Paul Auster

did not realise he used to be married to lydia davis!

Indeed!

Some of their best work (Davis's Break It Down and Auster's The Invention of Solitude) seem to have sprung from their tumult.

funny that they were both reviewed by james wood w/in a few weeks (he likes lydia davis a lot more)

B-b-but what does he think of Siri Hustvedt?

I always thought I didn't have much time for Wood as a critic but I have to say I agree absolutely with him here. Auster gets away with murder.
That piece was great, thanks. Anytime reading or trying to read either of those guys has finally resulted in a payoff.

Auster makes a serious play for the Bad Sex Award in his upcoming novel Sunset Park:

“The first time they went to bed together, she assured him she was no longer a virgin. He took her at her word, but when the moment came for him to enter her, she pushed him away and told him he mustn’t do that. The mommy hole was off-limits, she said, absolutely forbidden to male members. Tongues and fingers were acceptable but not members, under no condition at any time, not ever… Did he understand? Yes, he understood but what was the alternative? The funny hole, she said. Angela had told him all about it and he had to admit that from a strictly biological and medical standpoint it was the one truly safe form of birth control in the world. For six months now he has abided by her wishes, restricting all member penetration to her funny hole and putting nothing more than tongue and fingers in her mommy hole.”

http://abcofreading.blogspot.com/2010/06/why-paul-auster-should-have-stopped.html

The mommy hole was off-limits

please every ILE regular who might enjoy this as much as I, find this thread in time

Lord hear my prayer

.......

no words

mommy hole vs. daddy daycare

in a steel cage

I knew a guy who referred to the vagina as the 'ha-ha hole'

obv. because it's polite for a child to refer to it as such but I like to imagine that when he finally entered one he chortled "ha-HA!"

Lord hear my prayer

In Nomine Patris, et Filii, et Spiritus Sancti. Amen.

woulda preferred "mothering hole" tbf

if anyone has a(n) LRB account i would gratefully read 3000 words trashing auster's latest

http://pastebin.com/ySP2zmRX

thanks!

Christ, Son of Author Paul Auster Charged in Fatal Overdose of 10-Month-Old Daughter

Also:

In 1996, Daniel Auster played a minor role in a notorious nightlife murder case, in which the club promoter Michael Alig and an accomplice killed and dismembered a drug dealer, Andrew Melendez, also known as Angel, and threw his body in the Hudson River.

Mr. Auster pleaded guilty in 1998 to possessing $3,000 that had been stolen from Mr. Melendez and was sentenced to probation. He was not implicated in the killing.

The article describes Siri Hustvedt as his stepmother, which would mean Lydia Davis is his mother.

Yes to all of the above.

I used to run into Paul Auster quite a bit in NYC and talked to him briefly sometimes and once even to SIri but the son never came up for some reason.

Not sure if I understand the story
So this was not an accident?
This guy killed a baby…on purpose?

Could have been some form of negligence. However you slice it, it’s not pretty.

"Wouldn't stop cryin;, so I gave 'er just a little bit," maybe

Ugh

Maybe the baby was digging around and came across heroin and fentanyl and chewed on it. Whatever happened, so damn grim.

Dan is a childhood friend of one of my oldest and closest friends. We hung out a bunch of times before the Angel menendez thing. He seemed to have eventually turned his life around and my friend reconnected with him while his gf was pregnant with the baby. He was so happy.

They spoke after her death and he was distraught. Said it was SIDS. This is all so horrific and fucked up. I think it was almost certainly accidental ingestion knowing what I know but fucking hell. And, yeah, his mom is Lydia D.

many x-posts - I sincerely doubt it was on purpose. Horrific regardless though.

I'm sorry. A social worker friend has told me about such things, but gratuitous speculation here, and an accident does seem more likely.

If his mom is Lydia Davis, why does the NYT article focus exclusively on his dad? (I had no idea that Davis and Auster had been married, though I see it was brief.)

Because Auster is more famous than Davis, I imagine.

Yes.

But still.

Just realized I wrote Menendez but obv meant Melendez. Yeah I assume because he’s more famous. Also - he’s written characters that are very obviously based on him and it’s been a very fraught relationship from what I can tell so maybe that’s why? And no need for sorries. I haven’t seen the guy since the late 90s and then only socially etc. It’s just an awful situation and my friend is so upset. I can’t stop thinking about it though. It’s just horrific.

Daniel Auster is dead of an overdose:

https://www.nytimes.com/2022/04/28/nyregion/daniel-auster-dead-arrest-overdose.html

awful

Ugh

Yeah. The details surrounding it are fucking awful too but not anything I could/would share. Just unimaginably tragic.