UK Anti-Americanism "feels like racism" says possibly over-reacting former model

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Fight the Real Enemy -- Tasti D-Lite (ex machina), Friday, 14 April 2006 18:52 (eighteen years ago) link

you should hear the things that people in the Midwest say about New York.

right, but that's the defensive side of this exchange. where, to use the American model example, Midwest=America and New York=England.

I think I've actually said what amounts to "you're talking about my mom, asshole!" on ILX in that Danish Muhammad thread.

horsehoe (horseshoe), Friday, 14 April 2006 18:52 (eighteen years ago) link

Very different but I'm seriously not kidding when I say I can understand how it "feels" that way, especially for people who have never encountered racism. It's the experience -- something American white people hardly ever have -- of knowing that you're being singled out for approbation based on a group/culture you belong to and identify with by birth.

OTM OTM OTM OTM OTM OTM. I remember a friend of mine in college almost having a nervous breakdown in the UK because he was getting treated like dirt by virtually everyone we encountered; seriously, every shitty person we encountered zeroed in on HIM and made his life a living hell (although in the interest of full disclosure he didn't help matters by doing some stupid "ugly American" things that precipitated some of these encounters).

By contrast, another trip I took with college friends in Japan really opened the eyes of two friends of mine on the race axis; both are blonde-haired and blue-eyed and neither was particularly prejudiced, but at least one was deeply, utterly racially naive and didn't get certain stories of mine until we went somewhere where people looked at him like HE was the odd, out-of-place one to whom special attention should be paid. They felt all claustrophobic and under a microscope while I couldn't really tell much of a difference between the attention paid to me walking down a random US street and walking down a random Japanese street.

Dan (Lessons Learned) Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 14 April 2006 18:58 (eighteen years ago) link

Haven't I trotted all these stories out already on other threads? I will defend all comers w/r/t West Michigan geography & natural beauty; however I will allow Open Season on small-town busybodies and sporty types.

Laurel (Laurel), Friday, 14 April 2006 18:59 (eighteen years ago) link

Hmmph s/b: "defend against all comers"

Laurel (Laurel), Friday, 14 April 2006 19:00 (eighteen years ago) link

IF IT WASN'T FOR THE YANKS THE BRITS WOULD BE EATING SAUERKRAUT WITH CHOPSTICKS RIGHT NOW FACT.

andy --, Friday, 14 April 2006 20:10 (eighteen years ago) link

I never was criticized for being american while in the UK - but some bit of me must have felt a tiny bit attacked, somehow, because i felt some strange american pride that hasn't returned since.

p.s. this sentence originally contained three superfluous "like"'s that I omitted upon realizing how damn american it seemed.

i've dreamt of rubies! (Mandee), Friday, 14 April 2006 20:26 (eighteen years ago) link

I think that if nothing else, there's the disorientation caused by the unfamiliar or just-slightly-off-ness, which might be enough all by itself to make people draw a charitable veil of nostalgia or hm...longing (to fit in, to be able to relax yr guard) over the less attractive national or nationalistic characteristics. Don't even need to be under direct attack, I reckon.

Laurel (Laurel), Friday, 14 April 2006 20:30 (eighteen years ago) link

at this point when travelling abroad I don't take any anti-American sentiment personally cuz really I agree with most of it... otoh I don't think I've ever been in a situation where I felt threatened or victimized specifically *because* I was an American. I have def. felt the "under a microscope" thing Dan refers to tho (ie, in parts of India where they've never seen white people before etc.)

Shakey Mo Collier (Shakey Mo Collier), Friday, 14 April 2006 20:32 (eighteen years ago) link

"Don't let it get near you,
don't let it get too close,
don't let it turn you into
the things you hate the most"

In other words, I don't think "it" is the people.

nicky lo-fi (nicky lo-fi), Friday, 14 April 2006 21:07 (eighteen years ago) link

They felt all claustrophobic and under a microscope while I couldn't really tell much of a difference between the attention paid to me walking down a random US street and walking down a random Japanese street.

Yeah, when I lived in Japan I definitely became hyper-aware of the constant staring, and the way everyone around me reacted to my presence, either positively or negatively. Most of the attention was positive (if really weird) but there were occasional incidents where no one would sit next to me on crowded trains, or groups of high schoolers would point and stare, or parents pulled their children back from me. Also being solicited as a prostitute fairly often (though I think that was because people seemed to think I was Russian). While being singled out for my race it was sometimes disconcerting and upsetting, it was pretty educational. I'd never experienced anything like it before.

Laurah (laurah), Friday, 14 April 2006 21:16 (eighteen years ago) link

Yeah, nabisco is so totally OTM here that he's edging out George Washington. Living in the DC area, I've been able to stop many conversations dead in their tracks with the simple sentence, "Actually, my mother is from West Virginia."

Then there's this thing where my father's wife is constantly trashing my hometown in Ohio -- where my mother, sister, grandmother, niece and nephews, and most other relatives all still live -- for being white trash Midwest etc., etc. (she's from Hawaii of French descent), and it's like, "Uh, excuse me, but I'm like FROM there. It's where I still ultimately consider 'home.' Could you maybe put a sock in it?"

phil d. (Phil D.), Friday, 14 April 2006 21:47 (eighteen years ago) link

ANd I meant to add, when the people pulling that crap then say, "Oh, well YOU'RE not like that," it seems akin to telling an African-American, "You speak so articulately!"

phil d. (Phil D.), Friday, 14 April 2006 21:54 (eighteen years ago) link

Ha, it's actually much worse than that -- it's asking you to become a collaborator! I can't count the number of times I've been in conversations where folks say racist things about black people, and then -- when I get offended -- tell me that, you know, they don't mean me, I'm "foreign," not really black or anything. Part of that is just being weaselly, but beneath that there's actually this weird invitation, like they're offering a free pass to deny the black people they're insulting -- a free pass to join their team, a kind of co-opting. And something about that is so demeaning. I'd find it hard to specify what exactly about it is the worst part, but it's just fucking awful: they're asking you to sell out your own identity so you can join them in insulting it! They're inviting you to become an honorary one of them and join them in insulting your mother, your father, everything you come from! It's really amazing.

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 14 April 2006 22:03 (eighteen years ago) link

Arrgh and I told you that, once, and flinched as soon as I said it. In my mind identification by family origin/ethnicity/language trumps skin tone but OUCH.

Laurel (Laurel), Friday, 14 April 2006 22:05 (eighteen years ago) link

Ha, no Laurel, I don't mind people making that distinction -- just not when the purpose of making it that they're asking me to laugh at racist jokes! I mean, people assume I'm just Immigrant, I'm not like surprised or put off by that.

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 14 April 2006 22:07 (eighteen years ago) link

Sorry, that's not clear at all: I think I said I think of you as "foreign" ahead of "black". But then I also think of Mexican friends as Mexican by nationality and Spanish-speaking by language ahead of, I dunno, "Latin" or non-white or whatever.

XP: PHEW.

Laurel (Laurel), Friday, 14 April 2006 22:10 (eighteen years ago) link

If I've ever gotten any of this shit I tell the person I come from the People's Republic of Minnesota.

suzy (suzy), Friday, 14 April 2006 22:11 (eighteen years ago) link

xpost

I'm talking more if, like, someone in New York said to you, Laurel, that he hated all those midwestern Christians and they all should be shot, and you said "well, that's a big part of where I'm from," and he said "yeah, but you're not LIKE THAT," or "you're not ONE OF THEM" -- even if you really aren't, it's horrifying. Like someone hands you a gun: "Just shoot your parents and we'll pretend you're one of us."

(xpost Yeah Laurel that's totally cool by me! And non-surprising, America doesn't invest words in like differentiating between post-slavery black and African-immigrant black, and what with slavery its idea of black is totally west-African and etc -- it makes sense.)

nabisco (nabisco), Friday, 14 April 2006 22:14 (eighteen years ago) link

I'm talking more if, like, someone in New York on ILX said to you, Laurel, that he hated all those midwestern Christians and they all should be shot...

Laurel (Laurel), Friday, 14 April 2006 22:19 (eighteen years ago) link

Hm, that didn't work at all. Nevermind.

Laurel (Laurel), Friday, 14 April 2006 22:20 (eighteen years ago) link

I think more than any political issue, a lot of this is a clash between perceived American ambition/confidence/pride and the stereotypical British love of shooting people down and making everything comfortably mediocre. Americans are at the top so they're the most fun to rip into and crush (when they're outnumbered on yr turf, obv).

Ogmor Roundtrouser (Ogmor Roundtrouser), Saturday, 15 April 2006 02:25 (eighteen years ago) link

nine years pass...

Has this changed -if it existed- under Obama

Ugh punching up anyway

MONKEY had been BUMMED by the GHOST of the late prancing paedophile (darraghmac), Wednesday, 4 November 2015 10:45 (eight years ago) link

Experienced this at work the other day, very nice guy who basically thinks the US is a fascist state - "they don't have the same freedoms we have over here in Europe" (he actually said this!) - capable of just about any evil you can imagine. Not helped by the fact that we were working with was a left wing Spanish guy, so anti-American almost by definition though in a more measured, thoughtful way. Anyway, over the course of a few hours, I managed to reason with him and get him to explain and, in some cases, moderate his more outlandish opinions. I still feel like the next time I work with guy I should wear one of lapel badges with the Union Jack and the Stars and Stripes entwined.
― Fields of Fat Henry (Tom D.), Monday, 28 September 2015 18:41 (1 month ago) BookmarkFlag Post Permalink

Caput Johannis in Disco (Tom D.), Wednesday, 4 November 2015 11:00 (eight years ago) link

If Anti-Americanism here/anywhere intensified over US Gov 10-15 years ago it's focus now (again?) is probably spread thinner over (often racist) gun violence, hard right media influence and corporate greed-negligence.

nashwan, Wednesday, 4 November 2015 11:10 (eight years ago) link

corporate greed-negligence

I thought the UK led the world in this tbh.

Caput Johannis in Disco (Tom D.), Wednesday, 4 November 2015 11:30 (eight years ago) link

typical UK triumphalism

nashwan, Wednesday, 4 November 2015 11:46 (eight years ago) link

If only we had a precise English word for the irrational or stereotyped fear or hatred of foreigners! If only that word existed!

But I guess "xenophobia" has 5 syllables and "racism" only 2, so we can't expect Americans to understand or use it. ;-)

La Düsseldork (Branwell with an N), Wednesday, 4 November 2015 11:56 (eight years ago) link

There's something very Guardian BTL about being anti-American in the UK in 2015

canoon fooder (dog latin), Wednesday, 4 November 2015 12:17 (eight years ago) link


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