girls is kind of a provocative name to call ones show isnt it
― lag∞n, Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:00 (twelve years ago) link
idg why
― Kiarostami bag (milo z), Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:00 (twelve years ago) link
That was an xpost
― Kiarostami bag (milo z), Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:01 (twelve years ago) link
ALSO it annoys me because theres a pretty large (and growing?) set of non-white hipster/college-educated creative professional/whatever types who tend to get ignored in "young ppl in nyc" tv shows and movies, (and in ilx discourse!!) and i thought (hoped?) some of those stories could get told here! guess not tho
yeah i think if were trying to recreate GIRLS as a statistically accurate representation of its milieu than thered be at least a couple of nonwhite ppl on the show. i dont really think it means all that much tho esp given the racism of tv casting
going back a bit but i kinda liked her mom idk its a stretch to think she hates her?
― Masonic Butt (Lamp), Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:02 (twelve years ago) link
the parents are my rooting interest in the show
― some dude, Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:04 (twelve years ago) link
well tbf the 'parents pay your rent + lives in brooklyn' demographic def skews white pretty hardcore ime
― iatee, Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:04 (twelve years ago) link
i mean, yes it's going to happen on ilx where a lot of dudes post but it leads to sort of strange blind spots, about, for example the representation of women + body image. i'm not mad @ anyone about it, nor was Erica, i presume, its just creates a discussion with an *interesting* quality.
tbf i know a lot of ilx women are just not that into the premise of this show, so.
― horseshoe, Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:04 (twelve years ago) link
otm
― wolf kabob (ENBB), Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:06 (twelve years ago) link
yeah i don't think the mom hates her, either. maybe a little bit at moments but everyone's mom hates them sometimes!
― horseshoe, Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:06 (twelve years ago) link
haha it is kinda funny that a bunch of dudes talking about this show end up getting in a fight about mom
― max, Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:06 (twelve years ago) link
if this show were called 'life and lols in brooklyn 2012' it would not be an issue that mostly guys are watching it but instead it was called 'girls' cause judd apatow suggested it
― iatee, Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:06 (twelve years ago) link
maybe girls just arent posting to this thread because they r bad at bittorrent
― lag∞n, Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:08 (twelve years ago) link
Not a lot of talk about women+body image, pro or con
― Kiarostami bag (milo z), Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:08 (twelve years ago) link
well there was some tbf
― lag∞n, Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:09 (twelve years ago) link
i don't know if mostly guys are watching it? if that's true, it's not an issue. my sisters are both watching it--data points! i was mostly talking about the ilx discussion.
― horseshoe, Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:10 (twelve years ago) link
comments are not making me want to watch this show tbh
― surm, Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:10 (twelve years ago) link
some, but it's not like all the dudes on the Girls thread are talking about it
― Kiarostami bag (milo z), Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:10 (twelve years ago) link
i don't...i'm not trying to get in an argument. both comments about body image in this thread seemed a little tin-eared to me; understandable because men don't experience that stuff the way we do. i was just using that as an example because it stood out to me. really all i'm saying is this conversation would play out differently if a bunch of women were having it. didn't think that was that controversial.
― horseshoe, Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:11 (twelve years ago) link
tbcf this really isnt a 'brooklyn 2012' show
haha most of my friends are really not into this show, its weird, i have ~thoughts~ about it but its really that good atm so its hard to argue for it
― Masonic Butt (Lamp), Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:12 (twelve years ago) link
what did you think re how our protagonists body image issues were portrayed in ep1 horseshoe, i was surprised abt the negative reaction itt, i was just kinda oh sure when i saw it, her self deprecation in the explanation of her tattoos and her boyfriends horrible if funny reaction was k tragic
― lag∞n, Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:13 (twelve years ago) link
lamp stop being so coy and just tell us what u think ffs
― lag∞n, Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:14 (twelve years ago) link
yeah, sorry, I'm not trying to make it an argument either, this just doesn't seem to be any weirder for dudes to talk about than Game of Thrones IMO.
― Kiarostami bag (milo z), Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:14 (twelve years ago) link
haha i wasnt going to but this:
i think some of the ways she's shot eating food (the spaghetti with her parents + the cupcake in the bathtub immediately come to mind) and the sex scene were particularly degrading
was a... strange reaction to have, i think. like 'degrading' is not how i read this at all, i identified w/her quite a bit here, thought it was really funny and true, helped me 'get' the character and sympathize with her.
― Masonic Butt (Lamp), Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:16 (twelve years ago) link
homie shes not saying its WEIRD
― max, Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:16 (twelve years ago) link
yeah that's pretty much how i feel. i like that thread in tiny furniture and in the pilot of girls--dunham's sharp about it. don't really get how it's evidence of a mean worldview on her part or a lack of "heart" as compared to louis c.k. it's evidence of a meanness in the world but dunham didn't create that meanness.
xxp
it's a little more notable, given that this show is about women's lives.
― horseshoe, Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:16 (twelve years ago) link
haha thanks max
both comments about body image in this thread seemed a little tin-eared to me
you mean mordy and mine? i was just reacting to him thinking it was unusual or off-putting and me feeling it was kind of consistent with the kind of observations a lot of fiction makes on the subject, for better or worse
― some dude, Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:16 (twelve years ago) link
i have spent many years on ilx having conversations with a bunch of dudes; obviously i am not saying dudes should not discuss stuff.
In a world in which Tao Lin and David Chang are the dominating forces...
― caro's johnson (Eazy), Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:17 (twelve years ago) link
yeah, al, i did mean mordy's and yours. yours only because i think dunham is doing more with her stuff on women and their bodies than your obligatory "one of these girls is bulimic" plot in a movie or whatever.
― horseshoe, Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:18 (twelve years ago) link
― Kiarostami bag (milo z), Tuesday, April 17, 2012 11:14 AM (2 minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
max otm, hs otm
In addition to what she said, it's not so much the fact that a lot of guys are talking about it that's weird for me it's the almost total lack of female interest/input. Anyway, it's not that big of a deal. Just something that made me go hmmmmmm.
― wolf kabob (ENBB), Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:19 (twelve years ago) link
that is going to be the case on literally every thread on ilx because there are more guys here
― iatee, Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:20 (twelve years ago) link
tbf i know a lot of ilx women are just not that into the premise of this show, so.just poppin in here to say ^^ me ^^^
why is this weird?
― two overweight dachshunds with three eyes (La Lechera), Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:21 (twelve years ago) link
but it leads to sort of strange blind spots, about, for example the representation of women + body image
would you be willing to talk a little bit more about these blind spots? did you disagree with the posts about body image?
― Mordy, Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:22 (twelve years ago) link
the ladies make a valid if minor point re dudes in the girls thread, id be curious to hear their opinons of the show next
― lag∞n, Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:22 (twelve years ago) link
I'm not an idiot, Iatee. I realize that is often the case given that ILX is predominantly male. I still think it's at least somewhat remarkable in this instance.
― wolf kabob (ENBB), Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:24 (twelve years ago) link
no it's not, your sample set is like 5 people here
― iatee, Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:24 (twelve years ago) link
can we plz not, just plzzzzz
― lag∞n, Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:24 (twelve years ago) link
overall interest/identification is going to be a lot more about class and culture than gender in this case, IMO
― Kiarostami bag (milo z), Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:25 (twelve years ago) link
Mordy, i just didn't get your post about body image, frankly. also i will admit the rash of posts that were all, "this isn't as good as Louie" annoyed me. i mean, i don't like this one episode of Girls as much as i like the two seasons of Louie, either, but maybe some of that reaction is about louis c.k. being more identifiable-with for some of you than lena dunham? maybe not. sometimes i think men are blind to that aspect of their reactions to things, though. god, could i be more vague.
amanda i don't think it's weird for women not to want to watch Girls, just to clarify! not everyone has to be slavishly devoted to culture about the rich, like i invariably am!
― horseshoe, Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:26 (twelve years ago) link
outside of people who will give just about anything new on HBO a shot
― Kiarostami bag (milo z), Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:26 (twelve years ago) link
i did upthread!!! i think the pilot wasnt that great but the show gets better and has real potential. there are parts of the show that really resonated w/ me including the bad sex and the food stuff and the general sense of post-collegiate ennui or w/e, really the show seemed v true to my own NYC XP and the people i was friends w/ and worked w/...
i mean ive been thinking about how 'freaks & geeks' was so adept at teasing out emotional truth from its high school setting that it the fact the show wasnt perfectly realistic didnt really matter. like the shows world was so seamless and coherent that its inconsistencies from rl became virtues because it helped create some distance for the viewer? and like i think girls is almost doing the same thing w/like post-collegiate urban youth where the fact that its an approximation of reality isnt the problem, the problem w/'girls' is that dunham et al arent detail ppl so 'girls' tv universe is kinda flat and inconsistent atm
― Masonic Butt (Lamp), Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:26 (twelve years ago) link
the Louie talk was because interviews/previews directly referenced Louie as a comparison point. Dunham dressed up like Louis CK for Halloween, etc
― Kiarostami bag (milo z), Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:27 (twelve years ago) link
'girls' tv universe is kinda flat and inconsistent atm
― Masonic Butt (Lamp), Tuesday, April 17, 2012 11:26 AM (51 seconds ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
this i would agree with, but i'm going to give it a few episodes. pilots are hard
― horseshoe, Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:28 (twelve years ago) link
― horseshoe, Tuesday, April 17, 2012 11:18 AM (8 minutes ago) Bookmark
fair enough, i wasn't saying it was a minor theme or that it was just being thrown out as an ack cathy female anxiety cliche or anything, just that mordy's horror seemed extreme
― some dude, Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:30 (twelve years ago) link
yes i agree about that
― horseshoe, Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:30 (twelve years ago) link
id be curious to hear you expand on the detail part lamp, admittedly i didnt watch the pilot super closely but my my reaction to their apartment and walking down the street and their clothes and the way in which the guy who made the tea was being a jerk was p much that looks abt right
also i know u have seen more eps because someone is trying to make u blog abt it, im v sry u have to go through that
― lag∞n, Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:32 (twelve years ago) link
I will freely admit that Louie talking about being a father resonates more deeply with me than Lena's experiences in NYC. There was a time in my life (when I was doing media internships, just out of college, living in shitty apartments in NY, struggling to pay rent, etc) where that might have been reversed. It certainly has something to do with gender, but it also has to do with age, class, and even POV (where Louie seems almost elegiac and pensive, Lena seems thoughtless and immature).
Wrt the body image stuff, I'm a little reticent about posting about it bc of my gender. Spitballing briefly tho, I suspect that ppl for whom her body image material resonates will find it engaging bc of how honest and raw it is (or isn't), while for me I primarily felt uncomfortable. This isn't necessarily a problem tho, and like I mentioned above, there are plenty of great shows (and other materials) that make me feel uncomfortable. I just have to decide whether I think I'm getting enough value out of the discomfort to continue watching. (And I am curious about whether women watching the show found it honest- I had a question about the tattoo bit where she says that she tattooed herself* in high school to gain control over her body. I wondered whether that was a dodge from other self-destructive behaviors that maybe she didn't want to identify with, or if this felt honest.)
*This also led to the most upsetting exchange of the episode for me, where the boy she slept with says, "well, you're not /that/ fat anymore," with the emphasis on hedging her body image. Like, you're still fat, but not THAT fat. And instead of calling him out on it, or having any reaction at all, she just smiles at him or something that I don't remember clearly. I would've liked some kind of authorial distance from that exchange though.
― Mordy, Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:35 (twelve years ago) link
i think him saying the line, and you being offended by it and by her lack of reaction, is exactly the desired effect they were going for though?
― some dude, Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:38 (twelve years ago) link
But... This is something real that happens. And in the context of sex, in situations that are frequently not very good/bad/sometimes not totally consensual/self-destructive/depressing as shit. That's why it's IN the show, right? I'm not sure what "authorial distance" is supposed to accomplish here, although you people are all much more sophisticated at talking about these things than I am so
― how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Tuesday, 17 April 2012 15:40 (twelve years ago) link