Band T-shirt Etiquette

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That sound brilliant!

Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 22 August 2003 18:39 (twenty years ago) link

It was! I wish I looked good in pink!

Ally-zay (mlescaut), Friday, 22 August 2003 18:42 (twenty years ago) link

Shania's face looks really weird in that picture.

I like that Missy's wearing a Motorhead shirt in the "Get Ur Freak On" video.

My favorite band shirt is this Violent Society shirt I got at a show of theirs in high school. On the back it says "corporate corrupt punk bureaucracy must go!" isn't that great? i have no idea what it means! i haven't listened to that band in years.

Tom Breihan (Tom Breihan), Friday, 22 August 2003 19:07 (twenty years ago) link

they also sell navy blue cbgb shirts at urban outfitters.. for all the punk rockers who shop there.

the strangest band t i have is a flaming lips tshirt w/ wayne dressed as a martian w/ 'flaming lips' written on the bottom. however, the letters F-A-G are about 50 point font and the rest of the letters are about 8 pt. within the larger letters. thats a fun one to wear around town..

bill stevens (bscrubbins), Friday, 22 August 2003 19:30 (twenty years ago) link

Shania's face looks really weird in that picture.

Don't you mean every picture?

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Friday, 22 August 2003 19:47 (twenty years ago) link

the best is when missy wears a code 13 shirt in the bubba sparks video.thats just weird.

juiceboxxx (juiceboxxx), Friday, 22 August 2003 20:12 (twenty years ago) link

one month passes...
http://www.tnmc.org/gnews/pics/sm/maguire02.jpg

once again. do we really think Spidey's wearing this shirt in earnest?

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Monday, 6 October 2003 19:34 (twenty years ago) link

I own a Borbetomagus T-shirt (someone upthread, I think it was Julio, mentioned desiring one). I got it from one of the bandmembers.

I also own the previously discussed "Hate Fuck" Pussy Galore shirt, and yes, I bought it at one of their shows. (Saw 'em in L.A. in 1989, after Julia Cafritz had already left the band - they were, I believe, a Spencer/Hagerty/Bert trio that night. Bought the shirt from Bob Bert for $5.)

When I interviewed Lemmy a year or so ago, he said, "I wish everybody who's got our T-shirts had our albums."

I used to use T-shirts as statements, like wearing a Neil Young & Crazy Horse shirt to an Einsturzende Neubauten gig, but have mostly given that up. Except when I go to the Vision Festival, which is run by free-jazz hippies...then I wear my Earache Records shirt that says "Angry Music For Angry Times" on the back in big red letters, or my Ted Nugent shirt that says "One Nation Under Ted," also on the back, also in big red letters, just to tick people off.

Phil Freeman (Phil Freeman), Monday, 6 October 2003 20:19 (twenty years ago) link

These shirts they toughen up your image, don't they?
but then, discovering Tobey even likes Scorpions *shirts* can't be all bad...this is the damn buffest vegetarian I've ever seen!

I have trouble wearing any band's t-shirts...it pegs me...and I don't wanna be pegged.
As for the ironic twist angle here, I guess I'd haveta wear a Shania Twain tee to be ironic. But I see guys around town with their Ronnie Milsaps and their Yannis.

p.j. (Henry), Monday, 6 October 2003 20:27 (twenty years ago) link

I believe everyone is in agreement that one should *NEVER* wear a specific band's t-shirt to that very band's performance

Why? Everyone keeps saying this but what is the reason?

, Monday, 6 October 2003 20:33 (twenty years ago) link

I believe everyone is in agreement that one should *NEVER* wear a specific band's t-shirt to that very band's performance

Why? Everyone keeps saying this but what is the reason?

, Monday, 6 October 2003 20:34 (twenty years ago) link

It's some sort of hipster credo.

I believe you can wear band shirts to that band's performance, but it must be from a few years' prior. I got free tix to see REM awhile back and someone had a "Reveal" shirt on and I had to laugh. I think the guy ironed it, too!

But the girl in the "Green" shirt seemed okay.

p.j. (Henry), Monday, 6 October 2003 20:46 (twenty years ago) link

*insert pussy posse tea-ceremony pic, make 'cock rock' gag*

Sam J. (samjeff), Monday, 6 October 2003 20:58 (twenty years ago) link

My drummer has a few cheesy shirts he had made with the names of obscure bands that presumably didn't or don't have merchandise. It's sort of gauche but funny.

I won't wear the shirt to the concert but other than I have no rules. I used to wear tons of band shirts, but that was in high school when everything was XXXXTra large, and I just kept a couple of them to sleep in. I have only a few now: mary timony band, carla bozulich review, shannon wright, Mum (is actually too small for me, d'oh!!) and a couple of belle and sebastian ones. I bought all of them at shows except the mary timony one. I was bitter for really stupidly missing the show, so I ordered it online as cold comfort. But the cool thing is, I made a friend out of it-- ran into a guy one day when we were both wearing the same shirt (but different colors, whoa).

Blood and sparkles (bloodandsparkles), Monday, 6 October 2003 21:13 (twenty years ago) link

Somehow it screams "sad fanboy" - but mostly in hipster/indie circles I noticed, in metal circles it's less of a faux pas. More etiquette, or rather an observation from metal gigs: the popularity of shirts from old "legendary" "cult" bands that are, to virtually anyone even within the subculture, completely unlistenable. I'm willing to bet there are more VON, Beherit and Hellhammer shirts in this world than CDs.

(Although, I think these bands were for some strange reason utterly brilliant despite their glaring ineptitude so I might be a huge snob and underestimate these people)

Siegbran (eofor), Monday, 6 October 2003 21:14 (twenty years ago) link

a) I shall never give up my Barry Manilow concert-t (with glitter!) Not as ironic as you might imagine.

b) I bought a Black Dice t-shirt at their show, and I still don't have the record.

c) I still don't believe in wearing the concert-t the day after the show.

Call me poseur, call me what you will.

Kate Silver (Kate Silver), Monday, 6 October 2003 21:32 (twenty years ago) link

I can dig some people in this thread saying the 70s cockrock tees with rhinetones et al is ok because it's an anti-rock statement. Sadly, I think that point's been lost on most of the people who would wear said shirts. I can't believe for a second that the snooty private school girls who looked down their noses at bogans (ie "white trash") types a few years back are now saying "well hey! We love Iron Maiden! Always have, dude!". No, sorry, I don't buy it.

It's that about-face hypocrisy that grates on me, though I just chuckle because if they want to pay $80 for one of the damn things, go right ahead.

I dont wear most of my band tees anymore because they were all from that early 90s "everything is size HUGE" era. So look like pyjamas on me. Except for this one very, very old New Order tshirt that has the old III O logo, I dont even know when or where it is from, only that it's an 80s tee - so I still wear that one, as it has a history.

Oh and my Throwing Muses "University" one because it's red, with a yello gun on it, and it looks great.

Trayce (trayce), Monday, 6 October 2003 21:32 (twenty years ago) link

Alex in NYC, been meaning to email you (a perfect forum!)

I have a Killing Joke "Extremities 1990/1991 World Tour" T (black w/red and white print). XL (too large for me). If you want it, send me your address.

Maybe you were there...

Kate Silver (Kate Silver), Monday, 6 October 2003 21:41 (twenty years ago) link

Me on band T-shirts.

Nick H, Monday, 6 October 2003 22:37 (twenty years ago) link

Nick, I think you spell 'nye' 'nigh'.

Pedant mode off.

mei (mei), Tuesday, 7 October 2003 11:42 (twenty years ago) link

Damn, I should've checked that.

Nick H, Tuesday, 7 October 2003 12:10 (twenty years ago) link

Maybe you were there...

OF COURSE I was there! What am I, a novice?

But, thanks very much for your offer. As it stands now, I have upwards of twelve Killing Joke shirts....with more invariably on the way. Suffice it to say, there is no irony involved.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Tuesday, 7 October 2003 12:53 (twenty years ago) link

no wonder they're wrinkled!

lawrence kansas (lawrence kansas), Tuesday, 7 October 2003 13:11 (twenty years ago) link

three weeks pass...
DOES THIS MAKE ME LOOK FAT?

http://missionofburma.com/holdphotos/messageboards/lj/moi/doesthismakemelookfat500bw.jpg

BurmaKitty (BurmaKitty), Tuesday, 28 October 2003 15:46 (twenty years ago) link

In Spain this summer, I passed a Spanish hipster guy wearing a Cannibal Ox t-shirt. I was about to make some crack to my friend about Spanish hipsters rocking indie hip hop shirts, yada yada (nothing mean, just sort of slightly derisive in a knowing, ironic say).

Anyway, then I looked down and realized that I was wearing an RJD2 shirt. That shut me up right quick.

philip sherburne (philip sherburne), Wednesday, 29 October 2003 04:08 (twenty years ago) link

were you both on your way to an El-P gig?

Dave M. (rotten03), Wednesday, 29 October 2003 06:20 (twenty years ago) link

Anyway, then I looked down and realized that I was wearing an RJD2 shirt. That shut me up right quick.

You've just summed up every moment in my life when I've been tempted to make fun of hipsters.

Me, I have a long-sleeved purple Swervedriver shirt that I love dearly. It's warm, too.

Kenan Hebert (kenan), Wednesday, 29 October 2003 06:25 (twenty years ago) link

http://missionofburma.com/holdphotos/messageboards/lj/moi/bunnypuss.jpg

What about the Cobra Verde? If the Mission of Burma doesn't make me look fat, what about this one?

Am I too old to be wearing band t-shirts? or holding them up in front of myself?

Where can I buy a swervedriver ls sweat? Maybe that'll cover me up better?

Is it wrong to think that guys in purple band swervedriver shirts are sexy? Especially if it looks like they don't fold it properly when they stuff it in the bureau drawer?

Is there a support group for this problem?

Where is the band t-shirt etiquette monitor?

BurmaKitty (BurmaKitty), Sunday, 2 November 2003 03:13 (twenty years ago) link

"he won't wear shirts that merely display the band's name or logo"
That's fucking stupid. Theres no better t-shirt than the supersuckers logo t-shirt. Simple and good. Anyway their other t-shirts suck.

"s Jeremy Piven sagely intoned in the underheralded classic, "PCU," to a then-portly John Favreau on his way to see the fictitious Merkins while wearing a Merkins t-shirt: "Don't be that guy!" "

I always thought they were talking about the Melvins

Cacaman Flores, Sunday, 2 November 2003 03:38 (twenty years ago) link

BurmaKitty you look great!

geeta (geeta), Sunday, 2 November 2003 06:05 (twenty years ago) link

I've just been reading this interesting book, 'Nobrow' by John Seabrook, where he says that he felt bad wearing a band T-shirt and being at the dinner table with his father, who hated wearing any labels in his clothes, let alone on his chest - he wouldn't even wear a polo shirt with a crocodile on it is how John Seabrook put it. I felt really bad after that about wearing band T-shirts. Like even if you wear an old Van halen t-shirt that's kind of irrelevant to modern commercial culture - okay that's not a good example, say you wear a T-shirt of your friends little band that isn't on a major label - it stil fits in to what Quentin Crisp said about teenagers which I can vaguely paraphrase as,

They finally solved the dilemma of all young people - how to simultaneously rebel and conform, by rebelling against grown-ups and conforming to each other. Thus to grown-ups they appear simultaneously stuffy and brutish.

And whatever label you wear on your chest, whatever it is, it's about being stuffy, really, isn't it. I guess you could say that about clothes in general but a label is taking it one step further and why would you want to? Except I suppose when you're trying to expose yourself to ridicule through the label like intentionally prostrating yourself in the Beck 'I'm a Loser' sense, but really I would question whether you can honestly claim that you're ever doing that in sincerity.

maryann (maryann), Sunday, 2 November 2003 08:05 (twenty years ago) link

ts sean john vs roc a wear vs ralph lauren

Sterling Clover (s_clover), Sunday, 2 November 2003 08:07 (twenty years ago) link

vs BUFU!

Sterling Clover (s_clover), Sunday, 2 November 2003 08:08 (twenty years ago) link

Thank you, Geeta!

I loved your "Lost in Lameless" post on your site - re: Lost in Translation. It was so totally dead on. I would absolutely drop the Mission of Burma t-shirt for you. Everyone was telling me how fantastic that movie was...

...Yeah, if you're a middle-aged guy fantasizing about hanging with some young sexy lonely gal.

Puh-leeze. dream on.

And even the acting was crap.

and yes, shameful use of the soundtrack.

My middle-aged saga which will be out soon on DVD is
"Lost in Damnation", set in the "good part" of Burma, and includes scenes of the BurmaKitty lounging naked on some faux leopard lounge, being simutaneously pedicured by no less than six barely legal far eastern type boys while she gets oiled down and fed grapes by some nymphs and Squirrel Bait's "Sun God" is playing over and over again.

BurmaKitty (BurmaKitty), Sunday, 2 November 2003 16:26 (twenty years ago) link

three months pass...
HELLO THERE,
I AM SMITH FROM NY,I AM INTERESTED IN BUYING SOME T-SHIRT IN YTOUR STORE WITH HUMBLE AND RESPECT FOR MY CUSTOMER IN NIGERIA,SO PLEASE I WILL WANT YOU TO GET BACK IN MAIL THE TYPES AND PRICES YOU DO SELL YOUR T-SHIRT.I WILL BE LOOKING FORWARD TO HEARING FROM YOU.
THANKS
SMITH

JOHN SMITH, Friday, 6 February 2004 10:08 (twenty years ago) link

HI DERE!

Lynskey (Lynskey), Friday, 6 February 2004 10:58 (twenty years ago) link

ALSO, I HAVE 2 MILLION AMERICAN DOLLARS IN ESCROW. ALL I NEED IS $50,000 TO PAY THE COURT TO GET IT OUT, AND WE CAN SHARE THE 2 MILLION 50/50! PLEASE WIRE THE FUNDS TO ME.

JOHN SMITH (Dave225), Friday, 6 February 2004 13:17 (twenty years ago) link

four months pass...
i need who can order me shirtpolo and jean and etc who manufacture the goods to reply me back.
thanks
lekan

olalekan olaitan, Wednesday, 9 June 2004 12:07 (nineteen years ago) link

nine months pass...
Sweet Jesus, I want one of these...(if only they weren't babydoll only);

http://www.emerchandise.com/images/p/CPM/pzBYCPM0001.jpg

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Thursday, 7 April 2005 00:23 (nineteen years ago) link

but your kid surely gets one of those? ;-)

willem (willem), Thursday, 7 April 2005 05:38 (nineteen years ago) link

That Nurse With Wound "Angry Eelectric Finger" t-shirt that Beta-lactam Ring made up is pretty damn gorgeous- eight separate inks- lovely.

Drew Daniel (Drew Daniel), Thursday, 7 April 2005 05:56 (nineteen years ago) link

As far as etiquette goes, as long as you like the band, wear the t-shirt. Doesn't matter where you get em. I've bought shirts at gigs, shops, from ebay, even been sent the odd free promotional one (had a really nice Rawkus one a few years back. Shame the label went to shit, I can't wear it anymore). Don't mind if it's not official merch - after all, they cost £15 at gigs, which is ridiculous. My green Sonic Youth Confusion Is Sex t is great and was bought on ebay for £7. Green Pet Sounds t ain't official either, unless it was bought at the gig and sold on in a shop (hmmm).
From gigs I've got an ace Flaming Lips shirt - yellow with Peter Bagge illo - a black Love t-shirt and various other things that are rather worn out. Had a couple of nice Hello Nasty era Beasties shirts I used to wear all the time at uni.
As for wearing a band shirt to their gig - I think it's fine if it's a big gig, part of the whole arena experience, but I suppose it would look a bit lame if you turned up at a friend's band's wee club gig wearing their t-shirt. The answer here is to wear their badge. I'm badges have come back - they're the affordable solution to band merchandise.

Stew (stew s), Thursday, 7 April 2005 08:54 (nineteen years ago) link

eight months pass...
I'm going to get a kiss t-shirt.

Penis Wrinkle, Wednesday, 4 January 2006 21:59 (eighteen years ago) link

i am a firm believer in the "never wear the shirt of the band you are seeing" theory, except in the case of local bands, for some odd reason.

otherwise, who cares what shirt you wear and how you accquired it? ive got tons of t-shirts that found their way to me from boyfriends and friends, so, authenticity/proof of attendence be damned.

my only personal rule about band t-shirts is to not wear them as much around the office, otherwise i am mistaken for a student.

maria tessa sciarrino (theoreticalgirl), Wednesday, 4 January 2006 22:20 (eighteen years ago) link

I so enjoy it when my threads are revived. Cheers.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Thursday, 5 January 2006 00:25 (eighteen years ago) link

I wish I still had my GWAR t shirts......

Danny boy, Thursday, 5 January 2006 16:50 (eighteen years ago) link

one year passes...
My favorite rock t-shirt is a Social Distortion one. I absolutely hate the band, but the shirt fits and looks good.
My 1989 Bad Brains tour shirt is tragically itchy.

Mike Dixn (Mike Dixon), Tuesday, 16 January 2007 09:07 (seventeen years ago) link

Recently I've been wearing an MxBx hoodie over the exact same t-shirt.

shieldforyoureyes (shieldforyoureyes), Tuesday, 16 January 2007 10:33 (seventeen years ago) link

two months pass...
I've been mainlining:

Flower Travellin' Band's Satori album cover. It's a weird shirt because you look metal coz it's black with a nasty silver print, but hippie as well coz of the buddha. In all, it's a fairly rude shirt though.

I also like sporting that "Pavement Ist Rad" shirt, but not so much anymore. This knob I know also sports it.

And a Sun City Girls "Valentines From Matahari" shirt.

Drooone, Friday, 23 March 2007 03:12 (seventeen years ago) link

I have a few funny (to me) tee-shirt stories... I shall impart them chronologically...

1) While attending a rare Ozzy club show at Hammerjack's in 1988 or 1989 (billed as the Blizzard Of Oz) I threw my Anthrax shirt onstage. Ozzy caught it. He did not eat it and my friends said I was stupid, that Ozzy can get his own Anthrax shirts. My friends were right on both counts.

2) I used to have a thing about wearing inappropriate shirts to shows. This almost ended when I was physically threatened for wearing my Faster Pussycat shirt to a Biohazard L'Amour New Year's Eve show back in the early '90s.

3) I once had the misfortune of interviewing the Screaming Trees at a concert while wearing the Screaming Trees shirt I threw on without much consideration. I apologized to the guy who seemed to not care either way.

4a) I have a shrirt from a band that were friends of mine named Lucy brown (who put out one album for Megaforce in the mid '90s and other activities that only a fanboy and/or a DC dweller might know about) and on the front it says in huge mismatched letters (like the Sex Pistols logo or a ransom note) "Fuck PC... Think" While wearing this on the subway in NYC once, someone came up to me and said, "I know what you mean. I hate computers."

4b) While wearing the same shirt after a trip to my bank, the teller went out the door and followed me to my car just to tell me how inappropriate it was.

5) In a similar vein, I have a Die Toten Hosen shirt whose front reads three German words that supposedly mean "Fucking Fucking Blowing." I did not know this when I wore it on a (US flight that was pre 9/11) airplane and almost got thrown off for it.

6) Now that I am old, I often will find out the age of a person at a show and comment "I have concert shirts older than you." This past summer, it happened that during Ozzfest I sat next to a very polite kid who was indeed older than some of the shirts that are still in my closet (the oldest surviving ones date back to the mid '90s.) I responded when i realized this, "well, at least it still fits." Some do!

NYCNative, Friday, 23 March 2007 04:41 (seventeen years ago) link


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