What record would you like played first at your wedding reception?

My sister chose a song called "Hold Tight" by an east coast (Canada) band called Modabo. Kinda sappy, but a perfect choice really.

As for what song would be played at my wedding reception, I think the songs that would best match the mood would be any Cheap Trick song. Some great songs that were upbeat and that had an amazing rock and roll backbeat.

I suspect "What Another Man Spills" was played in its entirety, and perhaps "Slow Graffiti" too (a pre-release wedding gift from a Jeepsterine). I recall sticking "Cupid & Psyche 85" on in the bedroom, which is maybe why everyone remained sardine-like in the hall and lounge.

A certain Scottish guest treated us to "The Hawaiian Wedding Song" on acoustic guitar late in proceedings.

Stevie? Tim? Joe? Any musical memories of that night?

The 'Slow Graffiti' 45 was certainly played. I remember looking around the room and feeling strangely moved by the scene, all these people I largely didn't know. I don't admire the ep itself, mind. In fact I still don't really know how most of the A-side goes.

Lots of things I didn't recognize. Stereolab. Doris Day.

Nobody played 'Reading, Writing & Arithmetic'. That much I do remember.

Failing that, my oozing Canadian heart would probably go with "Bobcaygeon" from The Tragically Hip's "Phantom Power" record, and exit hopefully when Granny had been carted off to bed with "The Light" by Common.

For those of you with more wedding experience than me, I always wanted to have a set of jazz in there alongside the rock band or DJ or whatever, but wondered would people be into it, or would they probably get bored and leave?

"Each language only helps me tell you how grand you are ..."

As for me, I don't know... For the first song I would like "God Only Knows" by the Beach Boys, but I don't know how danceable that actually is.

We used this as our "walking down the aisle together" song - only as an instrumental (played live by a fellow band member who worked it out on electric guitar). After the "ladies and gentlemen, may we present Mr. & Mrs..." the Beach Boys' version kicked in. We didn't do a first dance or anything like that, but the first song on for us was Spiritualized's "Ladies And Gentlemen We Are Floating In Space" (the full "Elvis ending" version)

I can tell you what I *won't* be playing. "Celebration" by Kool and the Gang for a start.

love love love this ^

I always thought Nick Cave's "Into My Arms" would be nice for a wedding. not necessarily the reception, but some part of the actual ceremony.

"Two worlds collide, rival nations
It's a primitive clash, venting years of frustrations
Bravely we hope against all hope, there is so much at stake
Seems our freedom's up against the ropes
Does the crowd understand?
Is it a East vs. West, or man against man
Can any nation stand alone?"

Too Drunk to Fuck by the Dead Kennedys.

i am gonna try and get me and wifey to slow dance with me to "you're a fish and i'm a water sign"

just wondering, u Australian, Popture?

Also everyone I know who has been recently (last few years) married has played God Only Knows at their wedding.

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Teddy Pendergrass - "When somebody loves you back"

Easy.

Hey, my wife really did walk down the aisle to "Welcome". We weren't married when I posted that. First dance was to something by Veloso.

My bff did Al Green's "Let's Stay Together" and man it was so perfect I might actually have to steal it for when/if mine happens.

we got married halfway up the stairs. so, coming down the stairs was superchunk, 'throwing things'.

first dance was sarah vaughan, 'polka dots and moonbeams'.

also, congrats elvis!

I don't quite know why anyone would choose "God Only Knows" as their first dance. I mean, "I may not always love you"? Not exactly 'til death do us part, is it?

That's exactly the reason my wife refused to have it played.

Our recep had a DJ thrown in as part of the package, but I'd found a band that I felt would go down a storm with everyone (think Geordie Pogues. OK, DJP, your office, etc)..

So anyroad, we didn't fuss too much about the wedding DJ, gave him a free hand although asked him not to play "Come on Eileen", not because I know any Eileens, just because of over-playing.

So, anyroad, he decides that a great choice of final dance song for the bride and groom was the latest fab "Soldier Soldier" spinoff he'd just got as a promo. "You don't have to say you love me" by Denise Welsh.

We laughed. We danced. And we cursed his stylii to forever fall out from now on.

OK, so it was all CDs.

(DJP = DK, as any fule kno (soz))

Yeah, I don't use DJP here to avoid confusion with DJM.

"I don't quite know why anyone would choose "God Only Knows" as their first dance. I mean, "I may not always love you"? Not exactly 'til death do us part, is it?"

But the next line is "long as there are stars above you" so it IS forever - the first line's a red herring. But yeah, it would sound jarring regardless. We went for Dennis Wilson's Forever as the aisle tune, Let's Stay Together for the registry-signing and Love Unlimited's Under the Influence of Love for first dance. I agree Into My Arms would be a great choice.

young hot rod/tila tequila - i like to fuck

trick daddy/trina - nann nigga

Lex you are never going to get married.

i was actually gonna say, i have a serious actual romantic choice, but thinking about it i would really not object to dirty ho-rap comprising the bulk of the reception.

actually i did dj a wedding reception earlier this year and played 'how many licks?' by lil' kim, there were still old people and children in the room :/

Let's hope some of the old people were retired dirty hos

I think anyone who wouldn't have "Don't Stop Believin'" as the first song at their wedding is a fucking Communist and should be treated as such

Roky Erickson - "Don't Slander Me"

-- Horace Mann (Horace Mann), Thursday, 27 March 2003 19:02 (5 years ago) Link

lol was just thinking this as I clicked on this thread and wondering why I thought it was so funny, and sure enough someone posted it five years ago.

Congratulations Elvis!

I walked up the aisle to "Beyond the Sea" by Bobby Darin.
We walked down the aisle together to "Happy Together" by The Turtles
I honestly can't remember what the first song at the reception was and neither of us saved the playlist. :-(

I walked up the aisle to "Beyond the Sea" by Bobby Darin.

Nutty, I was thinking about this very song earlier as being a good choice.

It's one of favorite songs ever and since L and I had an ocean between us for much of our relationship it seemed appropriate. I also didn't really want to walk by myself to anything really slow for some reason.

Aw, very nice. (Not that this is a wedding song by any stretch lyrically but a-ha's "The Swing of Things" plays around with the separation-by-ocean idea extremely well.)

congratulations!

jon otm

Oh cheers.

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Sigh. One of those big momentous song choices that I will never ever get to make coz I'm never getting married.

I was coming in here to say that I wouldn't marry any lad that wouldn't let our first song be Be My Baby (or Just Like Honey or a mashup of both, somehow) - but then saw that was the first choice in the first post. Perhaps I'll just marry N. so that I can get a nice big wedding party with Be My Baby as the first dance (and a persian carpet from Liberty from my family) and then politely go home with a handshake once the fun party has been had. I get to keep the gifts, tho.

Chuck: serious answer. It's your wedding, it's your first dance, pick what you want to dance to. Your "our song" is fucking fabulous, I'd go with that.

yeah "nothing can stop us" seems a fine choice, especially if it's your "our song"

i intend to hire a hip-hop choreographer prior to my wedding and get some fucking banging moves in there - there will be no awkward shuffling in my first dance! can't wait m8

(went to a wedding @ the wkend which made me feel v happy about being in the age of weddings for the first time - bride & groom had choreographed some steps to otis redding, they were A+)

I requested Queen's "Don't stop Me Now" at my sister's wedding reception. It was a great choice

me and my wife danced to "This Will Be Our Year" by the zombies

I have a friend who's requested "Closer" by NIN at the last three weddings she & I have been to. Might see if I can get the DJ to spin their version of "Get Down, Make Love" at the end of my wedding night, once parents-in-law have gone home (my own family wouldn't care.)

We should start thinking about this. We have till April. It's not going to be anywhere near a traditional reception though, so the pressure's off a little.

Masonic Boom, I've been reading your posts of late and I just want to offer you a nice digital hug.

And I listened to your Myspace page and your music is ace!

i want my wedding to be exactly like the one from rachel getting married except I probably will never get married u no

i want to marry rachel from rachel getting married

We went with Fire In My Heart by Super Furry Animals which went down quite well

i always think Baby I Love You by the Ramones would be a really good one.

I was running around the park the other day and the song "In Love With You" by Fred Falke & Alan Braxe came on---if I could cut it down by like 3 min I think it would work great.

FoF went to a wedding recently where the first dance was in fact two songs, both by The Wonderstuff: 'It's Yer Money I'm After, Baby' and 'Unbearable' (chorus: "I didn't like you very much when I met you/And now I like you even less'") - they bounced around in full-on posho wedding gear and everyone apparently thought it was hilarious...

But. I'm not sure I want people to think our first dance is *funny*, and I suspect neither of us is confident enough to make such obvious and deliberate fools of ourselves!

Ak. Also, my family are kinda used to Richard Curtis weddings and this is def going to be a whole lot more Mike Leigh...

Good to read much Saint Etienne love anyway, although thoroughly unsurprising round these parts :-)

me and my wife danced to "This Will Be Our Year" by the zombies
weird, was just talking to a friend at work today who wants this to be her wedding song. good choice!

did you dance to the recording, or was someone playing it?

i intend to hire a hip-hop choreographer prior to my wedding and get some fucking banging moves in there - there will be no awkward shuffling in my first dance!

^^^yes. but instead of hip-hop, it'd be nice to do a super-formal eighteenth century waltz to a john fahey piece or something.

the flamingos - "i only have eyes for you"

In a jokey sense, I was listening to Notorious B.I.G. feat R Kelly - "I'm F@xking You Tonight" and thought that it would be a very amusing start. With the lyrics reminiscing on the early days of the couple's lovemaking (and the involvement of her sister!) coupled with R Kelly continuously crooning the line "and I'm f@!king you tonight.." Fairly childish but amused me nonetheless.

we got married a couple of weeks ago... for the ceremony itself we used mogwai's 'helicon 1, yma sumac's 'babalu' and eyvind kang's 'marriage of days'.

didn't do the first dance thing as such. I wanted to choreograph some salsa moves to something really inappropriate, but my wife was not comfortable with everyone watching her dance. to be fair, it's awkward enough being the centre of attention anyway. ah well. maybe next time. however, the first tune we ended up on the together on the floor to was secret chiefs 3's 'horsemen of the invisible'.

we had no DJ...I programmed the playlist and it seemed to keep people going. everything from britney, shakira and dizzee through del shannon and sam'n'dave to black flag and QOTSA.

the final run of drunken crowd-pleasers was incredibly uplifting and communal, if pretty obvious: 'I want you back', 'crazy horses', 'superstition', 'hey ya', 'my sharona', '500 miles', 'wuthering heights', 'don't stop believing'.

it was beautiful, man.

*sniff*

I'm surprised at how many of these first dance/general wedding floor-filler tunes/artists I've never heard of!

Yma Sumac? Eyvind Kang? Secret Chiefs 3? The Flamingos? 'You Make Me Feel so Young'? 'New Partner@? 'Sleepwalking'? 'Sophisticated Boom Boom'?

Not a clue, bub. I feel so lame, worrying about whether to choose The Beatles or Nina bloody Simone in the face of such richness...

I've not even (knowingly) heard 'This Will Be Our Year', although I now realise it's on Odessey and Oracle, which I bought on eMusic a couple of weeks ago so I guess I now own it!

[NB Spotify is helping me out re: all the above bands/songs so no need to explain!]

SC3 was our first dance, but not The First Dance, to be fair. it was quite late in the evening by the time it came on and we hit the floor.

the ceremony music wasn't that well known, I guess, but rather than have the usual tasteful (but equally anonymous) classical stuff, we wanted some sounds that were meaningful to us. it wasn't exactly a traditional wedding anyway...

it is mighty difficult trying to make a playlist that will suit toddlers, grannies, wire readers, old punks, ravers and children of the '80s alike.

me and my wife danced to "This Will Be Our Year" by the zombies
weird, was just talking to a friend at work today who wants this to be her wedding song. good choice!

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ha my sister and her boyfriend (now husband) played this song at our wedding

it's all about whitehouse - 'my cock's on fire'

"underneath it all" by no doubt

trying to make a playlist that will suit toddlers, grannies, wire readers, old punks, ravers and children of the '80s alike.

this is basically exactly what i have to do for the pre-"disco" playlist. am i going to try? nope! i'm going to fill it with songs we want to hear because this isn't dancing time...

I had to do that too. the pre-disco "dinner" playlist was six hours of martin denny, les baxter, art blakey, mingus, brubeck, tinariwen and iranian classical stuff.

Southall to thread!

idk if 'world at your feet' is for everyone :/