well that and the fact that the chorus mentions that the daddy love comes w/ a lifetime guarantee
― licorice oratorio (baaderonixx), Monday, 1 March 2010 13:29 (fourteen years ago) link
yeah i now magine the song being used on national babyfather day (if there was a babyfather day) adverts
― titchy (titchyschneiderMk2), Monday, 1 March 2010 13:55 (fourteen years ago) link
This is pretty boring on first listen.― Inculcate a spirit of serfdom in children (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, February 7, 2010 4:19 PM (2 months ago)The title song excepted, these songs have no momentum.― Inculcate a spirit of serfdom in children (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, February 18, 2010 10:12 AM (2 months ago)
― Inculcate a spirit of serfdom in children (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, February 7, 2010 4:19 PM (2 months ago)
The title song excepted, these songs have no momentum.
― Inculcate a spirit of serfdom in children (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, February 18, 2010 10:12 AM (2 months ago)
Hold up a second -- isn't this coming from the guy who repped for Maxwell as 2009's best album?
― I just wish he hadn't adopted the "ilxor" moniker (ilxor), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 21:13 (thirteen years ago) link
Anyway... just picked this up a couple days ago. Sounds great on first spin.
― I just wish he hadn't adopted the "ilxor" moniker (ilxor), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 21:14 (thirteen years ago) link
the Maxwell album was a lot better than this
― you might be a goon but what's a goon to a viking? (The Reverend), Thursday, 6 May 2010 01:01 (thirteen years ago) link
A lot better for zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz!
― I just wish he hadn't adopted the "ilxor" moniker (ilxor), Thursday, 6 May 2010 03:02 (thirteen years ago) link
youre both idiots
― Gifted Unlimited Display Names Universal (deej), Thursday, 6 May 2010 04:08 (thirteen years ago) link
fuck yourself
― moderator requiem forum (The Reverend), Thursday, 6 May 2010 04:26 (thirteen years ago) link
;_;
the Sade record is good sorry bro
― Gifted Unlimited Display Names Universal (deej), Thursday, 6 May 2010 04:30 (thirteen years ago) link
soldeejr of love
― is it really that hard to spot all these fake british dudes? (velko), Thursday, 6 May 2010 04:30 (thirteen years ago) link
You people are up too late. Put on the Sade record and go to bed.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 6 May 2010 11:23 (thirteen years ago) link
+1
― I just wish he hadn't adopted the "ilxor" moniker (ilxor), Thursday, 6 May 2010 13:05 (thirteen years ago) link
posts v much in character
― Gifted Unlimited Display Names Universal (deej), Friday, 7 May 2010 02:35 (thirteen years ago) link
deej is determined to like this album no matter how many people he has to be snarky to
― brad whitford's impotent rage (underrated aerosmith albums I have loved), Friday, 7 May 2010 05:16 (thirteen years ago) link
^if deej could have a board description
― J0rdan S., Friday, 7 May 2010 05:17 (thirteen years ago) link
haha
― moderator requiem forum (The Reverend), Friday, 7 May 2010 05:17 (thirteen years ago) link
im hardly known for 'liking' albums. soldier of love >>> love vs. money
U HEARD ME
― Gifted Unlimited Display Names Universal (deej), Friday, 7 May 2010 07:33 (thirteen years ago) link
j0hn are you still out there insisting sade didnt use breakbeats
http://www.alsbom.org/clientimages/36469/graphics_and_clip_art/Challengers.jpg
― J0rdan S., Friday, 7 May 2010 07:34 (thirteen years ago) link
on babyfather, does anyone else think it undermines the ambiguous coldness/cruelty of saying the child was a fling by having a guy on BVs saying 'daddy loves you child' etc. i liked it before i noticed all that. though im not sure who shes directing the apparent resentment of the fact its a fling at, its like shes explaining matter of factly to the child that she was the result of a fling, while kinda taking a hit at the dad for not sticking around. that the 'dad' seems to get a chance to speak later on i think undoes it a bit.
actually i kinda got the idea that she was tryin not to talk bad about pops - kinda on a "we always knew it was never gonna last but we both love ya anyway" tip. thus softening the harshness of the "knows you're a fling" line, and making the message a bit more complex that your typical r&b diva "he ran off and he's a bastard, but who needs him anyway, woman power 4eva rrraaawwrrrr" schtick
― messiahwannabe, Friday, 7 May 2010 08:07 (thirteen years ago) link
^^good post
xps "U HEARD ME" is kinda telegraphing the challop, don't u think?
― moderator requiem forum (The Reverend), Friday, 7 May 2010 11:41 (thirteen years ago) link
obv
― Gifted Unlimited Display Names Universal (deej), Friday, 7 May 2010 13:52 (thirteen years ago) link
still think she's saying flame xxpost
― Moreno, Friday, 7 May 2010 19:00 (thirteen years ago) link
It's "flame," not "fling."I doubt I will ever feel an urge to listen to anything but "Soldier of Love" itself.― Andy K, Monday, February 8, 2010 9:43 AM (2 months ago) Bookmark
I doubt I will ever feel an urge to listen to anything but "Soldier of Love" itself.
― Andy K, Monday, February 8, 2010 9:43 AM (2 months ago) Bookmark
When I posted this, I should have noted that there was a source: the booklet.
Also:
http://www.sade.com/us/lyrics/babyfather/
― Andy K, Friday, 7 May 2010 19:02 (thirteen years ago) link
interesting hear that from an official source (i commented on this before when i read that on some random lyrics page) but to me it clearly sounds like fling. i have a theory: she put it on the lyrics sheet as "flame" so as not to harsh her daughter, but sang it as "fling".
of course i could be reading way to much into this, obviously. anyway i like it as "fling" so i'll continue to choose to hear it as "fling"!
― messiahwannabe, Saturday, 8 May 2010 06:13 (thirteen years ago) link
Anyone with the time or cash to see the current Sade tour (first in ten years!) would be well served snagging a ticket. She was great last night, smooth as silk and oddly down to earth for someone of her status and reputation. Sound/band was great, too, and visuals were minimal but effective. I had my doubts she would work in an arena, but I was proven wrong. She may also be the best looking 52-year old I have ever seen.
― Josh in Chicago, Saturday, 6 August 2011 20:21 (twelve years ago) link
She may also be the best looking 52-year old woman I have ever seen.
― jaxon, Saturday, 6 August 2011 20:54 (twelve years ago) link
shes been doing arena tours for so long id hope shed be good! would have loved to have seen it last night $$$$$$$
― Gatsby was a success, in the end, wasn't he? (D-40), Saturday, 6 August 2011 21:09 (twelve years ago) link
saw the tour 2 days back (wednesday). HOLY SHIT so good. all the new stuff from Soldier of Love.... excellent. Love Deluxe cuts (cherish the day, kiss of life, no ordinary love, pearls) and Lovers Rock (by your side, king of sorrow) all fucking dynamite. only thing a bit cheesy was the old lounge-y stuff, the sweetest taboo, smooth operator... etc. but about 90% solid gold. "jezebel" was stunning, "morning bird" WOWOWOW. whole show was just so good really. john legend not bad either!
― i genuinely thought when i first joined that he was the admin (ilxor), Saturday, 10 September 2011 03:11 (twelve years ago) link
Those songs are not cheesy damn u
― D-40, Saturday, 10 September 2011 03:31 (twelve years ago) link
hope this record has risen in ppl's estimations over the past few years. "in another time" is probably my favorite sade song at this point
― emo canon in twee major (BradNelson), Wednesday, 16 October 2013 19:04 (ten years ago) link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=68OTrm5fC9o
― r|t|c, Wednesday, 16 October 2013 19:16 (ten years ago) link
Good call – I'd forgotten about "In Another Time."
― the objections to Drake from non-REAL HIPHOP people (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 16 October 2013 19:18 (ten years ago) link
"Be That Easy" :O
― geoffreyess, Monday, 7 September 2020 23:37 (three years ago) link
The whole second half really. Plus the rest.
about to be the ten year anniv
i hate reading my tone in these old threads but i stand by the gist of 'being really stoked abt this album'
― ILX’s bad boy (D-40), Sunday, 10 January 2021 21:13 (three years ago) link
10 years wow. I still feel like I somehow haven’t yet had time to give it a good listen.
― licorice oratorio (baaderonixx), Sunday, 10 January 2021 22:02 (three years ago) link
11th anniversary!
― meticulously crafted, socially responsible, morally upsta (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 10 January 2021 22:14 (three years ago) link
oh damn ... i cant count
― ILX’s bad boy (D-40), Sunday, 10 January 2021 23:12 (three years ago) link
#74 on pitchfork year end list .... ariel pink #1 ... thoughts on which has aged better
― ILX’s bad boy (D-40), Sunday, 10 January 2021 23:15 (three years ago) link
I was about to say: this came out when I was still in office at XLR8R, which ended in mid-2010. We had an office listening party when it came out.
― Pere Legume (the table is the table), Sunday, 10 January 2021 23:20 (three years ago) link
love this album so gd much
― mellon collie and the infinite bradness (BradNelson), Sunday, 10 January 2021 23:26 (three years ago) link
"be that easy" ... "in another time" ... tears
― mellon collie and the infinite bradness (BradNelson), Sunday, 10 January 2021 23:27 (three years ago) link
I remember my shock of glee when the title track was so awesome.
Just think: the Dems hadn't lost control of the Senate yet.
― meticulously crafted, socially responsible, morally upsta (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 10 January 2021 23:42 (three years ago) link
man this album
i'm finally diving into it and i really think it might be their best. how anything can deal with death so forthrightly and have such a light touch at the same time feels like such a miracle. somehow even the family stuff reaches me - the treatment is gentle, relieving, unsentimental, full of detail and observation, the truth there is so undeniable. her vocal performances on these tracks.. there's a whole life and universe there, they feel truly representative of all of humanity. some of these songs have 'recently minted songbook standard' vibes to them. at the same time there's something unassuming to the whole thing, sort of hidden in plain sight. what an achievement.
― ꙮ (map), Saturday, 7 January 2023 22:40 (one year ago) link
be that easy, babyfather and soldier of love are great songs
― CerebralCaustic, Sunday, 8 January 2023 01:09 (one year ago) link
otm
― Malevolent Arugula (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 8 January 2023 02:43 (one year ago) link
be that easy completely destroys me.
i'm not sure who exactly some of these songs are addressed to, but it seems like it may be ... god ...?
― ꙮ (map), Monday, 9 January 2023 19:30 (one year ago) link
also, i really did need to know that in spite of the long hard road ahead it's going to be alright. you know?
― ꙮ (map), Monday, 9 January 2023 19:31 (one year ago) link
just like, crying for 30 minutes straight in the car while this cd plays
― ꙮ (map), Monday, 9 January 2023 19:33 (one year ago) link