fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck 00:29http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=AHGbSRkFh2I#!
― cozen, Monday, 31 October 2011 22:46 (twelve years ago) link
shit damn
― cozen, Monday, 31 October 2011 22:47 (twelve years ago) link
why god why
― turkey in the straw (x2) (remy bean), Monday, 31 October 2011 22:48 (twelve years ago) link
i'm hungry
― dayo, Monday, 31 October 2011 23:05 (twelve years ago) link
This may have been posted a couple weeks ago but if it was I missed it. IT IS SO CUTE!
http://blogs.discovery.com/.a/6a00d8341bf67c53ef014e8c558fd0970d-640wi
http://news.discovery.com/animals/cyclops-shark-111018.html
― Juggy Brottleteen (ENBB), Tuesday, 1 November 2011 20:11 (twelve years ago) link
why isn't that on a lolz thread, because, i mean, LOL
haha true HSTNGS man
― he carried yellow flowers (DJP), Tuesday, 1 November 2011 20:13 (twelve years ago) link
this should probably have its own ilx thread at this point
http://jezebel.com/5857190/courtney-stodden-has-breasts-expertly-examined-to-prove-she-is-rilly-rill
― Matt Armstrong, Tuesday, 8 November 2011 08:29 (twelve years ago) link
There is no freaking way that woman is as young as she claims.
― Trayce, Tuesday, 8 November 2011 08:36 (twelve years ago) link
lolly71Mon 07 Nov 2011 5:44 PMThese two are my very favorite train wreck. Go ahead, judge me all you want - my husband already does. But I am utterly FASCINATED by this girl. I go back and forth between pity, because she is clearly a damaged girl to "there is NO WAY that woman is 17" to my current theory; she's actually an alien sent here to observe our reproductive habits. Her research team didn't do a very good job, obviously.
― Y Kant Lou Reed (Le Bateau Ivre), Tuesday, 8 November 2011 11:07 (twelve years ago) link
the idea that she's a 20+ year old scam artist is wonderful. As is the idea that he's in on it and it's a performance art project.
― Matt Armstrong, Tuesday, 8 November 2011 22:45 (twelve years ago) link
rape is a type of sex
― iatee, Friday, November 11, 2011 3:56 PM (22 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
― Youth Ya Goon (Whiney G. Weingarten), Friday, 11 November 2011 21:20 (twelve years ago) link
:/
― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Friday, 11 November 2011 21:49 (twelve years ago) link
i mean not factually incorrect i'm just saying its one of those various unfortunate recognitions one makes in a life
― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Friday, 11 November 2011 21:50 (twelve years ago) link
First five google results for sex:
1 - Sex - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia2 - Kentucky Sex Offender Registry3 - Sex - 6 Mistakes Men Make When Having Sex4 - FBI — Sex Offender Registry5 - Free Porn Videos & Sex Movies - Porno, XXX, Porn Tube and Pussy ...
― Don't attack when he is black. (forksclovetofu), Friday, 11 November 2011 21:56 (twelve years ago) link
google adjusts your results to your search history, location, etc.
― iatee, Friday, 11 November 2011 21:57 (twelve years ago) link
ha
― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Friday, 11 November 2011 22:05 (twelve years ago) link
saying rape is a type of sex is like saying boxing is a type of handshake
― Youth Ya Goon (Whiney G. Weingarten), Friday, 11 November 2011 22:14 (twelve years ago) link
whiney if I meet you irl can I shake your hand
― ASPIE Rocky (dayo), Friday, 11 November 2011 22:16 (twelve years ago) link
with a penis
― average internet commentator (remy bean), Friday, 11 November 2011 22:19 (twelve years ago) link
penisshake
― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Friday, 11 November 2011 22:24 (twelve years ago) link
http://www.irunoninsulin.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/doctor-handshake.png
― average internet commentator (remy bean), Friday, 11 November 2011 22:25 (twelve years ago) link
http://thebeautybrains.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/01/013107hand-sanitizer.jpg
― Youth Ya Goon (Whiney G. Weingarten), Friday, 11 November 2011 22:28 (twelve years ago) link
http://www.flickr.com/photos/propelfilms/sets/72157622840517199/detail/
― documentary about titties OST (+ +), Friday, 11 November 2011 22:39 (twelve years ago) link
sets/detail/
no ty
― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Friday, 11 November 2011 22:51 (twelve years ago) link
google adjusts your results to your search history, location, etc.― iatee, Friday, November 11, 2011 9:57 PM
fair hit, well zung
― Don't attack when he is black. (forksclovetofu), Friday, 11 November 2011 23:54 (twelve years ago) link
― iatee, Friday, November 11, 2011 3:56 PM
fuck this utter bullshit
― i think this is serious (elmo argonaut), Monday, 14 November 2011 19:02 (twelve years ago) link
considering the dictionary definition of rape is "nonconsensual sexual intercourse" or "forced intercourse" I don't know how that could be technically wrong
I know how it's *wrong* but it's definitely a truth
― mh, Monday, 14 November 2011 21:08 (twelve years ago) link
sorry but the dictionary definition is essentially wrong
― i think this is serious (elmo argonaut), Monday, 14 November 2011 21:12 (twelve years ago) link
rape is a type of violence
― i think this is serious (elmo argonaut), Monday, 14 November 2011 21:13 (twelve years ago) link
also, rape includes acts that do not qualify as intercourse
― i think this is serious (elmo argonaut), Monday, 14 November 2011 21:16 (twelve years ago) link
yeahh I don't actually care that much about this semantics game. does 'sex crimes' mean the crimes people committed while having consensual sex? no that is generally not what people investiage on law and order SVU. if your personal definition of the word sex restricts the term to consensual sex, sure, fine, people can use language however they want, as long as people get what they're saying. but the term in 2011 has a very broad definition and so the dictionary is not 'essentially wrong'.
― iatee, Monday, 14 November 2011 21:16 (twelve years ago) link
investigate
― iatee, Monday, 14 November 2011 21:17 (twelve years ago) link
by that dictionary logic, being sodomized by a foreign object is not rape
― i think this is serious (elmo argonaut), Monday, 14 November 2011 21:19 (twelve years ago) link
#occupydictionaries
― iatee, Monday, 14 November 2011 21:19 (twelve years ago) link
yeah this is one of the many instances in which typology/classification is insidious and just plain wrong imo. it links according to the external verifiable "natural" commonality (penile insertion) instead of differentiating based on something less verifiable but way more important, important enough to make two acts fundamentally different imo (consensuality). also: something something patriarchal objectivity bias.
xp
― ah, how quaint (Matt P), Monday, 14 November 2011 21:23 (twelve years ago) link
dictionary definition of sex vs urban dictionary definition of sex vs common sense definition of sex vs
― Don't attack when he is black. (forksclovetofu), Monday, 14 November 2011 21:25 (twelve years ago) link
and sorry, words are important and i think the construction of the sex/rape concept is worth thinking about beyond "getting what people are saying" because often what people are saying reifies the construction. i.e. rape being a type of sex plays into the idea (noticeably prevalent in places that aren't big cities iirc) that sex is like the ok (but of course still kinda dirty) version of an act that is essentially the same thing.
― ah, how quaint (Matt P), Monday, 14 November 2011 21:28 (twelve years ago) link
besides i love sex, gtfo with rape being a type of sex, etc.
― ah, how quaint (Matt P), Monday, 14 November 2011 21:31 (twelve years ago) link
if you guys want to change the way people use a word feel free I have no problem w/ that
at the moment that is not the commonly accepted use of the term
― iatee, Monday, 14 November 2011 21:42 (twelve years ago) link
phew glad you have no problem with that
― ah, how quaint (Matt P), Monday, 14 November 2011 21:54 (twelve years ago) link
the "rape is a type of sex" idea just minimizes the severity of rape, at the moment it's really reminding me of clayton williams' inflammatory quote: "rape is like bad weather: if it's inevitable, you might as well relax and enjoy it"
― i think this is serious (elmo argonaut), Monday, 14 November 2011 22:00 (twelve years ago) link
I think saying "rape is a type of sex" is inherently wrong in 99% of conversational contexts. Rape is a form of violence that is acted out in a sexual manner. It's not a sexual position or type of sexual act, it's a action with a sexual component.
"Sex act" versus "action with sexual component" is where I'm getting to. So when we refer to "sex" to mean "a sex act" instead of the actual mechanics, it males this phrase seem bad.
― mh, Monday, 14 November 2011 22:13 (twelve years ago) link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gBjIXCKtIxk
― Matt Armstrong, Monday, 14 November 2011 22:16 (twelve years ago) link
Lo_Oveline
― shiroibasketshoes & tuxedos (Whiney G. Weingarten), Monday, 14 November 2011 22:21 (twelve years ago) link
mh, that is the best possible typo
― sex-poodle Al Gore (DJP), Monday, 14 November 2011 22:22 (twelve years ago) link
this is a stupid debate and I have nothing invested in it, you guys can argue w/ the dictionary
― iatee, Monday, 14 November 2011 22:46 (twelve years ago) link
iatee i'm not trying to change how people use a word i'm just saying it's glib to say "rape is a type of sex" and then insist that anyone saying "wait hold on there you can't just ignore a bunch of stuff by deferring to your made-up typology" is playing semantics games.
the oed says:
sex1 (chiefly with reference to people) sexual activity, including specifically sexual intercourse: he enjoyed talking about sex she didn’t want to have sex with him[in singular] euphemistic a person’s genitals.
rape1 the crime, typically committed by a man, of forcing another person to have sexual intercourse with him without their consent and against their will, especially by the threat or use of violence against them: he denied two charges of attempted rape he had committed at least two rapesliterary the abduction of a woman, especially for the purpose of having sexual intercourse with her: the Rape of the Sabine Women2 the wanton destruction or spoiling of a place or area: the rape of the Russian countryside
sex is "sexual activity, including specifically sexual intercourse." could be (literally) anything under the sun. hence "sexy." you know it when you see it. rape is a "crime" first and foremost. it does involve sexual intercourse (though as elmo points out it doesn't have to, legally speaking), but that is not above the other elements in its definition! rape isn't even a highly qualified instance of sex something, because force and non-consensuality "happen" before or along with the sex and make rape the specific thing that it is.
i mean, you can say what you want and argue that people don't think this way, what's the point when it gets the idea across, etc, but you can't back it up by pointing to the dictionary (which doesn't say much about the relationships between words, by the way) and then appealing to your received-wisdom-typology, which is being made because American culture has a bizarre relationship with sexuality and is more frightened of their own bodies than they are of killing other people. xposts
― ah, how quaint (Matt P), Monday, 14 November 2011 22:58 (twelve years ago) link
oh look, there's the dictionary
― ah, how quaint (Matt P), Monday, 14 November 2011 22:59 (twelve years ago) link
this isnt really "semantics games" its "ontology games"
― max, Monday, 14 November 2011 23:05 (twelve years ago) link
y'all's games suck
― Kerm, Tuesday, 15 November 2011 00:16 (twelve years ago) link