Just when you thought it was safe - OK CUPID PART 3: The Return of the WOO!

Yeah. Am beginning to reconsider the wisdom of hanging out with them 3 nights in a row, though.

have realized i should probably deactivate this while unemployed as i can't really afford to be dating atm

though that didn't stop me from going out with this one p badass girl friday night who, i suspect, might be a good new friend. also nice student who i've been activisty with for the last 6 months is now single and seems interested in spending some non-activisty time with me, so there's that.

Well, so, that happened.

uh oh?

No! Actually I think it was shockingly normal for a date! I'm a little surprised by "normal" at this point, maybe? He is v v pretty btw.

btw guys i had a breakthrough tonight, i realized i am only attracted to lesbians, it all makes sense

lol when I see "that happened" I jump to assuming that it's an admission that more happened than was expected

There might have been some unrepentant smooching in full view of a bar half-full of people. Which actually IS more than I expected.

whee!

Excellent, I thought my nuance detector was not working this fine Monday morning but I see it is calibrated after all

Oh you.

btw guys i had a breakthrough tonight, i realized i am only attracted to lesbians, it all makes sense
― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Monday, March 19, 2012 8:44 AM (5 hours ago)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QGMr6kCWau4

Just messaged me to inform me I am radiant despite "tipping towards 50"

>:[

GUY just messaged me that should say.

oblivious or negging?

may think you're sarah mclachlan

Oblivious, just some random ESL dude from SEAsia - get those occasionally. Sort of Mahir-esque messages.

oh no, not another tipping conversation on ilx

Second date awfully far away.

like how far?

Oh just next week. Although since entire weekend fell through, maybe I can resched.

I thought you were going to say "tomorrow", all coyly ;)

Haha! *bat* *bat*. But no.

Um yes. It is now tomorrow.

smooth operator!

oh no, not another tipping conversation on ilx

Baha :)

someone's screen name is a reference to salinger's catcher in the rye. somehow this turns me off. am i being unfair?

nope

Not if they are over 25.

They are 44. Haha.

I'd have to know what exact screen name they chose before I could weigh in on this topic. As for now, I would not immediately disqualify him.

you are generous vp! the screen name is a combo of the title & the name of a character in the book, but i have already decided against him. :/

btw daters remember I said [here] that we should have a NYC FAP?

Thursday April 5th any good?

Hm maybe but there's a conflicting event on 4/5 for some people, involving a movie screening at BAM and an appearance of Chris Eigeman.

someone's screen name is a reference to salinger's catcher in the rye. somehow this turns me off.

If their screen name is "Fuck You," marry them.

just when i think i'm out, i see a blonde ex journalist who wears plaid skirts to punk shows that pulls me back in

I have a third date today! With the same person. I think this is going fairly well

ooh

Yep.

He is completely stupidly cute, the dimples are weapons-grade, I don't even know what to do.

Do you just sit there while he is talking and think

DIMPLES

Yes, he sounds like the teachers in Charlie Brown cartoons, I have to store what he's saying for later retrieval because I can't hear a word.

alright, i guess this site really did work for me after all (paired with a confluence of other factors/coincidences).

Haha.

such begrudging acknowledgement, heh

congrats!

What, everyone's getting lucky all of a sudden? What is this, the gay thread?

An environmental activist called me "Dimples" on the street the other day, when I refused to stop to sign her petition . . . maybe I should market myself to the dimple-loving population?

Congrats Laurel & b_g!

heh, i met my current guy on okc! (it was over a year before we saw each other again, but still) - this thing worked after all

I'm not sure that congrats are in order, I can't tell what's happening from one date to another! Part of that is some oddities about him and part is some neuroses about me but it's not a bad thing. It's been good.

Straaaaaaangeloooooove