Now that we found love what are we gonna do? The Winter 2011-12 Gay Thread

i should tell my parents before i leave here wed morning since i'm getting tired of being coy with my mom about what i'm doing (pretending that my boyfriend isn't my boyfriend and/or pretending like he doesn't exist) but... it's hard

t, here's his website

we spent all day together on saturday - biergarten in silverlake followed by cuddling in the park followed by chinese food followed by the strangest karaoke bar i have ever been to (we were also the only people there for like an hour and a half, so it was just us and the hosts singing). he sang "crush on you" and dedicated it to me.

srsly in love tbqfh

xp wtg j0rdan!

donna that sounds hella dope

awesome, sarge

Any chance of hangin' tomorrow night?

the only gay news I have is that I'm pretty sure I'm in love, which is very strange and unprecedented for me.

yeah, sorry, i've been predictably very busy

i could likely meet you for some drinks as long as you don't mind on meeting later (like, 9:30 or 10)

being away from my boyfriend for a few days has reminded me that i have pretty strong feelings for him

weird timez in the gay thread

tanuki i feel the same way kinda

like i've never been this OMGSQUEEEEE about a guy before

i'm really sorry about this but i can never remember

tanuki = c0rey or plax?

I can swing it if it's in the 9 - 9:30 range but I'm flexible tomorrow night cuz I don't have to be up ridiculously early Wed morning.

yeah I don't know what to make of this season yet either

alright alfred, i'll text you tomorrow at some point either way

I'm C0rey

xps it's also worrying because our educational path will inevitably diverge. I mean, what will happen if I'm in Japan for 6 months or longer to study abroad? Or moving across the country for grad school, etc.

I had sex with a man named Greg on Sat night -- the first time I've had sex with a man named Greg.

japan, eh? is he in school also?

that's e-greg-ious behavior alfred

lol, Greg

I've decided to major in asian studies instead of music (though not dropping it completely)

We go to the same school at the moment (but I almost never see him there)

all you assholes in your blissful relationships with your bfs or flings with guys named greg are making me hate my life even more

i'm practically a born-again virgin at this point

I hate to be all "chin up" but really, my life has been pretty shitty up until these last two years.

wtg, j0rdan. i know it's tough, but ripping the bandaid off re: your parents will make everything easier going forward.

congratulations jordan

in myyyyyy solitude...

some thoughts/questions:

- donna, your bf's poetry reminds me a bit of Ashbery. and Dean Young. which is a good thing.

- j0rdan, did you tell the parents? it actually will make things much easier.

- haven't seen my bf since sunday, and i am going crazy. good thing we're hanging tonight. (as in yeah, i understand all yall being lovey-dovey/missing yr boyfriends).

- Rev, i can't remember your exact situation atm, but seriously: is there a way you can just get the hell out of whatever situation yr in? it makes me sad to see you sad.

- c0rey, DO NOT WORRY ABOUT THE FUTURE with the boyfriend. everything will work out just fine, enjoy what's happening now.

also, any suggestions for pranks to play on my horrible housemate before i move out? i was thinking about putting something gross in his extraordinarily loud juicer. like a mouse.

jizz

but he's gay he might like that.

santorum.

blame the election year

i have always wanted to upper deck someone. so simple and so disgusting.

- j0rdan, did you tell the parents? it actually will make things much easier.

nah, i wussed out. on to the next one...

- c0rey, DO NOT WORRY ABOUT THE FUTURE with the boyfriend. everything will work out just fine, enjoy what's happening now.

:)

Urgh. A former hook-up asked if I wanted to hang out later tonight and I had to give this long spiel about how I'm in a pretty committed relationship at the moment and that if we hung out we would probably hookup, and by doing so I'd be lying to Phillip and him as well. I really hate excluding people, but if it's a choice between possibly hurting someone's feelings and betraying my loved one, the right decision is clear (but still sucks to make).

You could always hang out and NOT hook up?

Idk if you can't that suggests to me you don't have much more of a relationship with that dude beyond sex so it's not a huge loss right?

Urgh. A former hook-up asked if I wanted to hang out later tonight and I had to give this long spiel about how I'm in a pretty committed relationship at the moment and that if we hung out we would probably hookup, and by doing so I'd be lying to Phillip and him as well.

"Nature, Mr. Allnut, is what we were placed on this earth to rise above."

http://content9.flixster.com/photo/13/93/84/13938407_gal.jpg

i'm sure C is generally a good judge of what constitutes an unnecessary temptation.

You could always hang out and NOT hook up?

Idk if you can't that suggests to me you don't have much more of a relationship with that dude beyond sex so it's not a huge loss right?

― lex pretend, Saturday, March 10, 2012 2:28 PM (8 hours ago)

Pretty much — we met via a hookup site and and our relationship has been framed as almost exclusively sexual. I just hate telling anyone "no".

had a pretty great... um... date? i'm actually not sure if it was a date or not but he's awesome & cute... and we had great convo... *swoons*

*swoons* is always a good way to end a post. Yay.

I'm having vegetarian brunch with JF at the not-officially-lesbian-but-totally-lesbian-cafe in our neighbourhood.

hello

hi!

meow

what's going on ?

etta james

hi!

My ex finally finished "home improvements" at his place a few weeks ago and has been after me to pay a house call. I wouldn't mind the booty but lately his conversational range has contracted thinner than my hairline.

i bought a rice cooker. many wholesome grains await me in he future.

also i have booked a flight to SFO for a gay wedding in september.