thread to get over a breakup

you would never get up and turn off the light!!!

at my house, i would turn off the light.

why would you never TURN OFF THE LIGHT!!!

RUDE

making a face like you have a bomb to drop and then when questioned abuot it "we have talked about enough serious things today" and go write a secret blog entry or something about it. yes, you are the admin of the relationship and you have successfully /banned me, thankig u

feeling better, thanks all

why was i feeling bad for dumping ^^^this man?

hugz

lou has the right attitude about this kinda thing

thanks

(cant see youtube at work, is that sebadoh?!!?!?)

you act like michael amott is a second class citizen!

you never made me coffee even once <<<<<<<<<WTF

when i was puking my guts out you jauntily strolled into the bathroom eating a bowl of cereal

ok that was pretty hilarious actually

you watched family guy, but to be fair you were pretty noncommittal about it

http://images.google.com/images?hl=en&safe=active&rls=com.microsoft:en-us:IE-SearchBox&rlz=1I7ADBF_en&resnum=0&q=noncommittal&um=1&ie=UTF-8&sa=N&tab=wi

you thought i was having an affair with (lol) CORNY PROG FUCK

ever since i came back from new york you acted like you could give a fuck if i lived or died, why

every time i did a project of any type with other people you complimented the other people's contribs and not mine, not even in private

better to be a passionate fan of bullshit than a vacant dead eyed zombie watching whatever bullshit show happens to be on the air! i know plenty of dudes who would kill to be in this ignoramus' shoes. i mean, not now, but before when he was not living in dumptown

the anniversary of our first date, not that i expect you to remember this shit, but you texted me "hope to see you soon"

what the fuck is hope to see you soon

that is fucked up dude

xpost thanks omar

this is dork shit, but i made you a really awesome cd of african tribal chants and shit and you let it gather dust before i forced you to give it a listen then youre like "this is pretty magical!" wow, maybe you could have been interested to hear it at any point

you're too good for this guy. if i ever get to knox i'll give him the ol what for (with my fist).

haw

"how fast could i KO this chickenshit hillbilly?"

haha

i don't wish him ill, yall, im just trying not to focus on the good times here

you made fun of the fact that i said "luda" and "lol" as if this made me a mouthbreathing illiterate or something and then appropriated them for yourself like a week later

youd do the "taking a younger guy under your wing" routine and try to brainwash him into being a fratty asshole

try to remember you were dating the next "mystery"

http://i34.tinypic.com/2mdpafk.jpg

lol

i am going ot punch this dude

― very quotatious (tehresa), Friday, December 12, 2008 2:00 AM (53 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

agreed punchable completely this guy

yeah not so good. tough, but you're in the right.

he sounds like a total douche bag btw and deserves a lot more thank a breakup

man this dude was a prick!

http://i36.tinypic.com/2i9gfmq.jpg

this is prob him he sounds this bad^

cant see that at work for some reason, but ill accept it

its a story abt a russain entrepreneur trademarking this emoticon :-)

u cant tm that only a jerk would try srsly

agreed punchable completely this guy
/zoidberg voice

ARGH ARGH ARGH this guys sounds like such a horrible dickwart! Roxy I am so sorry you are in pain because you rock harder than a truckload of fucking pigs, and there really isn't anything I can do except get out my megaphone and shout DUDE WAS A SINNER, U R THE WINNER like I'm on the pavement at Oxford Circus.

You are such an amazing person, and if dude can't see it, it's HIS FAULT not yours.

Go out, play a show, get drunk, pull some fantastic groupie ass and forget all about him.

^^^otm

haha, thanks kate

this helps me get over EVERYthing:

http://www.sendspace.com/file/pk27si

oh shi

you acted like i was being a baby when you dropped me on my BACK on those metal weights on your floor you DICK

rox start a character of this dude in the sims and never let him go to the bathroom or eat

btw sounds like a true shitheel glad youre not wasting another minute of your time

dodge this, douchebag

― rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Friday, December 12, 2008 5:41 PM (5 hours ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

rox! I meant you dodged a bullet by dumping this bloke. Srsly he sounds like that Dennis douche Liz Lemon went out with.

hes not like that, this thread is v v one sided. but i mean, everything here IS true.

misinterpreted u, aa. sorry u_u

hey roxy, as a kind of code of honor thing, i give a 50% discount when clients pay me to kill people who deserve it. webmail me and we can get something booked.

rox start a character of this dude in the sims and never let him go to the bathroom or eat

― beyonc'e (max), Friday, December 12, 2008 11:44 AM (13 minutes ago)

rong, give him food but don't give him a toilet

xp <3

Discovered the opposite of a seven year itch. In the last couple of weeks I've dreamt about my ex 4 or 5 times - dreams of still being together or of breaking apart. You're not helping, subconscious.

I wonder if it's a "thing" -- i remember going through it around that time. Realized yesterday that I have no logical reason to have a kitchen table, because I drink coffee in bed and eat in front of the tv, though my ex would have his morning coffee at that table, but he hasn't lived with me for 9 years, so I might as well move that table into the room I use as my office, where it would be useful, and then I can have more room for storage where the kitchen table is now.

I'm sure it is a thing. I'm under the weather and depressive atm and I'm dealing with that consciously as best as I know how so this is Probly some escape valve for my brain. The recurrence is unsettling and annoying tho

also winter

Yeah, especially the darkness

when you find things you hate/have no use for/think are ugly but somehow kept hanging around because your ex liked them and they literally became part of the furniture. Getting rid of those things can be very liberating

i haven't directly read or watched marie kondo, but as i understand, you should ask yourself if those items bring you joy, and then say thank you to them before discarding

i definitely did not follow that advice the last time i was getting over a breakup. i believe i just held the items in my hand for a while, crying, before throwing them in the garbage and drinking heavily

i moved the table into my office, moved my music gear around to take advantage of the space left by the table and actually played/practiced. I am accepting that I won't have that romantic domesticity anymore, and I'm just gonna be a single person with space to play percussion and electronics and have a bunch of books and that is fine.

Drifting towards a similar realisation but not quite at the "it's fine" stage most days

heh - it's only been "fine" for 3 days so ... and it's been 9 years since we split. I feel like I suck at getting over breakups considering how long it's been. The other posters in this thread seem way better at it than me.

I'm mostly over the breakup, despite the last couple of weird weeks. I think part of the process of getting over it was recognising how much it was my fault, and waking up to my bad behaviour. I think that's also partly why I'm resigning myself to a single future - it's hard to meet people looking for a relationship as you get older, and I really don't feel like I'm a catch, or trust myself to do the work to become one, :/

you proposed to plax yesterday!

I know but they never replied ;_;

He likes oatmeal iirc

anyway <3 to all obv