the totally insane true story behind the 1970s film and book Sybil

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Yeah, and she also started visiting him in jail and being his 70 year old female companion!

nicest bitch of poster (La Lechera), Monday, 30 July 2012 13:57 (eleven years ago) link

At the end, she wrote to him, “I cannot tell you, Boomy Bum Boo, how much it meant to me to be with you.”

nicest bitch of poster (La Lechera), Monday, 30 July 2012 13:58 (eleven years ago) link

“I cannot tell you, Boomy Bum Boo, how much it meant to me to be with you.”

This line has been haunting me!

I mean, maybe the woman who wrote Sybil Exposed is taking this one step further and adding her own ambitious twist to this story, but she has all of her material sourced and all of the papers are archived at John Jay College, where Flora used to teach. It's just a totally jaw droppingly weird story.

nicest bitch of poster (La Lechera), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:01 (eleven years ago) link

On the SRA tip, my grandparents had this book on their shelves when I was a kid, and I used to leaf through it and be simultaneously fascinated and terrified:

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/5/5e/Michelle_Remembers.jpg

Marco YOLO (Phil D.), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:03 (eleven years ago) link

YES! I was thinking of getting a copy of that.

nicest bitch of poster (La Lechera), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:05 (eleven years ago) link

Is there a more modern version of this book?
http://staging.tralucent.ca/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Extraordinary-Popular-Delusions-and-the-Madness-of-Crowds.jpg? I like the old ones too, but I already read that one.

nicest bitch of poster (La Lechera), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:07 (eleven years ago) link

It kind of amazes me that we went through a period in 20th century America where people believed in gigantic, Satan-worshipping cults abusing scores of kids on the regular with nobody noticing.

Marco YOLO (Phil D.), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:08 (eleven years ago) link

That's what I'm saying! It's BANANANANANANANANAS! Also, what does the massive popular interest in child sex torture in the name of Satan say about the nature of our interests?

nicest bitch of poster (La Lechera), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:11 (eleven years ago) link

I got really into Michelle Remembers recently - some of the scenes are so comic that they'll stay with me forever - like when her captor/owner reveals that he's thinking of getting into Satanism, he does so by throwing the horns. With a straight face, like he says "I need something more than just drugs and pornography and prostitution?" and she says, horrified, "What? What could you need?" and he raises his hand with the pinkie and index finger up in response. And then she says "No, no, noooo!"

The woman who wrote it went on to do more hoaxes where she pretended to be a holocaust survivor!

steven fucking tyler (underrated aerosmith bootlegs I have owned), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:11 (eleven years ago) link

And there's never been any evidence of any such things existing at all, right? I think a lot of people probably still believe that it exists tbh.

(✿◠‿◠) (ENBB), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:12 (eleven years ago) link

I mean of large scale satanic ritual abuse and cults or whatever.

(✿◠‿◠) (ENBB), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:12 (eleven years ago) link

I run a large-scale Satanic cult but we are 100% anti-abuse, we do all the other stuff like blood rituals and heavy doper parties but without the abuse part we can't seem to attract any media attention

steven fucking tyler (underrated aerosmith bootlegs I have owned), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:14 (eleven years ago) link

And there's never been any evidence of any such things existing at all, right?
right

nicest bitch of poster (La Lechera), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:15 (eleven years ago) link

Sybil Exposed is a great book!

I remember my high school psychology teacher being very into multiple personality disorder and showing our class Sybil, and even then it didn't ring true to me.

LISTEN TO THIS BRAD (Nicole), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:17 (eleven years ago) link

at least in dr wilbur's case, the evidence was in the recalled memories that were elicited through sessions in which the frequent injections of Pentothal and a host of other drugs that she administered to the people she treated ERASED the memory of the session for the patient. that was part of her method.

strangely, many people seem to have been hung up on meathooks by their parents.

nicest bitch of poster (La Lechera), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:17 (eleven years ago) link

that first sentence has some clause issues but you follow me, i hope

nicest bitch of poster (La Lechera), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:18 (eleven years ago) link

my mom used to call me Sybil all the time. THANKS MOMS

Cussing like a bunch of Bukowskis (sunny successor), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:19 (eleven years ago) link

shoemaker makes me want to start a thread of signet book covers from the 80s

vincent black shadow giallo (Edward III), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:21 (eleven years ago) link

Nicole, have you read any of Debbie Nathan's other books? She has a couple of others that sound interesting to me -- one about her investigation of the SRA paranoia and another about PORNOGRAPHY.

Satan's Silence, a 1995 work which Nathan co-authored with Michael Snedeker, examined and "debunked" the wave of satanic ritual abuse allegations that took place beginning in the 1980s.[9][10] Victor Navasky described the book as the "definitive study" of the subject,[11] and a CounterPunch columnist credited the book as having "exposed and virtually stopped the so-called satanic cult child sex panic".[12] Paul Okami's review of the book in The Journal of Sex Research noted that the book "is not . . . a scientific work", and he had some criticisms of its organization and what Okami saw as misapplication of certain social-science concepts and an overreliance in some parts of the book on feminist and leftist economic theory; nevertheless, Okami judged the book to be "essential reading . . . for its devastating journalistic portrait" and "for its more general analysis of proximate mechanisms by which our society can become vulnerable to patent collective madness."[13]

Pornography, published in 2007, is written as a concise "guidebook" on the subject of pornography.[14] A Canadian reviewer described the writing as "frank and cool", and made note of Nathan's assertion that no connection has been established between the use of pornography and criminal behavior, as well as her focus on the "connection between porn and shame" to define pornography.[15]

nicest bitch of poster (La Lechera), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:23 (eleven years ago) link

Sunny, that is super fucked up. But it's way worse to be Sybil's mom than it is to be Sybil. Sybil's mom supposedly took many public dumps, had lesbian orgies in the woods with underage girls, and administered punitive enemas to Sybil while she was suspended from the kitchen's light fixture. (It is highly unlikely and completely unconfirmed by multiple firsthand witness interviews with people who knew her personally and intimately). So no harm done in the long run amirite?

EIII please do

nicest bitch of poster (La Lechera), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:23 (eleven years ago) link

who did that art, anyway?

nicest bitch of poster (La Lechera), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:24 (eleven years ago) link

I haven't taught a single Sybil in 15 years--I don't think I've even known one in my entire life. Like Adolf, it's a name that seems to have fallen out of favor.

clemenza, Monday, 30 July 2012 14:25 (eleven years ago) link

Tears For Fears, named their album, 'Songs From the Big Chair', after a phrase used in the 1976 movie. In fact the track 'Big Chair' was inspired by 'Sybil' and the fact she felt safe in the big chair in her therapist's office.

Ward Fowler, Monday, 30 July 2012 14:26 (eleven years ago) link

is there a good precis on any of this stuff available anywhere (relevant wiki entry?), so far this thread is p much elliptically the same as the catholic church thread

, Blogger (schlump), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:27 (eleven years ago) link

Dr Cornelia Wilbur is http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cornelia_B._Wilbur

nicest bitch of poster (La Lechera), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:29 (eleven years ago) link

I haven't taught a single Sybil in 15 years--I don't think I've even known one in my entire life. Like Adolf, it's a name that seems to have fallen out of favor.

― clemenza, Monday, July 30, 2012 10:25 AM (1 minute ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

I really like it! I think someone should bring it back.

(✿◠‿◠) (ENBB), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:29 (eleven years ago) link

One perspective on Satanic Ritual Abuse http://www.religioustolerance.org/sra.htm/

nicest bitch of poster (La Lechera), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:30 (eleven years ago) link

ty LL
i figure this is maybe also useful http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Satanic_ritual_abuse
if not wrt this then just to keep as a pinned tab on the next library computer you use

, Blogger (schlump), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:31 (eleven years ago) link

while she was suspended from the kitchen's light fixture.

I feel like light fixtures cannot actually withstand this? I guess it depends.

check the name, no caps, boom, i'm (Laurel), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:32 (eleven years ago) link

xp - yes, indeed. i can't wait for my friends and family to see my amazon wish list when they buy me birthday presents this year.

here is the most well known of shirley mason's paintings

http://www.hiddenpaintings.com/uploads/Entrapment_s.jpg

nicest bitch of poster (La Lechera), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:32 (eleven years ago) link

laurel, she was a slight child

nicest bitch of poster (La Lechera), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:32 (eleven years ago) link

I don't think there's a single sum-up but there are a lot of individual books & documentaries that I basically can't resist every time I see one

steven fucking tyler (underrated aerosmith bootlegs I have owned), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:34 (eleven years ago) link

That's why I wanted to read Debbie Nathan's book. I think it is that book.

nicest bitch of poster (La Lechera), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:35 (eleven years ago) link

Satan's Silence

nicest bitch of poster (La Lechera), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:35 (eleven years ago) link

I mean who can resist SATAN'S SILENCE?!

nicest bitch of poster (La Lechera), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:35 (eleven years ago) link

i read "sybil exposed" too and it is nuts

congratulations (n/a), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:36 (eleven years ago) link

http://www.youtube.com/embed/6pdRbfVLO6g

Worst Mother in Film: Now with Laugh Track!

tokyo rosemary, Monday, 30 July 2012 14:37 (eleven years ago) link

1973 Nervous Breakdown is a far better book but this goes deep into the culture-wide dread that fueled the satanic ritual abuse epidemic

http://ebooks-imgs.connect.com/product/400/000/000/000/000/087/529/400000000000000087529_s4.png

(REAL NAME) (m coleman), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:37 (eleven years ago) link

Jenkins also wrote a book about cults - Mystics & Messiahs - but it's not that great. he's kind of neo-conservative and middlebrow, a bad combo

(REAL NAME) (m coleman), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:39 (eleven years ago) link

I used to listen to this dude's comedy albums when I was a Christian, he is a pathetically tragic figure in the whole Satanic Panic era, being mostly a fraud who was exposed by a Christian magazine, Cornerstone.

Marco YOLO (Phil D.), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:42 (eleven years ago) link

man, "Unsolved Mysteries" and "20/20" were obsessed with satanic panic

a regina spektor is haunting europe (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:43 (eleven years ago) link

Warnke's exposure in Cornerstone is one of the all-time great moments in evangelical culture, so amazing

steven fucking tyler (underrated aerosmith bootlegs I have owned), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:45 (eleven years ago) link

Although I am now more than two decades removed from it, I remain fascinated by the ephemera of evangelical culture. Warnke, Bob Larson, Carman, Mylon LeFevre, DeGarmo & Key, Kerry Livgren's A/D . . . endlessly amazing stuff.

Marco YOLO (Phil D.), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:49 (eleven years ago) link

Oof that's a good story. I love fallen frauds, esp if they had followers.

I just want to clarify that there were clearly other factors influencing the Satanic panic/MPD mania of the 80s/90s, BUT a major foundation of the argument supporting it came from the research and promotion of Dr Cornelia Wilbur, who started the "repressed sexual childhood memories" aspect that formed the foundation of SRA evidence.

nicest bitch of poster (La Lechera), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:49 (eleven years ago) link

aero we should start a thread on ILM on CCM music of the 80s/90s. Wonder how many people would participate?

Marco YOLO (Phil D.), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:51 (eleven years ago) link

I'd be in.

(I remember Warnke clearly. btw...saw him live at least twice. Had already secularized myself by the time Cornerstone blew the lid off his "ministry," though.)

Johnny Fever, Monday, 30 July 2012 14:53 (eleven years ago) link

I was not a Christian, so I don't know anything about that music at all. Kinda freaks me out tbh.

nicest bitch of poster (La Lechera), Monday, 30 July 2012 14:54 (eleven years ago) link

I would like a signet paperback covers thread.

tokyo rosemary, Monday, 30 July 2012 14:55 (eleven years ago) link

I started this thread

Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Wednesday, 2 November 2022 15:17 (one year ago) link

RIght. I knew that, sorry. Couldn't remember if you read this other book though until I scrolled up later#zingproblems.

(We're Not) The Experimental Jet Set (James Redd and the Blecchs), Wednesday, 2 November 2022 16:55 (one year ago) link

I’m not salty 😀 I love this story and it’s one of the only threads I’m glad I started!!

Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Wednesday, 2 November 2022 16:58 (one year ago) link

Will read anything Debbie Nathan

realistic pillow (Jon not Jon), Wednesday, 2 November 2022 17:28 (one year ago) link

seems like the whole 'grooming' thing is a 21st reboot of SRA

Andy the Grasshopper, Wednesday, 2 November 2022 18:41 (one year ago) link

.. and of course, Wayfair shipping children in wardrobes

Andy the Grasshopper, Wednesday, 2 November 2022 18:42 (one year ago) link

I have read all Debbie Nathan I could find! Has she written anything recently? (Haven’t checked in a while - I remember her being near the US/MX border for a while but idk if she wrote a book)

Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Wednesday, 2 November 2022 19:37 (one year ago) link

What is “the whole grooming thing”? Grooming is a real phenomenon (as are recovered memories tbh) but I’m not aware of it being co-opted?

Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Wednesday, 2 November 2022 19:38 (one year ago) link

It has been co-opted big time

realistic pillow (Jon not Jon), Wednesday, 2 November 2022 20:32 (one year ago) link

That’s unfortunate. My appetite for bad news has been reduced by 200-300% since I started this thread so I’m not keeping very good track of the lunacy.

Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Wednesday, 2 November 2022 20:38 (one year ago) link

as are recovered memories tbh

Ehh...

I'm sure there are genuine instances of this, but the sordid phenomenon of the 80s-90s was pretty awful and really hurt a lot of innocent people

Andy the Grasshopper, Wednesday, 2 November 2022 20:52 (one year ago) link

I’m aware. They’re still real for people who have blocked out actual abuse committed by people rather than Satan.

Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Wednesday, 2 November 2022 21:12 (one year ago) link

Okay, I going on in. You down with MPD? Yeah, you know me.

(We're Not) The Experimental Jet Set (James Redd and the Blecchs), Wednesday, 2 November 2022 21:41 (one year ago) link

Sorry

(We're Not) The Experimental Jet Set (James Redd and the Blecchs), Wednesday, 2 November 2022 21:41 (one year ago) link

I had thought the concept of recovered memories was controversial within the research psych community because there was evidence that many of these were false memories?

stank viola (Neanderthal), Thursday, 3 November 2022 08:56 (one year ago) link

both things can be true at the same time -- they can be real (genuinely -- and yes, rarely -- experienced by people who have suppressed horrific unbearable memories of childhood abuse) and co-opted/exploited by people for their own purposes as detailed in this book and other reports.

Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Thursday, 3 November 2022 14:09 (one year ago) link

Right

(We're Not) The Experimental Jet Set (James Redd and the Blecchs), Thursday, 3 November 2022 14:09 (one year ago) link

Sometimes I come across people who say they basically have no memory of their childhood. So maybe they have simply “forgotten,” but more likely they are suppressing something as they themselves would say. How to access that is another question. Of course other people who claim to remember something may be suppressing as well.

(We're Not) The Experimental Jet Set (James Redd and the Blecchs), Thursday, 3 November 2022 14:12 (one year ago) link

nine months pass...

This seems like the right thread if I remember some of the earlier discussion (besides which, there's a clip of Sybil in the film): Satan Wants You, a documentary on I saw tonight on Michelle Remembers and the "Satanic panic" of the '80s.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y20TgJ_p_c8

It's Canadian, but the clip says it's coming to Tubi in a few months. What a sad and ridiculous story.

clemenza, Wednesday, 23 August 2023 04:12 (seven months ago) link

Michelle Remembers is so weird to read now, so much of it is like “I’m sorry WHAT” but i guess because it’s written in that naive style of Go Ask Alice that it completely sucked people in

and that psychiatrist is very O_o

werewolves of laudanum (VegemiteGrrl), Wednesday, 23 August 2023 04:31 (seven months ago) link

i’ll def watch this doc!

werewolves of laudanum (VegemiteGrrl), Wednesday, 23 August 2023 04:32 (seven months ago) link

Felt sorry for his family (ex-wife, daughters) watching this. Some well-known Canadian media people got sucked in too.

clemenza, Wednesday, 23 August 2023 04:43 (seven months ago) link

I read it for a "Literature and Psychology" class in college ca. 1987. I really can't remember whether we even questioned the authenticity of the story. I think the professor might have just tossed it into the "literature" (fiction) bin with the rest of the works, all of which were unquestionably fiction (e.g., Dostoyevsky's The Double, Anne Tyler's Dinner at the Homesick Restaurant). At any rate, we discussed MPD as a real pathology.

immodesty blaise (jimbeaux), Wednesday, 23 August 2023 05:12 (seven months ago) link

We also read The Fall, which has stuck with me more than any other book from that class.

immodesty blaise (jimbeaux), Wednesday, 23 August 2023 05:20 (seven months ago) link

"satanic ritual abuse" is just a cover-up for christian ritual abuse, which we're not allowed to talk about

Kate (rushomancy), Wednesday, 23 August 2023 13:31 (seven months ago) link

Feels like SRA is rearing its horns again with the Qanon/adrenachrome/Wayfair bullshit

Andy the Grasshopper, Wednesday, 23 August 2023 17:16 (seven months ago) link

That's exactly how the film ends, with Pizzagate and Qanon: it is happening again.

clemenza, Wednesday, 23 August 2023 17:21 (seven months ago) link

I never heard of this case (probably because it’s Canada) but I was amused by this detail of her alleged story:

an 81-day ritual in 1955, that supposedly summoned Satan himself and involved the intervention of Jesus, the Virgin Mary, and Michael the Archangel, who removed the scars received by Smith throughout the year of abuse and blocked memories of the events "until the time was right".

deep wubs and tribral rhythms (Boring, Maryland), Wednesday, 23 August 2023 17:26 (seven months ago) link

Last specific I'll cite, because I want people to see the film, but part of disproving her story was going back to her school photos in 1955, where she appears way too normal--and seemingly physically fine--for someone going through all this. (And attending school regularly during the window of her abduction.)

clemenza, Wednesday, 23 August 2023 17:29 (seven months ago) link

that looks awesome, just read up about this. Whatever happened to her? Her psychiatrist/husband is dead now.

I? not I! He! He! HIM! (akm), Wednesday, 23 August 2023 21:02 (seven months ago) link

She's still alive but declined to be interviewed for the film.

clemenza, Wednesday, 23 August 2023 21:20 (seven months ago) link

xxp I actually knew a couple punkers who worked at that DC pizza place years ago

And I think there was a video circulating of Ian Svenonius wearing a hooded robe at that pizza parlor, trying to summon Curtis Mayfield's ghost or something like that... might have added to the shooter's suspicions about the place

Andy the Grasshopper, Wednesday, 23 August 2023 22:30 (seven months ago) link

I had thought the concept of recovered memories was controversial within the research psych community because there was evidence that many of these were false memories?

― stank viola (Neanderthal)

idk. it's interesting. i didn't think repressed memories were a real thing either until i found out that i had them.

to be clear i wasn't ritually abused by a satanic cult or anything like that. there were just things that it was easier to... not think about for a while. then in my 40s i started dealing with gender stuff and i was like... why has none of this ever come up before?

and then i realized it had. again, we're not talking about anything wild or outrageous. i had friends who were like "oh yeah, i remember you telling me something like that", when in my head i'd told no-one my secret. it was easier to not think about it, to compartmentalize it somewhere out of the way. there was nothing i could do with that information, no useful purpose it could serve.

for some people their past is a rational logical narrative and for me, i've been told so many different things, some of which aren't true, by people i learned to trust that... it's confusing what to believe sometimes. i kind of try to piece things together from fragments of things i remember, and sometimes i put it together wrong, i draw conclusions that aren't correct, i misremember. i guess it's easy to categorize them as "false memories", i'm trying to figure things out and i do it wrong. and then when i do sometimes people will say "see, you're always remembering things wrong", and dismiss everything i remember, but i'm not "always" remembering things wrong. sometimes one person remembers things one way and me and my sibs all remember things in a very different way.

sometimes... one is pressured to believe a narrative that doesn't hold up to scrutiny if you examine it. and that narrative can be satanic ritual abuse, or it can be "perfectly normal child".

Kate (rushomancy), Thursday, 24 August 2023 01:43 (seven months ago) link

I like your last paragraph a lot there...You should look for this film. I think you would, at the very least, agree that this particular case was fraudulent.

clemenza, Friday, 25 August 2023 12:18 (seven months ago) link

i haven't seen the film, but from what i've read i have no doubt of that... i guess what i'm interested in is the way that narratives of "satanic" or "occult" abuse are perpetrated by hegemonic institutional forces (in this case mainly christianity) while at the same time genuine instances of abuse perpetrated by these same institutional forces is dismissed as indicative of things like "false memory syndrome". particularly given the tendency christianity has to portray queerness as demonic! i'm thinking here of things like the D&D panic ignited by the disappearance of james dallas egbert iii. his parents hired a pi named william dear to investigate the case... dear says that egbert's disappearance has a lot more to do with his homosexuality than dungeons and dragons...

that said dungeons and dragons is something that does have great resonance with queer people... one of the things parents found most dangerous about dungeons and dragons was the way it encouraged its players to take on alternate personae... it's extremely common for players to use this as a way of exploring sexual or gender identities that would otherwise be taboo. d&d is a tremendously queer game today, and has spawned explicitly queer successors like "thirsty sword lesbians".

one can also see the way something like "false memory syndrome" was created by paul mchugh, the conservative catholic who shut down the gender affirming surgery program at johns hopkins because of his personal beliefs... personal beliefs which then led him to defend vigorously priests accused of the serial sexual assault of children, a crime which was covered up by the ecclesiastical hierarchy...

this sentence from lawrence pazder's wikipedia page stood out to me...

Pazder considered himself to be a devout Catholic.

the archbishop of portland earlier this year issued an edict forbidding teachers in catholic schools in portland from calling trans kids by their names or gendering them correctly... christians call us "groomers" when the actual people abusing children are far more often youth pastors... christianity's long, shameful legacy of child abuse continues, all the while claiming to "protect children".

hail satan. baphomet is goals.

Kate (rushomancy), Friday, 25 August 2023 13:52 (seven months ago) link

three months pass...

SATAN WANTS YOU (the Michelle Remembers doc) is 100% worth the rental on prime. Debbie Nathan is in it!!
Well made and the ending satisfies. When someone besides me watches it we can discuss "baby candles"

Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Tuesday, 5 December 2023 23:02 (four months ago) link

Oh thank you thank you will totally watch

realistic pillow (Jon not Jon), Wednesday, 6 December 2023 05:30 (four months ago) link

I assumed this thread was bumped because of the growing popularity of the multiplicity online subculture! Whenever I see someone talking about their supposed dissociative identity disorder I can’t help but think about my fascination with Sybil when I was a teenager.

Allen (etaeoe), Thursday, 7 December 2023 20:47 (four months ago) link


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