Just when you thought it was safe - OK CUPID PART 3: The Return of the WOO!

Mine is stuck saying I live in a city I don't live in.

Oh fwiw I get a lot of *visitors* - and even the occasional message - but they are 99% from men over 45 who are in no remote way shape or form my type. Middle aged (possibly divorced) accountants just arent my thing.

Nor are overwreight pervo polyamorist roleplayers ugh.

Thinking of creating an okcupid profile
(previously had one, never really populated it, never did anything other than snoop around)

Can never come up with an account name, actually thought of "ex lion tamer", realized that it's the non-punned version of Trayce's current ilx name.

But it's still kind of a funny, because I have been mauled by exes, right?

Hahah thats kind of why I picked ex loin tamer, chortle chortle!

...get coat etc

I'd go on a date with you mh!

I'm not lacking for the possibility of ~dates~ per se, just kind of wondering what sort of local possibilities there are I had not considered. Okcupid-using possibilities.

Oh cripes, I wasnt implying you need dates, I was just being a perv ;)

trayce if you sign up for "A-List" you can change your name. sign up for a month, change it, cancel.

also btw guys guilty confession but if u want a dope username just go pan thru rejected jbr screennames

like i srsly get messages that are just to compliment me on it. i'm such....i'm such a fraud :(

what is yrs?

there is a famous radio show from my state
there is a famous jedi knight

aaaaaaand i've just gotten another message from this chick i'm now kinda leery of?

I would have no idea what kind of clever username to think up :(

Also, I have NFI what I answered for the bulk of the q'ns, it was 6 years ago, so re-doing them would be a wise idea.

me and this one girl are arguing about whitman & nabokov

i feel so

............

stimulated

Walt or Slim?

Slim Nabokov is the best!

lol

also btw guys guilty confession but if u want a dope username just go pan thru rejected jbr screennames

― ullr saves (gbx), Monday, January 10, 2011 8:27 PM (2 hours ago) Bookmark

TRUTH (and not just saying that because i've posted like fifty times to that thread)

"xuxa_pitts" was my old handle, actually

did you end up deleting yours?

that one i did, yeah, i got a new one when i moved to LA

i'm giving this a shot!

yay :)

so i went out for more drinks with my okc date on friday, it went well again so now we're going to the pictures on wednesday. :)

realised she looks a bit like freaks and geeks era linda cardellini, which is nice.

Is there anything better than reading some bros attempt to mess with a "Crazy Cougar" on ok cupid, see their first couple of lol exchanges, and then watch as the dude has to knock off his half-ironic "let's see if I can humiliate this hot broad" flirtations because:

gah, stuff got personal, she knows a friend of mine from my previous job that I had listed on my page. gonna have a civilized convo now

realised she looks a bit like freaks and geeks era linda cardellini, which is nice

drool

he dude has to knock off his half-ironic "let's see if I can humiliate this hot broad" flirtations

Well thats a bit fucking cuntish.

Maybe I'll get onto OKC and humiliate some fat internet nerds, shall I? That'd be good for a laugh.

i had an okc date last week, went well, got really drunk and had a little street kiss at the end. she's in india for 3 weeks but prob will see her when she gets back.

xp yeah what is this, In the Company of Men?

PS sorry if I sounded uneccesarily harsh there. I just loathe the idea that there are guys on dating sites deliberately baiting people they dont even like. Its so childish. :/

the people on this site all seem to want ppl out of their league. i message dudes who are out of my league who never respond and total freaks message me because i am out of their league, and i never response. no one gets laid as a result. its fucking bullshit, margaret.

like real life, then?

didn't work out with my OKC girl, got a "lets just be friends" text after the third date. not that bothered, there's wasn't really much of a spark, tbh. and i have a date with a girl i met on a night out next week anyway. strarted talking to somebody else on the site, but she lives 87 miles away... she sends me pix of herself in different outfits (nothing too racy) and asks my opinion, lol.

http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash1/hs518.ash1/30535_454305244198_602254198_6039992_8289872_n.jpg

how did u get into my inbox

on the real though i'm kinda overdoing this i think

-had a thing with a girl from here last night
-have another thing with another girl from here tonight
-meeting another girl from here for coffee tomorrow
-meeting another girl for a drink next week and
-one more saying 'probably next weekend'

this works best when you stick to just the one ime but godspeed

whichone

guess you don't know yet which one you'll rly hit it off with if at all, and dammit will a hoos ball otherwise

haha i mean the thing is

my strategy basically is when i'm 'on okc' i'll message a bunch of girls at once, 5-6, assuming a 10-20% reply avg. they're all genuine messages--my perpetually single friend up here is like 'what do you say to them??' and i'm like 'dude i just read the profile and if i think i have something interesting to say about the contents i say it'--so if i get a reply it's usually substantial, and after last week's round of messaging i got like 6 replies, so it feels like a waste not to make plans to at least meet!

Hoos did just move to a new city so if even if nothing comes of all these get togethers romantically speaking, at least it's a good way to meet new ppl imo. Also I admire his drive and persistence. I've always hated this sort of thing.

playing the numbers haha, well it can work! more likely than not you'll know from the profile when it's someone you'll really click with thermonuclear stylee but if these girls all have interesting shit you can engage with I don't see why not give them all some irl company. the only misgiving I have is that with 6 on the agenda, it'll be easier to concentrate on the ones that come later (unless you had a stellar encounter first up, in which case go animal)

you did the right thing arranging to meet quickly though. my only tip is to be a teeeeny bit more discerning before messaging - in order to avoid a potential emotional pile-up like this, message 1 or 2 a week. there's always time.

Going out with one person is stressful enough for me. Doing it with five different people in one week would make me a wreck.

also the new city thing otm - but you gotta take it p easy unless they're of a wild persuasion too

btw there is a romantic email hoos definitely needs to write at some point in the approximate heretofore

r u implying i owe u a romantic email sir

with flowers n shit