Andrea Dworkin RIP

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Any reaction yet from Elaine Showalter, who memorably said a few years back she doubted anybody would get up at 4 AM to watch Dworkin's funeral?

rasheed wallace (rasheed wallace), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:27 (nineteen years ago) link

Dworkin's husband is a gay feminist.

http://dir.salon.com/books/feature/2000/09/20/dworkin/index.html

Momus (Momus), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:28 (nineteen years ago) link

why is it being held at 4am?

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:28 (nineteen years ago) link

That's Showalter's way of doubting Dworkin's global reach.

rasheed wallace (rasheed wallace), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:29 (nineteen years ago) link

"Anyway, I had a kind of Foucaultian irritation at the suggestion that, like, everybody thinks fucking is the greatest thing."

uh, look around you. see all those bazillions of people? obviously humanity's pretty fond of fucking, on the whole.

Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 18:32 (nineteen years ago) link

"Would you jump off a cliff if humanity told you to?"

Ferlin Husky (noodle vague), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:34 (nineteen years ago) link

ferlin/foucault otm: there's a kind of anxious conformist bullying at the root of it, courtesy ppl apparently made nervous that not everyone shares their tastes and drives

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:36 (nineteen years ago) link

antifeminists lose their strawwoman, hurrah.

xpost yes, i thought her marriage sounded wonderful, frankly. and i like getting laid.

g e o f f (gcannon), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:37 (nineteen years ago) link

obviously humanity's pretty fond of fucking, on the whole.

It's also depressingly fond of territorial invasion, which is what Dworkin compared it to in the hope that fucking would go away. Her book Scapegoat compared women to the Jews as universal scapegoats, and ended up advocating that women found a sort of Gender Israel. Salon:

"Dworkin's most original and controversial conclusion to all this is that "women need land and guns." Women must reject pacifism and literally create their own militant, separatist territory (or Lebensraum?). As a practical concept, of course, the idea is nothing short of nuts. But even as an exercise in rhetoric it is unconvincing, mainly because it is unclear why Dworkin believes that Womanland would be immune to the temptations of structural power she has just been at such pains to illustrate. If the Israelis are practicing the sadism they learned from anti-Semites on the Palestinians, won't women also find their own scapegoats?"

Momus (Momus), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:38 (nineteen years ago) link

that salon piece makes it sound like will and grace!!

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:38 (nineteen years ago) link

(her marriage, i mean)

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:39 (nineteen years ago) link

susie bright can be a bit glib, but the dworkin piece that salon links to is pretty good, i think

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:47 (nineteen years ago) link

hmmmpf

Eisbär (llamasfur), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:48 (nineteen years ago) link

I had a close encounter with Dworkin at the Edinburgh Book Festival in 2000.

"Wandering past the marquees, I paused to read an events blackboard. Sitting next to it was an American woman of enormous girth, a sort of greying mannish hippy with a touch of Jerry Garcia about her. I realised with a start that it was Andrea Dworkin, the ultra-feminist who shook me to my core when, in my late 20s, I read her book 'Intercourse' with its thesis that all penetration of women by men is -- while the sexes remain unequal -- violation, and all literature a graph of rape. I eavesdropped long enough to hear her say '...it would probably just play into my megalomaniacal passion for...' She sounded like a much nicer person than her books suggest, although later I read in The Scotsman that she advocates total separation of the genders and a mother's right to execute paedophiles.

"I went to sit on the grass. The sun was shining and some children were playing. An attractive girl came and sat down right between me and Andrea. I never know what to do in situations like this. Do you look admiringly at a sunbathing girl or do you pretend indifference? This time it was much worse, because Andrea Dworkin was sitting right behind the object of my lust! Thank god my 'male gaze' was hidden behind big bulbous blue ski shades."

Momus (Momus), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:54 (nineteen years ago) link

I don't think her marriage was all that different, frankly — at least based on my experience talking to older friends about their marriages. As you get older, I think that sex slides down the priority scale for most.

If she was happy, then I think that sounds pretty great.

sugarpants: bea arthur's secret lover (sugarpants), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:59 (nineteen years ago) link

Sex sliding down the priority scale is one of the more depressing facts of marriage but it's hardly the same as one partner abstaining because she thinks any act of interercourse/penetration equals rape.

If she was happy, I'd rather be miserable.

m coleman (lovebug starski), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:04 (nineteen years ago) link

She was really fucked up. That's my honest feeling. As with any fucked up person you end up pitying them and - to be honest - one wonders if she would have been happier if she was physically attractive and not the second coming of King Kong in baggy trousers.

NamC, Monday, 11 April 2005 19:05 (nineteen years ago) link

As a college freshman I found her quite ridiculous. As a 40something sodomite who can do quite well without penetrative intercourse, I think maybe she had a point now and then.

Dr Morbius (Dr Morbius), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:09 (nineteen years ago) link

Sex sliding down the priority scale is one of the more depressing facts of marriage but it's hardly the same as one partner abstaining because she thinks any act of interercourse/penetration equals rape.

If she was happy, I'd rather be miserable.

-- m coleman (lovebugstarsk...), April 11th, 2005 4:04 PM.

Not that I agree with her politics, but if I'd come from her backgroud, I'd probably equate sex with rape as well.

sugarpants: bea arthur's secret lover (sugarpants), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:09 (nineteen years ago) link

Additionally, her idea of sex equalling rape came with the qualifier that this was true as long as the sexes were unequal. Of course, that opens up all sorts of speculation about what equality means.

sugarpants: bea arthur's secret lover (sugarpants), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:11 (nineteen years ago) link

I understand her intercourse/rape equation as a victim's reaction (and survival mechanism) but offering it up as some sort of social model doesn't seem so healthy to me.

m coleman (lovebug starski), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:17 (nineteen years ago) link

shakey, in a way as a writer AD belongs on yr "is science fiction gay?" thread = dedicated to a hermetic political sexual utopian speculation designed to fashion a world that never yet existed

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:17 (nineteen years ago) link

FWIW, a clarification on the "sex is rape" issue from an old interview:

Michael Moorcock: After "Right-Wing Women" and "Ice and Fire" you wrote "Intercourse". Another book which helped me clarify confusions about my own sexual relationships. You argue that attitudes to conventional sexual intercourse enshrine and perpetuate sexual inequality. Several reviewers accused you of saying that all intercourse was rape. I haven't found a hint of that anywhere in the book. Is that what you are saying?

Andrea Dworkin: No, I wasn't saying that and I didn't say that, then or ever. There is a long section in Right-Wing Women on intercourse in marriage. My point was that as long as the law allows statutory exemption for a husband from rape charges, no married woman has legal protection from rape. I also argued, based on a reading of our laws, that marriage mandated intercourse--it was compulsory, part of the marriage contract. Under the circumstances, I said, it was impossible to view sexual intercourse in marriage as the free act of a free woman. I said that when we look at sexual liberation and the law, we need to look not only at which sexual acts are forbidden, but which are compelled.

The whole issue of intercourse as this culture's penultimate expression of male dominance became more and more interesting to me. In Intercourse I decided to approach the subject as a social practice, material reality. This may be my history, but I think the social explanation of the "all sex is rape" slander is different and probably simple. Most men and a good number of women experience sexual pleasure in inequality. Since the paradigm for sex has been one of conquest, possession, and violation, I think many men believe they need an unfair advantage, which at its extreme would be called rape. I don't think they need it. I think both intercourse and sexual pleasure can and will survive equality.

It's important to say, too, that the pornographers, especially Playboy, have published the "all sex is rape" slander repeatedly over the years, and it's been taken up by others like Time who, when challenged, cannot cite a source in my work.

The entire interview can be found here: http://www.nostatusquo.com/ACLU/dworkin/MoorcockInterview.html

Again, I don't agree with everything she said, but I think some of her arguments have been vastly oversimplified.

sugarpants: bea arthur's secret lover (sugarpants), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:22 (nineteen years ago) link

Moorcock

jaymc (jaymc), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:25 (nineteen years ago) link

"Would you jump off a cliff if humanity told you to?"

I would if I was genetically programmed to do so... biological imperatives run pretty deep.

"ferlin/foucault otm: there's a kind of anxious conformist bullying at the root of it, courtesy ppl apparently made nervous that not everyone shares their tastes and drives"

this has nothing to do with my tastes and drives - I was just pointing up the fact that since the reproductive act is so deeply rooted in the human animal, arguing that it should be completely done away with is inherently marginalizing. This is not a "good"/"bad" value judgment thing on my part - its an observation of statistical reality. Whatever segment of society there is that's willing to/desires to abstain from sex for political reasons is gonna be really, really, REALLY tiny.

Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 19:25 (nineteen years ago) link

hee! i noticed it after I posted.

sugarpants: bea arthur's secret lover (sugarpants), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:25 (nineteen years ago) link

i wz just abt to post that moorcock wz a sympathetic critic!

(as a follow-up to my SF suggestion)

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:25 (nineteen years ago) link

After Linda Boorman (Lovelace) had been beaten by that abusive fuck Chuck Traynor and left him, Dworkin and Catharine McKinnon exploited her for their own means. They victimised Lovelace too - and for that they are both unforgiveable.

NamC, Monday, 11 April 2005 19:28 (nineteen years ago) link

yeah that Moorcock interview is really good. fascinating chap, Michael.

Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 19:30 (nineteen years ago) link

http://semiskimmed.net/pix/viz_millietant.gif

David Merryweather (DavidM), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:36 (nineteen years ago) link

** I found this cute little book they'd missed called Guerilla Warfare by Che Guevara. I read it a million times. I'd plan attacks on the local shopping mall. I got a lot of practice in strategising real rebellion. It may be why I refuse to think that rebellion against the oppressors of women should be less real, less material, less serious.**

This was long before she was raped and victimized as a prostitute. Sounds like she had an anti-social streak a mile wide. If she'd been born a generation later, she could've shot up a highschool Columbine-style. And that line quoted earlier, "woman need guns and land," echoed vintage Black Panther rhetoric. Another boomer generational voice still trapped in the 60s.

m coleman (lovebug starski), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:43 (nineteen years ago) link

I am now wishing that Andrea was a recurring Don Martin cartoon character.

x-post

Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 19:45 (nineteen years ago) link

the conformist bullying comes at the point where everyone is supposed to worship sex as the BEST THING EVER, and anyone who says that it comes elsewhere on the scale for them than the TOP is mocked (by the bullies) as a sad deviant, their story pitied and ignored

i wasn't accusin you of doin this shakey

(millie tant has uber-kewl shoes!) (in fact she is v.stylish all over!!)

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:46 (nineteen years ago) link

i was thinking about this, and you know--dwarkin, in how she connected sex to power, and made every sexual encounter a negotion of status, was v. much like foccualt.

i mean one said, all right--thats the case, lets be all transgressive and hott about it and one said, well we need to stop--but there is something almost creepy, and v. obv. violently powerful about the cock in cunt fucking---something in that phallocentrism that keeps women in place.

anthony, Monday, 11 April 2005 19:51 (nineteen years ago) link

&i am talking as a post queer faggot who would prefer handjobs to anal, and also as someone w. a history of rape directly and indirectly--and who loves porn.

(has anyone been following the exuses and the lack of discourse, and the forgiving of the soliders and the blaming of the victims that has occured wrt to the ca 150 rapes in colorado--that should be on the cover of the new york times.)

anthony, Monday, 11 April 2005 19:53 (nineteen years ago) link

"post queer"?
"150 rapes"?

buh?

"v. obv. violently powerful about the cock in cunt fucking---something in that phallocentrism that keeps women in place. "

this is baloney. a physical act developed long before the advent of consciousness (much less ideology) doesnt have any inherent political meaning. get one biology book.

Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 19:58 (nineteen years ago) link

dworkin's analysis of power is way more naive than foucault's, not least bcz she never seems to have allowed for her own specific access to power, as a writer

eg i'm not exactly sure what events calum's charge of exploitation (re linda lovelace) refers to, but one possible way in which AD "exploited" LL is by ventriloquising her, by converting LL's story into grist for AD's mill, into fuel for her movement and nothing more (instead of giving LL a voice, she silences her) (i've no idea if this represents the facts in the case)

anyway, this ventriloquising/silencing as a power strong writers have - and whatever else she is, dworkin was a very strong writer (hence the intensity of reactions against her)

but i don't think she ever really addressed that

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:01 (nineteen years ago) link

but there is something almost creepy, and v. obv. violently powerful about the cock in cunt fucking---something in that phallocentrism that keeps women in place.

Kinda depends on position and style, no? Man tied up on a bed, woman straddling him: This does not preserve that role for the cock.

That's an interpretive framework, a way of reading the movement of the cock, one that is interesting but does not nec. have any "real" quality to it. It's like associating "green" with "money" and noting how nature displays a lot of green when it thrives and how this indicates that it is natural to accumulate money and wealth.

Casuistry (Chris P), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:02 (nineteen years ago) link

And that line quoted earlier, "woman need guns and land," echoed vintage Black Panther rhetoric. Another boomer generational voice still trapped in the 60s.

Needing guns and land is a theme that resonates through the whole of American history. It fits with so many American tropes and tragedies: radical individualism, right wing libertarianism, the gun lobby, "the security state", litigation culture, Waco, the Unabomber, sexual prudishness, even suburban sprawl and the sprawling American body shape... It's all about post-protestant non-conformity, the rhetorical passion of an extreme (and finally fatal) form of individualism.

Maybe Dworkin was more typically American than even people like Twain and Whitman. This idea that you have to fight all the time, that society is your enemy, that you have to split off and form a radical-puritan-utopian community somewhere because normal folks doing normal things are evil and persecute you. She's there on the Mayflower, speeding away from sex and society, she's there at Salem witch-hunting, victimising and then claiming, in turn, to be the ultimate victim. And there's even a bit of Oprah in her strategic compassion.

Momus (Momus), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:03 (nineteen years ago) link

"I was just pointing up the fact that since the reproductive act is so deeply rooted in the human animal, arguing that it should be completely done away with is inherently marginalizing"

"a physical act developed long before the advent of consciousness (much less ideology) doesnt have any inherent political meaning"

get one logic book!!

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:03 (nineteen years ago) link

:D

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:04 (nineteen years ago) link

uh... what? I don't see a contradiction there.

Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 20:07 (nineteen years ago) link

in the moorcock interview, she places sexual power only in the nexus of economic power (and i suppose somewhat bodily power), she doesn't really ever address the question of cultural power

(which is like the most insanely complicated question, but still needed to be addressed)

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:08 (nineteen years ago) link

this is baloney. a physical act developed long before the advent of consciousness (much less ideology) doesnt have any inherent political meaning. get one biology book

I think it's pointless to argue about which came first: sex, politics, or consciousness. Just because a sexual act has a biological basis doesn't mean that it can't also be political.

Kinda depends on position and style, no? Man tied up on a bed, woman straddling him: This does not preserve that role for the cock.

Yes, but how many people have sex that way? Not many. But even in the less extreme case of the woman on top, certainly the woman has a lot more agency/initiative than Dworkin is giving her credit for.

o. nate (onate), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:12 (nineteen years ago) link

dworkin's kind of an interesting case given my vague knowledge of her and info from this thread. sexual abuse can give you a really altered reality. and it's interesting how all ideologies, theories, political/social movements are (arguabley) just the result of the originator's pathologies, unleashing their obsessive personal mishagas on the world. some are seen as more positive or more palatable or more intellectualized/depersonalized than others. but here might be the other extreme showing it more for what it is. though i guess we now know her answer for At what point do you finally stop being angry?

lolita corpus (lolitacorpus), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:17 (nineteen years ago) link

if arguing that sex be completing done away with is inherently marginalising, then any discussion of changes in the given social order of reproductive sex occurs under the shadow of the threat of marginalisation, which is clearly a political threat

implication of the first sentence: that human society will be therefore stratified by the degree to which reproductive sex is deemed present, acceptably contained, in control, out of control etc etc, by those with the ability to deem

the sentences aren't opposites exactly, but they do step on each other's toes

"inherent political meaning" - obv not, if this implies republican vs democrat or whatever - but anthony's point that you were objecting to wz that cock-and-cunt fucking has a deep cultural power to it, and if THAT'S what yr calling an "inherent political meaning", then i think the sentences clash

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:19 (nineteen years ago) link

i have to say i can't work out in anthony's first post where he's just summarising dworkin and where he's assenting

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:22 (nineteen years ago) link

The more I think about the inherent biological inequalities in heterosexual vaginal sex though, the less I feel that it has anything to do with sexual positions, and the more that it has to do with the nature of reproduction - ie., who impregnates whom. However, the advent of reliable contraception (esp. the pill) has removed the natural asymmetry.

o. nate (onate), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:24 (nineteen years ago) link

momus what do you mean by "post-protestant"? "post" as in "now that protestnatnism is over" or "post" as in "now that protestnatnism is everywhere"

most of what yr describin just IS protestantism!! (i'm too tired to look it up but tom paulin says somewhere that autobiography is the exemplary form of the protestant political text)

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:35 (nineteen years ago) link

(also i have no idea what "more american than whitman/twain" means, unless yr arguin that americanism is in essence ultra-protestantism)

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:37 (nineteen years ago) link

Well said Momus. Anyone who, realistically, believes that women are inferior to men is obviously not going to be reading Dworkin's work anyway. It's how I always felt about Spike Lee - who the fuck was he preaching to? Racists are hardly going to be watching his work - so whose opinions was he trying to change?

I recently bought Deep Throat - curiousity got the better of me and I'd wanted to see it for a while. Watched it in the company of a female and another guy. We had a good chuckle at it, as it is kinda funny - though such a shame about Linda Lovelace. I told me gfriend I picked it up and she couldn't care.

The real misogyny, in my opinion, comes from certain people on this forum whose attitude seems to be that women should never be lusted over or spoken about in a sexual content and that - in doing so - the person is somehow a mad woman hater. I really long for the day when we are all as liberated as somewhere like San Francisco. Having spent a few days in the city's gay district and bars and seen how no one gives a shit about sexual orientation, heavy petting on the streets etc I really wish we could all take that lead. I swear that one day I'm moving there.

NamC, Wednesday, 13 April 2005 17:05 (nineteen years ago) link

calum please don't diminish our fair city by moving here.

Shakey Mo Collier, Wednesday, 13 April 2005 17:11 (nineteen years ago) link

Gollum Calum, please move here and initiate warfare with Chris Daly and/or Tony Hall.

M. White (Miguelito), Wednesday, 13 April 2005 17:14 (nineteen years ago) link

I dunno man, probably have more friends there than you do. It'll be there or LA. That's where most of m best friends are scattered now. And there's good parties every freaking night in LA. Damn, I miss that.

NamC, Wednesday, 13 April 2005 17:15 (nineteen years ago) link

maybe people would believe you were "cool"/popular/sexy/interesting/smart if you could go five seconds without talking about how "cool"/popular/sexy/interesting/smart. it's really kind of sad, it's like yr a hyper-insecure 12 year old boy.

Shakey Mo Collier, Wednesday, 13 April 2005 17:18 (nineteen years ago) link

maybe people would believe you were "cool"/popular/sexy/interesting/smart if you could go five seconds without talking about how "cool"/popular/sexy/interesting/smart you are. it's really kind of sad, it's like yr a hyper-insecure 12 year old boy.

Shakey Mo Collier, Wednesday, 13 April 2005 17:19 (nineteen years ago) link

Yeah, but the sex talk, Shakey, is straight up 16 year old.

M. White (Miguelito), Wednesday, 13 April 2005 17:20 (nineteen years ago) link

I dunno man, probably have more friends there than you do.

Upon what information have you based this? Why do think this matters? Why do you think I'd care?

Actually, I'm prepared to concede that you may have more. Who knows? Pure egotism on my part inclines me to believe that my friends, though putatively less numerous, are far superior in quality.

M. White (Miguelito), Wednesday, 13 April 2005 17:31 (nineteen years ago) link

heavy petting on the streets

TEARS OF LAUGHTER

The Ghost of Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Thursday, 14 April 2005 01:28 (nineteen years ago) link

Calum, dude, I've got to ROFFLE @ yr comments about A. Dworkin's appearance, coming as they do from SOMEONE WHO LOOKS EXACTLY LIKE BRANDON IN "GALAXY QUEST"!!!!1!

Pashmina (Pashmina), Thursday, 14 April 2005 08:34 (nineteen years ago) link

Yeah, and J Blount's para starting w/"fair enough amster" is some fucking good & insightful stuff, esp the line about the right's rebranding of the word "feminist" & the bit abt her straw men inevitably popping up to attack her.

Pashmina (Pashmina), Thursday, 14 April 2005 08:38 (nineteen years ago) link

I always thought the whole penis-as-inherently-violent or dominant thing came from this retroactive metaphor of a weapon. Yes, the penis is long and thin like a spear or a missile, but it also doesn't have a sharp pointy end and doesn't explode on impact. Not all acts of sticking something into something else are inherently violent. The vagina could just as easily be seen as a net, as jaws, as a trap or whatever.

Dworkin always struck me as someone brilliant who wasn't aware enough of how her own particular experiences affected/skewed her insights. Then again, judging from her popularity among women at the time, she obviously touched a nerve, so perhaps many women felt their experiences were similar.

Hurting (Hurting), Tuesday, 19 April 2005 13:49 (nineteen years ago) link

two years pass...

from

Is it even expected today that a woman should just be okay with pornography? Like we've 'progressed' to the point where no one should get upset by it? Was Ariel Levy RIGHT???

-- Abbott, Monday, February 4, 2008 12:57 AM (1 hour ago) Bookmark Link

It's not my obsession with porn, babe, it's your reaction to it!

-- wanko ergo sum, Monday, February 4, 2008 12:59 AM (1 hour ago) Bookmark Link

I totally do get this vibe from modren non-'square/straight' society (can't think of any terms that would work outside West Side Story) that a chick's just supposed to accept men jerk it to .mpegs and such, her man jerks it, so it goes. Her opinion doesn't matter, unless she's for it.
1. Is this true and
2. how did it happen and
3. is this a good or bad thing?

Abbott, Monday, 4 February 2008 02:57 (sixteen years ago) link

I was gonna respond to your questions regarding this on the eharmony thread where you invoked Ariel Levy. Anyhow, my impressions:
1. True: Yes, I think this has become increasingly the case over the past several years, esp. in the eyes of many younger i.e., early-20's/late-teens dudes
2. The Hows: Internet presumably removing the "shame factor" previously associated with pornography; plus the media push towards "porn chic", "hey porn's gone mainstream"; plus an x factor (pun not intended) of sorts of women going along with it for whatever reasons...like kinda what Levy talks about in her writings
3. Good or bad? Hmmm. Well, I don't wanna live in a society in which porn is illegal, but I can find enough objectionable things about the contemporary porn biz such that the added factor of women feeling like they are uptight or something if they are not cool with their boyfriends/husbands gettin' down w/the porn is pretty sad...actually, I think it's a sad situation for both women and men.

Part of me thinks that porn will eventually "mellow out" from what it's become, and return largely to the comparatively "innocent" Playboy/Penthouse-type sutff of decades past...I'm not sure why I think that, other then that it seems like things have swung to such an extreme that it's hard for me not to imagine it as part of a cyclical thing that must eventually revert back to something more balanced and sane.

So for whatever reasons, my attempt at answering this question is informed in no small part by me personally being skeeved out by what porn has become in the past few years. But more to the point of your inquiry, it's something that obv. needs to be worked out by individuals/couples... and the fact that societal pressures exist to such a degree that people would feel like there is something wrong with them if they are not down with the current climate, well, again that seems sad to me.
3.

dell, Monday, 4 February 2008 03:54 (sixteen years ago) link

six years pass...

looks like she won, ultimately

images of war violence and historical smoking (Dr Morbius), Friday, 14 February 2014 14:35 (ten years ago) link

four years pass...

Really good overview of her thought and writings: https://www.bookforum.com/inprint/025_05/20623

xyzzzz__, Wednesday, 30 January 2019 22:55 (five years ago) link

yeah great piece. always found her relationship w Moorcock very interesting.

Οὖτις, Wednesday, 30 January 2019 23:23 (five years ago) link


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