Homosexuality and Hip-Hop : The Gay Rapper Thread

"chill, took off that mustache, grabbed that ass and I fucked her" rappers straight up having problems with telling genders apart thread

cue the violins

Apathy can be as worse than down outright hate.

It's okay for women to be bisexual because that means a straight guy can fantasize about two women getting it on. But men have to be either gay or straight - no ambiguity at all.

You forget that men, in general, have no ambiguity at all.

I don't understand what you mean. Are you saying, every man in the world is straightforward in their sexuality or opinions? They have no complexity whatsoever?

You can be attracted to people of the same sex and engage in same-sex acts, but I don't think that makes you gay unless it constitutes the full extent of your sexual preferences.

(Some of us don't consider ourselves straight OR gay.)

― jaymc, Friday, April 8, 2011 11:23 AM (4 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

People who don't identify with any sexual preference is all well and good. However, they are only seen as a problem if they publicly enforce the heterosexual mindset of society in order to fit in.

― lilsoulbrother, Friday, April 8, 2011 11:31 AM Bookmark

You're kind of proving lex's point here.

pretty cool how a guy who confesses that he doesn't have many straight friends is fronting like he's an expert on straight dudes in the same thread

everyone post how many irl friends you have itt

24

don't ask me if dead friends count because I don't know right now, it is a question I've been thinking of a lot lately because a couple people I know have died

just include them for now

dead people are not irl

well see, the thing is I had a friend who committed suicide recently and sometimes when I walk around I think about him, and I wonder if the thoughts that I have about him really should even exist anymore, because he doesn't really exist anymore irl, but does he?, and thinking about him, while walking around, makes me sad, but sometimes it doesn't, so should I even think about people at all, I've been thinking about it recently

also he would only add one to the people I know total so its not that big of a deal in that respect but it may be a big deal in other respects

~~ghosts~~

you should think about him

whatever else he was, he was always an idea in our head, and that idea is still there, it is still "real" in a literal sense

yeah that's pretty much the direction I'm gravitating towards, also, it's like, if I think about him, then I think about him, nothing more nothing less, but then again, its still kind of confusing

pretty cool how a guy who confesses that he doesn't have many straight friends is fronting like he's an expert on straight dudes in the same thread

Maybe I should have clarified that I don't have that many close straight male friends, but the ones I do have we discuss these issues fairly regularly. So I do have interactions with people from different orientations.

Also, what is wrong with talking about the unbalance, complex issue of how western World sees sexuality. That doesn't mean I'm fronting like an expert. This shit has been going on for awhile.

I think the point you are missing is that sexuality can be fluid and isn't necessarily something that's set in granite?

au contrare

http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3252/3163685467_fa6ebfd7e3.jpg

xpost I think he's arguing people who use the "fluidity" defense only when they're caught getting head from a MOTSS in a men's bathroom.

I think the point you are missing is that sexuality can be fluid and isn't necessarily something that's set in granite?

Western society hasn't fully accepted this mindset. If we did, then Mister Cee having sex with a transsexual wouldn't be seen as a big deal.

Eric otm - it's really about privilege.

now its a tranny?

i thought it was just a guy?

it was always a tranny

which is why i asked if it was possible that mr cee didn't know it was a dude (highly unlikely i know)

The person Mister Cee was with is a male who dresses like/and maybe identifies with women. Hence he's transsexual.

Taken from Oxford Dictionary:

transsexual |tran(s)ˈsek sh oōəl|
noun
a person born with the physical characteristics of one sex who emotionally and psychologically feels that they belong to the opposite sex.

transvestite not transexual surely

probably not tho

So Wendy Williams is back at it again airing out the wrong folks. First, Method Man and his wifey. Now--DJ Mister Cee from Hot 97. The other day, Wendy talked about a certain DJ, who she tried to keep nameless but made hella obvious, who participates in some "tranny activities". No, Wendy wasn't talking about activities with herself, but with some actual trannies

http://blogs.sohh.com/ya_heard/2007/01/guess_whos_maki.html

did ethan write that headline?

transvestite not transexual surely

I always thought transsexual was the umbrella term for all the sexual orientation trans- terms.

whoa 2007

transvestite not transexual surely

why surely

because one means that you dress as the other sex while the other means you have your bits chopped off.

oh is that what those mean?

lol, i can't even get mad i know what to expect on here when these kinds of issues are broached at this point.

because one means that you dress as the other sex while the other means you have your bits chopped off.

― popular gay automobile (a hoy hoy), Friday, April 8, 2011 2:42 PM (8 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

i don't think that transexual nec means you've had an operating iirc

thread needs lj

hahaha

slept on post

― buzza, Thursday, April 7, 2011 6:14 PM (Yesterday) Bookmark

if you google alicia leafgreen, the first result is myspace.com/whitelesbianrapper

Alicia Leafy Green Dragon Indigo Girl,

because one means that you dress as the other sex while the other means you have your bits chopped off.

Nope

+ your bits get inverted, really

there was some discussion on the kids in the hall thread about the distinction in the way KITH wore women's clothes and the way Monty Python did, but I don't know if that neatly divides along the transvestite/transgender axis

Aw man ilx ate my explanatory post.

i've seen the term "non-op transsexual"

anyway quite obviously you can identify as a transsexual before you actually go through the operation -- in fact my reading of the situation is that it's a completely MANDATORY part of the deal, seeing as no surgeon will do the operation without the person having lived as a transsexual for years prior

yeah transvestites are typically straight men who either get off or just think it's fun to dress up as ladies. Literally just wearing the vestments of the other.

Drag queens are a diff thing entirely, as are transgendered ppl

anyway quite obviously you can identify as a transsexual before you actually go through the operation -- in fact my reading of the situation is that it's a completely MANDATORY part of the deal, seeing as no surgeon will do the operation without the person having lived as a transsexual for years prior

As far as I know: yup.

ok sorry for not being a dictionary.