The best of Marc Loi : Facebook Feminist

First of all – let’s get the first thing out of the way: I am the shit.

Filed under: Feminism, beauty, bitch, chivalry, college women, double standards, feminists, image of women, male privilege, men, misogyny, objectification of women, porn industry

I’ve come to the conclusion that no matter if I had fuller breasts and long, golden hair that ran out my head, I wouldn’t make a very nice woman.

It doesn’t matter if you give me a uterus, or different sets of chromosomes, or even if you made me smell nicer, or stay cleaner, I wouldn’t make a nice woman.

Hell, give me my own vagina, with its own well-built system of reproduction and centers of pleasure, and I’d still wouldn’t make a very nice woman.

I know this because I know that by the time I am 12 or 13, I will hate men.

I wouldn’t hate them for their biology; I’d hate them for their ways to looking at me.

I’d hate them for their leery eyes and roaming hands - and the way they refer to me, not by my name, but as “hottie,” “sexy,” “babe,” or a myriad of other nicknames used to objectify me.

I would hate them for blaming my anger and attitude on my being “on the rag,” when in fact it is their ways of treating me that makes me angry.

I would hate that they holler at me as I walk down the street. What, should I come over there, drop my pants and jump their bone?

I would hate that if I bring up anything that makes me upset about them, I am being a whiny bitch.

I would hate them for treating me like a princess, but instantly call me a bitch if I were to turn down their sexual advances.

I would hate them for looking at me at a vehicle for their pleasure, and not as my own complete person.

Even in their compliments, I’d hate them for pre-supposing that just because I am a smart girl, that I am unique.

I’d most definitely have trouble trusting them - for I would never knew if one was genuine, or came from a long line of those trying to get in my pants

I would hate them for not knowing what the word “no” means. It doesn’t mean continuing to pursuit me. It doesn’t mean I am playing coy. It means you’re probably a dumbass and I am not interested in you.

I would hate them for roaming at bars, even when I am talking to my friends, trying to break in to our conversations. Leave me alone! I am here with friends!

I would hate the drinks they offer as a way to “break the ice,” as if somehow I am a prostitute and they are buying my time with drinks

I hate them because they control the media and images of me are distorted to be the way THEY see it

I would hate them because images of my body are spread everywhere - some of which are mutilated, as a way to promote their products

I would hate the porn industry. I would hate the pressure they put on me to act “accordingly.”

I would hate that I cannot be myself, but have to compare myself to unrealistic standards.

I would hate the make-up, the shoes and everything else that I need for a job interview just to be successful.

I would hate that I must always be perfect, but perfection is not good enough. I am encouraged to diet more, look better, lose more weight.

I would hate that I am robbed of all that is me - that I am made out to be what the patriarchy wants me to be. I would hate not being my own person.

But, thankfully, I am not a woman. I am a man, full of privileges and free to live my life as I see fit. I am still raging mad.

I am mad that my friends, sisters, loved ones, potential lovers and future daughters are subjected to shit they’d never think of doing to a man.

I am piss-hot the people I love are viewed as objects and not people.

I am upset that most people don’t empathize with the people I love.

But thankfully, I am a man. If a were a woman, I wouldn’t make a very nice one. By 14, I think I’d be in jail for murder.

I am piss-hot

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bYpaVQBzSU8

give me my own vagina, with its own well-built system of reproduction and centers of pleasure,

I’ll save the discussion of why porn is rape for when I get back from vacation. In fact, I’ve been visiting a lot of porn stores to research the issue of women and the image thereof in porn, examining the intersectionality between sex, gender, power, economic status, race and class - and what it has to do with porn (don’t forget age, too). But for now, here’s a picture I took a few days ago of a porn DVD cover. The sticker was bought at a feminist conference. What I’ll do is, from now on, I’ll go ahead and bring the stickers everywhere I go. If you want some, let me know. I hope everyone is doing well. I also have quite an interesting story on how I had to give my mom a speech on why when I get married, we (although I don’t know who will be my wife yet) are not going to involve diamonds. Because diamonds are also oppressive and not romantic.

^^filed under "diamonds"

I like sex, I like beers, I like violence, I like football, and I still speak out on behalf of human and women’s rights.

who's al!

Why is it okay for me to be at a bar, with some girl on my lap and slobbering all over me, but it’s not okay for two men to be intimate in a bathroom stall or anywhere else?

I’ve been visiting a lot of porn stores to research the issue of women and the image thereof in porn

that's one way to put it!!!

whoa hold up dude is in the military??? i saw his header pic is in desert camo but wau

yeah now I look at the top pics it would appear he is in his nu-bduz

So apparently a woman can be as power as ever

MICHAEL VICK, RACE AND CLASS
August 21, 2007, 1:40 pm
Filed under: Africa-American males

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=%22spc.+marc+loi%22

It just gets weirder doesn't it.

in all likelihood marc loi and I may have both been stationed at fort meade at the same time

for completely different reasons and on totally different parts of the base but nonetheless

he may have partied in the same student barracks that my father did in the 1970s.

i eagerly await the day he finds ilx so he and tuomas can bro down

The day he finds ilx, he's probably going to thoroughly kick all our asses. Except for Tom's.

he's read this thread before, I thought we covered that somewhere?

I remember someone linking to this thread in one of his blogs, but I must have missed the bit about him actually reading it.

The day he finds ilx, he's probably going to thoroughly kick all our asses.

He is the shit, after all.

Piss hot, too.

It was here: The best of Marc Loi : Facebook Feminist

"I am always talked about....I am controversial like that"

This Loi guy is basically just a sockpuppet of P.E.Wagemann, right?

this is my favorite thread on all of ilx

i seriously expect this guy to end up on like jimmy kimmel or something in a year or two

http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/41HB6YY1C5L._SL110_.jpg
1 of 14 people found the following review helpful:
1.0 out of 5 stars You'll laugh, you'll cry, you'll throw up., October 16, 2003
At first view, this movie should be looked at as one of the greatest romantic movies of all times. But then it's not.
The movie is about a man who was murdered, then returns as a ghost because he still loved his girlfriend and wanted to catch his killer. If you could ignore the fact that there is no ghost, then perhaps you'll get over the first hurdles of this movie. But if you're one does not believe that there is such a thing as a ghost, then the movie is simply nothing but mindless entertainment.
The director of this movie, it seems, was confused as to whether this movie should be a comedy, a romance or a drama type movie. Because of that, all the elements were incorporated together and that ruined the movie. The humor in the movie was dry, the romance cheesy and the dramatic elements were anything but. As one person wrote, by the middle of the movie, we already knew what would happen next and who the murderer was.
This movie also lacks one other element -- logic. For any logical person who could think critically, this movie should be very painful to watch. Nothing they do in the movie makes any sense.
For those who are thinking about watching this movie as a movie date -- please don't bother. It's a waste of money, fake tears and if you end up liking the movie, your date *if your date is at all smart*, will laugh at you for being superstitious, sophomoric and stupid.

If you could ignore the fact that there is no ghost, then perhaps you'll get over the first hurdles of this movie. But if you're one does not believe that there is such a thing as a ghost, then the movie is simply nothing but mindless entertainment.

???

coming from someone who has no ilx persona, i think its amazing how with just a few facebook posts this dude's persona turns 90% of ilx into a candle in the sun.

has he posted AIM sn anywhere?

fakefeministssuck

pisshot7533

preachin' to the loi-r

what do you think Marc Loi's class had to say about this thread? is it an example of a kind of competitive degradation unique to a masculinist power structure?

Short revive, yet important.

He's the American Tuomas.

-- GILLY'S BAGG'EAR VANCE OF COUPARI (Ex Leon), Monday, October 2, 2006 3:29 PM (1 year ago) Bookmark Link
this holiday season, see An American Tuomas

-- s1ocki (slutsky), Monday, October 2, 2006 3:39 PM (1 year ago) Bookmark Link

this has caused irlolz 4 me every revive

haha, I never read this thread! lol @ marc loi!

I am piss-hot

Marc Lol

still lolling at the plan b thing

if it werent innapropriate

inna propriate stylee

shit, if it weren't inappropriate, i'd give all my female friends abortions :)

if this is the BEST of marc loi facebook feminist i wanna see the complete unabridged. box set!!!