thread to get over a breakup

lol

hey roxy i just emailed you, i hope i have the right address!

Replied! <3

forever must associate this guy with underworld (was actually worried about this WHEN we went to see them), enslaved, the clash and carcass, probably my four favorite bands.

shit!!!!!!!!!!!

this sucks roxy. there's really nothing for it, it just sucks. it gets better tho! and considering what i've read, it sounds like the right thing long term.

living under no care evar policy is really bad for you

you didn't complain per se when i put on dauði baldrs to sleep to, but you made it clear that it was a nuisance to you

― rox qua rox (roxymuzak)

um to be fair, people like me can't sleep with any music on. insomnia for the win.

ok he sleeps with napalm death on so no

forever must associate this guy with underworld (was actually worried about this WHEN we went to see them), enslaved, the clash and carcass, probably my four favorite bands.

nooooooooooooo:-(

definitely. cause we went to see these together (minus clash -- other reasons for that one though) and the underworld thing was a BIG BIG DEAL

you never really took to my cats!!!!

how could someone not take to them, they're adorable!

funny you should bring them up

my roommate ah i cant even bear to type this out

my roommate called me just now and said pagoda must have jumped into his trunk today at some point (????? how do you not notice this) cause when he got to the recycling center (far from our house) pagoda jumped out of his trunk and ran into the woods

oh no!!!!!!

ugh wtf wtf wtf wtf

nooo!!! that is terrible...did he look for pagoda?

well he just texted me and luckily i live with the most outdoorsy of outdoorsman and he said he dashed home BUILT A TRAP and set it up there with canned cat food and treats and stuff

i really hope he comes to him or gets trapped, lol

i really just dont even have room to be upset about that right now, i just have to keep pushing it down

Oh dear, I hope you'll find your cat and he/she is fine. My mom's cat was once lost in the woods for almost two months, but eventually she was found and she wasn't hurt or anything (just lost some weight). Thankfully cats are quite good at surviving.

Especially in the woods, which I think used to be their natural habitat(?).

awww roxy i hope you find your kitty :(

also, i kind of want to punch your ex-guy too.

YOU VOTED FOR BUSH IN 2000!!!!!!!!!!!!!

what the hell

did he want to have a beer with him

Rox lots of "aww" and "soz, bro" from a dude on the internet you don't know.

This: forever must associate this guy with underworld (was actually worried about this WHEN we went to see them), enslaved, the clash and carcass, probably my four favorite bands. (in my experience at least) goes away. It takes AWHILE, but it goes away, and afterwards the music you associated with the ex becomes even more your own than it ever was beforehand. Kind of cool actually.

in my experience, you have to start forcing yourself right now to listen to this music and listen to it repeatedly, till there's no longer an association (or you get a new association).

awesome part of my last breakup is now i have a good reason to not watch grey's anatomy or the tudors

cat unfound

also, forgot that our first real date was to see ian curtis movie, and the first convo we had was about joy division

lol, my actual favorite band you DICK i'm taking them back you don't even like new order

Oh dear, hope the cat will be found eventually... At least it's not cold there in the winter, right?

It's pretty cold, but he's a Norwegian cat.

A Norwegian Forest Cat, actually, is his breed!!

Well, he should manage in the forest for a while then.

poor kitty :(

that cat went on some kind of buddhistic soul journey for 6 weeks when i lived downtown and came back very thin and covered in leaves, acting very serene

He learned a lot about himself, out there.

texted me for no reason. i asked a question back to no repsonse. what a weirdo.

not the cat, but the ex

"ROX - IN FORST 4 XMAS VAC - C U L8R <3 CAT"

awwww <3

Can I do this too pretty pls? I think it will be healthy.

You rarely came to see either of my bands play even when you weren't doing anything else and when you did you would completely disappear and often leave entirely. When I said I didn't mind if you didn't like our music but I wanted you to tell me if this was the case you yelled at me for not spending enough time with you. You yelled at me for not spending enough time with you almost constantly for the majority of the hours I spent with you every day for like 5 months straight.

You decided we were broke up when we had a fight (at 3 am) without clarifying this with me and somehow managed to cheat on me with your douchebag yoga teacher before I got out of work the next day (at 3 pm)...you said you thought we were broke up.

You yelled at me for doing stuff around the house for your mom (her mom has MS) because you said now she would expect you to also.

After I got you into Wax Fang when we saw them in November you tried to keep me from singing along with their songs by putting your hand over my mouth and making mean faces at me.

You made out with a girl at that show who had a fake beard and looked like Bono!

I always paid for you for everything because you were unemployed. (<-this one is pretty much on me though)

An unemployed massage therapist who traded massages for yoga lessons from the dude you eventually cheated on me with.

You also never wrote me a letter (I wrote many while you were in Lake Tahoe!), made me a mix CD, cooked me a meal or made me a pie or anything!

Shit I should probably stop. Sorry to steal your thread rox! <3 u!

You refused to go to Nashville AND Chicago with me & my band because you thought I was in love with one of our singers.

haha whoops

Okay now I'm done.

keep it up this chick sounds like bad news its important to vent

i mean i dont want to speak for rox but shes an open hearted person and im sure shed encourage you to keep posting