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i mean, that's a connotation that i associate with "uppity." it's not in the dictionary definition i just googled. i feel like in america with the history of the phrase "uppity n*****" maybe it carries that connotation more intensely.

horseshoe, Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:41 (twelve years ago) link

Yeah, "insubordinate" is a perfect analog but my mom's family are from Tennessee so she has "uppity" in her vocab already and it occasionally gets used. Anyway. She's not trying to make a statement, she just doesn't hear other words around her EVER because no one talks about race in her world, and casual racism that's based on not actually KNOWING anyone in the indicted group is just everywhere.

It means why you gotta be a montague? (Laurel), Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:41 (twelve years ago) link

whiney, a white person should never be allowed to yell at black kids?

― I am that young sis, the beacon, a yardstick (dayo), Thursday, January 19, 2012 12:35 PM (5 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

I literally have never been in a situation where I had to yell at black kids, let alone one that requires me to inform one that he's acting snobby, ymmv

deltron the escape g.o.a.t. (Whiney G. Weingarten), Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:43 (twelve years ago) link

I used to tutor at a school where my kids were black - I should never have been allowed to yell at him, even if they did some shitty things?

I am that young sis, the beacon, a yardstick (dayo), Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:44 (twelve years ago) link

http://i.imgur.com/iIWUO.jpg

pplains, Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:44 (twelve years ago) link

pls be my special classroom guest

rocognise gnome (remy bean), Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:45 (twelve years ago) link

although i have never said snobby in a classroom

rocognise gnome (remy bean), Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:46 (twelve years ago) link

although i have never said snobby in a classroom

rocognise gnome (remy bean), Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:46 (twelve years ago) link

Oh wait - I thought Whiney was just kidding with that comment before.

Yes people's milage might indeed vary cause if you were actually being serious then I don't know about Darragh but I've personally had to yell at black kids, white kids, latino kids - all kinds of kids - a lot in various jobs over the years.

ENBB, Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:46 (twelve years ago) link

I yelled at a bunch of black kids last summer for throwing pebbles at other kids climbing on the playground.

I said, "KNOCK IT OFF, YOU INSCRUTABLE MONKEYS."

pplains, Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:47 (twelve years ago) link

Before you all think I'm mean or something I didn't actually yell (despite there being many times when I really really wanted to) at them. Just to clarify.

ENBB, Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:47 (twelve years ago) link

x-post - lol

ENBB, Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:47 (twelve years ago) link

about ten years ago i did get chastised for assigning a public speaking project, on whose rubric were allocated 10 points for 'clear and articulate voice.' i :get: that there's racial baggage to this term, but at the same time IN A PUBLIC SPEAKING CLASS I felt it was an apropos component of a grade.

rocognise gnome (remy bean), Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:48 (twelve years ago) link

i :get: that there's racial baggage to this term

TO WHICH TERM?

:(

ENBB, Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:48 (twelve years ago) link

pizza guy ftw
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ERIC CANONTA FOR PRESIDETN! (onimo), Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:49 (twelve years ago) link

"articulate," again, when used to describe black people. it's not like you can't say "articulate"!

horseshoe, Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:49 (twelve years ago) link

i feel like more important than memorizing a list of words you can never use is understanding the racist history of their use.

horseshoe, Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:49 (twelve years ago) link

I mean I could guess that you mean articulate because maybe inarticulate has been used in a way that's connected with race but I would never in a million years have looked at that and thought about racial baggage. Jesus.

ENBB, Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:50 (twelve years ago) link

I was joking, enbb, i was explaining the joke to dayo

deltron the escape g.o.a.t. (Whiney G. Weingarten), Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:50 (twelve years ago) link

Erica, the context is sort of an exceptionalism thing where you're like "my, that black man was so *articulate*" because your expectation is that black men are stupid and can't speak properly.

horseshoe, Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:51 (twelve years ago) link

it's, like, unintentionally revealing of assumptions about black people; i really doubt you've ever used the word in that way

horseshoe, Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:51 (twelve years ago) link

yes! also, for what it's worth, I was the only teacher of color in a school w/ a 90% non-white pop., and the people that got mad at me were all white administrators who demanded that I 'understand the history.'

rocognise gnome (remy bean), Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:51 (twelve years ago) link

I was joking, enbb, i was explaining the joke to dayo

― deltron the escape g.o.a.t. (Whiney G. Weingarten), Thursday, January 19, 2012 12:50 PM (1 minute ago) Bookmark

nice backpedaling

I am that young sis, the beacon, a yardstick (dayo), Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:52 (twelve years ago) link

yes! also, for what it's worth, I was the only teacher of color in a school w/ a 90% non-white pop., and the people that got mad at me were all white administrators who demanded that I 'understand the history.'

oh dear lord

Bam! Orgasm explosion in your facehole. (DJP), Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:53 (twelve years ago) link

A fellow in the office and I play Words With Friends, and we were talking about how sometimes you get the perfect word to use for points, but it just doesn't feel right. Like even if you get a triple-letter, you still don't want to play RAPE against a female friend.

Right after we had that conversation, I got HUNGJEW in my tray.

pplains, Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:53 (twelve years ago) link

haha my last move was 'gay' to a gay friend tbh

iatee, Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:53 (twelve years ago) link

I just wanted to get rid of the y

iatee, Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:53 (twelve years ago) link

remy, it seems like people are absolute DICKS to you a lot. Like unnecessarily. The parents up-thread who held against you a comment about their adopted kid that you made when you were TWELVE also comes to mind!

It means why you gotta be a montague? (Laurel), Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:54 (twelve years ago) link

Yeah, HS I get it but in Remy's example it seems completely ridiculous for him to be criticized for that. Being clear and articulate is one of the most important parts of public speaking! It seems even more so now after reading his description of the school and population tbh.

ENBB, Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:55 (twelve years ago) link

I just wanted to get rid of the y

― iatee, Thursday, January 19, 2012 11:53 AM (11 seconds ago)

^ eliminationist rhetoric

Critique of Pure Moods (goole), Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:55 (twelve years ago) link

held against you a comment about their adopted kid that you made when you were TWELVE also comes to mind!

I thought that comment sounded adorable btw.

ENBB, Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:55 (twelve years ago) link

yeah no it was dumb of his administrators to object to that

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horseshoe, Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:55 (twelve years ago) link

I literally have never been in a situation where I had to yell at black kids, let alone one that requires me to inform one that he's acting snobby, ymmv

jesus christ Whiney whats a matter with you

frogbs, Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:56 (twelve years ago) link

I think I just remember shitty shit a lot; kind of got a fixedly pessimistic memory-motor.

I quit teaching for 6 years after that school. E., you know which one it is, I think.

rocognise gnome (remy bean), Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:56 (twelve years ago) link

A fellow in the office and I play Words With Friends, and we were talking about how sometimes you get the perfect word to use for points, but it just doesn't feel right. Like even if you get a triple-letter, you still don't want to play RAPE against a female friend.

whats even worse is when you try to play NEGRO against a black friend and learn that it isnt even a word

frogbs, Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:56 (twelve years ago) link

yeah, whats the matter with ME

deltron the escape g.o.a.t. (Whiney G. Weingarten), Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:56 (twelve years ago) link

Hahaha. Oh OK, that make s a lot of sense now if I'm thinking of the right one. Remy btw - you need to claim your requested confectioneries at some point. :)

ENBB, Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:57 (twelve years ago) link

well it was a profoundly stupid thing to say

frogbs, Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:57 (twelve years ago) link

tell me about all the reasons, besides being a teacher, that you have to yell at black kids for being snobby

deltron the escape g.o.a.t. (Whiney G. Weingarten), Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:58 (twelve years ago) link

you never hear anybody use the word "scrutable" do you?

the smell of Whiney's cheap perfume (Noodle Vague), Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:58 (twelve years ago) link

"typical scrutable Italian"

the smell of Whiney's cheap perfume (Noodle Vague), Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:59 (twelve years ago) link

haha i didn't even realize it was a word

horseshoe, Thursday, 19 January 2012 17:59 (twelve years ago) link

Italian scrutable flatbread

I certainly wouldn't have, but hey. (Le Bateau Ivre), Thursday, 19 January 2012 18:00 (twelve years ago) link

crütable

the smell of Whiney's cheap perfume (Noodle Vague), Thursday, 19 January 2012 18:00 (twelve years ago) link

C'mon, everybody yells at kids, it's our right as old people.

It means why you gotta be a montague? (Laurel), Thursday, 19 January 2012 18:00 (twelve years ago) link

tbh, I have never called a kid snobby

rocognise gnome (remy bean), Thursday, 19 January 2012 18:01 (twelve years ago) link

tell me about all the reasons, besides being a teacher, that you have to yell at black kids for being snobby

― deltron the escape g.o.a.t. (Whiney G. Weingarten), Thursday, January 19, 2012 12:58 PM (1 minute ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

When they only steal the hood ornaments from Mercs and BMWs but not my Toyota.

Famous porn scenes like "shake that bear" (Phil D.), Thursday, 19 January 2012 18:01 (twelve years ago) link

yeah honestly it's hard for me to think of a teaching context where calling a kid snobby would come up

horseshoe, Thursday, 19 January 2012 18:01 (twelve years ago) link

omg Phil

Bam! Orgasm explosion in your facehole. (DJP), Thursday, 19 January 2012 18:02 (twelve years ago) link

i've literally never yelled at a kid, black or white, and couldnt imagine a single situation where i'd have to tell a black kid he was snobby, let alone it happening so frequently in my life that I'd seek anonymous advice on the internet on how to handle this constant and unwelcome occurance

deltron the escape g.o.a.t. (Whiney G. Weingarten), Thursday, 19 January 2012 18:02 (twelve years ago) link


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