Censorship & Parenting

Lolol. My parents had this extreme hardcore porn video from my uncle. (Apparently with a woman sucking off a dog's penis. My dad threw up apparently cause it was so vile. Yes, my uncle's a pervert.) They said not to watch it. What did I do when they were busy in the shop downstairs? Watch it of course. Tbh I was scarred: a woman simultaneously "pleasuring" two guys fucked me up royally. Thank god I didn't see the bestiality.
They should have hidden it instead of letting it in the videorecorder. I was about ten at the time. BUt I don't think they knew how keen I was to watch R-rated things. They did censor, I guess, but I don't recall any strict rules. I think they let me watch movies for older kids but didn't pay too much attention so it slipped by me. (Well, the violence and such.) I remember being so scared of The Exorcist so I ran upstairs. My dad put the volume up so there was no escape. I was a teenager at the time.

Ophelia watches DIsney movies for her age. My husband takes it away as soon as it's not for her (too much violence, complex story lines...)

Learned my lesson wrt things I hadn't seen myself when I put Spirited Away on for the girls a few months ago. The opening 15min are deeply upsetting if you're 4 (and probably a lot older).

I'd been amusing Ava over the weekend by singing "big fish, little fish, swimming in the water; come back here, man, give me my daughter" - the whispered bit from the coda of PJ Harvey's "Down By The Water", which has a kind of spooky, sinister fairy tale aspect to it. Of course she wanted to hear the original song in full (which she loved) but I made sure I theatrically coughed over the word "whore".

Our Hannah is frightened of Spirited Away too. I don't think there's much you can do about that kind of thing - lots of kids' stories have frightening elements, and children's brains can be inscrutable. I regularly had nightmares about Tarragon the Dragon from The Herbs when I was little.

The opening 15min are deeply upsetting if you're 4 (and probably a lot older).

Indeed, sniff, hang on, I think I've got something in my eye...

My kids watch all kinds of stuff that is supposedly "too old for them" (to use my parents-in-law's phrase) - mostly comedies which have somehow garnered certificates 12 and 15. They don't want to watch Dr. Who so there's not much danger of them accidentally getting engrossed in The Trees have Eyes 2 or something. The boy (aged 12) said to me that he didn't think the Blair Witch Project sounded very scary so I showed him the trailer and even that freaked him out. To a certain extent it's all moot, because fuck knows what they see around other people's houses/internets?

"Juno" is something they'd love also (they like the soundtrack CD a lot), but it's just the wrong side of adult. Sorry, kids.

lol juno would just confuse/bore kids I think

i wonder about this sometimes, especially when everyone in 5 years time will have mobile internet with them wherever they go.

the only "inappropriate" thing we let our 5-yr-old see is the colbert report, which he has loved since he was about 2 -- i don't know why, i think he likes the music in the opening credits and then he likes the energy of the show (the cheering, laughing) and thinks colbert is entertaining to watch. he has no idea at all what any of it is about, and doesn't appear to care. one side effect is that he tends to become a fan of any musicians who play on there. that's how we spent half of last year listening to green day.

i remember PP playing grand theft auto:san andreas with a 4 month old beeps sitting next to him in an exersaucer. in the middle of a gang shootout he would keep saying to her 'its okay! theyre just going to sleep!'

LOL. Sarah has already told me I won't be able to play Half-Life or Bioshock any more once the baby is born.

haha. forget censorship there will be no time to play games and then when there is time your teevee will be playing nickjr 24/7

i watch tv and play games way more than i used to cause i'm at home all the time, though.

My kid said he liked the song from the new Karate Kid trailer - Remember the Name, by Fort Minor, a linkin park side project - so I downloaded it for him. But I googled the lyrics first and had a last-minute attack of being my own mother and bought the censored version. Am I everything that is wrong with the world?

no. your kid is young and you don't want to expose him to crap he couldn't benefit from anyway. plus, it's not like you're censoring high artistic achievement. and you're aware of what you're doing. don't worry.

ive decided i want beeps to be like sarah silverman so i put her hair in pigtails and curse as much as possible in front of her

Do you need Matt Damon's number?