that thing white ppl do when they disparage 'white ppl'

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Be more specific, max, because you guys say that pretty frequently.

bamcquern, Friday, 23 April 2010 16:53 (fourteen years ago) link

bamcquern = Vision?

Mordy, Friday, 23 April 2010 16:54 (fourteen years ago) link

I guess when I do this I'm basically just annoyed at the self-satisfied mediocrity of white middle-class identity.

Il suffit de ne pas l'envier (Michael White), Friday, 23 April 2010 16:55 (fourteen years ago) link

Talk about the generality, then. And which ones am I hating on (for their being generalities)? I mean, do you disagree because I'm WRONG or because I'm OBVIOUS? Or both? And if both, you sort that out for me.

bamcquern, Friday, 23 April 2010 16:55 (fourteen years ago) link

mordy asks "what does white mean" in this instance which is uhhhh a pretty relevant question and youre all "pretty obvious to do that" when like 10 posts prior you were all "were all racist man" which is... true on some insanely broad level? i guess? but not exactly a truth bomb into our brains

max, Friday, 23 April 2010 16:56 (fourteen years ago) link

What wrong with saying obvious things? You don't get extra points for contrarian obtuse bullshit.

Mordy, Friday, 23 April 2010 16:56 (fourteen years ago) link

i dont even "disagree" with you because i cant even figure out what youre SAYING except that like... there is racism

max, Friday, 23 April 2010 16:57 (fourteen years ago) link

sorry to bring this up again but before yall go any further into being annoyed at the self-satisfied mediocrity of white middle-class identity i just wanna make sure you've signed the dream act petition first kthx :)

iiiijjjj, Friday, 23 April 2010 16:57 (fourteen years ago) link

I didn't have a problem with Mordy's post when I figured out he was being sincere. No, wait, I hedged in my orig. response to him, in case he was being sincere. But in case he intended to deconstruct "white," I thought that was already implicit in everything we were saying - that we were all on the same page.

bamcquern, Friday, 23 April 2010 16:58 (fourteen years ago) link

One thing I really hate is when white people insist that others spend all afternoon carefully explaining why they are misguided. Bugs the shit out of me.

yes we kenya (suzy), Friday, 23 April 2010 16:59 (fourteen years ago) link

Then it's for being obvious. There is racism. I'll leave it at that.

bamcquern, Friday, 23 April 2010 16:59 (fourteen years ago) link

syntactically weird, suzy

bamcquern, Friday, 23 April 2010 17:01 (fourteen years ago) link

tbh, this doesn't really happen ever around my friends/acquaintances. i don't think i've ever participated in a conversation where we just hung around and disparaged the wrong kind of white people (unless it was hyper specific, like tea partiers, or people at Palin rallies). so this could only exist in some iconic, decontextualized way -- like it's more like something Liz Lemon would do in a 30 Rock episode than real people IRL. (Or I could be totally off-base and there are loads of people who do this.)

Mordy, Friday, 23 April 2010 17:01 (fourteen years ago) link

it's that "insist that others" - not syntax, word choice.

bamcquern, Friday, 23 April 2010 17:01 (fourteen years ago) link

its also for throwing around statements about 'black culture' and 'black youth culture' and 'black majority' without any kind of qualifying explanation of what you mean! xxp

max, Friday, 23 April 2010 17:02 (fourteen years ago) link

A BRIEF STORY ABOUT RACE IN AMERICA:

last fall I was in a modernist lit class where we read Cane by Jean Toomer, a dude of super-mixed creole descent who had assumed various racial identities throughout his life (went to both all-white and all-black segregated schools as a child, to give just one example).

several people were misled by the author's name and the prominence of female characters into thinking that Jean Toomer was a woman; when they learned that he was not, they expressed surprise and admiration for his ability, "as a man", to write complex/compelling/'realistic' female characters.

then, when it came time to talk about race, those same people didn't hesitate to assert that Toomer was CLEARLY black, regardless of what he himself might have to say about the matter; it's all right there in the text, "you can just tell" -- no white person could have possibly written about the lives and experiences of black characters with that degree of insight/sympathy/understanding/whatever...

it was sorta frustrating

INSUFFICIENT FUN (bernard snowy), Friday, 23 April 2010 17:03 (fourteen years ago) link

i read cane in my modernist lit class too! did you guys read nightwood too?

max, Friday, 23 April 2010 17:05 (fourteen years ago) link

You don't get extra points for contrarian obtuse bullshit.

can we just hold up a second while I process what this claim, if true, means for the lie that I have constructed as my life

brad whitford's guitar explorations (underrated aerosmith albums I have loved), Friday, 23 April 2010 17:05 (fourteen years ago) link

xp
yup!

INSUFFICIENT FUN (bernard snowy), Friday, 23 April 2010 17:06 (fourteen years ago) link

college!

max, Friday, 23 April 2010 17:06 (fourteen years ago) link

seriously can't get through like 2 pgs. of nightwood over here

puff puff post (uh oh I'm having a fantasy), Friday, 23 April 2010 17:08 (fourteen years ago) link

I'm right here. No need to throw around all those xxps. Well then start there.

Black majority - most of US blacks. Not a lot of money. Lots of them in jail.

Black youth culture (of the black majority, I said) - visit an 8th grade classroom of black kids - this would be - Being smart is gay. Mainstream rap & r&b. "White" dominant culture, when appreciated, is seen as exotic nonetheless.

Black culture - an interplay of how blacks and whites perceive "black culture"?

Trying to participate in a fast-moving conversation.

bamcquern, Friday, 23 April 2010 17:09 (fourteen years ago) link

Black majority - most of US blacks.

hilarious

goole, Friday, 23 April 2010 17:09 (fourteen years ago) link

lolwat?

Mordy, Friday, 23 April 2010 17:10 (fourteen years ago) link

I get...zero points for contrarian obtuse bullshit

fuckin'

man oh man

brad whitford's guitar explorations (underrated aerosmith albums I have loved), Friday, 23 April 2010 17:10 (fourteen years ago) link

well now i just feel silly being on this thread

Mordy, Friday, 23 April 2010 17:10 (fourteen years ago) link

i read cane in my modernist lit class too! did you guys read nightwood too?

― max, Friday, April 23, 2010 12:05 PM (4 minutes ago) Bookmark

Tired. You can engage if you disagree. Maybe noise dudes can't?

re: black majority

Wtf else could it mean? Oh, wait, I see what's wrong with that. Is that quoted out of context? Didn't I add a couple of sociological qualifiers.

bamcquern, Friday, 23 April 2010 17:11 (fourteen years ago) link

I get...zero points for contrarian obtuse bullshit

fuckin'

man oh man

― brad whitford's guitar explorations (underrated aerosmith albums I have loved), Friday, April 23, 2010 1:10 PM (1 minute ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

well, u know, being smart is gay--ask any black youth

max, Friday, 23 April 2010 17:12 (fourteen years ago) link

bamcquern, why u want to troll + breaked mine <3?

Mordy, Friday, 23 April 2010 17:12 (fourteen years ago) link

THAT COMMENT WASNT DIRECTED AT YOU IT WAS DIRECTED TO THE FUCKING POSTER WHO HAD JUST BEEN WRITING ABOUT THE BOOK CANE

max, Friday, 23 April 2010 17:12 (fourteen years ago) link

1000TimesYes Can't believe there's enough boring white ppl in NYC to make High Violet a trending topic. Come back #Beiber, all is forgiven about 1 hour ago via web

max, Friday, 23 April 2010 17:13 (fourteen years ago) link

When you say things like "black people select entertainment that paints them in a negative light" without acknowledging:

- the history of the entertainment industry in which they are working, which was controlled for years by white people only interested in negative depictions of black people and, to a large degree, still is controlled mostly by white people;

- the fact that depictions of negative situations such as crime, gang violence, poverty, etc in entertainment are not de facto tru-life stories that are directly analogous to experiences in the lives of every black person (I have not looked at statistics recently so I can't authoritatively say whether these experiences impact a majority of black people, but I can say through anecdotal evidence from my extended family of teachers, firemen, banker tellers, parole officers, lawyers, architects, football wives, nurses, engineers, bus drivers, sommeliers, etc. that more of them live crime-free lives than not, and those that do are all concentrated in one city, pointing more towards an issue with an urban area than an intrinsic issue with black people);

- black people are more than just brown and furthermore all people who would likely be classified as "black" in America don't necessarily identify themselves as being part of the same group (see, for example, the kerfuffle in Major League Baseball over African-Americans versus black Hispanics);

... when you start adding these things into the mix, you're talking in empty, useless platitudes with a bunch of ingrained, unchallenged assumptions that I, personally, as an upper-middle-class Ivy League-educated black man who has never been in any real form of poverty or danger yet still considers himself just as much of an African-American as the next person, find immensely dismissive of the fact of my existence and borderline offensive.

xp: okay yes, like that "definitions" post of yours is almost exactly what I'm talking about; I don't really care if you are like "your experience is different" because it is, but there are a significant number of people out there who have had experiences like mine, plus not everyone in the situations you describe react to them the same way, plus talk to any group of white 8th graders and they will ALSO tell you that being smart is gay

HI DERE, Friday, 23 April 2010 17:14 (fourteen years ago) link

like I really don't want to be in a position where I'm defending Tyler Perry but...

HI DERE, Friday, 23 April 2010 17:14 (fourteen years ago) link

wait, I haven't refreshed, but I'm sorry, max, for that engage comment, because I didn't read that whole interaction.

barnes shorts are better, btw

bamcquern, Friday, 23 April 2010 17:15 (fourteen years ago) link

lol this thread

anyway I would say that the phenomenon the thread-starter is discussing is probably just another example of the whole "cynical distance" thing that my man zizek argues is an essential part of any ideological formation. but in general I wish americans would worry less about race and more about class (which would probably also help them arrive at 'better'/more progressive views about race)

INSUFFICIENT FUN (bernard snowy), Friday, 23 April 2010 17:16 (fourteen years ago) link

dude, max, was correcting my error, mr caps

bamcquern, Friday, 23 April 2010 17:16 (fourteen years ago) link

anyway I would say that the phenomenon the thread-starter is discussing is probably just another example of the whole "cynical distance" thing that my man zizek argues is an essential part of any ideological formation. but in general I wish americans would worry less about race and more about class (which would probably also help them arrive at 'better'/more progressive views about race)

that is fucking super OTM

HI DERE, Friday, 23 April 2010 17:17 (fourteen years ago) link

my man zizek

Daniel, Esq to thread? jk.

Mordy, Friday, 23 April 2010 17:17 (fourteen years ago) link

1000TimesYes Can't believe there's enough boring white ppl in NYC to make High Violet a trending topic. Come back #Beiber, all is forgiven about 1 hour ago via web

that's the sort of thing i had in mind when starting this thread....

nakhchivan, Friday, 23 April 2010 17:18 (fourteen years ago) link

yeah whiney loves to talk about white ppl

max, Friday, 23 April 2010 17:19 (fourteen years ago) link

Dan, that's all true and well-said, but my orig complaint was not with black people, it was with the structural problems in place that lead to those phenomena. Which is why upthread I mentioned the structural v. behavioral.

bamcquern, Friday, 23 April 2010 17:19 (fourteen years ago) link

when people start thinking about class don't they do the same thing though - everybody looking down on "bourgies" when they themselves are dictionary-definition bourgeoisie - and thinking they're somehow excluded from that definition because they like to talk shit about the category - cf. also "hipster"

brad whitford's guitar explorations (underrated aerosmith albums I have loved), Friday, 23 April 2010 17:20 (fourteen years ago) link

text:"white people" AND displayName:Whiney G. Weingarten

max, Friday, 23 April 2010 17:20 (fourteen years ago) link

which is to say, "this thing people do when they disparage groups to which they belong" is a broader category maybe? and "white" is a red herring here?

brad whitford's guitar explorations (underrated aerosmith albums I have loved), Friday, 23 April 2010 17:21 (fourteen years ago) link

that's because people don't know what the word bourgeoisie means

Mordy, Friday, 23 April 2010 17:21 (fourteen years ago) link

And my original comment was an offhand thing that I guess I figged would be overlooked because it leaned toward the obvious, but instead it was interpreted as, what, lol black people?

bamcquern, Friday, 23 April 2010 17:21 (fourteen years ago) link

- black people are more than just brown and furthermore all people who would likely be classified as "black" in America don't necessarily identify themselves as being part of the same group (see, for example, the kerfuffle in Major League Baseball over African-Americans versus black Hispanics);

Others still are Africans or non-hispanic blacks from the Carribean or Brazilians... So what are some commonalities amongst native African-Americans in the various states and cities?

plus talk to any group of white 8th graders and they will ALSO tell you that being smart is gay

Yeah, but they're just copying the black kids. ;)

Il suffit de ne pas l'envier (Michael White), Friday, 23 April 2010 17:21 (fourteen years ago) link

& you, Dan, highlighted those structural problems. I didn't meant to elide that fact in my post.

bamcquern, Friday, 23 April 2010 17:22 (fourteen years ago) link

like it's more like something Liz Lemon would do in a 30 Rock episode than real people IRL. (Or I could be totally off-base and there are loads of people who do this.)

i did this last night. :/ a friend asked what i was reading and i told her it was the 33 1/3 book about neutral milk hotel, so that i could talk to my white friends about music. "white friends" meaning some of our specific mutual friends who obsess over indie rock (which i don't really listen to).

xxxxp

emotional radiohead whatever (Jordan), Friday, 23 April 2010 17:22 (fourteen years ago) link

So what are some commonalities amongst native African-Americans in the various states and cities?

1. They were born in the US.
2. ...

HI DERE, Friday, 23 April 2010 17:23 (fourteen years ago) link


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