Band T-shirt Etiquette

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That Nurse With Wound "Angry Eelectric Finger" t-shirt that Beta-lactam Ring made up is pretty damn gorgeous- eight separate inks- lovely.

Drew Daniel (Drew Daniel), Thursday, 7 April 2005 05:56 (nineteen years ago) link

As far as etiquette goes, as long as you like the band, wear the t-shirt. Doesn't matter where you get em. I've bought shirts at gigs, shops, from ebay, even been sent the odd free promotional one (had a really nice Rawkus one a few years back. Shame the label went to shit, I can't wear it anymore). Don't mind if it's not official merch - after all, they cost £15 at gigs, which is ridiculous. My green Sonic Youth Confusion Is Sex t is great and was bought on ebay for £7. Green Pet Sounds t ain't official either, unless it was bought at the gig and sold on in a shop (hmmm).
From gigs I've got an ace Flaming Lips shirt - yellow with Peter Bagge illo - a black Love t-shirt and various other things that are rather worn out. Had a couple of nice Hello Nasty era Beasties shirts I used to wear all the time at uni.
As for wearing a band shirt to their gig - I think it's fine if it's a big gig, part of the whole arena experience, but I suppose it would look a bit lame if you turned up at a friend's band's wee club gig wearing their t-shirt. The answer here is to wear their badge. I'm badges have come back - they're the affordable solution to band merchandise.

Stew (stew s), Thursday, 7 April 2005 08:54 (nineteen years ago) link

eight months pass...
I'm going to get a kiss t-shirt.

Penis Wrinkle, Wednesday, 4 January 2006 21:59 (eighteen years ago) link

i am a firm believer in the "never wear the shirt of the band you are seeing" theory, except in the case of local bands, for some odd reason.

otherwise, who cares what shirt you wear and how you accquired it? ive got tons of t-shirts that found their way to me from boyfriends and friends, so, authenticity/proof of attendence be damned.

my only personal rule about band t-shirts is to not wear them as much around the office, otherwise i am mistaken for a student.

maria tessa sciarrino (theoreticalgirl), Wednesday, 4 January 2006 22:20 (eighteen years ago) link

I so enjoy it when my threads are revived. Cheers.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Thursday, 5 January 2006 00:25 (eighteen years ago) link

I wish I still had my GWAR t shirts......

Danny boy, Thursday, 5 January 2006 16:50 (eighteen years ago) link

one year passes...
My favorite rock t-shirt is a Social Distortion one. I absolutely hate the band, but the shirt fits and looks good.
My 1989 Bad Brains tour shirt is tragically itchy.

Mike Dixn (Mike Dixon), Tuesday, 16 January 2007 09:07 (seventeen years ago) link

Recently I've been wearing an MxBx hoodie over the exact same t-shirt.

shieldforyoureyes (shieldforyoureyes), Tuesday, 16 January 2007 10:33 (seventeen years ago) link

two months pass...
I've been mainlining:

Flower Travellin' Band's Satori album cover. It's a weird shirt because you look metal coz it's black with a nasty silver print, but hippie as well coz of the buddha. In all, it's a fairly rude shirt though.

I also like sporting that "Pavement Ist Rad" shirt, but not so much anymore. This knob I know also sports it.

And a Sun City Girls "Valentines From Matahari" shirt.

Drooone, Friday, 23 March 2007 03:12 (seventeen years ago) link

I have a few funny (to me) tee-shirt stories... I shall impart them chronologically...

1) While attending a rare Ozzy club show at Hammerjack's in 1988 or 1989 (billed as the Blizzard Of Oz) I threw my Anthrax shirt onstage. Ozzy caught it. He did not eat it and my friends said I was stupid, that Ozzy can get his own Anthrax shirts. My friends were right on both counts.

2) I used to have a thing about wearing inappropriate shirts to shows. This almost ended when I was physically threatened for wearing my Faster Pussycat shirt to a Biohazard L'Amour New Year's Eve show back in the early '90s.

3) I once had the misfortune of interviewing the Screaming Trees at a concert while wearing the Screaming Trees shirt I threw on without much consideration. I apologized to the guy who seemed to not care either way.

4a) I have a shrirt from a band that were friends of mine named Lucy brown (who put out one album for Megaforce in the mid '90s and other activities that only a fanboy and/or a DC dweller might know about) and on the front it says in huge mismatched letters (like the Sex Pistols logo or a ransom note) "Fuck PC... Think" While wearing this on the subway in NYC once, someone came up to me and said, "I know what you mean. I hate computers."

4b) While wearing the same shirt after a trip to my bank, the teller went out the door and followed me to my car just to tell me how inappropriate it was.

5) In a similar vein, I have a Die Toten Hosen shirt whose front reads three German words that supposedly mean "Fucking Fucking Blowing." I did not know this when I wore it on a (US flight that was pre 9/11) airplane and almost got thrown off for it.

6) Now that I am old, I often will find out the age of a person at a show and comment "I have concert shirts older than you." This past summer, it happened that during Ozzfest I sat next to a very polite kid who was indeed older than some of the shirts that are still in my closet (the oldest surviving ones date back to the mid '90s.) I responded when i realized this, "well, at least it still fits." Some do!

NYCNative, Friday, 23 March 2007 04:41 (seventeen years ago) link

"Pavement Ist Rad" is one of the only band shirts I like.

Hurting 2, Friday, 23 March 2007 05:07 (seventeen years ago) link

I have http://www.spookyboutique.com/boutique/tshirts/swans12.gif. It's probably my favorite shirt.

Ivan, Friday, 23 March 2007 06:19 (seventeen years ago) link

I don't like wearing shirts I buy at shows the day after the show; it seems too show-offy or something. I love most all of my shirts... except my Mouse on Mars one that's somehow not cut right and feels really weird when I wear it, like one of my sleeves is twisted and tugging on the armpit/shoulder or something. I have this Can shirt I like too but I tore a small hole in the sleeve a few weeks ago and now I'm bummed :-/. And my one Sleater-Kinney shirt has a hole near the neck, but it's this design:
http://www.killrockstars.com/catalog/large/sleater_387t3.gif
so it just kinda makes it look punk rocky or something. There's also this Aphex Twin shirt I made (with the logo on the front, the rephlex logo on the back, and the fragmented SAW II spelling of "Aphex Twin" going across the side) but it's a tad too big/baggy. I've wanted one of those Pavement Ist Rad shirts for a while...

Stevie D, Friday, 23 March 2007 07:42 (seventeen years ago) link

two years pass...

Over two years since the last post, surely cultural mores have shifted some since then?

For example, is it OK to wear a t-shirt for a band whose music you've got off bittorrent but never actually bought?
What if you download a scan of the shirt from bittorrent and print it yourself?

mei, Monday, 11 May 2009 21:49 (fourteen years ago) link

My bro gave me a sweet Grateful Dead tshirt this weekend. Stoked.

Trip Maker, Monday, 11 May 2009 21:51 (fourteen years ago) link

pretty sure it's only ok to wear t-shirts for bands you've never heard

Ømår Littel (Jordan), Monday, 11 May 2009 21:51 (fourteen years ago) link

i wear what i want, and if it's not ok, you can suck it

:)

Surmounter, Monday, 11 May 2009 21:54 (fourteen years ago) link

the only band t-shirt i have is an old Caribou one, and I was never in to them, liked them live but the albums are boring. Nice design tho, pink lettering on yellow.

Have two record label t-shirts, this:

http://www.boomkat.com/media/stock_images/tectonicredSMALL.jpg

and this (in white):

http://www.catapult.co.uk/resources/cache/resize_fixed_height_resources-product-images-22108-bbkblueoutjpg.350x.jpg

Really couldn't care less about the politics of wearing band shirts, except I always feel it's a bit lame when someone wears the band shirt to the gig, whole lotta stanning goin' on.

languid samuel l. jackson (jim), Monday, 11 May 2009 22:02 (fourteen years ago) link

i only wear my own band's shirts these days

Ømår Littel (Jordan), Monday, 11 May 2009 22:03 (fourteen years ago) link

I own a Univers Zero 1313 t-shirt that has a picture of a random band (not univers zero) on it.

No one ever notices this, however.

Amenaza Elegante, Monday, 11 May 2009 22:08 (fourteen years ago) link

i don't have any band shirts any longer, except the very well-fitting Belle & Sebastian shirt i bought on their 2002 tour. i am embarassed to wear it now except when i am doing laundry or going to bed or hungover and putzing.

the table is the table, Monday, 11 May 2009 22:13 (fourteen years ago) link

yea the only thing i have is my Lilith Fair tshirt. i wear it

Surmounter, Monday, 11 May 2009 22:42 (fourteen years ago) link

I'm wearing a Lou Reed New York Tour shirt right now. I was born that year. It's really old and xxl, but I love it.

Banvil! The Story of Banvil (Tape Store), Monday, 11 May 2009 22:46 (fourteen years ago) link

oops, duh it's old, i meant 'worn,' thx

Banvil! The Story of Banvil (Tape Store), Monday, 11 May 2009 22:46 (fourteen years ago) link

k whew i was about to deduct points

Surmounter, Monday, 11 May 2009 22:47 (fourteen years ago) link

I never heard this don't wear a band's old shirt to a show thing until this thread.

I think paying for today's overpriced tickets would be more a more embarrassing admission of fandom than admitting you went to a concert 10 years ago.

james k polk, Monday, 11 May 2009 22:52 (fourteen years ago) link

yeah but it's just like "fuck, obviously you like the band." actually i don't care about people wearing the band's t shirts to shows but whenever say metallica or iron maiden come to town there'll always be their shitty old boring fans on the metro or bus the next day or the afternoon of wearing shirts. i don't know if i'd say i condemn doing such a thing, but it depresses me when i imagine myself 30 years from now in the same situation.

samosa gibreel, Monday, 11 May 2009 23:42 (fourteen years ago) link

Just throwin' this into the mix...

A question to those of you who wear "concert" t-shirts.

peepee, Monday, 11 May 2009 23:47 (fourteen years ago) link

at his show in oakland, jeff beck had an awesome t-shirt for sale with the Beck/Bogert/Appece logo that i would have gotten but fuck $30 for that shit. and i have a problem fitting into t-shirts so i probably would hardly ever wear it anyway.

the one "band" shirt that fit me was an aphex twin one. i was not informed of this until the shirt was already in tatters, but i guess the logo is extremely similar that of this video game "half life" but i guess afx is about as dorky as videos games so whatevs

QE II, Tuesday, 12 May 2009 00:12 (fourteen years ago) link

Funny that this thread should be revived as just yesterday, I posted a sorta semi-related piece. Read it by clickin' right here .

Alex in NYC, Tuesday, 12 May 2009 00:43 (fourteen years ago) link

i wouldn't wear a reproduction concert shirt, even for a show i went to. that's just retarded. however, if i manage to score a shirt that was bought at a concert i didn't go to, that's cool (i got my Depeche Mode Violator tour shirt at a thrift shop in the late 90's for $1, i inherited a Donovan '84 tour shirt from my dad which was pretty awesome with this weird heart/peace sign logo).

if a band had shirts that were made with logos/artwork and not associated with a tour, i have and will wear those. some of my favs were the Nirvana seahorses shirt, the Porno for Pyros shirt with the city in flames in the front and the band's name written in naked women across the bottom of the back, and i was wearing an extremely faded Tribe Called Quest shirt with the "Beats Rhymes and Life" artwork on the front the morning my son was born back in December 01.

the offensive band shirts are fun too: the My Life With the Thrill Kill Kult shirt that said their name and had a hand holding a dripping knife on it (with the same thing mirror imaged on the back!) always got comments, my Anal Cunt shirt from their 96 or so tour is pretty much one of the most offensive shirts i've ever seen anyone wear (it was hard to actually sport this in public), and my old school Anti-Flag shirt (circa 94, way before they had much popularity outside of pittsburgh) with the guy burning a flag on it would draw some good comments.

nowadays i'm into label shirts and shit like that. Inner City, Trax, Dance Mania, Technoir Audio, 7th City, Underground Resistance (the puffy paint one of course!), Hot Mix 5, and Prestige are amongst the ones i wear now. i also have a really great "The Godson" shirt which is essentially a shirt for Rick Wilhite, which i probably wouldn't wear if that wasn't my boy. oh yeah, i have the cover photo from the "Anotha Black Sunday" LP with Moodymann's face on it but no text which is awesome because no one knows who it is.

i definitely support the wearing of shirts that are unrelated to the music being played at the event. though i did recently wear my UR shirt to a techno gig which got me many many positive comments from fuckheads that i am sure couldn't name one track of theirs. unintentionally irritating, but it helped since i was handing out flyers for an upcoming gig.....

pipecock, Tuesday, 12 May 2009 02:22 (fourteen years ago) link

oh yeah, i also rock shirts for record shops now, especially the local pittsburgh shops when i am going record shopping out of town.

pipecock, Tuesday, 12 May 2009 02:40 (fourteen years ago) link

Are label shirts are the trend nowadays? I saw two young guys in a restaurant recently...they were both wearing musical shirts of some kind, one of them was a Trojan Records shirt, and it struck me "hmm...a label t-shirt...that's kindof an interesting thing" I don't remember there even being any label t-shirts back in the day. Some wonderful goth put the 4AD logo on the back of their black leather jacket, though, and it was a sight to behold.

What's wrong with being a big fan of a band and wearing a t-shirt to one of their gigs? I refuse to be embarassed about that. Band T-shirts are to wear and be seen in and compare with other fans, even. Those people out there who might think I'm uncool for wearing one are not the people I'm concerned about.

More Goth Than Your Grandmother (Bimble), Tuesday, 12 May 2009 02:57 (fourteen years ago) link

One of my favorite memories of Area:One at The Gorge was walking around and seeing the entire history of New Order represented in tour and album tee shirts.

brotherlovesdub, Tuesday, 12 May 2009 03:24 (fourteen years ago) link

i buy band shirts at shows (but never tour shirts) and i make sure i buy a shirt for a record store when the employees start calling me by name

the insane Dr. Morbius and his HOOSical steens (BIG HOOS aka the steendriver), Tuesday, 12 May 2009 03:32 (fourteen years ago) link

lol "Hoosical Steens"

More Goth Than Your Grandmother (Bimble), Tuesday, 12 May 2009 03:37 (fourteen years ago) link

"Are label shirts are the trend nowadays?

― More Goth Than Your Grandmother (Bimble)"

i think they've been a music nerd thing. i used to rock a Moon Ska shirt back in the day with the whole roster of the label listed on the back, that was an awesome shirt. i always wanted a Sub Pop one waaaayyyy back when but i never got one. it's a bit easier to love dance music labels in general, maybe because of relatively small numbers of releases?

pipecock, Tuesday, 12 May 2009 05:22 (fourteen years ago) link

four years pass...

this is pretty amazing. i couldn't believe it was real

http://www.primark.com/whats-new/article/186

piscesx, Tuesday, 12 November 2013 09:19 (ten years ago) link

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too much Michu, not enough meta (DJ Mencap), Tuesday, 12 November 2013 10:12 (ten years ago) link

A good friend of mine, John, is a strident purist when it comes to band-related shirts. Unless he was actually at the show in question, he won't wear a concert shirt. Like myself, he's perturbed by the "rock ironic chic" trend of the last few years, but he's particularly offended by shirts displaying bands that, in all likelihood, probably never sold shirts in their heyday (i.e. he hates people wearing Velvet Underground shirts, as chances are, when the Velvets originally played out, they probably weren't hawking merchandise). Moreover, he won't wear shirts that merely display the band's name or logo -- it has to have originated at a show he himself attended, or he won't go near it. A friend gave him a Clash shirt with the COMBAT ROCK logo on it (John being a big Clash fan), and he politely thanked him, but refused it,
admitting that he'd never wear it.

I would like to read a short story or novella that used this as it's opening paragraph.

One Trick Over-Painted Pony (soref), Tuesday, 12 November 2013 10:13 (ten years ago) link

Ivor Porkbelly · Do what i want when i want at Semi Retired
Worn by chavs with no musical knowledge-Pathetic..

One Trick Over-Painted Pony (soref), Tuesday, 12 November 2013 10:14 (ten years ago) link

its opening paragraph

One Trick Over-Painted Pony (soref), Tuesday, 12 November 2013 11:28 (ten years ago) link

six years pass...

If someone is wearing a T-shirt of a band/artist you like, is there a-n-y appropriate or non-weird comment to make other than, “I like your shirt?”

Mocha Sauce (morrisp), Thursday, 13 February 2020 16:09 (four years ago) link

Sure! I mean, I reckon comments related to the band in question are all appropriate, as long as you don't say something condescending or creepy or dick-like, i.e., don't say anything you wouldn't say in any other circumstances. I've had some nice conversations with people this way, and some of those people are my friends now!

may the force leave us alone (zchyrs), Thursday, 13 February 2020 17:29 (four years ago) link

I was at the grocery store a few months back wearing a Misfits shirt, and one of the cashiers asked me if I went to see them play recently on their reunion tour. ... Totally legit question.

sarahell, Thursday, 13 February 2020 18:27 (four years ago) link

that's a good one

or just point at the shirt and say "<band name>! hell yeah!"

mh, Thursday, 13 February 2020 18:30 (four years ago) link

I've gotten "I like your shirt" when it was clear the person saying it had no idea it was a band shirt, so if you're saying it because you do know and enjoy the musical act maybe follow up "nice shirt" with something about the band

if it's a thrift store/salvaged shirt and they aren't actually into the band, would recommend shrugging it off with "oh, that's cool"

mh, Thursday, 13 February 2020 18:33 (four years ago) link

I met my first two bfs in high school because I said I liked their tshirt of certain band. There has been other band t shirt passing conversation in my life, both ways. I don't think it's creepy though if it's sincere and you don't expect anything else from the comment.

Yerac, Thursday, 13 February 2020 18:38 (four years ago) link

A lot of my long term friendships started that way.

Weird one - I went to the movies last night with my Queensryche tour shirt from last year and the manager says "I love your shirt by the way", so I said thanks and he kept saying "Al Bundy" after and it looked like he was talking about my shirt to the guy next to him as he was still facing me and the other guy didn't know who Al Bundy was so he explained it.

Obv kinda confused as my shirt very much did not look like Al Bundy nor was he a Ryche fan. Thought maybe it was a side convo or he was making fun of my receding hairline but i was embarrassed and confused.

Already embarrassed i hand my ticket to the taker to scan only to be told it was for the wrong Regal cos I was an idiot when i bought the tickets.

Went home and locked my door.

sorry for butt rockin (Neanderthal), Thursday, 13 February 2020 18:39 (four years ago) link

me and my ex met when he complimented my punk jacket that I had adorned the back of with duct tape that said "Part-Time Punks" ... it was part conceptual and part because I liked that song. I don't think he was familiar with the song, but he liked the concept and in highschool he was the arty kid that drew flyers for his friends' punk bands' shows

sarahell, Thursday, 13 February 2020 18:42 (four years ago) link


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