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― Fetchboy, Tuesday, 20 April 2010 14:40 (fourteen years ago) link
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^let's dial it back a little
― bamcquern, Tuesday, 20 April 2010 17:37 (fourteen years ago) link
him >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> the fuck out
― MPSIA (acoleuthic), Tuesday, 20 April 2010 17:38 (fourteen years ago) link
http://rofl.wheresthebeef.co.uk/Get%20the%20Fuck%20Out%2001.jpeg
― snakebite and a passable pinot noir (Upt0eleven), Tuesday, 20 April 2010 17:49 (fourteen years ago) link
LOL. Yes well, thanks all. I guess.
― Eyjafjallalalalalatrolololol (Trayce), Wednesday, 21 April 2010 01:26 (fourteen years ago) link
so my "best friend" and his girl are on facebook, both simultaneously leaving cryptic status updates that suggest something is amiss -- doesn't look like they're fighting, but that something major happened and both of them are upset. It just strikes me as poor taste to do something like this. I don't think any of us need to see the intimate interworkings of their relationship struggle, no more than we need to be constantly assaulted with their nauseating hyperbolic love notes that they send every hour on the hour. Just feel like if they want help and support from their friends, they should ask for it rather than indirectly hint that they need it. Plus it's uncomfortable because you know, do you say anything, or not?
I put "best friend" in air quotes because he is more best friend in name only, raelly another one of my guyf riends who is more reliable has taken his place. I have known him fifteen years, but the only words of support he could muster when I told him I broke up with my ex (the first time) was "sucks". When my dog died, that I was really attached to, his only message to me was "Aw", while other friends called me. Meanwhile, when he got divorced, I did everything possible to help him and be there for him, including moving in (I don't live with him anymore).
So I'm torn as to whether I even feel like offering support at the moment, because he's in his own little world now. But I feel like one of us needs to be the bigger person. Think I'll just wait for him to ask for help. Besides, I'm still having my own issues getting over my last one, which is startin to get ridiculous since we split on Halloween :/. Although I suppose time is not what matters as much as how you feel about the person.
― If You Ain't Gonna Wash It, I Ain't Gonna Eat It (Cattle Grind), Monday, 3 May 2010 01:59 (thirteen years ago) link
also note I mean it's awkward that they posted all this on facebok for the world to see.
― If You Ain't Gonna Wash It, I Ain't Gonna Eat It (Cattle Grind), Monday, 3 May 2010 02:00 (thirteen years ago) link
lucky it's not awkward for you to go on about it here
― Oh boy, Midgard! That's where I'm a Viking! (sic), Monday, 3 May 2010 04:31 (thirteen years ago) link
a bit different iirc
― roxymuzak, Monday, 3 May 2010 04:35 (thirteen years ago) link
thread to get over other ppls breakups
― mookieproof, Monday, 3 May 2010 04:38 (thirteen years ago) link
it's sad, they were other ppl
― controll-s (velko), Monday, 3 May 2010 04:41 (thirteen years ago) link
sic: how are the two even remotely comparable? On Facebook they're using their real names and displaying these personal details for everyone they know to see, which is akin to airing dirty laundry in public. Nobody here knows who my friends are, I haven't named their names or even gone into any specifics of what they posted there. No idea what you're on about.
― If You Ain't Gonna Wash It, I Ain't Gonna Eat It (Cattle Grind), Monday, 3 May 2010 05:04 (thirteen years ago) link
we need a thread to get over thread to get over a breakup
― ksh, Monday, 3 May 2010 05:05 (thirteen years ago) link
Pooping During A Breakup
― Oh boy, Midgard! That's where I'm a Viking! (sic), Monday, 3 May 2010 05:12 (thirteen years ago) link
well some breakups go on for a couple hours, so i'm pretty sure that there's a chance at least of a #2
― scrappy dyaoo (darraghmac), Monday, 3 May 2010 13:48 (thirteen years ago) link
You could just "hide" both of their updates until it's over, if it's bothering you so much.
― This is four-dimensional art; the 4th dimension is incredibly powerful. (Abbott), Monday, 3 May 2010 20:02 (thirteen years ago) link
just to xp a little bit - Trayce, chuck all his shit on the curb and eat mr noodles for a few months so that you can afford the rent all on your own - don't let this asshole take advantage of you!
― she started dancing to that (Finefinemusic), Monday, 3 May 2010 20:48 (thirteen years ago) link
Isn't Mr. Noodles an ilxor username?
― huh! tikuuta. (kingkongvsgodzilla), Monday, 3 May 2010 20:52 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah, from waaaaaaaaaaay back in the day
― it means "EMOTIONAL"! (HI DERE), Monday, 3 May 2010 20:53 (thirteen years ago) link
lol well maybe a little early to jump into a new relationship but cheap ramen is always welcome.
― she started dancing to that (Finefinemusic), Monday, 3 May 2010 21:35 (thirteen years ago) link
abbott i think its bothering him that he has now seen these updates and does not know how to react
obviously
from what he posted
imo
― roxymuzak, Tuesday, 4 May 2010 00:26 (thirteen years ago) link
Right, I also thought that the constant barrage of updates was a secondary and minor continuing issue, near as I could tell, which Is why I said what I did.
― This is four-dimensional art; the 4th dimension is incredibly powerful. (Abbott), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 00:28 (thirteen years ago) link
I considered it, then whatever "it" was apparently blew over. truth be told I have a lot of tweaking to do with my base facebook settings anyway, so this gives me an excuse.
― If You Ain't Gonna Wash It, I Ain't Gonna Eat It (Cattle Grind), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 03:14 (thirteen years ago) link
At first I thought Finefinemusic was referring to the former ILX poster Mr. Noodles, so it was kinda hard to parse her post.
― Tuomas, Tuesday, 4 May 2010 08:43 (thirteen years ago) link
^ non-native
― scrappy dyaoo (darraghmac), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 09:16 (thirteen years ago) link
"former ILX poster"
former canado-fascist ilx mod, surely?
― control (c sharp major), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 09:44 (thirteen years ago) link
― ksh, Monday, May 3, 2010 12:05 AM (Yesterday) Bookmark
i lol'd
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 4 May 2010 09:45 (thirteen years ago) link
Geez so Mr. Noodles the thirty-three cent pack of ramen is a Canadian thing eh? Damn.
Don't eat Mr. Noodles...he might not appreciate that.
― she started dancing to that (Finefinemusic), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 12:47 (thirteen years ago) link
TBH, back in the day I always confused Mr. Noodles, Noodle Vague, and Donut Christ with each other. It's easier now when only one of them is left.
― Tuomas, Tuesday, 4 May 2010 12:49 (thirteen years ago) link
how in the world did you confuse donuts and noodles?
― Sherman Helmsley Teabag (Cattle Grind), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 01:39 (thirteen years ago) link
the confusion occurred in finland, the world.
― estela, Wednesday, 5 May 2010 01:45 (thirteen years ago) link
am0n is velko, noodles are donuts, up is down
― am0n, Wednesday, 5 May 2010 01:51 (thirteen years ago) link
http://www.facebook.com/pages/exs-are-exs-for-reasons/186844862103
― casual rigmarole, Friday, 7 May 2010 03:03 (thirteen years ago) link
oh, comments.
"mine is trying to sue me over a dog that was mine to begin with but I dont have her and I left him a yeear ago come july from where he tried to shoot me and then burnt me with a cig"
saw guy from OP at karaoke last night where he sang "i'm so lonesome i could cry" and then actually cried
― roxymuzak, Saturday, 8 May 2010 22:05 (thirteen years ago) link
wau.
― Fetchboy, Sunday, 9 May 2010 12:03 (thirteen years ago) link
lol
― Ralph Nadir (crüt), Monday, 10 May 2010 07:21 (thirteen years ago) link
i mean it was pretty hilarious
― roxymuzak, Tuesday, 11 May 2010 07:06 (thirteen years ago) link
^&%^%$%$#%$#$
― Eyjafjallalalalalatrolololol (Trayce), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 04:48 (thirteen years ago) link
you want h-man & i to rough him up?
― keeley mod (electricsound), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 04:59 (thirteen years ago) link
You're not the only ones!
Apparently looking at ONE FLAT today is "doing something" about moving out. Our friend nett1e desperately needs a housemate. But noooo Brunswick is too far from [thought better of what i was going to type here]
Fed up with this.
― Eyjafjallalalalalatrolololol (Trayce), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 05:40 (thirteen years ago) link
http://i43.tinypic.com/2ag9t7a.jpg
― keeley mod (electricsound), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 05:43 (thirteen years ago) link
I could not do that to a guitar no matter who owned it ;_;
― Eyjafjallalalalalatrolololol (Trayce), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 05:47 (thirteen years ago) link
So he has a place to go and he is turning it down? That is the situation?
Electricsound, go get your jacket.
― ljubljana, Wednesday, 12 May 2010 12:00 (thirteen years ago) link
bags, lawn, now imo
― Coalition (Remix) (Noodle Vague), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 12:01 (thirteen years ago) link
Fuck's sake! It's not THAT hard to find a place! Dude's had a month and a half at this point, huh?
― Fetchboy, Wednesday, 12 May 2010 12:04 (thirteen years ago) link
It's time to change the locks, Trayce.
― you are being taken advantage of, Wednesday, 12 May 2010 12:10 (thirteen years ago) link
that situation has gone beyond anything acceptable at this point
― Bo Deadly (Nijoli), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 16:54 (thirteen years ago) link
i'll rent him my shed for cheap. he can use the outside lavvy
― keeley mod (electricsound), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 22:04 (thirteen years ago) link
Trayce, is his name on the lease.
― no more springs no more summers no more falls (sunny successor), Friday, 14 May 2010 17:25 (thirteen years ago) link