i am in no rush holmes just wanted to make sure it had been received
― HOOS tremendo...steen ridically (BIG HOOS aka the steendriver), Monday, 8 November 2010 00:25 (thirteen years ago) link
late evening is when a jagger sits back and engages in poetical colloquy
― acoleuthic, Monday, 8 November 2010 00:27 (thirteen years ago) link
we've basically patched this up :) and had a great long chat about poetry
but on the proviso that i take anger management classes
sans poetry, this describes our posting relationship tbph
― cant believe you sb'd me for that (darraghmac), Monday, 8 November 2010 00:59 (thirteen years ago) link
fffffffffuuuuuuuu
― acoleuthic, Monday, 8 November 2010 01:00 (thirteen years ago) link
i'm hopin :) is appropriate but i mean...
― cant believe you sb'd me for that (darraghmac), Monday, 8 November 2010 01:09 (thirteen years ago) link
lord help
― HOOS tremendo...steen ridically (BIG HOOS aka the steendriver), Monday, 8 November 2010 01:10 (thirteen years ago) link
haha this has been a weird fucken day
― acoleuthic, Monday, 8 November 2010 01:11 (thirteen years ago) link
dmac you are a blessed one
trippy days are the ones you'll remember later one ime
― cant believe you sb'd me for that (darraghmac), Monday, 8 November 2010 01:13 (thirteen years ago) link
LJ - your life is so filled with constant excitement and drama, you might as well be a Robinson sister.
― sarahel, Monday, 8 November 2010 03:50 (thirteen years ago) link
the louis family robinson
― whiney trollins vs. hipsters (dayo), Monday, 8 November 2010 03:59 (thirteen years ago) link
jesus loves lou more than you can knowwo wo wo
― a pun based on a popular ilx meme (forksclovetofu), Monday, 8 November 2010 05:09 (thirteen years ago) link
how old is this girl?
― sarahel, Monday, 8 November 2010 05:46 (thirteen years ago) link
99% moved into new loft. had a fun night with friends out and kind of forgetting about you. blasting replacements like only a single man with no real neighbors can do.
― jeff, Saturday, 13 November 2010 08:30 (thirteen years ago) link
Awesome to hear, Jeff!
― Fetchboy, Saturday, 13 November 2010 08:59 (thirteen years ago) link
seems that i'm a little less over a breakup than i thought i was now that my former long-term girlfriend is dating again. and despite all of my feminist creds i can't help but feel even more ill-at-ease at the fact that her new partner is female.
― Antoine Bugleboy (Merdeyeux), Sunday, 21 November 2010 04:03 (thirteen years ago) link
now that my former long-term girlfriend is dating again
imo, ime, you aint over shit until this happens. the rest, i dunno. i have no ime there tbph.
― Goths in Home & Away in my lifetime (darraghmac), Sunday, 21 November 2010 04:32 (thirteen years ago) link
that makes sense. i'm in a peculiar state about it because on one hand it's a v good thing and i'm happy for her (not least because she's in the midst of a serious bout of depression and i'm sure it'll be good for her to have that kind of close relationship), but on the other hand... i dunno really. maybe it's time to quickly end my own year-long drought and see how that does me, could be that i'm just an awful testosterone-fuelled man desperate for a good banging. (maybe not.)
― Antoine Bugleboy (Merdeyeux), Sunday, 21 November 2010 04:50 (thirteen years ago) link
if govts take action to avoid droughts, that's worth considering in micro level also imo.
ps i dunno why you know anything about a yr long ex, gtfo out of that circle of friendship on the pronto srs
― Goths in Home & Away in my lifetime (darraghmac), Sunday, 21 November 2010 05:20 (thirteen years ago) link
just remember: too much rain after long drought = flood. Baby steps :)
― That is the stench of tyranny (VegemiteGrrrl), Sunday, 21 November 2010 05:25 (thirteen years ago) link
IDK, this is often but not always necessary. I'm still friends with someone I was with for years. That said, we did go through a period after breaking up where we didn't speak at all for about a year but after that we were both mostly fine with being friends on at least some level.
― ENBB, Sunday, 21 November 2010 05:31 (thirteen years ago) link
<3 vg but nah no such thing as too much rain after a year w/out any sex in the rain the flu is passed on through virus anyway iirc go get rained on
― Goths in Home & Away in my lifetime (darraghmac), Sunday, 21 November 2010 05:32 (thirteen years ago) link
i only got ime E, also i got home via a peugeot trunk with 2 others abt an hour ago my advice carries much caveat
― Goths in Home & Away in my lifetime (darraghmac), Sunday, 21 November 2010 05:33 (thirteen years ago) link
but caveating that caveat i have never felt that 'friends' with an ex is a good step. i may be on a lower maslow step in ex terms.
― Goths in Home & Away in my lifetime (darraghmac), Sunday, 21 November 2010 05:34 (thirteen years ago) link
distance is certainly necessary
― sarahel, Sunday, 21 November 2010 05:36 (thirteen years ago) link
Yes, a little distance and time can help a lot.
x-post Yeah well sometimes it isn't and even when it's not an awful idea, it's usually complicated. I just sort of never really understood cutting someone who I once cared that much for out of my life completely. Obv depends on the particulars though and who knows what the details are here. I'm just sayin'.
― ENBB, Sunday, 21 November 2010 05:38 (thirteen years ago) link
details are important, s'true
― Goths in Home & Away in my lifetime (darraghmac), Sunday, 21 November 2010 05:41 (thirteen years ago) link
just trimmed the hell out of my breakup beard. I feel like the newest of men.
― jeff, Sunday, 21 November 2010 05:48 (thirteen years ago) link
New beard! ready for life! Yess!
― That is the stench of tyranny (VegemiteGrrrl), Sunday, 21 November 2010 06:02 (thirteen years ago) link
I just sort of never really understood cutting someone who I once cared that much for out of my life completely.
yeah, v much so. i don't know if it was just the particulars of our relationship, but cutting each other out... wasn't an option, i guess? in the most positive sense of it. that even with romance aside we were (and are) still too close to just go our separate ways. it's certainly an advantage that she's currently abroad and so not acting out the new relationship in my face, and as soon as i get out the scuba gear and bring on the flood (or something along those lines) all will be harmonious.
― Antoine Bugleboy (Merdeyeux), Sunday, 21 November 2010 14:28 (thirteen years ago) link
blasting replacements like only a single man with no real neighbors can do.
<3 this fucken guy
― ralph NAGLer (admrl), Sunday, 21 November 2010 17:46 (thirteen years ago) link
You might have the "if a woman becomes a lesbian after being with a man, it's the man's fault" trope lurking somewhere in the back of your mind.
― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Sunday, 21 November 2010 20:55 (thirteen years ago) link
sounds like it's more the basic my ex has moved on and i haven't yet thing.
― sarahel, Sunday, 21 November 2010 20:56 (thirteen years ago) link
He said that he was especially unnerved by the fact that her new partner was female.
― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Sunday, 21 November 2010 21:02 (thirteen years ago) link
ya. even though i know it's ridiculous. but anyway that was mostly sweet beautiful drunk talk there, in the best of mental shape i am 98% fine with it and that other 2% will i'm sure be resolved once i manage to direct my annoying physical desires elsewhere.
― Antoine Bugleboy (Merdeyeux), Sunday, 21 November 2010 21:17 (thirteen years ago) link
xp - oh ok, i think i missed that line.
― sarahel, Sunday, 21 November 2010 21:19 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm glad you feel better about it now, Merdeyeux.
― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Sunday, 21 November 2010 22:47 (thirteen years ago) link
in the best of mental shape i am 98% fine with it and that other 2% will i'm sure be resolved once i manage to direct my annoying physical desires elsewhere
Sometimes that 2% is the most stubborn part. You'll eventually get past it, but it will hang around and annoy you like a fly for a while.
― Johnny Fever, Sunday, 21 November 2010 23:22 (thirteen years ago) link
otm
― sarahel, Sunday, 21 November 2010 23:25 (thirteen years ago) link
Hmm. Now, how do I spell schadenfreude again?
― And this one time, on Bandcamp... (Trayce), Friday, 26 November 2010 02:06 (thirteen years ago) link
poetic justice? or repeat offender?
― thrillionaire (electricsound), Friday, 26 November 2010 02:08 (thirteen years ago) link
poetic justice, it might appear. I dont know, just his very vague mutterings and "yes i know dont tell me" is all i have to go on.
― And this one time, on Bandcamp... (Trayce), Friday, 26 November 2010 02:09 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm suprisingly not gloaty actually, more concerned for him. I'm too nice.
― And this one time, on Bandcamp... (Trayce), Friday, 26 November 2010 02:13 (thirteen years ago) link
well . . . that's nice of u
― mookieproof, Friday, 26 November 2010 03:23 (thirteen years ago) link
Person's gotta really do baaaaad by me before I give them the shrift tbh.
Unless I didn't like them much to start with, then they can sneeze near me and I'll cut a bitch.
― And this one time, on Bandcamp... (Trayce), Friday, 26 November 2010 03:32 (thirteen years ago) link
never hated on an ex before, but . . .
call me kelis cuz I hate u so much right now
it was five months ago since we called it off
but dude you fucking ripped my heart out on the way out the door
can't believe I still think about this situation every damn day
lame = that I fell so hard for such a selfish dickhead
more lame = me, for still caring about someone I know objectively is not even worth it
and even lamer still = that I'm still this torn up . . . . FIVE MONTHS LATER? seriously, what is my problem?
I've been trying not to blow my cool in public
maybe this thread should be the dumping ground for:
the racist jokes you told when you were really drunk
the way you managed to hustle me to pay for shit (food, tix, shows, booze, movies, everything)
the times you "borrowed" the car and drove across town drunk off your ass like an idiot
your shitty taste in porn / literature / food / TV / crush objects
your lack of any sense of timing
your lack of ambition
your lack of intelligence
your terrible writing
your lack of any discernible talent other than smiling shyly and implying that favors are desired
the way you use people and then bounce
fuck you, dude, for real
fuck you
― the tune is space, Sunday, 12 December 2010 22:09 (thirteen years ago) link
yes this thread was created w/ the intention of being a dumping ground
pls dump away
and fuck this dude for real he sounds like a dumb shithead
― Not only is Zito throwin zeroes, his ass and legs are lookin great. (roxymuzak), Sunday, 12 December 2010 22:18 (thirteen years ago) link
he was, thank god he was never my boyfriend but still . . . what a waste of time/soul/head-space
― the tune is space, Sunday, 12 December 2010 22:19 (thirteen years ago) link
sounds like a real dickwad
― max, Sunday, 12 December 2010 23:07 (thirteen years ago) link
sounds like me
― Princess TamTam, Sunday, 12 December 2010 23:08 (thirteen years ago) link