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i feel like i've seen plenty of males artists who are awkward and a mess of nerves onstage but they don't get the cat power/LDR treatment.

― omar little, Tuesday, January 17, 2012 4:15 PM (4 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

cat power and elliott smith were coming up at the same time, and i remember reading/hearing exactly the same complaints about the stage presence of both.

Little GTFO (contenderizer), Wednesday, 18 January 2012 00:20 (twelve years ago) link

elliot smith was "intimate" and "personal"

rocognise gnome (remy bean), Wednesday, 18 January 2012 00:21 (twelve years ago) link

why does everyone focus on courtney love's worms

puff puff post (uh oh I'm having a fantasy), Wednesday, 18 January 2012 00:21 (twelve years ago) link

in a certain way sexism is all over this incident. we have an artist whose entire act is either enacting particular sexist tropes about female passivity, male domination, a whole dynamic of neglect + pining, or at the very least problematizing + dialoguing that it. she records one single that that gets her a lot of attention. i'm not going to pretend that my love of that single has nothing to do w/ gender + sex. i found her performance in that video really sexy, i found her vocal performance really arresting, and titillating. that's often going on w/ music of both genders. partially due to the attention she got from that video (a video that was itself sexually problematic, and attention that was certainly sexualized) she was given an incredibly rare opportunity for such an inexperienced artist -- playing on SNL.

now we have a notably terrible performance from that artist. part of what made the performance terrible is what i wrote about in a post above: that instead of seeming confident, in control, savvy she came off as amateurish, naive, overwhelmed. part of the problem is that instead of being sexy she was almost childish. so it's not like sex + gender aren't appropriate here. but i think calling criticism here 'sexism' without explicating exactly how sex fits into the whole thing, is just an intellectual duck.

then on top of it, there are actual technical stuff about her performance that were imperfect. but yes, if she were someone else, maybe someone who had different dynamics in her song, or someone coming w/ a wider range of material + tropes, the reaction would be much different. but this reaction has as much to do with how she was marketed upfront.

Mordy, Wednesday, 18 January 2012 00:25 (twelve years ago) link

I mean, I don't give a crap about her or her music, which I find boring to an unlistenable degree,

lol interesting thread to jump in on then

⚓ (gr8080), Wednesday, 18 January 2012 00:25 (twelve years ago) link

also, i remember reading a lot of criticism of Axl Rose's erratic, terrible + truncated performances during a recent tour

Mordy, Wednesday, 18 January 2012 00:26 (twelve years ago) link

re: Tim F

agree completely that responses to female artists are often stunningly sexist, even when they're positive. i'm only arguing that the general negativity of responses to that SNL performance probably isn't a product of sexism in and of itself.

Little GTFO (contenderizer), Wednesday, 18 January 2012 00:27 (twelve years ago) link

elliot smith was "intimate" and "personal"

― rocognise gnome (remy bean), Tuesday, January 17, 2012 4:21 PM (6 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

well, that's the thing. more cartoonishly masculine rock and pop acts (take AC/DC as an extreme example) don't cultivate the illusion of intimacy in their music or performance. therefore, it's perhaps understandable that they aren't criticized from a position of implied intimacy.

Little GTFO (contenderizer), Wednesday, 18 January 2012 00:32 (twelve years ago) link

not intimacy, just sex.

m white btw (get bent), Wednesday, 18 January 2012 00:33 (twelve years ago) link

dashboard confessional, bright eyes + other emo performers who did intimate performances often got mocked.

Mordy, Wednesday, 18 January 2012 00:34 (twelve years ago) link

that says a lot about audiences. "haha you let your guard down... faggot."

that's some leftover junior high school shit.

m white btw (get bent), Wednesday, 18 January 2012 00:35 (twelve years ago) link

but i think calling criticism here 'sexism' without explicating exactly how sex fits into the whole thing, is just an intellectual duck.

I don't think anyone would disagree with your basic point ^^^^ mordy. But that's because using the s word without explication is likely to be an intellectual duck in almost any context.

Also while it's incontravertible that LDR plays with sex and gender, it's a lot harder for female artists to avoid being framed in these terms, even if the frame is "rejection of x".

e.g. Ani DiFranco arguably could be the anti LDR in this regard but still gets (or used to get) talked about in terms that seemed to be underscored by the considerations "would I sleep with her? would she sleep with me?" So while LDR sets up certain expectations that she likely will be punished for not fulfilling, I don't think she has the option of not playing the game. And I think it'd be useful for people to keep this in mind before justifying any and all criticisms (and forms of criticism) on the basis that "she asked for it."

Not that I really think anyone in this thread is wanting to do that, but I don't see this as an either/or game.

Tim F, Wednesday, 18 January 2012 00:36 (twelve years ago) link

ime 'edgy' or 'new' music aesthetically privilages hypermasculinity, "feminine vulnerable" and all manner of genderfuckery from male performers. it's a big tent. but it really can't deal on a nuanced scale with anything more complicated than virgin/whore/virgin-whore from female performers.not to say that the performers themselves aren't capable of more fine-toothed sexualities, but rather that but that the criticism and discussion of female performers who "engage" (heavy scare quotes) with their sexuality is often kind of flat and stereotyped/stereotyping, at least in popular discussion.

rocognise gnome (remy bean), Wednesday, 18 January 2012 00:40 (twelve years ago) link

i'm not sure about that. it might seem that way bc we're commenting on a ldr thread but i can think of many many female artists working in popular music + in more niche genres who are able to do things that are much more nuanced. idk if i have a lot more to say about this, but i will say that Kathleen Edwards is performing on Dave Letterman tnite and as i think she's one of the most amazing musical artists making music today i highly recommend everyone check her out.

Mordy, Wednesday, 18 January 2012 00:43 (twelve years ago) link

exactly, tim f. "playing with" sex and gender isn't necessarily the same as "painting herself into a corner with being intimate/vulnerable/a damsel in distress." i listen to an ldr song like "you can be the boss" and i hear her as the one in control, the one who's kinda making fun of the guy with malt liquor on his breath. she'll fuck him anyway. because people in "control" get to make that choice. cue janet jackson.

m white btw (get bent), Wednesday, 18 January 2012 00:43 (twelve years ago) link

"it's you / it's you / it's all for you. / everything i do."

i haven't heard "you can be the boss." i really only know the video games song very well. but that song does paint her into that corner imho.

Mordy, Wednesday, 18 January 2012 00:47 (twelve years ago) link

I'm in his favorite sun dress
Watching me get undressed
Take that body downtown

I say you the bestest
Lean in for a big kiss
Put his favorite perfume on

The whole song really depicts her as an object of male/listener attraction - explicitly so. The clothing she wears is "his favorite sun dress." She is being watched as she strips down naked. She sings his praises, her very smell is what he wants from her.

Mordy, Wednesday, 18 January 2012 00:48 (twelve years ago) link

The line between that song being a critique of that kind of relationship, and just being that kind of relationship, is how in control of the message she appears to be. When she doesn't seem in control, it's not a surprise that ppl begin to read it as literal.

Mordy, Wednesday, 18 January 2012 00:49 (twelve years ago) link

I'm not sure Kathleen Edwards is appropriate here. How are they worth comparison -- they're both women?

lumber up, limbaugh down (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 18 January 2012 00:51 (twelve years ago) link

i really only know the video games song very well. but that song does paint her into that corner imho.

I was shocked to see a recent picture of Meryl Streep and discover that her transformation into Margaret Thatcher wasn't permanent. Talk about pulling a fast one.

Tim F, Wednesday, 18 January 2012 00:51 (twelve years ago) link

women today are so empowered to choose whatever asshole they want to fuck

the 500 gats of bartholomew thuggins (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Wednesday, 18 January 2012 00:52 (twelve years ago) link

Is there a male equivalent of "ingenue?"

Josh in Chicago, Wednesday, 18 January 2012 00:53 (twelve years ago) link

xxxp well, we're discussing whether all female performers are forced into this particular system of evaluation. so i was thinking about female performers i care a lot about right now + she is at the top of the list. i remembered she was performing on tv tnite and took the opportunity to advertise for her.

Mordy, Wednesday, 18 January 2012 00:53 (twelve years ago) link

ime 'edgy' or 'new' music aesthetically privilages hypermasculinity, "feminine vulnerable" and all manner of genderfuckery from male performers. it's a big tent. but it really can't deal on a nuanced scale with anything more complicated than virgin/whore/virgin-whore from female performers.Is that really true? I'd say that rock allows a fair amount of gender fluidity and experimentation from male performers and less (but still some) from females. "New music" allowed a bit of room for the likes of Ani di Franco, PJ Harvey, Bikini Kill, Tuneyards, etc., at least in indierock circles. Still, I can't deny that males get a LOT more privilege in this regard.

Thing is, hip-hop and country (and pop, too, more often than not) are extremely rigid in terms of the gender roles they assign to both men and women. So it's not like there's a single set of rules. It changes a great deal relative to genre and audience.

Little GTFO (contenderizer), Wednesday, 18 January 2012 00:54 (twelve years ago) link

Tim -- I'd point you to the post I made directly above yours. Meryl Streep is always in control of her performance.

Mordy, Wednesday, 18 January 2012 00:54 (twelve years ago) link

I will say that Kathleen Edwards' gender is totally ancillary to her music. Her musical lineage is, for lack of a better word, rockist, which is to say, the "authentic" antithesis of the packaged performer. Whether one cares or not is a different matter.

Josh in Chicago, Wednesday, 18 January 2012 00:56 (twelve years ago) link

xp: but it's a *performance*. and there are others, and they're not all the same.

m white btw (get bent), Wednesday, 18 January 2012 00:58 (twelve years ago) link

xxpost - Even a bad, uncontrolled performance is not a literal one. If anything, the reverse is more likely to be true: a well-executed performance of a role erases the conventional hallmarks of performance such that it is more likely to feel "real". A poor performance of critique will is more likely to resemble unconvincing mockery than actual literalism.

IMO the SNL peformance, however bad it was (and I agree it was bad), does not give rise to any reasonable basis on which to assume "Video Games" is literal.

Tim F, Wednesday, 18 January 2012 00:59 (twelve years ago) link

you know what i think makes an interesting comparison? "he hit me (and it felt like a kiss)" it's a tremendous song imo, but part of what really makes it amazing is that it's unclear what level of sincerity or mimesis it is operating on. i think there's a similar thing here and in the music video she seems to have a lot more distance from it (tho still razor thin i'd say -- unlike a track that was obviously explicitly about how being a passive love object is terrible). her snl performance made it sound much more unclear. maybe. i mean, i didn't walk away from her snl performance and say, "oh wow, ldr actually believes that her persona in that song is a good thing." but i did walk away feeling like i had just seen someone who embodies that song in ways that were... idk, uncomfortable?

u know, maybe i'm entirely wrong. i'm kinda talking myself into liking the performance. the way she sang that song was kinda a perfect way to sing that particular song.

Mordy, Wednesday, 18 January 2012 01:06 (twelve years ago) link

women today are so empowered to choose whatever asshole they want to fuck

― the 500 gats of bartholomew thuggins (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Tuesday, January 17, 2012 4:52 PM (1 minute ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

boom

thing is, when a female artist is presenting herself, generally speaking, in strongly sexualized terms, it may be slightly disingenuous to equate her repeated embodiment of a self-negating and powerless form of erotic desperation with empowered gendered play.

that is, mordy's description of her appeal OTM (at least where a straight male audience is concerned):

we have an artist whose entire act is either enacting particular sexist tropes about female passivity, male domination, a whole dynamic of neglect + pining, or at the very least problematizing + dialoguing that it. she records one single that that gets her a lot of attention. i'm not going to pretend that my love of that single has nothing to do w/ gender + sex. i found her performance in that video really sexy, i found her vocal performance really arresting, and titillating.

Little GTFO (contenderizer), Wednesday, 18 January 2012 01:09 (twelve years ago) link

the way she sang that song was kinda a perfect way to sing that particular song.

except no. to make anything interesting out of that kind of literalization, she'd have to be dripping pig blood, carrie-style (or i dunno, something like that). just being bad isn't interesting.

Little GTFO (contenderizer), Wednesday, 18 January 2012 01:11 (twelve years ago) link

Number 7 in Pazz/Jop

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 18 January 2012 01:14 (twelve years ago) link

I feel with "Video Games" it's not so much that it can't be taken literally, more that it can't be taken only as literal - the sense I get is that LDR-the-performer wants you to believe this is real while LDR-the-author wants you to know how screwed up it is. The trick is how these two competing roles are perfectly balanced and also impossible to disentangle - in particular, in that the performance creates the text (in fact a lot of the "text" component could actuall be described as "context" or at least "frame", like an artist reframing found objects in an installation).

I think often the "problem" with live performances in this regard is how the variability of the performance is foregrounded over the text, such that it unbalances the relationship in favour of the former.

Tim F, Wednesday, 18 January 2012 01:14 (twelve years ago) link

Interesting, totally different take by Tom E in his P&J essay:

"For me—and there are kinder, just as convincing interpretations—the singer in "Video Games" is a solipsist, casting herself as a master manipulator and her lazy, drifty relationship as a great love. So I hear a record about fakery and self-projection, which is more timely than how "authentic" the woman who made it is."

Tim F, Wednesday, 18 January 2012 01:19 (twelve years ago) link

the sense I get is that LDR-the-performer wants you to believe this is real while LDR-the-author wants you to know how screwed up it is.

I don't know how you can possibly parse this kind of dichotomy in a productive way but fwiw, I'm not convinced that is true.

Mordy, Wednesday, 18 January 2012 01:19 (twelve years ago) link

i understand why you would read it that way. she repeats video games over and over (and it's the title of the song). that seems to code culturally as a guy that is immature, neglectful, etc, so a critical voice interpolating and making the critique explicit through repetition.

but i think there's an equally valid interpretation that she reads this as a moment of intimacy. "and you say get over here / and play a video game" could be read as an invitation to join him (i don't get a sense of explicit rejection by the video game player), and i think that reading makes even more sense syntactical sense than the alternative. "go play a video game," doesn't have an obvious negative interpretation. "this is my idea of fun / playing video games" - actually equates her own agency + enjoyment with playing video games. i don't even see the other way of reading that line -- that her idea of fun (watching friends fall in and out of Old Pauls) is just as alienating and passive as watching her boyfriend play video games? maybe...

Mordy, Wednesday, 18 January 2012 01:29 (twelve years ago) link

Perhaps replace "LDR-the-performer" with "LDR-the-character". I feel that the character "means it" as much as a character in a book or a tv show or film does.

Tim F, Wednesday, 18 January 2012 01:30 (twelve years ago) link

no, i understood what you meant. i'm just pushing against the notion that there's necessarily a critical voice w/ more distance than the character

Mordy, Wednesday, 18 January 2012 01:31 (twelve years ago) link

there's of course our own critical voice as listeners + i do believe texts include multiple levels of meaning (cf. Derrida)

Mordy, Wednesday, 18 January 2012 01:32 (twelve years ago) link

just being bad isn't interesting.

But she wasn't "just bad." She was human, which WAS interesting imo.

timellison, Wednesday, 18 January 2012 01:32 (twelve years ago) link

more that it can't be taken only as literal - the sense I get is that LDR-the-performer wants you to believe this is real while LDR-the-author wants you to know how screwed up it is.
i would agree if i didn't think LDR was attempting to arouse explicitly sexual interest. thing is, genuine erotic allure generally doesn't allow for that kind of ambiguity. regardless of whatever art-games the author might be playing, the core of the "sexy" must read as 100% real in order to function properly. in LDR's case, the erotic appeal is inextricable from the desperation and self-negation. the fact that the desperate self-negation is implicitly criticized doesn't mitigate the fact that it's all-important sexiness is played completely straight.

Little GTFO (contenderizer), Wednesday, 18 January 2012 01:33 (twelve years ago) link

i'm a big fan of "lady in satan" -- i don't think ldr's performance here was nearly as good as that album, really, but i can see ways in which it achieves a kind of beauty that i also hear in lady in satan.

Mordy, Wednesday, 18 January 2012 01:34 (twelve years ago) link

contenderizer re 'dripping pig-blood carrie style' i dunno if you were actually referring to it or not but in case not; here's one of the photos from Q mag's latest issue!
http://www.theprophetblog.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Lana-Del-Rey-Q-Magazine-Carrie-2.jpg

piscesx, Wednesday, 18 January 2012 01:35 (twelve years ago) link

It's not so much playing video games that has a negative interpretation as:

"I tell you all the time: heaven is a place on earth where you tell me all the things you wanna do."

This line is too revealing, I think, not to imply the critical voice.

Tim F, Wednesday, 18 January 2012 01:35 (twelve years ago) link

edit that last post variously: is = are, it's = its, etc.

Little GTFO (contenderizer), Wednesday, 18 January 2012 01:35 (twelve years ago) link

contenderizer re 'dripping pig-blood carrie style' i dunno if you were actually referring to it or not but in case not; here's one of the photos from Q mag's latest issue!

DAMN! no, i pulled that out of the air. holy shit.

Little GTFO (contenderizer), Wednesday, 18 January 2012 01:36 (twelve years ago) link

i would agree if i didn't think LDR was attempting to arouse explicitly sexual interest. thing is, genuine erotic allure generally doesn't allow for that kind of ambiguity. regardless of whatever art-games the author might be playing, the core of the "sexy" must read as 100% real in order to function properly.

This proposition strikes me as both unfounded and incorrect.

IME such ambiguity generates erotic allure.

Tim F, Wednesday, 18 January 2012 01:37 (twelve years ago) link

In fact a lot of romantic and/or sexual yearning is built around the ultimate unknowability of the object's feelings and intentions, whereas transparency encourages familiarity which encourages boredom.

Tim F, Wednesday, 18 January 2012 01:38 (twelve years ago) link

i dunno. if vulnerability is sexy, then any erotica appeal based on vulnerability must seem "real" in some sense in order to generate the frisson. and if ambiguity is the point of appeal, then the ambiguity must seem real. if it's intelligence, then the intelligence must seem real, etc.

and maybe "real" is the wrong word. maybe i just mean that the siren song must be erotically convincing on some level. i'd argue that, as erotica, on a strictly sexual level, the battered desperation of the narrator of "video games" is and is supposed to be erotically convincing.

maybe i'm wrong though.

Little GTFO (contenderizer), Wednesday, 18 January 2012 01:43 (twelve years ago) link

Number 7 in Pazz/Jop

― Ned Raggett, Tuesday, January 17, 2012 8:14 PM (27 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

kinda fun to have that announced the day everyone's running "critics EVISCERATE lana del rey" headlines

Reginald "Bono" Dwight (some dude), Wednesday, 18 January 2012 01:43 (twelve years ago) link


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