― Pashmina (Pashmina), Monday, 10 November 2003 14:02 (twenty years ago) link
― nickalicious (nickalicious), Monday, 10 November 2003 14:03 (twenty years ago) link
― Pashmina (Pashmina), Monday, 10 November 2003 14:05 (twenty years ago) link
― William Bloody Swygart (mrswygart), Monday, 10 November 2003 14:11 (twenty years ago) link
― nickalicious (nickalicious), Monday, 10 November 2003 14:16 (twenty years ago) link
― Jay Dee Sah Mon (Kingfish), Monday, 10 November 2003 14:31 (twenty years ago) link
― Ben Mott (Ben Mott), Monday, 10 November 2003 14:45 (twenty years ago) link
― j.lu (j.lu), Monday, 10 November 2003 15:27 (twenty years ago) link
― stevem (blueski), Monday, 10 November 2003 15:31 (twenty years ago) link
― Colin Meeder (Mert), Monday, 10 November 2003 16:23 (twenty years ago) link
― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Monday, 10 November 2003 17:18 (twenty years ago) link
― Prude (Prude), Monday, 10 November 2003 17:44 (twenty years ago) link
― typo acapulco (gcannon), Monday, 10 November 2003 17:57 (twenty years ago) link
― Lara (Lara), Monday, 10 November 2003 18:00 (twenty years ago) link
― A Nairn (moretap), Monday, 10 November 2003 18:01 (twenty years ago) link
― donut bitch (donut), Monday, 10 November 2003 18:03 (twenty years ago) link
― A Nairn (moretap), Monday, 10 November 2003 18:04 (twenty years ago) link
― j.lu (j.lu), Monday, 10 November 2003 18:04 (twenty years ago) link
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Monday, 10 November 2003 18:05 (twenty years ago) link
― Lara (Lara), Monday, 10 November 2003 18:07 (twenty years ago) link
― Spencer Chow (spencermfi), Monday, 10 November 2003 19:05 (twenty years ago) link
― Dave B (daveb), Monday, 10 November 2003 19:07 (twenty years ago) link
― isadora (isadora), Monday, 10 November 2003 22:18 (twenty years ago) link
― Matt DC (Matt DC), Monday, 10 November 2003 22:19 (twenty years ago) link
― Vic (Vic), Monday, 10 November 2003 22:58 (twenty years ago) link
― Emilymv (Emilymv), Monday, 10 November 2003 23:05 (twenty years ago) link
― Jay Dee Sah Mon (Kingfish), Monday, 10 November 2003 23:12 (twenty years ago) link
― Nick Southall (Nick Southall), Monday, 10 November 2003 23:18 (twenty years ago) link
― isadora (isadora), Tuesday, 11 November 2003 00:10 (twenty years ago) link
By the way, i'm probably the only one who got Pashmina's joke upthread...
― Tuomas (Tuomas), Tuesday, 11 November 2003 14:47 (twenty years ago) link
The cuckholded man has the horns, the cuckolder doesn't have to have horns. (Though I suppose since he is being cheated on with Man A, then technically, he does have horns, too.)
― Citizen Kate (kate), Tuesday, 11 November 2003 14:50 (twenty years ago) link
― Ariel Sharon, Tuesday, 11 November 2003 14:54 (twenty years ago) link
By the way, if cuckolder really means the guy you're cheating your steady mate with, why not use that word? Of course the word "cuckold/er" carries more negative connotations than "mistress", which I think is because in our patriarchal societies it is considered less wrong for a man to have an extra lover than for a woman. Thus, the man of a cheating woman is shamed/cuckolded, whereas there is no similar term for the lady of a cheating man.
― Tuomas (Tuomas), Tuesday, 11 November 2003 15:00 (twenty years ago) link
Because they have the raging horn, because they are not getting any due to their laydee getting her rocks off with her manstress?
― Dave B (daveb), Tuesday, 11 November 2003 15:04 (twenty years ago) link
― Tuomas (Tuomas), Tuesday, 11 November 2003 15:06 (twenty years ago) link
― Citizen Kate (kate), Tuesday, 11 November 2003 15:08 (twenty years ago) link
― Tuomas (Tuomas), Tuesday, 11 November 2003 15:14 (twenty years ago) link
― smee (smee), Tuesday, 11 November 2003 15:21 (twenty years ago) link
― Citizen Kate (kate), Tuesday, 11 November 2003 15:24 (twenty years ago) link
― Tuomas (Tuomas), Tuesday, 11 November 2003 15:29 (twenty years ago) link
― Madchen (Madchen), Tuesday, 11 November 2003 15:30 (twenty years ago) link
― Citizen Kate (kate), Tuesday, 11 November 2003 15:32 (twenty years ago) link
― Tuomas (Tuomas), Tuesday, 11 November 2003 15:38 (twenty years ago) link
― CharlieNo4 (Charlie), Tuesday, 11 November 2003 17:19 (twenty years ago) link
― mei (mei), Tuesday, 11 November 2003 17:55 (twenty years ago) link
― Donkey Show, Tuesday, 22 November 2005 14:39 (eighteen years ago) link
\Ci`cis*be"o\, n.; pl. It. Cicisbei. [It.] 1. A professed admirer of a married woman; a dangler about women
― M. White (Miguelito), Tuesday, 22 November 2005 15:22 (eighteen years ago) link
"Beppo," George Gordon, Lord Byron
― j.lu (j.lu), Tuesday, 22 November 2005 15:26 (eighteen years ago) link
― Oh No, It's Dadaismus (and His Endless Stupid Jokes) (Dada), Tuesday, 22 November 2005 15:27 (eighteen years ago) link
― geoff (gcannon), Tuesday, 22 November 2005 15:28 (eighteen years ago) link
― M. White (Miguelito), Wednesday, 23 November 2005 14:51 (eighteen years ago) link
wangman
― gershy, Thursday, 20 March 2008 02:30 (sixteen years ago) link
I kinda thought a "mistress" was by definition a kept woman of a powerful/rich and married man, not just any woman a man has an affair with.
― Hurting 2, Thursday, 20 March 2008 02:31 (sixteen years ago) link
wagemann?
― John Justen, Thursday, 20 March 2008 02:33 (sixteen years ago) link
Roguish, rakish, and a scoundrel. Mmmmm.
― kenan, Thursday, 20 March 2008 05:32 (sixteen years ago) link
mattress
― latebloomer, Thursday, 20 March 2008 05:36 (sixteen years ago) link
blogger
― El Tomboto, Thursday, 20 March 2008 07:15 (sixteen years ago) link
Cicisbeo What a freaking awesome word, it's like a Cocteau Twins song title. Which is funny because they also have one called "My Love Paramour" .
― Trayce, Thursday, 20 March 2008 11:38 (sixteen years ago) link
background bonker
― Tracer Hand, Thursday, 20 March 2008 11:47 (sixteen years ago) link
mistermeanor
― estela, Thursday, 20 March 2008 12:01 (sixteen years ago) link
Special Reserve
― Tracer Hand, Thursday, 20 March 2008 12:17 (sixteen years ago) link
rules of cuckoldry and "getting away with it" discussed here -
http://freakytrigger.co.uk/lollards-podcast/2008/03/freaky-trigger-and-the-lollards-of-pop-series-2-week-17/
― Tracer Hand, Thursday, 20 March 2008 12:19 (sixteen years ago) link
concuboy
― slugbuggy, Thursday, 20 March 2008 14:43 (sixteen years ago) link
_____o ______ington -- nickalicious (nickalicious), Monday, November 10, 2003 2:16 PM (4 years ago) Bookmark Link
i miss jess!
― nickalicious, Thursday, 20 March 2008 14:45 (sixteen years ago) link
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― Tracer Hand, Thursday, 20 March 2008 14:52 (sixteen years ago) link
himbo
― valoss, Thursday, 20 March 2008 15:48 (sixteen years ago) link