detail but that needs clarifying.

nfi if he ever also went to meet her. Its not something I'd ever heard/been told.

:/

Ok wait - I think maybe I was mixed up and that I was thinking of GD meeting with her. I new about her involvement with the benefactor too but I think I was getting them mixed up Sorry guys.

Sorry when I say "wasnt Aimee" i mean it was anoyher person altogether nothing to do with this story/situ.

Yeah, what I thought you meant.

Will still check though.

do we have any one keeping track of this via flowcharts or some kind of .xls

wheels within wheels jesus

But now your off with someone else and I'm alone
You see I thought that I might keep you for my own

Aimee what you wanna do?
I think I could stay with you
For a while, maybe longer if I do

I am basically aghast at all of this

I wish I could go back in time and make this not happen

Also I wanna know the crazy bullshit she told omar about other posters

I'm totally real guys if you come to Texas we can go to applebee's. I have a gift card.

oh ok i was totally wrong about the benefactor flying to meet her - that was a mixup

I dont recall her ever bitching to me about anyone else ever, but I didnt talk to her all that much tbh, apart from occassional platitunal "cheer up sug" emails if I'd been done over by a guy or some shit. A couple ppl up thread called her "the most content-free poster we've ever had" and that had never actually struck me, but it is so true in hindsight. Teflon lady.

She was like a bot programmed by hallmark and hustler.

lol omg

Her shereads1.jpg could go on the beef curtains thread.

she didn't tell me specifics abt other posters but I heard she talked shit abt others. I leave it to others to tell that tale. like I said I lolled.

she had terrible taste in fake faces, she could have picked a much better one than that.

I think my contact was comparatively minimal w her, I can't even remember details it was so long ago.

Aimee: yeah, I'm not bothering with anything else now that you can AIM through gmail
although it makes avoiding ******* tricky at times
oh I know I sound like a cunt, but it's really hard work at times

aimee otm in line 3, part one

Have I been 100% honest, yeah, we both know I haven't. Not
specifically for the purposes of keeping you in the dark, but because
sometimes, honestly, you ask too many questions, and it's just easier.

I'm exactly who I've always represented myself to be, no matter what
anyone there says. Not one person has come to me and asked me if any
of this is true, and they won't, because they're not interested in the
truth, they're interested in what they already "know". I haven't
looked at it in days, and I have no intention of ever doing so - I
said I was leaving, and so I have. I also said anyone could email me,
no one has. I'm over it, I'm done with it, and I'm trying to move on
and not be hurt that people I liked have turned into rabid dogs. They
can say I'm a man, a three boobed space princess, or married to Elvis,
I don't care. Was I "dating" Tep? Yes, I was. Sort of. Did I do and
say things that upset people? Sure I did. I'm not perfect, and am
sometimes an asshole. Am I the person they're describing me as? Well,
I only saw up to Monday afternoon, but no, I'm not. I don't know what
prompted this, what the catalyst was for it to all explode, but I
didn't do anything.

Damn.

Not one person has come to me and asked me if any
of this is true, and they won't, because they're not interested in the
truth,

Haha wtf thats bullshit! I asked! Other people I know for sure asked! WTH.

Jesus Christ we were wrong

I was yelling no no
no so loudly because I didn't want to face that I needed this kind of
attention because it made me feel so pathetic.

I'm sorry I hurt you, I'm sorry I lied to you. You've always been
nothing but honest with me, and I'm appalled that I held that trust so
carelessly. I'd like to ask you for another chance, because I've been
reexamining and reevaluating in the last few days, and I've realized I
just can't be that person anymore. It's the 'when it hurts less to
change than it does to stay the same' thing. I'm not asking to be
anything other than your friend - I'm staying away from that stuff for
a year, I've decided - I would just miss you...

Anyway, if you can't do that, I totally understand.

wait is this breaking news or

these are from 5 yrs ago

I think these are emails from
Lunagate pt 1, yeah?

oh ok
was confused

I'm appalled that I held that trust so
carelessly.

really?!

me: Don't take this the wrong way, I hope it doesn't sound condescending, but maybe it'd benefit you to get some counseling. Just talking to someone who doesn't know you and is non-judgmental can do wonders.

aimee: No, it doesn't sound like that - I've been thinking about it myself. I
don't think our insurance covers much, but it's worth looking into
anyway. I think there are a lot of things I need to work out,
honestly.

http://www.317am.net/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/crit-jon-l.jpg

I blew off a coffee date with Gear (after
telling him I was on the way) - that was totally shitty of me, and I
knew it at the time, but something creeped me out at the last minute.
Chaki - I don't get him. He used to ask me to come to shows and when
I thought I could, I said I'd try, but I never ended up doing it. I
did see him at the record store he worked at one night - he says he'd
remember seeing me, but I was with Tamara, and I didn't go up to the
counter at all, was just browsing while she was buying stuff, but what
the hell does he think I did to him?